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Your use of English pursue am bros

ugonna1054:
how can we hear you sing bro?

on WhatsApp zero nine zero 189 seven seven 990.


I write songs too and want to sell them cos my parents are against me going into music even tho it's obvious the talent is there.

Mine would be singing.


Tho my voice is hereditary. Mum's voice can raise the dead

Everything isn't as easy as you guys see it... I've never cheated on my girlfriend, this is just the devil tempting me

BecaciaBarbie:
Trust me, they ain’t there to be laid but to charge their phones so they could communicate with their real boyfriends who they are madly in love with! Try nonsense and they will shut you down instantly. Same happened to me with a neighbor, and the moment he sent a text to me, tellin me he wanted to kiss me that evening...that was the end! Our friendship ended instantly.

so you skipped the part I said one of the girls always remain behind every night when others are leaving How'd you explain that please?

hemlock0:
some girls are just confused, as a guy if I start discussing my business with and my next venture that means you're special. I almost introduced her to my parents (thank God I didn't) an innocent guy is going to marry that girl trust me because if you see her you won't believe half of the campus community have tasted her.

chai... I fear for this generation and next honestly!

Closed!

hemlock0:
In most cases she will Bleep so many dudes before coming back. I had similar experience back in school, I met this reserved babe that was crushing on me, I was spoilt for choice because girls were frolicking around me(as fine boy with brains). I decided to settle with this girl; fast forward months later she started putting up different attitude, she later told me she was still in love with her ex. I ended everything with her, years later she chatted me up telling me she wants us back; but I was done (I still dug the pussy several times though), news got to me that she is
the campus hoe. Happy Sanitation to her

wow! Surely no sane guy would take her back "seriously" after sharing her destiny nah...

Alexaonfleek:
if the girl in question has good character and she's innocent,trust me she'll be able to attract a guy probably even better than op.
For the fact that she wasn't using the op as maga or atm ,she told him straight up that she didn't like him anymore,and from what op even said about her,it shows she has a major element of good in her,which will attract good guys

you're so much fighting strongly at the side of this girl....

Alexaonfleek:
to an extent you're right,she will regret at some point if the guy was truly nice to her but she won't go back to him again,especially if she finds another man who treats her right.

Let d op just take heart and forget about her,if he's still trying to use strategies to win her back,he might be in for another heartbreak.goid girl plenty for naija,she's not the only one

good guys are hard to get... Not all guys stay good for long. When you find a guy who's been nice n never changed towards you for at least a year, loosing such guys would bring regrets to the lady honestly.

pocohantas:
Surely regret at which point?
Some of you think too highly of yourself. Exact reason you get dumpèd.

ok.

Alexaonfleek:
please this old $hit doesn't work for everyone .If the girl truly doesn't love him,she'll even be happy that he doesn't have feelings for her anymore.

not when the guy has been NOTHING but nice to you throughout... She'll surely regret at a point. You know this SHIT is truth ma'am

mathew247:
I'm not here to devalue her she was the best girl for me so far. We were great today.
The problem started when she said she won't be coming to my place anymore and then we started seeing outside, one evening I called her after work and she said she doesn't have strength to see me,called her the next day she repeated the same thing that she doesn't have strength. Hmm, then I asked how her weekend go be maybe we can see on weekend she said she's going somewhere on Saturday and to be back on Sunday evening. I then asked what's the problem. To my greatest shock she said She doesn't love me anymore and that she's forcing herself to be with me lately. At first I thought she was joking or trying to know what I'll do then it got serious. This is actually the only issue I have had with her since we started dating. And money was never the issue. She even suggested I should find someone else that no matter how hard I try that I won't get her back. I pleaded with her if there's a problem let's identify and find a better solution but she said No that there's no problem,and that she'll still respect me whenever she sees me outside.
I was really hurt and my friends mocked me that I went and fall in love. How I go go marry person wey I no love? I do wonder what she'll be telling people that knows about us.
She's gone and it's hard to forget her. Her name na Cynthia.

I'll always tell you or any other guy the truth bro. She'll miss you so bad if you do what I'm about to tell you.


First, for the fact she's the first to call off the relationship by saying she wasn't in love with you anymore shows the ball is still in your court. just ignore her this period no matter how much you miss her, when she calls, pick it and don't sound like one person that needs pity just be straight with her on the discussion and never say you miss or want her back and finally, don't let her be the one to hang up, do it before she does after your discussion. All in all, just act like she doesn't exist anymore but bro, be rest assured that she'll furck another dude before coming back to her senses.

CharlesJok3r:
Samsung A30 na

you get time to answer am...

They are marrying people who can keep a home in their opinion.

Blackivy27:
What of another guy that was like,"you are so beautiful, if i were to say i love you or die, i would use my last breath to say i love you". All through i could sense the internal struggle in him to remember the words. He's my neighbour and 23yrs.

I think i have to stop being too nice to every tom, dick and harry. But i dont know how to say no

Guys my point again is pick up lines arent cool anymore. Its so wide spread that, women know the next word you'll likely say. Be ORIGINAL. You can aproach her. Just say hi and introduce yourself. Thats effortless and cool.

have you wooed a guy before?

LillyVal:
This year I met a guy who I felt was the "last bus stop" for this my singlehood! I started seeing the Mrs sign and my unborn children. I had a perfect picture family! I saw my traditional and white wedding celebrations. I even saw the colour of my asoebi and the igba nkwu cake !

No do no do, ol boy told me something happened in their office and he was suspended! He started telling me how it was a scam and he fell into it.

Suddenly ol boy wants to relocate to Lagos! Yeah there are things I wanted to put in place for ol boy, I had plans and had called people who were to handle it. Only for ol boy to call me telling a story about his ex calling him to ask him for the balance of his children fees (he said he is divorced and I believed him ), he wanted me to loan him the money. I kuku didn't have that time (if I had dem for chop me mugu ) sef.

Small time ol boy said he didn't have transport to come down to Lagos. He asked me to loan him and he will pay back when he comes. Now this is someone who has no job and isn't sure of where he was to stay when he comes, so I wondered how he will pay back. Seriously I didn't have at that time cos I was planning one of my events.

Ol boy then told me something that broke the camel's back, "borrow from somebody now, I will pay back"! How can you ask a woman who is getting to know you to "borrow" from someone for you? Even if I wanted to do it you shouldn't be the one to tell me!

That was all the signs I needed to know that ol boy has come to steal, kill and destroy me He came to my house few times and thought "this one na big babe, make I suck am like orange"! He never knew buhari have finished sucking the water in the orange and there is nothing more to suck! Me wey dey find who I go suck sef!

Na there all my marriage dream take die! My unborn children pictures with all the marriage ceremony pictures dissolved into tin air!

How can you lose your job within a space of one month of knowing me? Your ex wife decided to ask for your children's fees at the same time and you planned relocating after seeing the extra vacate room in my house!

Onye oshi! This is how you people go about giving other good guys bad name for nothing! Na so I for use enter one chance in the name of Onye n'acho di! Thank God say I get small sense I for join the group of ndi "hide my ID" ...

lol... I thank God for being by your side.


Keep shinning

Blackivy27:
We broke up. Its not even totally pride. Im scared of making a mistake. He's shy of the one he did. I dont want to regret loving him. I once did..

you don't love him anymore?

Blackivy27:
but the new guy was true. Funny both are name sakes. Yes i do! He's not the only one who likes drama, to spark things up. But its not pretence, the guys do like me, i consider them as friends, he doesnt.
Guy dont like it do they? One suspected i had a bf. I playfully told him no. He paid someone to spy on me. Another day we didnt talk, he got angry he shouted at me never to do it again. Why should i blank him?

HAD a boyfriend? Are you single as it is?


So non of you 2 can come out of their comfort zone and stop the madness bah... Una pride no be here o

Blackivy27:
But not smart. Its funny when he denys the messages. Like "i dont know who wrote them. I wasnt the one." then he apologizes. For what then? I just want him to trust me. We'll both do crazy sh!t to each other. I just feel upset. He seems cool. Warned me to stop making him jealous. I dont just know...

but do you make him jealous truly?

Most ladies are fond of that. Just like when you told him about a new guy lol, stubborn geh.

You want to give the poor man hypertension

Blackivy27:
Completely. Turns out he had sent me a message some time ago. I didnt know. So when i replied, we started chatting again. He wants us back together. He loves me. Got angry when i talked about another guy. But he still wouldnt let me know why he sent those messages. He knows im angry and according to him, i have every right to be. But i dont trust him. If he had been nervous that we were moving too fast sure, would have understood. But im now left in the dark, he promised not to do it again but still... If he cant open up why should i?

lol... Las las you'll be back together. I just predicted your future lol...


I'm sure he had no real reason for those messages,he just wanted a little drama that escalated beyond his control.

Nigga must be manipulative.

WhisperedNoise:
Bro,
Something similar happened.
I lived in a hostel about four years ago...all the neighbours were girls. I didn't know this until I moved in.
Fast forward...we became close. Not too close, but normal neighbour close. We gisted and all.
I noticed that they used to talk dirty...they were very raw and obscene. Whenever they started trash talk, I'd immediately leave. With time, they started calling I n my bro "Pastor", but this didn't stop the temptation.

Don't mind those ones saying you'll regret after some years. If your conscience is clear, you'll regret Nada!

Don't sacrifice your destiny on the altar of ephemeral pleasures.

I'll advice you to keep strict boundaries.
Be very principled.
Don't allow a girl stay in your room till 2am .Bros, your hormones will rise.
If they're not properly dressed, tell them you're not comfortable with their scant dressing.

Trust me bro, there's peace of mind knowing that your conscience is clear.

Lemme stop here.

thank you bro.

Blackivy27:
i trust you completely!

that's my girl...



I'm sure you've moved on by now?

Blackivy27:
When a guy types, trust me. Hmm...
well you see, its rare to read such, it sounds dangerous!

lol... I'm not gonna do something dangerous dear, trust me lol

Blackivy27:
Aww... i wont. But serious if i were you, i'll leave. Women desperate for such can be likened to the devil. From lovey, one might rape you. Or worse all will gang up against you.

Be safe oo!

lol... I am going to do what will make everyone mind their lane lol.. trust me

Blackivy27:
your thread about your compound, i remembered it.

lol... I'm sleeping out today, can't deal with their wahala


Don't laugh at me oo

Blackivy27:
Nothing!

lol you must tell me oo

spirul77:
baba I'm in similar situation here o, there are about 27 rooms here and they are all occupied by females except the first room were there are few 100 level guys but are very young,the girls call them small boys, na only me be "big boy", my G,been here with them for 8 months and didn't do nothing with any of them till Sept 6, my birthday, I gave the ones I'm very closed to some stuffs in the spirit of celebrating my birthday, one was forming she was celebrating with me by pressing her Olympus boobs on me and I pretended I didn't feel nada, later in the night babe came and was like she came to thank me for the gift I gave her earlier and dude was like no p, babe sit down for bed and no gree go back o, from one or two talk i don enter London o, from Sept 6th till now 8 girls down already,i no even believe my eyes sef, and funny enough non of them know about it, it's funny it's funny how they peep in at the middle of the night and go very early, I'm very careful about this because they've all been very nice and playful with me because they think I don't do anything with any of them,they cook and give me food and all of that, I know if they realise I am doing stuffs behind their back, jealousy would set in and I may be in big mess so I'm keeping it very low. if I cast for this compound I pity myself for the kind mess I would find myself.

more reason why I don't want any of them... Women attract trouble and you can't remain careful forever.

Kellibae:
Hmm, they like u a lot obviously.
Well u are a man it's ur choice to make.
But be careful too.
Is it in Lagos?

lol.. no.

Kellibae:
Yep, how many are those girls sef

lol... A lot... But 7 of them came to my place last night, 1 spent the night in my room n another brought me food tho I didn't eat it but accepted.