₦airaland Forum

Nnamdipapa:
You would deputize if selected for even half of that position.

Obi, whom we all hold in high regards was once a deputy to corrupt Atiku in the presidential election.

We need these sound minds to stick around as close as possible, and keep hoping one of them gets into that number position someday.

We can't run away from the rogues forever. Can we??

The president we never had. A very sound mind in the midst of charlatans. May God preserve you, great man.

YourGFsnatcher:
My ex married a very nice man.
But she's still loyal to me. She doesn't take any major decision without consulting me.
She completely believes in my judgement.
Thought I always give her sound judgement, but I think it's time for her to look unto her husband.

I wouldn't want my wife to rely on her ex before taking any major decision.

How can I pull out?

If you're controlling her FROM her husband's house, it means you are living in her husband's house and controls her when she's not there.

We've noticed you. Thanks.

Next.......................................

Great100000:
Who Is The Real Doctor.

Think carefully! Only one is the real Doctor.

Why the two men dey rush one woman when a more beautiful one is free? Which kain mumuing simps be these??

tunde1200:
No lie tell me what's you earned income.
And I will tell you mine .
Am an aircraft engineer though if you can deduced and comprehend well am not your level in every area of life.

Did I just read "aircraft engineer"??

Please kindly give us a brief description of your role cos I'm not sure you understood what you typed.

erico2k2:
I think he is right, as for infection, there is CD use it.

I honestly don't know how people enjoy sex wearing CDs. To me it's total waste of time. I'd rather stay on my own than waste intimacy wearing CD.

The best thing is to start changing the idea of numerous sex partners and start charging the society to a more responsible sex life. We can do it if we start calling out evil wherever it's hiding.

Nefort:
So what should woman do to prove she can sustain a man? Why should it be one sided?

No be every post deserve response, jare.

seunmsg:
Ladies only want money these days and men only want to knack. Everything is now transactional. So, pay for it of you can afford. When you are fully satisfied with what she's offering or you can no longer afford her charges, let her go. Move on to the next transaction.

And you keep moving infection and unwanted preggys in some cases. This your submission is totally wrong!!!

silibaba:
I have a date next Sunday.

I initiated the date.

I won't spend more than 5k on her.

E get as we dey run am.

The highest i will give her is flying fish or bottled water. While I sip my big stout.

Men behave like mumu during date.[she may even be the one to pay as I will claim my account is having issue at that point in time] most girls come prepared on the first date so they keep some funds handy.

Once we get to the location, I will blunty tell her that she ought to have cooked sunday rice and eaten before coming out.

And we will run it in the morning on sunday when people never return from church. So that the place will still be scanty.

If I see that she's getting down with me, I will quickly book short time room and tell her we should go discuss something more private and the rest will be history.

It's always too academic when a child speaks.

tiswell:
Nigeriigirls you mean

Cos here,a date is none of the description(s) in the context

Where exactly?? Women are generally entitled everywhere... including the so-called working class. The ones who don't drain men financially will definitely end up draining you emotionally.

They are always the electrons seeking protons to attain balance. So men giving up excess protons to attain stability are not doing anything wrong.

brain54:
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Men spoiled and encouraged women to be that way by trying to buy love and attention.


The women only took it to the next level. Talk about giving someone a yard and they took a mile.

Now the men turn around and are complaining about what they started.


Never start what you can't finish!

You're very far from the truth!!! Women are simply greedy and too entitled. Some men simply play along to be sure they are not judging the woman wrongly by first impression.

It's true we can defeat banditry and other crimes if united but the problem is we will never unite. This is not about ibo vs yoruba vs hausa vs fulani etc... it is about the world itself. People who don't have almost same cultural ideology can't never unite in governance.

So what exactly is his point??

Ije uwa....

I'm tempted to say Nigerian is too big and diverse to remain one country. We are like different countries forced into one.

Toolegit123:
Good day everyone out there.

Lately, I have been traumatized. Like so depressed. My fiancee and I have been together for over 2 years and we've been planning to take the next step,which is our marriage arrangements.

But recently,I have noticed how she has been distancing herself from me. Though we had a little quarrels not quite long ago,but I really wanted to settle things up. And unfortunately, before I could calm things up,I noticed she had blocked me on Whatsapp.

Now,the pain in me,is that I've tried to talk to her,but she seems like who doesn't want to listen to me and it's really hitting hard on me.

This is someone who has always been toxic and disrespectful to me,but whenever I try t walk away completely from her,i always find myself going back to her. And I'm so tired and fed up with the whole thing.

I have tried to walk away,like forget about everything we've together in the past but the healing process hasn't been easy. I really want my peace of mind back. Please,has anyone been in this kind of situation before? How did you navigate yourself through it. Please,help a brother in need.

Just walk away from toxic and disrespectful woman, even if your entire breath depends on her.

Just get up and leave. It's better to leave without breath than stay with a toxic and disrespectful woman!!!

ChristianMuslim:
Nonsense advice.. GenZ people advice na K-leg.. walk away when you can work things out and make life better.. Poster who be your teacher.. your teacher deserves 24 strokes of koboko

My guy, most women are so unreasonable. You can't work things out with a woman who is hell-bent on pulling you down.

I was having this opinion for 12 good years, and she kept getting worse, squeezing every ounce of life and breath out of me.

That gender is mean, my brother. You can't live peacefully by being reasonable with them. Just walk away, or match their selfishness with selfishness of the same measure if you have the mental strength for it.

marcusverum:
Your ability to walk away is your greatest negotiating tool in any relationship.

The moment a woman or anyone knows you cannot leave, they know they can treat you however they choose. You have handed them power over you and they will use it. Not necessarily out of malice.

Simply because the option is there.

This applies to relationships.
To marriage.
To friendships.
To business.

A man who tolerates everything out of fear of being alone is not loyal.
He is desperate and desperation is the most unattractive quality a man can carry.

Walk away from what does not respect you. Not in anger.
Not in drama.
Simply withdraw your presence, your resources and your attention. Let your absence speak.

The man who can leave anything is the man everyone fights to keep.

Very much on point, bruv!!

However, some men are not weak but too kind to a fault... mainly out of pity and not out of desperation.

A woman with a stick will come at a man with a gun. The man will drop the gun not to hurt the woman, yet the woman will go ahead and hit the man with the stick. And out of pity not to hurt her, the man starts running away, yet she keep chasing him with the stick to inflict as much injuries as she could muster.

My dear, most men are not weak, men are naturally kind to women and women are naturally wicked. It's not really about being lonely or getting laid.

Counterigbolies:
Anywhere anything legit us done, they won't survive.

They believe commiting crime is been smart, that's y they have problem everywhere cos they have been made to believe they are smarter than everyone.

Read d true life story I posted there n see just a fraction of what one of them did in south Africa n they still defended him.

Just observe how they will still come and defend these ones here

Just gerrat with that your baseless hate-filled lies.

I'm igbo, and I condemn every crime everywhere by any national. We are born humans first before tribal nomenclature.

Get sense please 🙏

Counterigbolies:
Very soon if these countries say enough is enough and they fight back, they will start blackmailing them by calling them xenophobic.

Till tomorrow I stand with south Africa in anything they do cos I spent 3 good years there and even me I wasn't proud about what our brothers do there

In south Africa, our brothers have messed up virtually everywhere that many of us don't introduce ourselves as Nigerians and those at home who don't know anything will b quick to call them xenophobic.

An incident happened when I was there, a Nigerian was stranded and a south African family decided to accommodate him pending the time he will get something reasonable doing.

They told him to wash their cars, walk their children to school and do little garden tendering, believe u me this guy was low-key selling hard drugs under their roof that the method he deviced was to hide it inside those kids school bags so as not to b bursted at check points.

One day he forgot the hard drugs inside and the children got to school n taught it was powder and they played with it, unfortunately 3 kids died, investigation was done and the Nigerian was apprehended only for the police to release him the 3rd day after they were bribed

The south Africans found d man, killed it in the Nigerian settlement they found him n burnt all houses in the place.

The news came out here and Nigerians who don't know the story here started shouting xenophobia, I just shake head

He forgot powder inside a kid's school bag??

Your hate for them igbos couldn't even let you make your lies believable.

Guy man, please keep her if her character is good.

For me, I honestly don't mind adopting a child if my wife makes a very happy home. Her body sef go dey intact for knacking while we responsibly raise our adopted kids with love and bond.

helinues:
There are no sincere agreement between partners. Not necessarily signed agreement but mutual understanding about some certain things

Imagine when you are still single before getting married, was life easy even with money, now consider being in a marriage with someone from distance all in the name of love. Sometimes different backgrounds, different upbringing, different exposure to some things in life

The agreement is ability to compromise some certain things

Honestly I do see your submission and leap as usual, but I have to say something here. The different backgrounds, ubringing, exposure, etc you mentioned is not really the problem but selfishness... especially from the women.

A spade should be called a spade.

Isn't it time people start getting home delivery medical packages??

Few clicks on the net and everything is sorted out of eye and ear shorts.

Helping her out is not bad on its own but it could lead to some avoidable situations.

Politely turn her request down not because she did you wrong but to avoid any form of reconnection.

If however you are so disciplined she can't get you to misbehave with her, tell her to introduce you to the husband and let her husband know about her request.

BrightAhiah99:
As a lawyer, is there no confidentiality in your profession again?
Why discouraging new couple's into tying their knots?

Ogbeni, they should rather knot their ties... marriage these days na something else.

To each their own...

To the people mentioning carnal man and things of the spirit, God Himself, the origin of all spirituals wants us extremely clean and healthy without blemish.

The flood there could potentially make everyone there unclean and less spiritual... if you really know what the spiritual stands for.

Richtaiwo:
There is no freedom of choice in the East, yet headless mobs accused regions where elections were conducted peacefully of violence. Currently, no politician can freely hold meetings in the east for any presidential aspirants except for Obi. Yet Obi is free to organise gatherings anywhere in Nigeria, including all SW states.

Statistics indicate that this region experiences the highest electoral violence, yet headless mobs publicly denounced the organisation behind the findings, accusing it of lying.

The problem is not the eastern region per se, the real problem is humans generally including you making a tribal submission by mentioning Obi.

Until we learn that we are first humans before tribe, religion, affiliation, etc, there will be no peace all over the world.

franchasng:
Donald J T my man firing from all cylinders

Donald J T, and "T" stands for tariff.

Let's see how a tiny screwdriver used for electronics devices would screw and drive Dangote trucks.

Sonnobax15:

What were they doing with their lives when they were still in their era of premier league? . Probably forming Ronaldo and Messi, dribbling different men and scoring hat tricks and celebrating their victories

Now that they had been relegated to championship and league one,na now Dem dey beg Nigerians for help

As much as I don't trust most ladies, we need to cut them some slack if we are not sure of what they represent.

I really wish them well in their search for a fulfilled life. No sad screwdriver should come their way if their intentions are genuine.

Na this kind of beasts dey give all men bad name.

Irrespective of whether the pregnancy was intended to manipulate him or not, why not allow posterity judge the woman.

Alongside the jail term, he should be further screwed and driven to pay lifetime alimony to woman.

DoWhatThouWilt:
Ikorodu celine dion

Sometimes I cant help but wonder If really they were created by God.

Poor Adekunle Gold. I cant imagine what he must be going through married to a feminist.

She further revealed that she is an 18-year-old orphan, a lesbian, and struggles with alcohol and codeine addiction. She also admitted to engaging in self-harm as a coping mechanism.

Damage control.

Why didn't she make a video asking for help stating the problems mentioned above. Why did you have to lie you were raped? To chase clout? Or to tickle the ears of feminazi?

This gender sef

Lol... Ikorodu Simindion.

Wey my screwdriver abeg?