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It snows in Lesotho as well

youngmonie:
Trust me your better of living in Lagos than in Luanda............way way better off, that all that matters

so one is better off with constant electricity cuts, insufficient water supply, bad roads and a poor waste management system?

Abagworo:
This place looks like Naija to me and I can't mistaken it for America in any way. Look at those disgusting white and black stripes that characterize naija cities. Its an Abuja level city and is still developing as well. Maybe in 100years time it will surpass Miami with organized rail system, sewage disposal, constant electricity, functioning domestic gas line, functioning health insurance etc.

which countries do you know that don't have carriageway markings on their roads?

What breaks my heart when i see stuff like this is how Africa is blessed with so much sunlight all year round but we fail to come up with things like this...

elimsme:
What course of study

why do you want to know? You want to scatter her destiny or what?

justwise:
Ask for 2 weeks extension and attach it to your application.

Bros i know this is for visas but i have want to ask something which is slightly off topic but please don't block me o. Is it possible for a person to change a course once they get to the UK? Lets say i apply get a visa to study Architecture but once i get to the UK I switch want to switch to Engineering. Will it affect the validity of the visa i used to gain entry?

SADC

eljaye:
Finally after the horrendous wait, I have got my visa. Thanks to Baba God. Thank you all for your help during the wait.

Biko please, how do they do the TB test (method) and how long does it take?

If she cannot prostitute for her husband who else can she prostitute for?

tolugar:
Try sniper when no one is around for help. Just close your eyes and drink it all. It's painless and fast.


But from your last sentence,
You can live for your parents and your siblings and those that secretly loves you.


Take it as a challenge to prove your "loving god" wrong that you can make it with or without his love.

Cry, sleep and wake up

Then

Forge your own part


Else see ya in hell, things are worse there

Honestly speaking i am done with nairaland! Haba!

4truepeace:
Dear Nlanders, first off, I would like to describe the kind of husband I am, and for every statement I make here, I swear that its 100% true. I am married for 5 and the half years now with 2 kids, when it comes to taking care of my responsibilities, I do not lag behind, I provide 99% of the family needs. I did set up a business of choice for my wife, though business is not that rosey for now, but at least income is coming and the family rarely sees anything coming from her into the house. One morning, she had gone to her work place, placed a call through to me that the eletric cable has been cut off which led to black out at her work place, a day before, I used part of the money she left in the car which apparently was the first time ever I made use of her money, she then quoted the amount electrician was gonna use to repair that she needed her money that I used. Because she yelled while I questioning her as regards the amount charged, I resorted in telling her that I have no cash since shes owing me and havent paid back. Nlanders, I have a woman that loves to lend cash, but will never return it, this very one is one out of major cash she has lent without giving back. While telling her that she should deduct from what she owed before, she hung up then came back home to confront me. Next thing she would say was "Since you wont give me the money, then I will go and do it to get paid" to you guys, you might wonder what that meant, well its not new, there was a time this my wife openly told me that "do you know how many men want to Bleep me and pay" I was lost in my own body that day. Following her statement, I told her to go ahead and do whatever she wants, and I stood by my word not to give her a dime. Later on, I thought to myself, peace is all that is required, regardless of whatever she may have said, I had to give her the money, and even considered giving her weekly allowance so that whatever misc expenses she needs will be easily managed. A week later, she told me she was going for a seminar, I wont mention the name of the seminar for security reason. The seminar was meant for ladies only who have enterpreneural skills which was to hold for 2 days. The first day, I noticed my wife dressed in an office like dress, then the second day which was the last day, I noticed she was dressed all casual with tight jeans, mind you...shes got a very provocative so what she wore made her whole body more provocative. I asked her why shes wearing this sort of clothe to a business seminar, she replied " I should just leave it like that oo" I sighed and said, oh well, its all good. She left and came back with gist, that the sort of attention she got as opposed to the other day she went dressed like an office lady was different, people calling her from left to right forming familiarity etc. Coupled with the fact that out of 300 attendants, she was the only person called out for an interview by a popular TV station, (name witheld for security reason) I recalled her telling me that the interviewer asked her what inspired her dressing and that she was asked to turn around for the camera (probably to showcase her big bum) I asked what she did, she said she declined that request. Anyway my wife had made lots of contact, and from past experience, I know that some of the contacts she made dont mean genuine business relationships, and they are probably going to be proposing something extra abnormal.

The week following I started noticing strange things, at first, she told me she got an offer from the TV station for a free interview regarding her business and that she me to take her down to the TV station. On our way, I told my wife that there is a possibility that the lady in question that called her wants to love-vendor her one way or the other, but that I may be wrong. Lo n behold, 15mins after she got into their office, I was at the reception, my wife told me that what I presumed was true. I immediately told her to leave their office so we can get out of here, she told me to wait a little that she was having a discussion with the lady, 15mins later she came out and we left. My wife told me that when she got it, that the lady said, wow are you the one in the interview, bla bla bla, that our editor is already fantasizing about you, I said to myself, and these people know you are married, I was amazed, and then the lady told her that the editor was in a meeting but he sent a message for her to wait until he finishes, when my wife said she was leaving, she asked if she could give her number to their editor, my wife had told me she declined since their editors reason to see her wasnt based on what she was called for, but she did tell me that she and the lady had discussed at legnth about the interview they called her for. That very night, after a very deep thought, I told my wife that she should not bother going back there, that even though the offer is good and quite a blessing, its already a compromised connection. I promised to help her look for other TV station and pay for whatever services required to showcase her business. My wife replied me by saying that she regrets telling me about the whole editor ish, that this was an opportunity of a lifetime that I am trying to deny her of it, saying if it was a crime for her to have told me about what she experienced inside the office, I replied by saying that a loyal, faithful and trustworthy wife will never ever think of going back there nor question my decision I also asked what her true intentions were,she said she had no bad intentions, she also said she would have tried to play her games well without compromising and making sure they get things done for her. I stood my ground ground and made it known to her that if she dares try to go there, that will be the last of our marital union, then she finally agreed.

The following week after that came another incident. I noticed that my wife has been off and on from her workplace to a nearby location (GRA). Ever since I have known my wife, her route does not even pass through that area. I asked whats up with her going there, who shes going there to see, she said a white lady she met at the seminar who shared contact with her. She said the lady was more like a business adviser, telling her what to do and how to do things regardless of her business. That very week, I noticed my wife was not home at the appropriate time, so I called and asked where she was at, she said she was at jekins place in GRA with a client, I asked if I could go and pick the kids up at her work place and take them home, she said i should not bother that she would be at her work place in 15 mins to pick them up. One and the half hour went past, my wife wasnt back to pick the kids up, I called and called her but the call would not go through. 2hrs approximately, she was home, then I questioned her why she took long after promising to pick the kids in 15mins, she said she was at the white lady's office at HOUSE-J (A CODED HOTEL IN GRA) discussing business.So I accused her of telling me that she was at jenkins place, and now she was at HOUSE-J. So I decided to know more about the woman, my wife knowing fully well that I may have knowledge about something without letting her know and asking questions about it decided to tell me the truth, she said the lady is the General manager of HOUSE-J in GRA, she said the lady was given accomodation in the hotel and thats where she lives. She also narrated stories about how the lady went from being a married woman to a single lady because of her ex husbands financial predicament, but now, her bill is being serviced by rich politicians that comes to the hotel for coded runs. She also said the lady had invited her to come around the next day for a get together with personels in which she decided to go, called my mum to come stay with the kids while shes gone, my mum was not available, she told the lady that she was coming with the kids, but she declined that she cant bring her kids to that kind of gathering, saying that was when she knew the lady was trying to love-vendor her to some of the numerous rich men that comes around. She claimed the woman stopped calling her for like a week and the half, then she called again asking my wife to help look for a steward for the hotel bla bla, and then she told my wife why she has not heard from her, my wife who I thought would have cut communication and all sort of ties from this lady replied by saying 'I actually thought about calling you. In my mind, I felt all the confession coming out from my wife's mouth are mere formalities and fake, she probably is still interested in whatever that lady has to offer, then it was my time to come in to the matter, I called the lady and asked her to cut ties with my wife, that I dnt think their relationship is a healthy one, the lady replied ' go Bleep yourself' and I replied saying thank you and I hung up.

The story is long, so I might not be able to construct my grammar well, but I hope you guys understand my frustration here, with all these sort of things, can I still trust this woman? Should I be more sensitive to her moves? Or should I just let it be and let trust take its course? But I have heard from so many people that trust with your head, and not with your heart.

When you married her simply because she was beautiful you never thought twice about her character did you? Uncle carry your cross! How many times do we tell you its the character that you have to live with but you still go around chasing anything that makes your d*ck stand for marriage?

ucsparks:
The phone = $292
The "I" = $457
iPhone= 749

you eeehn! Kikikikikiki

I am not Ghanian but i would like for you beautiful people of nairaland help me get a Ghanian husband please anything from 5ft9 is okay, average built to big is fine...ehm i do not mind a shy guy who is caring. Please take my request seriously please

Yomieluv its obvious your marriage was doomed before it started i remember reading your threads either complaining about your wife or her mother! You started buildin your cheating excuses before your marriae even started. I hope your wife finds out! Men like you should just remain single until death, it will save a whole lot of decent women out there a lot of stress.

20bc:
[color=teal] The ladies deserves all the right to ask such question, but we are not in such society where they make those demands. They can only have to find out for themselves but having sex with the guys.

Some ladies would want some big but won't get the satisfaction of it sexually.... But some will have it small and know how best to use it....

It all depends on the mentality of the girl, if she see's a 5inches and presume it very big, it will always be big to her whether she see's 9inches own....[/color]

which is small and can use it? Abeg stop lying to yourself! You ever wondered why small men father the kids of big men unknowningly? Abeg wake up from your dream oh! Big is all it takes to take a woman to the moon and back. You better go for enlargement before you take care of your neighbour's children o

After bleaching you all know butt and boobs were next in line na

Toke and Maje nko?

brunofarad:
Today 18th august 2016






Love is wonderful
Marriage is bliss
FAMILY IS EVERTHING


Thank you JESUS

Happy Married Life

Deefuray:
Happy married life....

The boobs of that lady tho..... Olympus has fallen

but you are still wasting your mamas money buying bra for your -A cup... But thats none of our business *sips tea*

azeecoboy:
Mynd44 take note

gerrara here mhen!

azeecoboy:
ISLAM is just too perfect..
but as a muslimah,she shouldnt have participated in the first place.

because your fada was going to put food on her table if she didnt participate abi?

waternogetememy:
Mr man! I am not a thread pusher, it is not wat i do 4 a living, u can sign on with as much moniker as u like, the father has handled the matter, wen her mum gets back, she will collect curse and more slapping/flogging.


Commit suicide if u dont like it, u cannot love and care 4 their daughter more than the parents.


U are simple reasoning with ur dick and after wat u can get as a man, her parents are after her future.


If person like me mistakenly jam ur type with my daughter, u done meet God, i will not even touch her. I will use u to demonstrate just how wicked, i can be. She go fear.

okay now that the video is online for good, where will she get a decent job that she will be able to maintain without the video ever re-surfacing unexpectedly? If she does change, where will she get a husband who will still love and respect her after coming across such a video? In fact which men in his right mind would want to marry from a family full of mentally deranged people that allow other men to video his daughter naked while he humiliates her? Is that the future they are after?

waternogetememy:
The man was measured and his temper under control, whilst he discipline and disgrace the useless girl.

you did realise that he is disciplining her in the presence of other man who might later sexually abuse her because they have already seen it all? Did you think that one day she will grow up and want to get married and this video will always be online to remind her how much she not worthy of anything because of her past mistakes? Its like some of you people think from your anus. There was a way of disciplining her and it was most certainly meant to be in front of other sexually frustrated men who would gladly take videos of a naked person and post it online for a good laugh and self-service off when they are bored.

AdaAda1331:
I've been in a relationship for 5 years with a great man; we met very young and we're still in school but almost about to graduate. We love each other and things would be easier if family wasn't involved.

His parents are currently divorced and his father, step mother and brother are very difficult people. They are uncompromising and closed minded. His brother has called me selfish and controlling even before the introduction has taken place.

I'm currently in my early twenties and I will be graduating as a doctor next year and I'm from a very peaceful home. I have not been wayward during school and I'm a christian. Seeing that his family doesn't see my value is very disappointing to say the least. I expected much more because I know I'm worth much more.

When you marry in the Nigerian community, you don't just marry the person, the whole family is involved. I have strong feelings for this man. He has refused to adopt his families negative characteristics. His values and character is more than any mother, future wife or friend can ask for. I'm lucky to have even known him.

Now, I'm at crossroads. I've prayed to God and I do have peace, but my parents are telling me to disregard that relationship and move on because of his family. Is it worth it? Is family a rate limiting step to choosing a spouse? How involved are family members in during marriage? Should I move on?

aunty you and your future husband need shayo in your life. You are too rigid! Haba!

First of all enter Benin from Benin waka go Togo... Togo enter Ghana, while in Ghana sell a bit of bleaching cream so you can have enough money to continue with the journey then waka go Ivory Coast...from Ivory Coast enter Liberia... While in Liberia make big yansh like Rokiatu own kee you... After that waka go Sierra Leone make Ebola scatter you finish after that waka go Gambia if you are still alive.

suleiman16:
Hi Nairalander,

I am going through one of the toughest stage in my life, my Fiancée is pregnant (13 weeks), and we have decided to keep it, I am presently doing my NYSC and she is a final year student in a Federal University.

Both family is aware of our relationship and we have been together for a very long time, she is very supportive and I really love her.

But where the problem lies is that am presently faced with the challenges of keeping a family and other responsibilities that are attached to it, Thou I have a business am doing but the business has not been doing well as we all know the economy challenges facing the country now.


Pls I want the member of this forum to advice me on what to do, abortion is out of it, because if we want to, we would have done that before now,also I don't want to keep baby mama, but my fear is how will my self and my Fiancée cope by starting our own family now


Pls good people of this forum that have gone through similar stage or known someone that has gone or going through similar problem should advice on what to do and how to face challenges of this nature...

Please help me out of this...

did you know that she was capable of falling pregnant if she had sex? If you do, what kind of advice do you want exactly?

segosty:
this is not supposed to be strange especially in this century, you're talking of this one, take your time to make research on "fake hymen" or "virginity kit" you'll be more astonished, if any guy allow a lady to mugu him, na him know, goodluck to all the single guyz out there

Nigerian guys don turn women mugu with their small dicks, make Nigerian women maga them small also

who is the sneeky bastard that invented this?

vani86:
lol man shall not live by yansh alone, she may not be able to cook, clean or even be a good companion

he may not have good genes, big yam or 6pack, na win win situation na lmao