If people are screaming n jumping up in happiness Infront of you

Please leave them it's not easy,so many people died last year

Happy New Year Fam

Epositive:
I think mine is introversion. I don't like much attention but if I have an assignment, say presentation that warrant public attention, I will do it well (after severe practices of course).

Even after much practice to summon the courage is another thing for some people.

Is not that they're daft or can't do their presentation,but when you get to start there's this overwhelming anxiousness you'll find difficult to control.You can't even stand properly.

COZA:

Go away don't laugh me jare

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How much should I budget for ladies

How bout two for #50naira

lol you try

E too much sef

Social anxiety is different from shyness. Shyness is usually short-term and doesn’t disrupt one’s life.Social anxiety is persistent and debilitating. It can affect one’s ability to work,attend school,develop close relationships with people outside of their family.

Growing up I used to be an outgoing person,I was fun to be with and literally bring fun to wherever I find myself.I was keen on going to parties, foothball matches n any other social outing that ensures that I'm far from my house.If you find me at home then I'm just there to eat and "show face"..

Parents please be careful how you control your kids, children are not all the same and don't subjugate them or force them to be like the other.Teach them right from wrong but don't force them to be like the other,In most cases it doesn't turn out well.I remember mum used to say can't you be like your bro and stay inside (cos he used to cooped up in the house almost everyday)..As we grew up,I started listening to mum n started staying in-doors which will turn out to be bad for me.i could literally go days without desiring to step outside my room or house anything that will bring me in the presence of people I suddenly refrained from such.

I noticed it got bad,when I attempted giving offerings n tithes which warranted you to come Infront of the entire church congregation.i could feel my legs failing me one faithful Sunday,it felt like I'll faint if I don't leave.i was fidgety,sweating profusely,heart racing n blood pumping faster than usual.After the prayers I quickly went back to my seat and after that day, I had mum give the offering on my behalf if she goes to church on any tithing Sundays.This trait followed me to school

One time in school a lecturer asked a very simple question in a combined class that I knew the answer to,I looked back n forth, nobody had their hands up,I was like"this simple question" make I answer am jare.But in-between bringing my hands up n answering that question,I found myself panicking,n having an increased heartbeat that I had to stop myself.the lecturer went on to award marks for the answer still I was just staring at him with the answer in my thought but my lips sealed.After the end of that class n him giving the answer which I knew already,I was so pained n ashamed of myself n ended up going home because that day was ruined already.

A few months later I'll go on to lose my girlfriend as she wasn't okay with me ghosting her each time she is in the presence of lots of people..I spend so much time inside my head,I always feel like a situation didn't end well or I ruined it which most times wasn't even a big deal to people.I am a listener,I barely speak,i can't talk for two minute nonstop, I'll probably faint or lose my voice.Its a herculean task to step outside my house unless it's extremely important.Keeping up with relationships that require me to visit the other person is a big deal for me.. Alcohol sometimes if need be to face a social situation,it was getting worst day by day.Soon I accepted my faith n passed myself up as an "introvert".

Guess what bro that's cooped up in the house everyday before is the EXTROVERTS extrovert, he's not shy bout anything,he can speak n act as he likes anywhere n anyday,I can only look at him in admiration, wishing to be like him now but I'm far too gone in my introvertedness(if there's any word like that) that I don't feel like I can save myself anymore.Then I studied my problem n found out that I wasn't just introverted,I have a social disorder.Started reading more n researched on it n so far I can say it has gotten better.i can control it to an extent, it's not so obvious like before but haven't gotten around to going out n staying out for long.Relationship is still a big issue,I collect numbers but the thoughts of calling them n going out just makes me move on with my life.
My daily routines still remains Home-Work-Home.. Lots of people are in similar situation, some say they're just shy, some say they are introverts.

Which one are you?

Any Useful tips would be appreciated as you read thanks and a Happy New Year People

Congrats snitch

I celebrate with you sister, it's no mere feat you accomplish there.

Sexual immorality has taken over the entire world that even if you don't want to see it,it will pop up in your browser,in your movies,various social media apps are the worst this days,the western Media has "Normalised" this acts n the world has embraced it.Nudity is in vogue.

I'm even more pained as they try to shove down our throats their gay act n trying to make it a normal scene.You can't watch no English movie or series where gay scenes will not spring up.They are working so hard to normalise it.

All this is giving young people difficult time battling with their lust n raging sexual desire and most end up subdued and caged.Battling with one addiction or the other.It takes a great deal and a draw closer to God to win over this.

BUT you're married thou why all this in the first place

Boydehot:
I really need help from a cap drive, especially mini bus drivers. I want to collect a loan and buy a bus for transport business and I need a loan of 1.3million which I will pay back 1.5million in 11months. having made arrangements for the money.
can I remit the above money in 11month.
I need advice.
remember am a newbie in transport business.

Depends on location n your resilience towards actualising your goal

So your finances went bad and boom you remember say dem curse you.Before then you were flexing yourself,u no remember your deeds.

Guy grow up jare and turn a new leaf make God help u

A business idea just came to mind rn

I'll give it a try this coming year.Grace I pray for

Thanks Op

yazga:
if you don't invest you die a poor man.

oh really wow

Doesn't seem to correlate with it's title though.will give it a read someday

psychologist:
the book "rich Dad, poor Dad" comes to mind..

What's the summary of this book please.


Never gotten around to reading it

HakimZiyech:

Gerrarahere joor

Lush100:
Even though, I don't have a physical business location,
I have 3 sources of income.
I'm looking for a 4th one.

That's why I'm looking for a fmcg deal if u check my last post on this thread.
Other options are transport biz
or massage centre for now.

Full Details of your laptop?

I'm looking to get one

HakimZiyech:
Define cute?

Angelacruz:
obanje

what's doing this once

HATERZ

Angelacruz:
wat is this?

What do u mean

Am I not cute

Mine

Harpyeagle:

Try smile alittle na

ostechno:

Exasperating means Irritating and frustrating
Call my write-up whatever you want, I'm not writing a letter to the President, and I wrote that while I was busy because I see the need to. Just passing a message, so if you can't read it, then skip it.

Sorry if I struck a nerve.i meant no harm.

Just an advice for next time but you can do as you please anyways

dawnomike:
I am the only son having six sisters... You don't want to imagine what the gang up was like back then considering the fact that I am No. 5 out of 7


I suffered no be small... lol

lol ona plenty o

But it's all fun when you'll are grown up.Wish I had an elder sis sometimes though.. I'm having this feeling it'll be nice

ostechno:

Education is not necessarily schooling, infact schooling is just a small part of education. We are in the age where schooling is less effective for self development. In school, students are made to compete for grades, the schooling system 100 years ago is still thesame as today, Every other things have changed, did you know people have different way of learning, some prefer learning when they are alone, some learn buy drawing, some people won't understand what they read in a book untill they watch videos, some learn by commiting themselves to practicals only, but school has always remain thesame, go to classroom, the lecturer teach all students who has different convinient way of learn thesame way, in the end, you get thesame exam for grading, some will fail, some will pass excellently. The way people are being lectured in school today doesn't help student discover themselves, they put that fear in you and limit you to only what you're being taught. A while ago when I was in secondary school, the teacher gave us an exam, he asked us "what are some examples of tools used for 'something'", I gave him the answers of the tools I've learned by myself online, and he marked me wrong, because he didn't know about it. Don't let what you're taught in school limit you, self discovery is what matters the most.
When I was in 100 level, our lecturer asked us to give examples of Operation System in CPE 101 class, the someone said Android OS, and the lecturer asked, is Android an OS?, I said to myself WOW, these lecturers are outdated. These people live in 19th century.
Alot of thing have changed but they don't know, new things are being invented everyday, if you limit yourself to what you're taught in school, you can never invent any good. Please use the available tools (most especially the internet) to discover yourself, you'll be surprised how the wold is changing.
Another thing about student who limit themselves to school is that "they are not good decision makers", students can't come up with original ideas again. Don't be surprise the exams you write is affecting student, the teacher choose for you, they choose the questions they give you, you're made to choose answers from objective questions, is it A, or B, or C or D. students are not allowed to come up with original thought again, they're made to choose, things would be worse now that most university wants to start making all exams CBT, all the questions would be objective. This alone affects student's ability to make decision In real-time.
All I'm going to say is don't limit yourself to what they teach you in school, everything is changing.
At the moment the world is even better off without the current schooling system. That's why I love Finland so much, the have the best schooling system in the world but it's still not good enough
To me, the internet is the new universities the and it can be a source of 90% of what you'll ever learn, 90 percent of the things I know today is not what I learned from school, its the power of the internet.
Peace

Please paragraph your write ups next time.This is exasperating

You seem to have issues and seun should start charging people for irrelevant topics

How is this news and wetin concern US

I Remember growing up,my elder bro use to beat me,alot sometimes that mum would hold him for me to get even sometimes lol.Now we've grown up,I don't think we'll get into any serious scuffle.

You'll grown up fix that shit, grudges amongst family is unhealthy.

Amazing stuff

what are you on bout?

How did he fight someone that's Twice as Tall