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Sorry for your loss man

It will take sometime but you'll be fine,the memories n the thoughts are bringing up nostalgic emotions which is normal.. Don't fight how you feel, accept it.

nenyewrites:
Lol. A guy will call me to where he is sitting, instead of coming to where I’m sitting Very funny. The girl didn’t have a high self esteem. Don’t use her as a yardstick for other girls.

@the emboldened

So you won't go over lol?

Well that was precisely why I asked her to come over,i thought she won't at first cos she was reluctant and instead somewhat signaling me to do that instead,but I acted as if I didn't see her again until she came over.

what I'm saying generally is that we crave n give importance to something we don't have or we can't have..the moment it's in our disposal,we slowly lose interest n it's value diminishes with time.Just like in our everyday lifes aswell,our cars, phones et al

Lastly the whole euphoria and anxiousness of talking to a female is all in our head..Once you're confident with whatever you say(don't say dumb things though) and you're properly dressed, you're good to go..The worst that would happen if you stop n talk to a lady is for her to say she's not interested or she'll keep mute n walk pass you shikena.So I don't see why some guys act nervous always.

Then again There's levels to everything so know your level

travis365:
Good evening nairalanders...I really need your advice...there's this girl we've being dating for more than a year now...I just feel I'm been to nice to her...she'd always take me for granted..whenever we've issue she'd say I shouldn't let her change to me and do what she doesn't wanna do...she'd say she can't tolerate me anymore...she'd read meaning to meaningless stuffs...and I'd end up begging her...she'd even block my number..lol..,I'll have to beg her to unblock me...I actually provide every of her needs...i haven't missed any before... If I don't have I'll definitely promise her and I'd do it...I even send her money even without her asking,she'd say I'm insulting her with money all because I sent her money and not replying to her messages immediately,.but she will never appreciate the next day....so on Thursday she called me on phone and she actually told me she's having infection...I then said on Saturday I'd definitely send her some money so she can treat it...so on Saturday I actually sent her some money..it's much though....so suddenly this morning she just messaged me giving me attitude...even without appreciating what i did yesterday.. so i just have to let her be..she then start sending me different kind of messages that she can't tolerate me ignoring her and treating her bad all because I'm providing her needs....how the hell I'm i treating you bad??she just start saying different kind of thing... uploading different kind of status"a girl can love you stupidly and stop talking to you"....she'd just start ignoring my messages won't read it and she'd be online,she doesn't even call like before...but I'm always scared when we have issue that another guy will have her..�have tried alot for her...even at the point of paying her rent..�please advice me nairalanders...I really need your advice about this....and please no insult... Sorry for the bad grammers.

Letting go most times seems like the hardest part but if you've tried your best n it's not working,you gotta let go..I promise you there are lots of more prettier, endowed and smart girls out there(depends on what you like in a woman).

My ex was fond of doing this too, she's never appreciative no matter what you do for her,she does literally nothing for me and I'm not complaining..She read meanings to everything, infact you can't make a joke cos she get angry over it easily n she overreact instantly.One time we had our numerous fights n I called her over,she reluctantly came over and we talked,she kissed me n we made up.While we talked I pleaded with her to always tell if when I'm wrong or where I've offended her instead of her carrying face for me..

Two weeks later another unnecessary fight this time I didn't call her or say anything,she threatened me with it's over I said "Okay",and that was it.. Months later she texted to apologize and I said it's okay,we talked alittle and she said she broke up with me n I just moved on easily like that n didn't try to resolve things..I laugh now cos thinking bout it now feels like I dodged a bullet,now all the feelings are dead I just imagine all the bullshit I had to put up with.i now know I deserved better.

NOTE; For every pretty, endowed lady out there, there's a thousand more others out there,if you leave any of your partner today you won't die,if you willing you'll find a thousand others out there.

NwaAmaikpe:





I had a huge crush for my pastor's wife.
She was pretty, slender and caramel; just the way I like them. Her manicure was always on point and she could never be caught unfresh.
I admired her gait, loved the way she talked and when she led praises in church, it sent shivers down my spine and erected my cord.

I didn't miss church services because of her and I always sat on the first row because she had this special way of flapping her legs and exposing her panties.

I just longed for her.
Getting her was the salvation I needed.
I went to bed every night wishing and praying for the day I would be the cause of her moans.

Long story short.

I eventually got to make her moan but everything about it was a write-off.
From the second I inserted my harddisc into her P-drive to the moment I ejaculated my infatuations, the only emotion I felt for her was disgust.
Just like Tamar and Ammon; I hated her very existence and couldn't stand to look at her face.

Till today, each time I see her face on banners, I wonder what was it about her that drove me crazy.
But I've come to know that that's how life is designed to be.

We appreciate what we think we can NEVER have and detest it once we've gotten it.

I guess that's the same reason girls have more heartbreaks than men.
They fall so hard for the filmtricks.
...because the same man that checks up on you every other minute before he has laid you will be the one too busy to pick your call after her has laid you.

The bolded is somewhat true

Back in school, there's this very beautiful girl in my dept, she was arguably the most beautiful girl in the dept.Nobody was able to talk to this girl,the farthest they could go was exchanging pleasantries with her.(partially her fault cos she carried herself so high).I don't really give her the attention that the other guys do give,infact I always wonder why they are all trilled by her person(other than she's extremely beautiful I didn't see anything fascinating bout her)

One day I decided to talk to her,I called her to come over to where I sat,I noticed she was reluctant abit but eventually came,I asked why she was alone(like I don't know why),why she isn't with one of her friend(the very one she's always with) she said it seems like that one isn't coming today.we talked alittle more and I asked her to go that that's all I called her for but she can stay if she like since she's sitting alone where she was earlier.She stood up to go and after few seconds sat back and that was it.

From that very day she started talking to me every now n then, asking me to see her off here and there that the entire class was hailing me thinking we were dating, people stare at us every where we go,it was funny and wierd at the same time.Even my ex was jealous and teasing me with playful remarks of her.

Soon this extremely beautiful girl everybody would give anything to talk long with or even touch her was beginning to appear ugly each time I look or hang out with her.

Summary: Women are not necessarily high and mighty as some guys perceive them to be,they may look and dress nice which is highly necessary cos a man is attracted to the physical first before anything.But this doesn't put them above you,they are as shy and timid as you are,they don't have an answer to every question you ask when you approach them, they at that very moment are shy and fidgeting as you..

Never be intimidated by any female,dress well,act polite and you good to go

Strange occurrences do happen here and there sometimes.

A guy once told me this,he said " There's this guy into yahoo Yahoo G-stuff,he kept on receiving money on request from his client each time.It was so consistent that the money grew reasonably to the point he could afford to buy himself a ticket and travel out of Nigeria.Out of curiosity,he said the guy decided to go see this client of his who keeps sending him money each time he ask,so he got a ticket and the client address abroad and travelled to pay him a visit.

Lo and behold when he got there and made inquiries after several unreachable calls,he was told the person he's looking to find has been dead for a long time now,he was so shocked and decided to reach out tru their chat and guess what no more chat aswell, person no longer comes online.He came back so shocked that he still can't believe it up till this day".

So many mysterious things happen everyday,this life is more spiritual than we think it is,but science and atheist peeps will say otherwise.

Too bad

God heal them of this trauma

bendike:
What car is the gray one? It looks like a toy.

That's a Lamborghini Aventador

Expensive Sturv

I remember one time I and my friend visited my bros friend at his place,on getting there we ran into their dog and we slowly started moving backwards and we noticed the dog charged towards us o naso we pick off,we ran pass the gate and i took my left,my friend went the other way.omo I was hoping the dog choosed my friend instead of me o lol,but when I looked back while running and screaming the dog was still at my back.i had ran for long until one old woman shouted "STOP RUNNING",I didn't want to stop o but the dog had almost caught up to me naso I gather mind stop, immediately the dog stopped aswell and started going back to the compound.I looked around lots of people were looking at me chai shame catch me.So a whole me this dog use do exercise sha.i vex for that my friend cos it was because of him I ran also, normal me would have maintained my cool when the dog came at us initially.

This is awesome.. there's no limit to a person imagination

The most boring Match I've watched so far

See city with light everywhere

God punish our Leaders

mespusinglez:
Barca are no longer playing with passion

like say dem no even hive a ufck self

me i tire for their matter o

True

let them improve in cl games though, I give less fvck bout league now

ashawoKGB:
He was confused because [s]it was impossible to score from that angle[/s]. None of the barca players were close enough for him to give his magic pass

They need to do better and start shooting at goal

mespusinglez:
I be no wan insult the guy because he dey always cover our fuckups for us....so I no go blame am for this error
besides ATM dey form this season...

I'm not blaming him.

I just noticed this style of play isn't working so well anymore or we're not fast enough with it.

Our defense is not good,you only need a good and fast team to break it.Score should be 2-0 already if Atletic were luckier.

We need to improve

ashawoKGB:
Are we watching the same match. Messi has a shot already after his stupid teammates failed to make themselves available

Which shot?

You call that pass he made to atletic keeper shot?
He was confused,he didn't even know what to do,he played it on the floor like a simple pass

Barcelona's play tonight is absolutely trash

No single shot and attempt on goal,even Messi looks lost


Ter Steffen always too forward cost the goal


Update the system Barcelona, it's outdated

A boring half

A good game

Happy morinho even though he doesn't want to smile

Gabbriell:
Computer programming is very vast. You must have a target. Knowing your target makes the choice of programming language easy.

If it's just a general understanding of computer programming you seek then go for java first. Later you can add more knowledge from other language.

Java itself is a very big language. It might take you a long time to start doing very cool stuffs with it...Your first language is the hardest, others will come easy.

Advice from personal experience: Time na money..don't rush into any program language. Figure out what you want to achieve (developing apps, web development, data science etc) and carefully pick the right language to begin with. Don't wory much..I'd you like programming very much and want to be successful at it you will end up learning more languages. Learning never ends for a programmer.

Good luck

What do you suggest for one that wants to learn to develop apps?

Make-up be making ladies look older and uglier but they seem to not mind..they feel they beautiful like that.

Congrats to this two

This Op is a murafuker

Please send the girl back her money and stop all the theatrics..

what is "se" "SEBI" "sa"

i have utmost disgust for that word "mad o"

I just wouldn't let her control or push me around

Shortyy:
I can't go back to dig that. This has gotten longer than necessary. Whatever rocks their boat.

Take it easy

You're allowing yourself be carried away by the misogyny exhibited by some of the male folks on this forum, it's clouding your judgement and making you unnecessary emotional towards certain topics that relates to females being maligned in any way,you feel a sense of responsibility to defend them without rational thinking..I perceive a poorly disguised misandry brewing up in your person and it's manifestation or palpability would be unhealthy if taken to the realistic public or even loved ones closer to you..

Don't let the whole female banter change or get to you here

it usually feels like that in the start until "you can't explain what happened" happens

It's Simple a lifeless body, Versace casket changes nothing.Hope he built himself a mansion in heaven instead while he had is time on earth

iLegendd:
I'm commenting just for one reason and before I say it, I want to let you guys know I didn't read both posts (the one the OP is complaining about and the one the OP wrote), but the titles. I don't just have the time anymore.

So, I'm commenting because of this man: Nwaezeemmanuel.

I used to pride myself of being the most annoying person on Earth until he registered.

He started by attacking and abusing me, but I ignored him and I'm not bothered. Everyone wants to learn how to seek attention. Maybe, I should open a school for it.

The things I so much dislike about him are

1. When a woman creates a thread, he will always be on the woman's side no matter what she says and he will asslick her.

2. On that thread, he will comment the most. (What kind of busy body is that?). If there are 100 comments, his will be 70 and everyone else will be 30.

3. He will attack everyone just to defend the lady.

4. He will still be on the thread when everyone is asleep.

5. Is he mentally okay? I know I'm crazy, but this guy is repulsive with the way he acts.

6. When I was observing him, I used to read his unreasonable comment, but I skip them now.

7. Yes, I do created fun and trashy threads at times for the fun, but I wish I'm half as dûmb as him.

I just can't hold my observation any longer.

I really don't fancy your clout chasing attitude on this forum but this I do agree with you, I've observed too and you SPOT on.

nwaezeemmanuel:
What about it?

Does it make them less feminine?

nwaezeemmanuel:
Go make findings, don't argue with me without doing that. Trust me, i do my best to be sure before commenting

Ok..If we keep up with this your opinionated narrative,what will you say bout females putting on trousers and shorts?

nwaezeemmanuel:
it's just hilarious.

At a time, [s] long hair was heavily branded feminine. Fast forward to the present, can we say every man with long hair is draining his 'masculine energy' [s] ?

Times change, but people do not want to.

Don't say rubbish because you want to prove a point?

tonididdy:
Two lessons learnt: this country is a shit hole

You not far from the truth I guess

Proffdada:
I thought it was MTN issue
I guess 9mobile has been infected too

Have you experienced such sir? plz share

mctfopt:
Sorry, try another 9mobile office. Don't feel bad about the corporate beggars you just gave money to. Just that their behaviour will surely make it difficult to help those that are genuinely in need.

I'm confused over the whole issue,how is the serial number different and all.maybe I'll go to another office and this time without the SIM pack instead thanks

the corporate beggars are really annoying honestly,just imagine how someone dressed well and came out to beg like that, and they are aged again really disappointing

Good Evening Guys. Forgive the lengthy write-up

So last weekend someone decided to become the new owner of my phone and so I decided to go retrieve my line today..

This week I got a court affidavit and also the lost sim pack and decided I will go today to retrieve my line from the nearest 9mobile Experience Center.i got there and approached the lady,I was asked to fill a form which I did and afterwards handed the form to her.She said I should bring a valid ID and the SIM pack which I did and after a few minutes she said the name on the SIM reg is not the same as mine,I was surprised cos I bought and registered it myself and I have been using it for 2-3yrs now.She went on to say that the serial number last 6digit is different from the one on the SIM pack,that I should go and bring the lost sim(SIM pack) I said that's the only sim pack I've got..she asked if I've done a SIM swap before,I said No.She said I should go and bring the SIM pack with the same serial number as the one she's seeing on her screen albeit rudely this time..I insisted that's the only sim pack I have and the mobile number is clearly seen there(lost sim mobile number).

She went on and on rudely saying she has nothing else to do for me,the whole thing was confusing for me but her colleague(male) came and politely explained briefly to me,he wasn't coherent enough and the whole thing I noticed was confusing for him also..

I left angrily with thought of how to get my SIM back since that SIM is tied to numerous stuff I work on,then something else happened

I met two elderly ladies as I stormed out with anger as they approached me for alms,that they stranded and I should help complete their Tfair,with anger I wanted to walk away but a Bible verse came to mind "Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares".I came back and gave them some cash and crossed to take a cab,but as I looked back I noticed those women didn't move from that spot and they approached the next person and so on and forth.i shook my head in dismay with how well dressed this elderly ladies her, as it downed on me they were cooperate beggars..

I felt bad not cos of the money but some genuine innocent person one day might get stranded and find no help,then he'll say humanity has lost good and kind people not knowing this unrepentant beggars are the root cause,oh well.

Plz any solution or help to my lost sim as that's more significant and pressing for me will be appreciated thank you.Help move to appropriate section mods thanks. cc lalasticlala