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PoliticsRe: Is Islam Displacing Christianity As A Force For Moral Good? by Modernizer: 10:16am On Oct 12, 2021
Nadaken:
you see how I have exposed you for been a Muslim

A leopard can not hide it's spot Abdul

You can't be "bringing down Christianity" yet claim to be uplifting Jesus.

That's no different from Islam that uplifts Jesus as a "prophet" but want to bring down Christianity of him as a God

That is stupid because Jesus is Christianity.

Just know in your pains and anguish as a Muslim that Christianity remains the biggest religion in the world

Islamabad that you belong to would never get there, it would forever be under the feet of Christianity

End of your thread
Comprehension ...zero.


Your fake, false denominational bullshit claims to be Christianity but can never be.

That is what he is bringing to the ground and I agree.

Useless business centres started by hopeless GO'S falsely claiming to be working for the Lord Jesus.

Your time is up.

Jesus is Lord over all. Since you don't respect Jesus but insist on your satanic, worldly fornication, drunkenness, waywardness, you and your useless fake denominationalism go down, while Jesus is lifted up.


Shameless immorality ridden crew claiming the Jesus of holiness and righteousness. Just imagine
PoliticsRe: Is Islam Displacing Christianity As A Force For Moral Good? by Modernizer: 10:58pm On Oct 11, 2021
Nadaken:
shut up

Christianity has nothing to do with this Abdul

Condemn the molestation of a fellow human being

Can a father kill his son because he gave birth to him
Flogging is not molestation oga...we were all flogged as kids and turned out the better for it
PoliticsRe: Is Islam Displacing Christianity As A Force For Moral Good? by Modernizer: 10:57pm On Oct 11, 2021
StaffofOrayan:
Dumbo, that type of beating doesn't change a child,it only makes the child more careful not to be caught in the future, and likely to become an abuser himself!
The useless man had 8 children pass out from the school, plus the girl making 9, he might have more, it's obvious he spends more time making children than training them,
why not address the issues without insults?
PoliticsRe: Is Islam Displacing Christianity As A Force For Moral Good? by Modernizer: 6:51pm On Oct 11, 2021
I wouldn't say so. Real Christianity is different from the denominational sham we see today.

Real Christianity is THE moral force
FamilyRe: Should I Cut-off My Parents? by Modernizer: 11:09am On Oct 10, 2021
31 is too early to be thinking of marriage.
Take some time to create a stable financial life, the rest will fall into place. Never cut off your parents. Never.
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 4:35am On Sep 29, 2021
ruffkenny:
Does she seek your opinion before she do anything?
Does she respect u and see u like an authority?
Does she obey u and submit to u or she argues all the time and want u to do her bidding even as u dating her now?
Does she come to you whenever she want to make some decisions to put her through or she is always the boss dictating for u and telling u what to do?
Someone said it up there,u need balance in a relationship,let Ur girl look up to u cos naturally women are dominant and manipulative in nature if u give them the chance..The only way she can love u is when she chase your validation and acceptance and not the other way round and truth be told a choleric girl won't do that cos she feels she got her shit together always..
thanks
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 3:29pm On Sep 28, 2021
Cnach:
Ok before u be dey find one cool girl wey u go carry hot temper kill abi? Bros e no work, na this one fit u and na this one u go marry. Who give u the hotness? Who tell u say e no get stop? Na this one u go marry. God forbid any good girl suffer wetin she no know
Funny you
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 3:14pm On Sep 28, 2021
OgaSeun:
Bleep her first with condom...
Then Bleep her next without condom...
Ask her which one sweet her pass...
If she say without condom....
Don't marry her...
E get why.
hmmmmm
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 2:39pm On Sep 28, 2021
OJEEMAH:
Good to know you are not poor. Money may not keep her under completely but knowing you are doing well and can have any woman you desire will tame her feministic attributes. However, should you go ahead with the marriage, encourage her career pursuit as long as it doesn't affect family.
ok
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 1:30pm On Sep 28, 2021
Imustreturn:
marry your type before you use your dirty smelling temper and kill someone's child biko
Thanks for your help.
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 11:23am On Sep 28, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
Stick to one moniker or you may have to face a ban/deactivation.
two different people actually ...believe it or not.
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 11:16am On Sep 28, 2021
newbornmacho:
Even though you say it with some disrespect, you're actually right. He is not necessarily fun to be with. He's a workaholic, highly cerebral, always thinking about solutions to difficult problems, hate parties, rarely hang out, hate company, prefer news for TV relaxation, play very hardball to make money....classic choleric.

Will any other temperament cope?

Is it not a choleric he needs?

Very confused man modernizer my G grin
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 11:14am On Sep 28, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
You've based your life around so much temperament jargon. Who are you, really? Who do you need to be?

Who told you there's anything like a choleric? People are blends. But you seem to revel in your antisocial tendencies as a badge of honor for cholerics. You're probably more of an introvert than a choleric.

Being highly cerebral isn't an excuse to be a douchebag without empathy, or to use it as an excuse to be high on volatile temperament. The rest of the world is also highly cerebral and volatile tempered. How do the rest of us learn to live with a partner peacefully?

You are looking for temperaments, but unless you work on yourself you will still split from anyone you're with.

Everyone can change positively. And if they can't, they need drugs for it. Or behavioral therapy.

Reduce your judgmental introvers


ion. People learn empathy.
thanks
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 11:04am On Sep 28, 2021
cedricksly:
you really need to settle down and you are willing to just do it with anybody regardless the already red flag u are seeing... Maybe u think marriage has recess, or maybe u do not mind a broken or a home filled with abuse..... Save your future kids mental health and get married to who can manage your anger not same person like you....
Kk
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 11:04am On Sep 28, 2021
placeofallure:
@ Modernizer, think twice before you say "I do" it's always better to marry someone who's not exactly like you so you can complement each other. I'm phlegmatic married to a sanguine. We get along well.
But time is against me
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 11:04am On Sep 28, 2021
newbornmacho:
Even though you say it with some disrespect, you're actually right. I'm not necessarily fun to be with. I'm a workaholic, highly cerebral, always thinking about solutions to difficult problems, hate parties, rarely hang out, hate company, prefer news for my TV relaxation, play very hardball to make money....classic choleric.

Will any other temperament cope?

Is it not a choleric I need?

Very confused
You said it better than I could.

Guy reconsider your hatred for women.
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 11:02am On Sep 28, 2021
EmptyGarden:
Sounds like you're in a hurry to rest in peace.
Bro ...they're on my neck
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 11:02am On Sep 28, 2021
bayulll011:
does she has money
Nope. I do.
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 11:02am On Sep 28, 2021
newbornmacho:
Ok
Thanks for holding. I'm done now.
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 8:07am On Sep 28, 2021
SenecaTheYonger:
It depends. If you look physically threatening and act like a dominant male, her temper will only be for the children. But if reverse is the case, she could boss the hell outta your life.

You could try living with her for a few months and also test her temperament.
.....ok. thanks
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 8:04am On Sep 28, 2021
Ayotemide:
In this day and age, that is your only reason for being married?
real justifiable family pressure.
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 7:04am On Sep 28, 2021
Kestolove:
if I tell u d truth now, u won't take it...so let mi keep to myself
Try me
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 7:01am On Sep 28, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Better go look for who will give u peace of mind cos las las thats important. If person tick box but turns out to be a monster tomorrow, it will only end in regrets and "had I known", which ain't worth it.
Yeah
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 7:00am On Sep 28, 2021
ChiefSosa:
YES!

NO!
You should also work on yourself!
I believe the only reason you're complaining is 'cause you've finally met someone that will treat you in the language you understand, and that scares you.
If you (a choleric) decide to marry a Phlegmatic, you might want to take advantage of such person.


With those features you stated, I don't think both of you will last. Unless you want to turn to the new Kpokpogarri and Tonto dikeh!
Ok. Gbege be dat
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 6:59am On Sep 28, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Why exactly do you even need to settle down? Knacks?
family pressure, age don reach tey tey
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 3:50am On Sep 28, 2021
AlmonDeLemon:
Na u talk am o... But sincerely, u should be able to decipher what'll work for u. At least.
Ok. Thanks
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 3:50am On Sep 28, 2021
Validated:
All this grammar because you want to marry someone you do not love. Please, go and look for your wife and stop these nonesense choleric-ish. Even Hitler melts vefore the woman he married insipte of his irrational, brutal and harsh personality. Our own Buhari is known to be a puppep in the "oza room" with Aisha. You, ordinary you are here asking questions.
sorry...no vex. na advice i dey find.
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 3:46am On Sep 28, 2021
Saao:
I know God can do anything but humanly speaking don't attempt it, its suicidal except both of you can manage yourself perfectly well since you know your problem.
Wahala. Everyone seems to be saying the same thing...is it that big a deal?
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 3:43am On Sep 28, 2021
AlmonDeLemon:
Imagine a fight between Chelsea and ManCity... The outcome is not predictable. How about ManCity and Norwich? U know we'll all go for a City win. 2 Captains can't stare a ship. Unless she'll so love u to swallow her ego or you'll so love her to be the errand man.
Na waa oo. So na to ditch the babe sure pass be dat?
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 3:42am On Sep 28, 2021
newbornmacho:
Bro...I'm not interested in anything female for now. You know this .
sorry...no vex embarassed
RomanceRe: Help I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 3:38am On Sep 28, 2021
bmdmix11:
why bother
well, i really need to settle down, and im really not the type that eadily gets into relationships. so im wondering how long it would take me to reach this extent again with a new person
RomanceHelp I'm About To Marry A Choleric Woman by Modernizer(op): 3:25am On Sep 28, 2021
I won't bore you all with a long write up.

I'm ready to settle down, actually I needed to settle down like yesterday. Problem is, I don't make friends easily and hooking up is even tougher. I don't trust easily.

So I'm talking with this girl that checks all my boxes ( quite a rare feat for my high expectations), but for one thing...she is evidently a choleric. I know because I'm one myself.

The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away.

Now I know cholerics are advised to get their opposites say phlegmatic for relationship purposes, but I want to ask the house: can I a hot tempered man cope with a hot tempered woman?
Any people with experience on this here?
Can both of us with low empathy really be compatible?

The adverse statistics coming out of marriage these days scares the sh..t out of me. I don't want any of it.

Should I drop this girl? Or can it work?

Sorry oo...it may sound small but that's my own challenge.

Cc newbornmacho, Ahnie, kestolove

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