durangokid: Tinubu boys have all gone mad, see how they are are discrediting people, that why , if you tell them that tinubu is a disaster they will want to know peoples main choice so to use lies and propaganda propaganda to mar the person, thank God for social media, we all die, For them they are yet to come to terms that tinubu can never never be president of Nigeria, it can never happened, , they can continue to act as mad dogs no wahala
SweetiliciousD post=109350387: Maybe Buhari is more coherent than him ba?
quite honestly even buhari would have done better.
Did you watch the interview?
His composure was off, the emotional immaturity in his voice, unnecessary victim mentality, unguided statements like ....I have money....all of that....
I like orji kalu , looks charismatic and capable from a distance... But his handlers better work on his media outings....because he didn't appear presidential at all
Senate Chief Whip and former Abia State Governor, Orji Uzor Kalu, joins the ranks of presidential hopefuls as he indicates his intention to contest in the 2023 presidential election. He tells us about his bid the top job, his chances of clinching the ticket of the APC; his fixation with Tinubu’s presidential ambition, and the quest for a Nigerian president of Southeast origin.
kettykin: This caught my attention, so a very good anti igbo sentiment is the only qualification to be a front line northern politician. This is getting to a height. I still haven't gotten confirmation on this
sorry i was banned briefly, actually ...thats my view
President buhari loves osinbajo, his deputy, but doesn't respect him.
That much is clear. He amply demonstrated that during their long 2 term relationship. The dismissed dss boss issue comes to mind.
But also, he fears his boss, asiwaju Ahmed Tinubu. Buhari was always aware, he needed Tinubu to succeed, and that made him mad. A general being held to ransome by a civilian leaves a bad taste to hegemons like buhari, and so whatever the real politic permitted, the osinbajo-tinubu power axis was never a darling of the president.
So buharis secret natural choice to replace him has been rotimi amaechi. This option alone would satisfy his desire to prove his own independence of the asiwaju machine, demonstrate a sufficiently anti igbo sentiment necessary to be a front line northern politician, reward a friend who came through for him, and forge a deeper northern relationship with the South South as leverage against an increasingly separatist South West.
Or so I opine
So , I think amaechi is the president's secret choice. But I also think he understands that amaechi can not become president in an open APC contest. Nobody will get the APC ticket but Tinubu or who tinubu gives it to.
So i think buhari will be giving his blessing quietly to politics that will throw up a president of northern extraction.
Honestly I think buhari wouldn't even mind a president atiku abubakar than risk the alternatives
Goodluck was probably presented to him as a substitute for amaechi at a point, but the politics was off.
So I think we could have tinubu under apc vs atiku under pdp, but with the complication of buhari working quietly for atiku.
If that happens, then our president come 2023 is atiku Abubakar
Buhari is simply saying he is not beholden to anyone, has not made any promises, has not cut any deals and no one can hold any leverages over him.
I think this is to tinubus disadvantage.
Tinubu should expect some favours returned, given his investments, in the apc, but the big man seems to be saying ...you all go out there and slug it out.
But in reality what it means is that someone else other than tinubu might get a secret presidential nod to go ahead
Ishilove: This is a new year but that doesn't mean I will take rubbish. So you see nothing wrong in the OP saying he will commit murder if somebody's child sits on him? The last time I checked murder is still a crime.
Direct your hopeless disappointment to yourself for failing to use the brain in your head. You are very very stupid. Go and project your frustrations on someone else because me, I will give you too and afterwards logout and continue enjoying my day.
Mannerless idiot.
Look in the mirror to see the manner less idiot.
If you and your fellow sluts are fond of sitting on young men unsolicited then the op is your match.
Since your empty skull doesn't know unpermitted touch is assault, useless illiterate
Where are you logging off to...useless thing.
You want the rest of the sane world to swallow your corruption....
Are you not ashamed that you're defending, even promoting a culture that uses sultry names for mere drink combinations? The joke is actually on you and all these uncouth human beings here who have only demonstrated how loose you're with words. ....women that would raise children tomorrow calling such disgusting names, even trying to shame a young man genuinely scandalised at the possibility of this kind of nonsense existing in our public spaces.
I' wish I could say I'm dissapointed with how you and these other nasty ladies are responding to this but I'm not.
Piptocoin: [color=indigo]In other words, does mutual consent give the licence to commit a crime? I think not. There is now a paradigm shift in what constitutes rape and this has a domino effect on other aspects of relations between the genders. Women are as much empowered as they are equally on the receiving end. Just imagine, most women rely on their feminine charm which include seduction and touching to get favours from men. How will they cope with the VAPP law?[/color]
were saying the same thing.
my aim is to prevent an unfair weaponization of this law against me. period.
if everyone could be trusted to be fair, there would be no need for this.
butbseeing how desperate gold diggers have ruined lives in the past....id say no need to take chances
Piptocoin: [color=indigo]The law is an ass. However, the law does not only protect women as some speculate but the would-be victim of the rapist whether the rapist is a man or woman, husband or wife.
Did anybody read where it is said that the term 'rape' has been expanded to mean inappropriate touch by any gender? This is not limited to the marital institution. It is a general crime. This I approve of wholeheartedly. The extent of dehumanisation to which the female gender have been subjected by men on this basis is grossly despicable. This will teach some manners.
Again, women are their own worst enemy. Women, predictably, will abuse this opportunity which has amplified their scope to falsely accuse men, and as such the provisions of this law should be amended to include false accusations attracting equal penalty as the rapist who is found guilty of rape.[/color]
Ok.
What do you think about my idea of a Prenuptial agreement in which a woman agrees that bringing herself to my bed effectively gives me consent to touch her.
We can't just allow women to have this poorly worded law tgat empowers them to throw accusations anyhow?
If she signs that, then she knows that if she doesn't want touching, she should stay away from my bed
Mercychen: Prenuptial agreement? Without any legal backing? Its still going to be the same thing because if a spouce decides to report any "inappropriate" touch, the court will still come in since they do handle cases of spouses who did not even get married in the registry. So, I don't think it will work (@prenuptial agreement) or hold much especially in this country where priorities are highly misplaced. Total waste of time.
I just believe love and understanding should rule between couples so we don't get to wash our dirty linen in public.
As a woman, the worst I'll do if I feel hubby is touching me "inappropriately" is take off until he's gotten a hold of himself.
Funnily enough, they didn't tell us or list the types of touch that are deemed innapropriate. Hian! I tire for this country o.
So far, the only thing I can term innapropriate is when he tries to touch you with dirty hands in sensitive areas. which I believe you can tell him or her to do well to wash and sanitize their hands.... abeg this thing the govt is trying to bring up is just so personal, childish and lame.
A Prenuptial agreement is a valid contract in law. It is a good evidence to tender to counter any claims of inappropriate touch.
Women will eventually be the losers here, because love will take the back seat going forward.
No need to be too emotional, let her sign certain documents before I start spending on her and her family.
advanceDNA: You are crazy man.... laff don kill me here
truth be told , this thing when it really starts playing out in real life will have the potential to liquidate men, if they were not prepared to fight back.
love goes sour very easily, and cannot be used to anticipate marriage longevity.
the second thing is...church marriage do they take their cases to court?
advanceDNA: Lol... u shouldn’t take this too far..but I understand shaa...
Signed agreements can work...that’s allowed in law ...It will undoubtedly help eliminate some vagueness and ambiguity....
CCTV can also be added, to prove she came to your bed.. lol..,
My dear...I will add everything including cctv, hidden sound recorder, signed agreement, etc. To sit down and allow someone I invited into my own life to ruin me is not an option at all.