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MrMacinterchi1:
besides, Moreign001,I love the wheel chart on your dp. What's it called? would love to know.

It's use to input temperament on movies.

Yungmil:
Lewy cheated

You are a bad person if only u saw their stats and still post this..

Financialslot1:
Source

Now listen, one of the ways to get rich, I mean very rich is by taking loans. Not this kind of Soko loan, fair money and others...

When you have a business idea, and you weight the possibility of it striving real good, take a good loan and invest on it.
But also note, this is one of the ways you can be indebted for life!

OJEEMAH:
https://dailypost.ng/2021/11/28/ballon-dor-2021-patrice-evra-confirms-winner-of-award-this-year/

Messi Deserve The Award Ahead Of Lewy.

2020 was for Lewy but missed it due to the pandemic. (And that shouldn't bring the compensation thing because it was no body's fault. Maybe if he's been compensate, then 2022 will be made to compensate the 2021 deserve winner, and so on).

It's an individual award; Lewy is a natural striker and he did just that in scoring goals. People gave him those assist. So if you are giving Lewy for scoring just goals then midfielders, defenders, and Gk will never win it.
Messi is not a striker, both he got most goal in Laliga and Copa America. He also got most assist in both competition.
He has the most Chance Created, most free kicks scored, and even most Man of the Match in Laliga and Copa America.

What else do you want?

It's only sentiment and the C. Ronaldo fan shit that will make any one to say Lewy deserve this ahead of Messi.
So tomorrow, if Mbappe, Haaland or Benzema scores 80 goals he should be awarded, how about the midfielder who racked up massive assist? How about that defender and Gk keeping those clean sheets?

Barca was awful last season, but Messi still stood out!
Tell me what Lewy did if it's not just the goals, and if you mention trophy, that's collective.

It's funny when people call Jorgi, was he more outstanding than Kante, Mendy, Rudiga,and even Timo in their journey in winning the Cl?
In Italy, was he more outstanding in the competition than Mbappe? Even in Italy team the Gk Donna did better than Jorgi in the tournament.
In as much as Jorgi was in those team that won trophies, he was not an effective player!

In summary without being sentimental;
Messi was highest goal scorer in Laliga and Copa America.
Messi got the most Assist in Laliga And Copa America.
Messi Created Most chances in Laliga And Copa America.
Messi got most Man Of The Match in Laliga and Copa America.
Messi Scored most free kicks in Laliga.
Messi Was the Best Player in Laliga And Copa America.

So tell me, why does Lewy deserve it if only you're not being Bias because of your GOAT, so that the gap won't 7 to 5.
You just heard Lewy score goals and you're like wowww... In Bundesliga wey goals dey pour like Water, Haaland scoring too, Sancho was scoring too until he came to Man United.

Dagger111:
*NOW READ THIS*....

Snakes can't live inside soakaway. The gas alone in your soakaway will kill them. Just incase you don't know, the gas inside your soakaway can generate electricity.

Again I ask, does the Snake live inside your poo Or they float ontop of poo?

Do you know your bathing soap water also goes into that soakaway, both the waste water from your kitchen? Do you know soaps carry chemicals that are harmful?

Again an average building has over 6 Chambers, think of it, for a snake to live inside soakaway and still find it way to a w.c, it means it must past many Chambers,so tell me. How possible is that?

Also it is completely madness living a storey building yet you are afraid that Snake will crawl out from your W.C, how?
it can never happen, thats because the 4inch pipe that carry your poo from the w.c to the soakaway has a smooth surface, Snake can not comfortable crawl on it. It not possible.

Now is it possible for Snake to crawl out from your W.C? yes it is. But that can only happen if you stay in a bungalow, ground floor and you have a breakage in the service chamber that has direct link to your w.c, I mean direct link to the toilet.

So please those of you that are busy
Flushing fuel and salt inside ur soakaway, sorry you are just wasting your money.

So hear it now, Snake can only come out from your W.C if you have a broken Chamber that is directly linked to you toilet.

Snakes don't live inside your soakaway because snakes too need oxygen.
Thanks!!!

Source: copied

That woman that was bitten by a snake in the WC is not ordinary. I repeat, its spiritual.

linconby:
You are wicked , can someone do that to you and be happy. You want to sand into someone happiness. God will not allow , you this witch

What did she do you? Are high on something or high on mpuru miri?

NovesaTillie:
I moved to this city because of my new job and my neighbors have been very homely and helpful to me especially the ones next flat,a young man and his wife with a kid . They have been very kind to me, sometimes when I get home late from work his wife calls me to join them for dinner and hangouts.

My issue now is I am beginning to grow fond of the man because of how gentlemanly he treats his wife and how dotting he is of their son. He ticks all the qualities that I dream of and sometimes I just feel like inviting him over to my place when his wife is out to tempt him a little.

What can I do to stop this feeling?
I don't want someone else man or to destroy a cute family.

Please don't insult me because I am in a relationship though it's a young relationship and I cherish my man I just see myself falling for this neighbor.

Try and make yourself unavailable to them. When you're home, don't let them know.
It's normal because we're all humans, we have feelings and emotions running in us, so when someone is nice, it's cool we like them.
But here, he's married..
Respect the wife because from your story, he likes you, do the right thing that your mind is telling u.
Many people here will start abusing and insulting u, but believe me, they are exactly like the insults they render.

Davash222:
I can't still fathom why a sane guy should send 200K to a Nigerian girl for doing nothing.

I support the girl's actions. Whatever it takes to restore sanity to these SIMPle guys is totally acceptable.


The future is femail.

This mentality is Silly. The guy did no wrong, and if giving a woman money in other to assist her makes him a simp then ur
perception is a sickness to u. You have a girlfriend, and she asked you to assist her, and u can afford to, why won't u assist her? Sending 2m instead of 200k shows he has the money to assist. How is that bad? The girl is evil, simple as that. Not you saying the guy is simp for choosing to assist. Na una wey dey shout simp simp mumu pass self.

SiggyNG:
Update from

A video showing some young men being harassed by the men of the Special Anti Robbery Squad (SARS) in Ugbiyoko, Benin city, Egor local government area of Edo state has surfaced online.

The SARS officials were said to have "obtained" the boy of his phone and range rover car and drove it off to an unknown destination.

The video shows the boy and his friends agitating against the officials as they ask why they took off his possessions with no reason at all as nothing incriminating was found on him.

The victim as being identified to be a student of the University of Benin.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SfLH6LoSF3w

https:///sars-officials-harass-uniben-students-for-driving-range-rover-video/

SARS still dey?

TuFab:
I tell you, I noticed the age too and its so sad they're just graduating when they should have been done with school around 6 to 8 years ago.
Nigeria is a curse which affects every aspect of its citizens lives.
I wish I could advise the girl to try and add some value to herself b4 jumping into that marriage, else, in a few years she may come back to that single state she's running from but this time with baby(s) and more misery.
@ op, just move on and look for another girl, because that girl can't listen to even jesus himself, if she doesn't rush in and out of that marriage, she won't understand that life is more than being married, self empowerment is key.
Na body go tell am.

Brooooo, it's really sad no cap. I wrote jamb 3times, I was supposed to graduate last year, but pandemic took over. It even more sad that some persons at that age are still writing Jamb. So poor...

Rosement:
If you tell her you are ready to marry her now, she might break up her relationship with the other guy. If you are not ready to marry her now, you can just do introduction with her so that her mind can be at rest and so that her family will not pressure her.

I understand that what she did is hurting you so deeply but I cannot blame the lady, she is twenty-six years, she did not want to take too much risk, it is not like the decision she made is easy for her but she must have taking that decision because she felt she is doing the right thing. It is today will know, we don't know tomorrow, we cannot predict the future, if anything happens tomorrow that eventually obstruct you guys marriage, she has more to lose than you.

She loves you, she is also hurt by this decision but she did what she thinks is right. She made this decision to secure her future. Some people are just judging and blaming her but decisions are not easy to make, I am not saying the person in question made the right decision but we all reason differently so we cannot make the same decisions. This might just be her own weakness so try not to judge her. Sorry about your situation but you can still try to amend things if you want to.

One of the best comments I've seen here. I really appreciate you. Thanks a lot. At times we make decisions not because it's right, but at times because it's good at moment.

[quote author=TMKsouth post=107841897]It was literally money up for grabs when a Cash-in-Transit (CIT) truck in Rustenburg, South Africa, called locals into urgent action. The video sees several bystanders on the crime scene getting cash from the bombed van on Sunday.

Leading crime reporter Yusuf Abramjee announced the armed robbery cash heist in the North-West Province with the headline, “CIT Robbery Rustenburg NW. Cash van bombed".

The CIT truck is seen blown up nearly into two. A maroon old-school Mercedes Benz is seen crashed into the front of the cash van before the bombing. Even with the shock of the chaos it is impossible to miss the scores of locals who helped themselves to the cash that was left all over the shattered truck and road.

Some of the locals seen in the footage include a figure wearing a G4S security uniform – presumably waiting for emergency support – leaving the people to have it with the flying cash money, some visibly on fire.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=885ISs26VMw

‘I was 200M from the action'

One of the comments on the post came from @neo_tebogo who reveals he has was awfully close to the CIT truck heist action in Rustenburg.

“I was literally 200m from where it happened. I have to thank that guy who sells rabbits at the entrance of Greystone, he stopped me and showed me what was happening in front.

“I may have been shot".

https://www.news24.com/news24/SouthAfrica/News/pics-cit-heist-in-north-west-police-hunting-group-who-bombed-robbed-cash-van-20211121

Video https://t.co/iVhTCUD1LR pic.twitter.com/9upRDd1vgO

— Yusuf Abramjee (@Abramjee) November 21, 2021

this was Nigeria, they police/Army would have shot about 10 civilians death trying to stop people from picking the money. I won't try picking such money in Nigeria sef make fly bullets as it is called no reach me o

Some women are the most confused and complicated beings.
I knew a guy, he told her date as of then that he wants to get married. And she said she's not ready. She was 24yrs of age.
This guy left her, got married to another girl. Right now she doesn't allow the guy to be, she's all over him, and the wife got to know about it which is causing a very big issue in their home.

Myer:
Place yourself in her shoes.
What would you do?
If you were the one who met a lady that checked all the boxes you need in a wife. Would you stay or leave?

Vice versa, if as a man that I am, I'm ready to marry, I met a new girl that checked a the boxes and left my date for her, hope that's cool too?

fineboynl:
Op is she Igbo? That her anty bring a rich man for her.

She's Igbo ooo

ikenna44:
Go and make money... Forget all these stories you're telling!

Those who have money doesn't experience broken homes, or they don't get their heart broken?

lugrae22:
oga nobody presured her stop talkin nonsense,dat girl neva planed building her life,una just graduate,she done find man already,wats the rush,her cries is it changing the fact,she is hurtin u,bro that girl knows her mind,all her calls na scam...and u talk like a boy,she asured u she wont do anytin til everytin is done and u trust her...how has that got to do wit that she is marrying a man she barely knws after being wit u 4 4 years,if na me i go change am 4 am,u be simp,stupid supporter

If you said so... It's her decision. I'm already moving, but we're friends and not enemies.

Timekeeper:
If u get sense, avoid the lady and move on...


But if u don't av sense, keep picking and call to discuss what is not...


I am trying to imagine how the husband will fvck her while u r still thinking abt her

So many disappointment for life, just move onnn

I'm blessed bro, once I pray about something, I accept the outcome with full chest. I'm really good!! Na her blessings, I wish her more.

I sincerely appreciate all of your comments, and words of encouragement, the criticism too helps a lot
.
Let me reassure you guys that I'm fine, relaxed and mild. I feel bad for myself a bit because I lost a wonderful woman, but I'm sincerely gleeful for her. I won't cut her off communications, I will stand by her, support whenever. One thing I understood about love is this. If you genuinely love someone, their happiness should be your first preeminence. Allow them to do what ever makes them happy, and still love them regardless.

Yes we spoke lengthy tonight, and I understood exactly how she feels, I understood deeply how our parents and guidance keeps pressuring their children, pupils and siblings against their wish, not just in marriage, but even in careers and others. And also how parents are forcing children into marriage in other to help in assisting the family burden. How is this right?

Life is love, so I have decided that I'm never going to cut her off, or act as if she never exist, she deserves better. But I will never get involved with her again. I'm mentally strong, and I built it on love. Right now i'm so concerned about her happiness, not her leaving me. I just want her to be happy and fine, that's all. We should never criticize people when they make decisions, maybe we would have made worst decisions in that same position.

Yes, I had intention of marrying her, she knew. She is not a cheat, she's a very good girl and I respect her. The main reason why I brought up this post was because lots of girls are after marriage, some are forced into it without having nothing to offer. I personally asked what's her plans after school, and she said she will open a shop (Food items) until after her Masters programs. I was ready and willing to support her.

I told her to hold on until we're done with our Nysc which should be next year by God's grace.

And those asking why I didn't marry or engage her... Even if I had billions in my account, I still wouldn't have married until I'm done with my Nysc. You don't rush it, we were students for 4years and that's our love duration, we needed at least some time outside school to see how ideal we were.

And to some persons saying she doesn't have time... I pleaded for just one more year, for our Nysc..
Don't encourage people to rush into marriage because of age, she just met this guy, they don't know and haven't tolerate themselves. This is one of the major reasons why marriage keep failing because it can lead to trust issues, violence and others. I understood her very well, she's a very jealous individual, and I can tell you that the new guy doesn't know this, now how about if he doesn't want a woman who is loaded with jealousy? But it's fine, many read to criticize, not to understand and learn.

My advice to every girl out there, try and add value to yourself, this won't just make your husband respect you, it will also stop your parents and guidance from going against your preferred wish.

jimcaddy:
It could be parental pressure. Besides she is 26. Ripe age for marriage. But my problem is why didn't she discuss the issue with you to gauge your own opinion on when you would be ready to marry her. She shouldn't have made that decision hastily. You don't rush into marriage hastily oh.. It could also be because of money.. Dude is richer than her bf. You know how money changes people.

Exactly bro.

multiple4u:
Op, She is above 25. You collect free stuff for 4 years. You didn't pay the bride price. You never told her you will marry her.
You wanted another 4 years of free sex. Then you will jump to a young girl. What is wrong with you? Leave the girl alone. She knows you were never going to marry her.

You can argue you are in school. So you could not have married her. Why didn't you engage her? Go see her parents. Etc. Leave the girl alone. You are just jealous you are losing a free sex.

And I told her to wait after our Nysc? Free sex? I'm too bleesed to worry about that.

Prechgold1180:
Chairman she is 26
Time is running out for her
U won’t think in that direction because he nur Dey affect you

4 years from now she go Dey 30

You ought to have planned life before graduation if you really loved her

U nur give her light day u wan marry her soon
Or u expect her to wait for u till forever

Person daughter give u 4 good years of her life
U Dey here Dey cap nonsense

I typed exactly what happened, if I "cap nonsense", then it means what happened is nonsense. But you have poor perfection, I typed exactly what happened, it's left for you to say she took a good move. I told her after our Nysc next year, was that too much to ask? Even though I had billions I still wouldn't get married until I'm done with my Nysc. And you are here talking about 4yr

Impregnablefolk:
Oga Moreign001, God just did a huge miracle 4u by saving u 4m d hands or rather fangs of Delilah but u may not understand d magnitude of d miracle yet until God unveils ur spiritual eyes. Several yrs down d line or mayb a decade 4m now u'll luk back n b grateful 2 God.
PS: Been dia, done dat! I'm speaking 4m empirical experience not scientific or anecdotal experience. If u know, u know! Move on, no b God leave u!

No cap, I believe you bro.

EgunMogaji2:
It’s not your thing. You were just the current keeper.

I really don’t know why some men think they can marry their age mate. That your girl was more advanced than you in life as a lady and she has natural guttural requirements.

Let me guess, the new love of her life is 5 to 7 years her senior?

Cut of all communications.

Yes, you're very right

deltateam:
It seems you never reassured her of your plans for her if at all you had any for yourself.

Women are like flower, she has to move on.

I did, I told her to hold on till after our Nysc next year.

Topic: A SWIFT CONVERSATION BETWEEN I AND THE DEVIL.

Devil: You are not righteous?

Me: You are trying to accuse me? Well, I'm not astound, you are the accuser of the brethren,
�Revelation 12:10.

Devil: But you just sinned, so you are a sinner.

Me: No, I'm not! My sins have been paid on the cross by God through his lovely son Jesus Christ.

Devil: So you now have the license to sin?

Me: No, sin has no dominion over me, for I am under Christ (Grace).
�Romans 6:14

Devil: (So desperate) But you just sinned.. And you are a sinner, a rotten sinner.

Me: I believe in Lord Jesus every seconds of my life, and each time I do, there's a remission of my sins.
�Acts 10:43

Devil: But your sins are too countless and bulky.

Me: No, it doesn't matter.
Though my sins be as Scarlet, they have been made white as snow.
�Isaiah 1:18

Devil: But you are not righteous.

Me: I am the righteousness of God in Christ.

Devil: How can you say you are the righteousness of God in Christ, haven't done no right thing?

Me: Well if you will answer me, how did Jesus become Sin haven't done no sin?

Devil; Speechless...

Me: By the same token Jesus became sin apart from his performance that I may be made righteous apart from my performance.
Its a DIVINE EXCHANGE....

Devil: How do you mean? Sin and Righteousness cannot exchange.

Me: �2 Corinthians 5:21 For he hath made him to be sin for us, who knew no sin; that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.

Devil:��

Now Listen beautiful people of God...

He is Holy, but he has a Holiness that is approachable. Sinners would touch him, and not defiled him, instead he changed them.
He didn't get what they got, but they got what he is.
Grace is Greater than Sin.

The pleasure of the giver is for you to receive it, and enjoy it.
God wants you to stand tall and say; "I AM THE RIGHTEOUSNESS OF GOD IN CHRIST", Amen.
Confess it always, not minding what it is, confess it while actively going through that addiction.
(The Devil will always fill your thoughts with negativity), don't fall for it, keep saying it, speak it out!

Let me share a testimony.

A friend tried ending an addiction of masturbation for over twelve (12) years, but he couldn't. He went for counselling, did prayers and others but to no avail. He may stop at some point, few months later he's masturbating again.

After reading this in the Bible, "I am the righteousness of God in Christ", he memorized it.

He repeatedly says it always, even while masturbating he says it.
Do you know what happened?
The spirit gradually fades away, and now he is free. Three (3) years of no masturbation.

Great thing happen when you say that. All the Demons in Hell don't want you to confess that. They want you to confess, I am a rotten sinner, I am an adulterer, I am this, I am that, except I am the righteousness of God in Christ.

Keep saying it, speak it out, don't stop!

God Bless You.

Sonnobax15:

A similar thing had once happened to a very close friend of mine....Up till this very minute,my guy is still trying to build himself up since that heartbreak....... Honestly,this kind thing fit plunge guyman into a state of relegation abi na depression,but you've got to stay on your feet man....

Op, like seriously,you suppose respect that your nigha wey ginger you up with those motivational words, because that's the simplest truth and fact I've heard in a jiffy.....

Moreover,I suggest you should cut all ties with her via communication...I don't support the idea of those advising you to communicate with her through sms only... Please don't, for the sake of your sanity..........Ghost her totally,as if she doesn't exist.....Move on with your life bro...

Las las,wish her well just like you've already done.......Make e better for her......

Thanks bro... I really appreciate..

slickycee:
When you friend said support her, what does he mean ?
OP God has already showed you since that she was going to leave you, so why are trying to still be around her


Reduce communication to it's minimum
and Focus on yourself bro.
You're the one that clearly needs support, her husband would love and bleep her in ways you can't imagine
Stop worrying bout her, she would be fine. Na guilty conscience dey worry am.

And yes you're correct, marriage and child birthing Is a womans greatest achievement.

Every other thing na wash

Lol, thanks bro. But you just hit my wound! Bleep her, Chai.. My thing, lol.

NickiSlay:
"Why are women in a rush to marry? They don't even add value to themselves, I'm now 80% in agreement that marriage is one of the greatest achievement for a woman, maybe in Nigeria"

It's stupid and ignorant to generalise based on what one person did to you.

If I'm to post it again, I will still generalized it. And not just because of mine, but because it has been happening, and it still happening. So the stupid and ignorant stays. Thank you.

felixzo1:
most ladies marry who is available when they want to marry. a man can get married even at 40 to a 20year old girl. women do not have that previlage ,their biological clock is not their friend. i will never advice any woman to wait for man. more 70 percent of campus relationship do not lead to marriage. finance is usually the major factor. I have a friend who dated a girl since his first year in school . They were always together, did everything together , they were even living together, their parents were even aware of their relationship. They behaved as if they cannot live apart. But after service year the story changed, the lady was willing to marry the guy but the guy was not ready due to finance. The parents of the girl were even willing to sponsor the wedding but the guy refused that he wanted to stand on his feet first. 6 months later the girl got married to someone else, went on to have 3 kids the ex boyfriend was still single. After 9 years the guy got married to a 20 year old girl. The ex girlfriend has grown up kids

Wowww

IdreamOfUnicorn:
After four years of being with her you don't have intention to marry her and you expected her to stay put? You want to turn her to lord of the rings

I for marry her while in school abi?

luvmijeje:
See talk! If you are not married you are called names! We are shamed by families and by friends into marriage. We are been told if you don't settled down at 20's forget it at 30's. Society called women in their 30's different names. I understand why she couldn't wait

It takes a very very strong women not to bend to pressure.

The single lives they are all afraid of is what they later end up with in their 30's and 40's but this time with kids. Is that not foolishness.

Yes,you're right. But I told her to wait just next year. That's too much?