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Nigerian youths and quick to comment attitude. Where is the source to this story?

HOPE WHO YOU ARE DATING IS ALSO DATING YOU?
The worst thing about being in a relationship, is when the relationship not being reciprocated, or the relationship being one sided without you knowing. Sometimes too the signs are usually there but you decide to ignore them. Many are in a relationship where they are the only one loving themselves without knowing. Any relationship of this nature, leaves either of the people in tears in no sooner than later time, wasted years, emotions etc.

A lady was in a relationship with a guy who was in another state of the country. They had met in a wedding of one her friends, got talking and began to date. They were really in love according to the lady. They go out to different places, have fun and enjoy themselves to the fullest. Based on the fact that both of them stay in different parts of the country, coupled with work and school, they usually see monthly, holidays or festive periods. This did not create any hindrance to their relationship.
The relationship went on for 3 years and the lady was expectant of engagement and marriage. The relationship survived on mostly the guy's financial muscles which made the lady fall madly in love with the guy. The lady was still a student in the University so the guy took care of her bills from house rent, food, clothing and even extended to her friends and family.

Then on that faithful day, her birthday. It's 8 am already and no call or text from him. She waited more time expecting some kind of surprise from him. At exactly 12 noon, she called, "Sweetheart, it's my birthday and you have not even called nor texted what happened"? He replied. Sorry babe I left for work as early as 5am and have been busy since then. I just managed to pick your call now." Hmmm" she sighed. "anyway, what's up, how is day going to look like"? You have refused to say anything about it since". "Babe I have a lot to do here I won't be back till midnight and it would be difficult to be with you today. I'm sorry but not to worry, I will transfer you some money, just take yourself out, enjoy yourself with friends we will see by month end. Grudgingly, she hung up. In the evening, she became more lonely and bored that she couldn't bear it anymore that she borded the next vehicle to go see him, since she know where the guy keeps the keys to his house. She had wanted it to be a surprise to him when he eventually returns from work later in the midnight, so she didn't inform the guy of her coming. On her way, she bought things, got to the house, prepared a delicious soup, ate, watched movies till she slept off.

Later that night, around 2 am the supposed boyfriend came back home with a girl. They went straight to the bedroom, made out there and slept off. An hour 30 minutes later, the girlfriend who has been wondering why the guy is still not back up till that time decided to go have proper sleep in the bedroom. She switched on the light and was totally shocked when she saw her supposed boyfriend lying naked next to another woman. "Jesus!! she shouted. The noise woke them up. The guy started shouting at her. Why did you come without telling me? Did I ask you to come? The other lady just grabbed a wrapper, covered herself and went back to sleep. It was then that it dawned on her that she was just a side chick.
But the signs were there. The guy rarely call her, unless he wants to spend time with her, giving such excuses like "I don't like too much calls. They rarely go out together, unless bars and clubs. But since he sends her money anytime she ask and take care of her needs and bills, to her and many Nigerian women, they man so much love them.

There is the case of a guy who organized a birthday party for his supposed girlfriend, everything down to spices used to prepare the food was provided by the said rich guy. During the birthday celebration, The MC asked the celebrant to call on stage her boyfriend. She called out a different guy entirely. The number of bottles that broke that night and subsequent fights that ensued afterwards, is something I wouldn't want to discuss here. But the bottom line is, the guy was actually dating himself.

Then, the one of a radio programme where a caller will ask the radio presenters to call their lovers and give them gifts. The presenters will call the said lovers and inform them of their gift but they will have to say the name of their lover. In this particular case, the girl named Cynthia had asked the presenters to give her lover a gift. They put a call to the boyfriend, asked him to name the particular girlfriend. Surprisingly, the guy guessed 5 names without mentioning Cynthia. I could imagine how she must have felt that day, because the presenters used her as a point of discussion for the rest of the programme.

Life is full of shits and complications friends, so be sure who you are dating is also dating you. Everyone should endeavour to know who they are dating, test the relationship, be sure you are also loved the way u love your partner. Be very sure my brothers and sisters.

Princewill Chimereze.
Writer, Public affairs analyst and social commentator.

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princemillla:
As if you don't know how Nigeria system works.
We bribe our way thru at any level. I wouldn't doubt this certificate issue..

No. By our Constitution, Tanko was qualified to be CJN let's stop the madness.

Tanko just came out of the Blues and became CJN? didn't he pass through the ranks? Who appointed him a judge at the Supreme Court? Was it Buhari? Why didn't those who made him first lawyer, and appointed him judge reject him due to his inefficiency in qualifications.
If these past leaders and those saddled with appointment saw nothing wrong with his qualifications, why the cry now?
May emotional politics not allow us to be foolish in life.
MORNDEW

And some people without sense will be hailing Ffk for his constant stupidity.

The post by Francis Van Lare, proposing a holiday with any married woman that her marriage is 10 years and below as well as cash price to the husband of the lady that would be chosen for it. The proposal was greeted with backlash from Nigerians who felfe married women that  accepted the proposal and was posting their pictures, had no respect for themselves, husband and families.

But as I was going through the comment, I saw a comment from a young girl that touched me greatly. The young lady was single and used the opportunity to pray and wish her future hubby well, that she will not trade him for any ransome.

This kind of ladies should be treasured. At a time of moral decadence as now witness, this lady deserve awards. A society where people care about their marital future, many men should been asking her hand in marriage, she should have been recognized by religious organizations, and other establishments in pursuit of morals and lasting relationship as a symbol to promote healthy marriage, moral and a better society.
I wish I have the financial muscle, I would have honored you Miss Ngozi Nwobu.   You have shown that even at a time when many ladies are becoming shameless due to money and material things, that there are still women who believes in the future and contentment in marriage. God will grant your heart desires.
As a show of respect, and the little I and some of my friends to use your picture on Facebook as our Display  Pix.  
We respect you.

Princewill Chimereze.
Writer, Public affairs Analyst and Social Commentator.
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slimfit1:
When hausa Fulani rules sanity disappear. Just my observation. They have been ruling for long nothing good to show for it.

Must some of you go with the tribal line? Of what use is ur education then if you had one.

Why can't we act with sanity in this country? Must we all behave like motor park touts? I get really pained when I see what is not suppose to still be happening in our growing democracy, happening at this time.

First one guy loses election. By virtue of that, you are an opposition. Few months after losing an election that you never came third or fourth, you started shouting "Revolution". What do you expect? Must you heat up the polity? Why not make your reservations about a government known through proper channels as a learned man and within ambient of peaceful agitation?

Now you are arrested (which was inevitable) because no where in the world that you will want to overthrow a democratically elected government and they fold their arms, watching you carry out the threat.

Now, you are arrested and detained. If we must be sincere, in our volatile democracy and political terrain, you are a threat to national peace and stability and detaining you for a while might be needed. (forget the noise by some people, only a very few will tolerate someone going against their government).

Courts ordered for his release. He wasn't released. An action that should not have been taken by the security agents, but you never can tell their reasons and it's implications for national security, that made them take such action. (If you are close to a government or have held leadership position, you will understand there are some cases that make governments behave the way they do).

Finally he was released. Then rerarrested 24 hours later. I believe the security agents have their reasons, but must he be rerarrested with this speed? Why can't we do the right thing? Why can't we just go about our lives in peace? Why can't the politicians just play by the rules? Why can't the citizens stand up against erring politicians no matter their political divide? Why can't the people understand that they suffer most in all these?

Why? Why? Why?

Princewill Chimereze.

Writer, Public affairs Analyst and Social Commentator.
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So what's stopping him from turning a new leaf when he knows he is a bad influence

A woman will waste her time watching a programme without objective in neglect of her relationship. What manner of stupidity is that? From the women supporting her, you will know our generation are lacking in sensible women for marriage.

Evercurious:
Where's El Rufai? Not even a single word from these northerners?

Has there been a word from Wike? Or Ihedioha? Must some of you disgrace yourselves?

Ipob should just know their boundary. Madness should be controlled.

Nigeria will be participating in the 2019 African Cup of Nations (Afcon) after failing to do so on two occasions since they last won it. Coach Genort Rohr has chosen 23 man list to do the job.

FULL LIST:

Goalkeepers:
Francis Uzoho (Anorthosis Famagusta, Cyprus)
Ikechukwu Ezenwa (Katsina United)
Daniel Akpeyi (Kaizer Chiefs, South Africa)


Defenders:
Olaoluwa Aina (Torino FC, Italy);
Abdullahi Shehu (Bursaspor FC, Turkey)
Chidozie Awaziem (Caykur Rizespor, Turkey)
William Ekong (Udinese FC, Italy)
Leon Balogun (Brighton & Hove Albion, England)
Kenneth Omeruo (CD Leganes, Spain)
Jamilu Collins (SC Padeborn 07, Germany)


Midfielders:
Mikel John Obi (Middlesbrough FC, England)
Wilfred Ndidi (Leicester City, England)
Oghenekaro Etebo (Stoke City FC, England)
John Ogu (Hapoel Be’er Sheva, Israel)

Forwards:
Ahmed Musa (Al Nassar FC, Saudi Arabia)
Victor Osimhen (Royal Charleroi SC, Belgium)
Moses Simon (Levante FC, Spain)
Henry Onyekuru (Galatasaray SK, Turkey)
Odion Ighalo (Shanghai Shenhua, China)
Alexander Iwobi (Arsenal FC, England)
Samuel Kalu (Girondins Bordeaux, France)
Paul Onuachu (FC Midtjyland, Denmark)
Samuel Chukwueze (Villarreal FC, Spain)

Princewill Chimereze
Writer, Public Affairs analyst and social commentator


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I have always said it, let the South south forge their own alliance with Yorubas and Hausas directly. Leave these South East losers.

Bro what's this hustle. Am interested

No time wey Nigerian youths no dey behave senseless. What concerns snipper and quest for suicide. It's just like saying we should ban sale of rope cos it was and still being used for suicide.

One wonders where these youths keep their brain before coming online to demand for anything that comes into their head whether sane or insane. Is sniper meant for suicide? Is it illegal? So why should it be banned? I guess when you ban sniper, people won't drink acid, or other hard substance to take their own life.

One will expect these "olodo Nigerian youths to call for end to hardship, unemployment, unnecessary societal pressure, fake news, fake life, cultism and saying no to suicide instead saying they should ban a product that is meant for insects and rodents.

Skendija toto

SarkinYarki:
My grand father owned rice mill and farm and was exposed locally and internationally , today I also own two companies that are trying and would have been bigger if not for Buhari ...I called him Mumu because he doesn't know that Fulanis cannot love anyone no matter what you do for them

Including Atiku?

Where did he say he should have listened to Nnamdi Kanu? Must some of you disgrace your families online?

Are we going to witness such thus year ?

The UEFA champions league has always been played between two clubs of different nationalities until 1999-2000 edition when Real Madrid met Valencia in final. That final heralded different finals between clubs of same nationalities. Enlightennigeria..com takes a look at champions League finals between clubs of same nationalities.

Finals between clubs of same nationalities have been recorded six times. Spain has the most of such finals just like highest number of Champions League trophies and highest number of trophies by a single team (Real Madrid). The other nations that has witnessed finals between clubs of their nationalities include Italy, Germany and England in that sequence. But these nations have only witnessed such once.

List of Champions League finals involving clubs of same nationalities:

1999 - 2000  Real Madrid vs Valencia
2002 - 2003  Milan vs Juventus
2007 - 2008  Manchester United vs Chelsea
2012 - 2013  Bayern Munich vs Dortmund
2013 - 2014  Real Madrid vs Athletico Madrid
2015 -  2016 Real Madrid vs Athletico Madrid

Whether this 2018/2019 season will produce finals of clubs of same nationalities is unknown, but there's such likelihood because two clubs of same nationalities (Liverpool and Tottenham) are in the semi finals and they are not facing each other.
We unanimously don't fancy an all English finals, but if it happens, we will enjoy the game.

Princewill Chimereze
@P_Chimereze
Writer, Public affairs analyst and social commentator.

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This one too na youth

In parliaments all over the world, the majority party share positions among themselves? Did the igbos vote for the majority party?
Make Una go one side go lick Una wound.

See what youths Are concerning themselves with. Other nations are making waves in different technological advancement but Nigerian youths are busy with religious bigotry. No wonder our leaders don't take you serious.
There are killings in Nigeria yes. But why color it with religious undertone. Dem do Una?

Too many illiterates on nairaland commenting on issues they know nothing about

gly:
I love your points OP, but you must understand that the line of senator Adeleke's victory is quite different from that of the ones you cited. Look at the constitution and you will know that there was no need for re-run with respect to Osun in the first place. This and others things were well argued out and same will play out and repeat itself even in the apex court when the time comes.

Well done once more.

Thanks.

datola:
Hmmm..

If higher court upturns the tribunal`s verdiCt the short period Adeleke will rule is enough to loot enough for PDP.

And that is if Osun has any penny left in the ACCANT.

That's the olodoism we are talking about. He won't be sworn in now until the legal battle gets exhausted at the Supreme Court.

ionsman:
Please let them celebrate. It's not right to wail everytime, at least they should have something to celebrate.

If the judgement had been against Adeleke, you would have seen a lot of 'Buhari has arm twisted the judiciary' comments. But now, it's victory for Democracy.

Political olodos

Adeleke Don't celebrate yet, Dakuku, and Mama Taraba also won at the tribunal
I was walking home from work when a friend called me with joyous tone that the tribunal has declared the pdp candidate for Osun Gubernatorial election winner. I asked what was the celebration all about he said he is now the governor na. I just called him "olodo and dropped the call.

Tribunal judgements since election cases gets to the Supreme Court has become mere academic exercise. After the 2015 governorship election, many candidates who lost the election went to court. Yours truly followed the cases of the then Rivers State Apc governorship candidate, Dr. Dakuku Adol Peterside and Taraba State governorship candidate of the Apc Mrs Aisha Alhassan, (Mama Taraba).

These candidates won at the tribunal and the court of appeal but lost at the apex court. So what's the celebration all about? Adeleke and the PDP should not celebrate yet until this matter gets to the Supreme Court.
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/12/breaking-appeal-court-sacks-gov-wike-orders-fresh-election-in-rivers/
http://dailypost.ng/2015/11/07/breaking-tribunal-nullifies-governor-ishakus-election-declares-mama-taraba-winner/

So I wonder the need for this half celebration that might be shortlived.
People should understand intrigues of legal battles before rushing to celebrate.
Let's keep our fingers crossed.
Princewill Chimereze
Writer, public affairs analyst and social commentator.

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Is it that these people don't know anything or they just want to play mischief?
This case will still go to the appeal court and the Supreme Court. So what's all these half celebration that might end in tears?

For those who don't know, Mama Taraba and Dakuku won at the tribunal and court of appeal but supreme Court overturned it.

Keep your fingers crossed.

ozo13:
apc is leading in Plateau oGA and also same inconclusive .all state with small margin are going for another round of election.na APC first taste inconclusive election in Kogi state in Dec 2015.was there any state pdp won with comfortable margin that was declared inconclusive?

Some of you have time to reply this political illiterates on this forum. Allow them wallow in their ignorance.