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CivilzedTyger:
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You don seeam na. but this your name sha. CivilizedTyger

charix:
Applies to everyone not only celebrities.

But celebrities crash their marriage more

WHY CELEBRITY MARRIAGES FAIL

--No matter who we are in life we must respect the tennets of Marriage-- Princewill Chimereze

celebrity marriages comes with lots of uneccessary nd irrelevat burden that makes it hit the rock most at the slightes misunderstanding. There are reasons that makes celebrity marriages fail but below are some of the reasons.

1. UNCHANGED CHARACTER: This reason is not only peculiar to celebrities but to everyone. Many ladies never work on their characters before venturing into marriage. Imagine a lady with lots of anger issues getting into marriage, she would less likely tolerate what she gets to see in the marriage. Some ladies are gossip freak to the extent that when they get married they wont even know when they will spread the dirty side of their marriage outside which if it gets to the notice of their husband will be suicidal. Some guys are chronic womanizers that even marriage can never change them. They chase after any babe that has got what they like forgeting they are married.

2. LIMELIGHT: fame, comes with lots of changes. What an ordinary person can endure and move on with in marriage, a celebrity might not be able to do so cos of fame and limelight. A celebrity does not know what it is like to manage in marriage when the chips are down. The woman have to continue the lifestyle she has built for herself over the years. She wouldn't want to be seen as living a life that is not of her standard. This can make her engage in extra marital affairs just to keep up the limelight.

3. MARRIAGE FOR CONVENIENCE: Many celebrities are in marraige for convinience or for the sake of it. And you expect such marraige to last? Some celebrities feel many of their celebrity friends are getting married therefore, they need to do so. Some are in it for what they would gain from their partner and when such goodies are no longer coming, they end up crashing the marriage. They know they don't love their potential husband but because of convenience and to sustain the kind of life they 've fashioned for themselves, they would just marry the person. A clear case is Funke Akindele, who married a man known to be a serial womanizer and has been married twice. The marriage ended via Facebook.

4. MARRIAGE FOR WEALTH: This reason is similar to that of convenience. Most celebrities are poor if you take away their other crooked ways of income. That is why they look out for anyone who is rich to get married to so they can continue to get the latest shoe, clothes and other material things that they can't do without. Ini Edo go tell me say she no see fine, responsible and hardworking boys way full everywhere fall in love with and get married? She did but wanted a rich man. Today they are divorced not only divorced but the man is asking for his Bride price back.

5. LIES: Celebrities know how to lie. Some of them call it strategies to remain relevant because of the competition in showbiz but its unnecessary. Some will say they 've bought a house when actually they rented it. Some can be driving their sugar daddy and sugar mummy's car and claim its theirs. You would only know when they have problems with these people. When their partner gets to know about all these lies, the next thing is divorce because the marriage itself was built on lies.

6. FAKE LIFE: No one on earth lives a fake life more than celebrities. It would surprise you to know that what you see on the surface is just a cover for the dirt, pain, sorrow, woes, and regrets inside. Do you know that some celebrities borrow clothes to wear? They squat with friends and act like its their house? Do not be deceived by Instagram pictures all na wash. Some musicians have no hit single but act like they 've gotten everything in life. Some give you updates like; last night was awesome, he is the best man in the world, doesn't smoke, womanize or take alcohol when the man is actually a drunkard and drug addict. When they can't take it anymore, you know the rest.

7. LACK OF RESPECT FOR MARRIAGE INSTITUTION: In my article about Tiwa Savage's Marriage, (found here: enlightennigeria..com/2016/05/tiwa-savage-married-and-was-still.html?m=1). I pointed out some bad characters that made that marriage crash of which many of them boils down to lack of respect for the institution. How can a woman be married and still wants to act like she is still single. Cleavage barring, attending parties and getting drunk and tipsy, being on location for almost a week, getting so cosy on movie or music set, wearing skimpy dress and what have you and expect the marriage to be successful. Marriage comes with sacrifices and doing away with some of the things we were doing while we were yet to get married.

Marriage is not by force if one knows they can't cope with the stress and hassle that comes with it better remain single than get into it and divorce almost immediately. Marriage no be by Dubai wedding or 50 million Naira but by enduring and persevering to the End.

I remain;
Princewill Chimereze. What is good is good and what is bad is bad.

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Source: http://enlightennigeria..com.ng/2016/07/why-celebrity-marriages-fail.html?m=1

Thanks guys. Just saw the mentions now I ve sent the BBM invite and Am ready to give to my all for this. But this should be strictly apolitical, and not about any political party, Religion or Ethnic group. This is about Nigeria and how to rebrand it and make it work.

leofab:
Hope Daura Secret Services will not start tracking the active participants here

Please this kind of meaningless comment is not needed here. This is not about Buhari or any politician but about Nigeria. so change ur mindset ifbu would be in this.

yhemsy62:
Lalasticlala pls make this thread everyday FP Material

That's hasty. not now.

Johnrake69:
Please let's start the nomination.

Go ahead bro. Am ready to Lead from South South. Let's see other Leaders volunteer from other Regions.
Am going to draw out a plan if my schedule will allow me. And we can build from that. Once again, this is not going to be politically affiliated in any form.

Johnrake69:
Great idea. Do we agree with the idea of coming up with teams?

I am ready to serve in any capacity. Both online and Offline. Yes teams can be created consisting of those who love Nigeria. And their antecedents properly scrutinized. Woe betide anyone who betrays us.
We can choose from volunteers here and they gather in a Whatsapp group and discuss modalities both on and offline. Am in the South South.

Where are the people that started this process let them come here and boost its Morale.
Pls let's make sure this is not seen as supporting any Political party else it will fail. in my Opinion, no one should talk about confab let it not be like we are sponsored by anyone. This should be our thing. we form our own demands devoid of any yesterday agitations. Whatever and whoever feels aggrieved should just forgive let's start from here to recreate our dear Nation.

Those who eat and drink Tribalism should stay in their house.

Another thing, we must check the Profile of those who will coordinate this. Those who pride themselves in useless comments here should not be given any leading role. It must be made up of pan Nigerian and Intelligent youths.

Just like I see the advert of Mr. Nairaland and you wonder the nominees some of them are just people who should not even be mentioned in anything.
We must be careful with this. its now or never.

Maduawuchukwu:
I am more in support of a Youthful discussion first and foremost before any other thing. What is the problem? What are possible solutions? What are the things needed to make Nigeria a progressive, democratic and subsequently developed nation because it must come in stages. As far as I am concerned if we don't discuss issues like what is human right?
What are the institutional standards which we shall uphold?
What are those conducts we will never tolerate even if they come from public office holders we love? We will never make any progress. Going to protest is not enough because when we change the present ones the future ones will come and repeat the same thing(e.g. Goodluck to buhari)
For instance now, if we change this present set of leaders and new ones come without a firm belief of what constitutes human right they will continue with the presents governments barbaric acts like the Shia and Ipob massacre. This will in turn lead to civil unrest,and underdevelopment. So for any lasting development or change to come, we must question our foundations or else we will end up like the French after the French revolution.

pls keep ur shia and Ipob out of this. such nonsense is why this agenda will be defeated.

Am in and am ready to lead the protest from any part of Nigeria. Provided its devoid of Political affiliations, ethnic and religious bigotry and other nonsense associated with present day youths. We must have a clear cut agenda and demands. Not on that day now some ignorant youths will be seen carrying flags of an imaginary country. and some with placards against political parties. It should be about Nigeria and how to rebrand it through peaceful demonstrations.

We must seriously Orientate ourselves before we embark on this and pursue it to the later.

All government Jobs must be advertised
Drastic slash of all salaries and allowances of Government officials Especially the NASS
Make some Public positions to be from 25 years and above.
This will concern Government at all Levels.

No one is going to harm us if we coordinate ourselves in a peaceful manner.

Please ethnic and religious bigots back off and those with political affiliations keep it aside for now.
Princewill Chimereze.

temptnow:
Meaningless question. Jail him na. And be ready to jail all igbos as well. You people haven't seen anything yet. We will continue to drag this country till we are all tired of it. If you quote me you will die of cancer

I just quoted you

Emmysteve:
Are we sure this is not another scam from the APC. The site has been inaccessible for three days running and these people claimed to have registered more than 400k applicants. I am wondering if that is the same site I have been trying through out the night.

I think you should take this your madness to somewhere else or remain in Politics section where it reigns supreme. People are trying to find a way around a problem and you are here exhibiting childish attitude that has profited you nothing. Its a scam and want to still register for it.

Please someone should recommend a good camscanner to scan my documents. Thanks in advance.

Bayswater:
How much be im salary? Lecturers are not well paid home and abroad ok. The loser called Pius is still pained 1 year after Jonathan handed over the reins of power to the disaster called Buhari. A fool at 50, alaini ronu

Are you insulting a man better thannyo in all sphere of life or its a mistake?

mackhunter77:
Guy How far with this PEC CONCEPT? I JUST AN INVITE SCHEDULED FOR TOMORROW AND I'M IN ABUJA I DONT MEAN ABUJA CAMPUS OF UNIPORT THOUGH PLS LEY ME KNOW

I did not go o. I think they are scammers

ganisucks:
I L♥√ع Fayose. He is the greatest Yoruba political office holder ever. All Nigerian men should try A̶̲̥̅̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥D̶̲̥̅̊ emulate his bravery A̶̲̥̅̊Ω̴̩̩̩̥D̶̲̥̅̊ strength. Nairaland APC, learn how †̥♥ be a real man from Fayose.

You are on Nairaland daily typing rubbish and getting likes. You know what? In this forum when people are asked to Nominate one decent person for anything on Nairaland, no one will nominate you forget the likes people know u are just a jobless trolll. So rexamine your life today.

sebali:
Love 4 Jonathan is as a result of d hate SS/SE have 4 northerners. There is this general believe down South dat we are suffering because d hausa/yorubas are oppressing us. This falsehood is a creation of d elites to manipulate d masses(tribalism being d tool) so as to enrich themselves. Case study: Tompolo and co became billionaires while d status quo in d Niger delta remained d same

Bro please remove South south from that analogy. we are not like that. it is the Igbos that are trying to make us appear like we hate oda tribes

Chukazu:
what exactly are you talking about?

Niger Delta is a community? how, where, when?
...don't tell me it's only Ogoni land

the 5billion budgeted for North East, is from Niger Delta resource.

You no go carry ur nonsense talk face one side. must you show how stupid u are?
stop disgracing urself.

They have benefited so much from share the money attitude and now its like their life is going to be paused by the "New Sheriff in town"
lalasticlala

They have benefited so much from share the money attitude and now its like their life is going to be paused bythe "New Sheriff in town"

They litter different blogosphere with such illiterate lines as 'Bring back our corruption' 'There was corruption and bag of Pure water was bla bla bla and one begins to wonder where this people crept out from.

Their leader is FFK, a man who insulted them before. Well this group, their case is With Tb Joshua.

They only look out for religious coloration in any issue. Any appointment, they will scrutinize it as if it's their exam note or Textbook to find out how many Northerners and southerners are in it.

This online platform only spread lies and hate messages about APC and Buhari. And you begin to wonder is it by spreading lies about Buhari and APC that you will actualize your struggle?

"The president wants to Islamize Nigeria" They hate the President cos he is a Muslim but will support Dasuki and Saraki. And you begin to wonder what remedy will be best to cure them".

"Their anger is that stolen money from the destructive party the PDP is no longer coming".

Segadem:
hmmmm,
Op [morndew] u want this wonderful write up to reach promise land? Just remove No2 and no4.

why?

Ajascolove:
You are on point. Waiting for the types of zombies too.

Please is there anything like zombies? Who came up with the Nomenclature? Wailers was a creation of Femi Adeshina a Presidential spokesman. Zombie was coined by Nairaland pained kids. outside here no one knows of such nomenclature or uses it. So such nonsense doesn't exist. But wailers has wider acceptability and was coined by a prominent Nigerian.

They believed their hero was unjustifiably removed and they must fight for him. They roam about the Online space shouting 'Jonathan is a hero' as if we dey drag "Mr. hero" with them.