MikeofKd: Good day Nlanders , pls I need the wisest counsels of wise Nlanders ,I have a problem which is lack of commitment to women , ive been this way since I left uni , and pls know that this isnt due to masturbation or any sorts, cause I havent done that thing since my teenage years. I meet a woman today , we vibe , connect and all but i'm just damn too scared to commit any woman no matter how good she is. Im scared that if I continue this way I may likely find it really difficult to get married. Seeing and experiencing different complains of men in real life and on the forum as made my commitment issues with women only worse. Im currently working , fair pay ,got my own place ,im doing quite well for myself. Ive met different women this year that were good women , but I fear if I give my heart to them they may switch up , women are too complicated naturally to cope with.
This fear of commitment is seriously holding me back from getting a serious relationship. My only fear is if I continue this way I may not get married. I need the counsels of wise nairalanders to advice me on what to do concerning this commitment issues cause it quite depressing no lies.
I form hard guy ,but deep down I really be craving for a romantic relationship ,im just too scared to give any woman my heart cause ive been hurt in past relationships . So hurt that even when I had a good woman I couldnt see it and I lost her. Your Wise advice and counsels would be deeply appreciated thanks.
MatrixReloaded: I know it's ok to show case your cleverage but this it's not compulsory . Looking at her physic you will notice so many dysfunctional rough patches. I can deduce she isn't a neat woman. It doesn't matter if you have plenty underwear, Cloths. Neatness comes from within to their outter appearance, most cases in women. She is not beautiful and she's not an eye catcher.
ikeno: Guys are the reason why some ladies have this entitlement mentality.why should you date a girl that feels since you're dating her it's your responsibility to take care of her. First few weeks of dating her, she has started demanding such as. My phone faulty I need to get a new one, my father/mother is sick,my cream is finished,I need to change my wardrobe,send me money for food/data/call card/tf.someone that can't help you financially when you're cash strapped or spend her money to cook for you. Such girls will pull you down financially, emotionally. My advice is to use your tongue to count your teeth.
You don't want to support but want to bang dem abi. Stop dating young girls n students then and look 4 working class.
Tb19: Please and please, afford as how, are you for sale, If that's the case, why should I buy/purchase only one. At his point most of you(females) don't know what you want in a guy. All the guy have to do is have money, period.
Escabado: I went to university environment and noticed everything has changed I see lot of girls in first year or second year using iphone 11 to 12 pro max of N450,000 and they are flaunting it. I'm like what exactly are this girls thinking, u are yet to finish school , yet to get a job , yet to get married.
I personally can never ever dash free money to any girl been it my family member who is an undergraduate using a phone of 450k. How many bank managers uses such phones. Lack of financial decipline
Now I enter into one of the fancy restaurants around the school, my people come and see how these girls are buying foods of N3500 to N4000 some as take away or eating there .
In my presence two girls bought two small cups of ice cream, cold stone or whatever and paid N11,000. Hmmm I suprice
On a final Note if you are a hustling young man and you are giving your money to these girls who call themselves students, you need to think twice because if you see the way these girls are wasting money in there school u will realize you are nothing but a fuu for dashing them money out of pity that they are still a student.
Guys share your experience and what you observe about these female students
And so what?
Some of them have parents who got it for them. Some are into business or have rich boyfriends.
Am sure if you become rich you would squander your money on the same University girls because money is more enjoyable when u spend it on others.
Typical Nigeria men broke mentality because you can't afford the girls you come online to shame them.
Imagine shame no catch you as you dey jealous girls because dem buy ordinary 11k cold stone na so you broke reach
OtuologyProf: Nna eeh .. can you imagine a 19 year old moaned and whispered that she wants to carry my baby. Nna eeh I come think say I no hear well, as I dey dig, she dey moan,,,pour it inside, I want to carry your baby. O boy, to play safe and keep the fun going, I come tell am say I go pour am inside next time. But the funny thing is that I did an audio recording and Iistened to it shortly after she left..my dick come rise @ I want to carry your baby...
How could something that sounded ridiculous during sex make my dick harder during audio..?
Emekaphilip360: Igbo girl definition of love or relationship is money. It means you are expecting a container from sea, have a smooth business running and you can take good care of her financially.
Anything short of that, you re just dating yourself. It sucks so bad. I’m not generalizing though but I’m saying the fact here.
Depriest2020: You must be from southern Nigeria who believes their women must be in their thirties and their men in their forties before they start preparing for marriage. Please here in the north people in their forties are already grand parents, so don't be surprised someone said a person in their sixties should be her grandparents. My mum became a great grandma in her sixties.
Maybe girls from your tribe. Start 4ucking at a very early age
Darevofpeace: "My supervisor is in his early 60s, so it was super hard for me to start calling him by his name every time. This man is old enough to be my grandfather and he wants me to call him his first name. I’m getting more familiar with it, though.
One of the things I don’t like about being abroad is the fact that everybody minds their business. It is a double-edged sword. In Nigeria, you don’t like people being in your business, but sometimes, you actually need it.
Last year, I was sick. I had an emergency operation so I couldn’t go to work for about a week. I was in my house and the next thing, I was in the hospital, so I couldn’t inform anybody. Not a single person called or texted me. Not one. Not even the HR person.
I left a cup of coffee on my desk the day before the incident and when I came back one week after, I met it right there with mold in it. Sometimes, it gets really annoying in Nigeria when people put their noses in your business, but I’d rather have that than have nobody care at all.
I always like to say that if I died in my apartment, nobody would know until my body started smelling because even my rent would automatically pay itself from my account and the landlord wouldn’t care to check on me."
Iagos: I boarded a bus from Ajah to Oshodi and noticed an unsettling driving behavior from the driver. I suspected he was sleeping, I recorded a video and caught him dozing off while driving on the 3rd Mainland Bridge. Concerned for my safety, I chose to end my journey at Oworo, prioritizing my well-being to avoid potential risks.
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, If that's the case, why should I buy/purchase only one. At his point most of you(females) don't know what you want in a guy. All the guy have to do is have money, period.