Romance › Re: I Want To Nack My Gf Bestfriend (photos) by Motolank: 7:08am On May 01, 2017 |
Prettythicksmi: Pussy na for knack naw,go ahead.  Did you understand his expression? |
Politics › Re: "Buhari Unable To Eat & Drink Post By Sahara Reporters Is False" - Bashir Ahmad by Motolank: 7:05am On May 01, 2017 |
Lol. He should post video of him eating |
Romance › Re: Does 'Playing Hard To Get' Make You Happy? by Motolank: 7:03am On May 01, 2017 |
SINZ: And if that's the case, you can't stay steadily In love with the guy. You'll find yourself falling in and out of love with him cos he forced his way into your heart.  Nop. In most cases it turns out that even the lady will be the one to chase after him, after they make love and his thirst is quenched, and the lady starts to burn in love for him based on what he said when chasing her. It's crazy man |
Family › Re: Advice : I Care For My Wife But Love Another Woman by Motolank: 6:58am On May 01, 2017 |
ItzChinnex: Seun, Please shift this to front page as this may save some shaking Marriage. Thanks.
I am 42, married for 15 years and have two wonderful kids (7 & 3). My wife and I had about 13-14 pretty good years before I began to realize that I wasn't really in love with her, and maybe never was. For a year a co-worker and I began a relationship.
I had always been attracted to her, and I acted on it. Until a month ago we had carried the relationship from some very exciting sex to a very strong emotional relationship. She finally said the words that we should not see each other socially anymore, at least until I decide what to do with my situation at home. I agreed.
My wife and I have been in counseling for about six months, and she doesn't know about my affair. Neither does the counselor, who recently told her she thought the marriage was over. I am deeply in love with the woman I have had an affair with, and told her so during our last encounter (after we decided to call it off).
She told me she loved me, also. Now my wife and I are so distant. I do not find her attractive in the least - and we have not had sex for months. When we did it took all I had to get through it.
My heart hurts badly for the woman I love. She is putting up a strong front and moving on. Even seeing other men. She said in a year, if we are both available, maybe we can try to build a real, honest relationship. My two kids, who are my world, are trapped in between. I don't know what to do. I love another women, but I still care for my wife - just don't love her anymore, and not sure I can again. I've made these mistakes, but I believe I am truly in love for the very first time in my life.
How do I keep hope that things will turn out all right? Please drop your comments
Source: https://chinnex..com/2017/04/advicr-i-care-for-my-wife-but-love.html
Seun , Lalasticlala , Mynd44 You don't have to love her forever, that you discovered you didn't love her after 13 yrs is enough that you both can live the rest of y'all life together without love. And this time you are in, happens in all marriage, that lasted 70 yr. Keep the home together, you just want to opt out because you are fornicating and attempt to release a thousand bird for an unknown in the bush |
Family › Re: Advice : I Care For My Wife But Love Another Woman by Motolank: 6:51am On May 01, 2017 |
I like the way he called seun and the topic got moved with immediate effect |
Romance › Re: Does 'Playing Hard To Get' Make You Happy? by Motolank: 6:49am On May 01, 2017 |
SINZ: This only happens in very rare cases. Right. But does happen. Some guy won't just let go |
Family › Re: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Motolank: 4:42am On May 01, 2017 |
adam500hr: . Divorce is a demon cast it out of your mind. Because your are very hard headed with her request she might be doing same to you. Ignore what she said and continue with your marriage. At least you're not a saint too, and if you are... Someday you ll stop being one. It's not a curse but sincere fact |
Romance › Re: Does 'Playing Hard To Get' Make You Happy? by Motolank: 4:15am On May 01, 2017 |
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Family › Re: Olori Wuraola's Baby Bump by Motolank(op): 3:56am On May 01, 2017 |
OVA200: OP no be your fault na buhari cause am, if buhari create employment ni you won't be this jobless to be spying another person's wife Dear, buhari government doesn't affect me directly |
Family › Re: Olori Wuraola's Baby Bump by Motolank(op): 3:55am On May 01, 2017 |
Hybrid01: Womb watchers No just wanted to be first to notice. Fingers crossed |
Family › Re: Olori Wuraola's Baby Bump by Motolank(op): 3:55am On May 01, 2017 |
omonighoblessing: yes oooohhh my darling... I will give you the testimony in two weeks.  |
Family › Re: Olori Wuraola's Baby Bump by Motolank(op): 3:54am On May 01, 2017 |
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Car Talk › Re: How My Car Was Wrecked Due The Carelessness Of A Police Officer. Advice Please! by Motolank: 3:52am On May 01, 2017 |
SalamRushdie: His life was never at risk na It could have been  |
Car Talk › Re: How My Car Was Wrecked Due The Carelessness Of A Police Officer. Advice Please! by Motolank: 11:33am On Apr 29, 2017 |
Thank GOD for life first |
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Nairaland General › Re: Lady Escapes From A Big Python In Edo (Photos) by Motolank: 10:24am On Apr 29, 2017 |
Hey. Is she living in the forest? |
Business › Re: Naira Rate Against The Dollar, Pounds And Euros Today 27/04/2017 by Motolank: 11:47am On Apr 27, 2017 |
I careless. Just wanted to comment on front page |
Crime › Re: Baby In Celestial Church Garment Abandoned By A Refuse Dump In Lagos (Photos) by Motolank: 11:36am On Apr 27, 2017 |
Whaaaaaat? When someone somewhere is crying for one. Life  |
Properties › Re: Please Who Can Explain This Visible Cracks On My House Wall by Motolank: 8:35am On Apr 27, 2017 |
tellwisdom: This is what happens when you pack sands from the gutter to build a house.  Hell no |
Politics › Re: U.S., Presidency Fire Jonathan Over Poll, Graft by Motolank: 8:31am On Apr 27, 2017 |
 may be it was the fear of america that made him step down |
Celebrities › Re: Endometriosis: Uche Elendu Celebrates Her Daughter Osinachi's 1st Birthday (pics by Motolank: 6:15pm On Apr 26, 2017 |
GOD who did this will do mine too IJN |
Celebrities › Re: Maheeda: 'I Masturbate A Lot, I'm Addicted To Sex" by Motolank: 4:12am On Apr 26, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Hardworking Traffic Officer 'Mama G' Meets With Police IG In Abuja. Photos by Motolank: 3:59am On Apr 26, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Isiaka Adeleke's Doctor Arrested Over Prescribed Drugs by Motolank: 11:22am On Apr 25, 2017 |
Government for the rich and against the poor... when mass death of poor is not investigated |
Celebrities › Re: Ladies: Which Of These Nollywood Actor Is Your Most Handsome Dude? by Motolank: 3:19pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
I wanted to say you should asked which one can we date. But even looking at them all, am ready for the whole nine guy |
Crime › Re: Cleaner Steals $2600 From His Boss & Was Caught. See How He Shared The Money by Motolank: 12:09pm On Apr 22, 2017 |
He got the flogging all by himself |
Business › Re: Checkout What A Nairalander Do For A Leaving. by Motolank: 7:05am On Apr 22, 2017 |
What you do for a living, where you work for a living or where you snap pic with your friend for a living, Op? |
Celebrities › Re: "Onyinye Is Pregnant For Flavour, Third Baby Mama Loading" - Whistle Blower by Motolank: 5:44am On Apr 22, 2017 |
4mnts pregnant based on logistics? |
Celebrities › Re: T Boss Dazzle In Long Sleeve Multicolour Playsuitr by Motolank: 5:42am On Apr 22, 2017 |
Is this Tboss? |
Romance › Re: Nigerian (igbo) Lady Causes Stir Flaunting Her B0obs On Social Media ( Photos ) by Motolank: 5:37am On Apr 22, 2017 |
If b00bs and bottom do not kill men? Whatelse will? |
Romance › Re: This FB Bae Display Is Hugh Olympus B00bs Dat Keep People Talking by Motolank: 3:23am On Apr 22, 2017 |
I like her eyebrow |
Romance › Re: The Way This Lady Dressed To A Party Will Make You drool - Photos by Motolank: 3:17am On Apr 22, 2017 |
Drool abi puke? I ll spank op |