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RomanceRe: I Want To Nack My Gf Bestfriend (photos) by Motolank: 7:08am On May 01, 2017
Prettythicksmi:
Pussy na for knack naw,go ahead. grin
Did you understand his expression?
PoliticsRe: "Buhari Unable To Eat & Drink Post By Sahara Reporters Is False" - Bashir Ahmad by Motolank: 7:05am On May 01, 2017
Lol. He should post video of him eating
RomanceRe: Does 'Playing Hard To Get' Make You Happy? by Motolank: 7:03am On May 01, 2017
SINZ:
And if that's the case, you can't stay steadily In love with the guy. You'll find yourself falling in and out of love with him cos he forced his way into your heart. grin
Nop. In most cases it turns out that even the lady will be the one to chase after him, after they make love and his thirst is quenched, and the lady starts to burn in love for him based on what he said when chasing her. It's crazy man
FamilyRe: Advice : I Care For My Wife But Love Another Woman by Motolank: 6:58am On May 01, 2017
ItzChinnex:
Seun, Please shift this to front page as this may save some shaking Marriage. Thanks.

I am 42, married for 15 years and have two wonderful kids (7 & 3). My wife and I had about 13-14 pretty good years before I began to realize that I wasn't really in love with her, and maybe never was. For a year a co-worker and I began a relationship.

I had always been attracted to her, and I acted on it. Until a month ago we had carried the relationship from some very exciting sex to a very strong emotional relationship. She finally said the words that we should not see each other socially anymore, at least until I decide what to do with my situation at home. I agreed.

My wife and I have been in counseling for about six months, and she doesn't know about my affair. Neither does the counselor, who recently told her she thought the marriage was over. I am deeply in love with the woman I have had an affair with, and told her so during our last encounter (after we decided to call it off).

She told me she loved me, also. Now my wife and I are so distant. I do not find her attractive in the least - and we have not had sex for months. When we did it took all I had to get through it.

My heart hurts badly for the woman I love. She is putting up a strong front and moving on. Even seeing other men. She said in a year, if we are both available, maybe we can try to build a real, honest relationship. My two kids, who are my world, are trapped in between. I don't know what to do. I love another women, but I still care for my wife - just don't love her anymore, and not sure I can again. I've made these mistakes, but I believe I am truly in love for the very first time in my life.

How do I keep hope that things will turn out all right?
Please drop your comments

Source: https://chinnex..com/2017/04/advicr-i-care-for-my-wife-but-love.html

Seun , Lalasticlala , Mynd44
You don't have to love her forever, that you discovered you didn't love her after 13 yrs is enough that you both can live the rest of y'all life together without love. And this time you are in, happens in all marriage, that lasted 70 yr. Keep the home together, you just want to opt out because you are fornicating and attempt to release a thousand bird for an unknown in the bush
FamilyRe: Advice : I Care For My Wife But Love Another Woman by Motolank: 6:51am On May 01, 2017
I like the way he called seun and the topic got moved with immediate effect
RomanceRe: Does 'Playing Hard To Get' Make You Happy? by Motolank: 6:49am On May 01, 2017
SINZ:
This only happens in very rare cases.
Right. But does happen. Some guy won't just let go
FamilyRe: My Marriage On The Brink Of Crashing, Experienced People Needed Now. by Motolank: 4:42am On May 01, 2017
adam500hr:
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Divorce is a demon cast it out of your mind.
Because your are very hard headed with her request she might be doing same to you. Ignore what she said and continue with your marriage. At least you're not a saint too, and if you are... Someday you ll stop being one. It's not a curse but sincere fact
RomanceRe: Does 'Playing Hard To Get' Make You Happy? by Motolank: 4:15am On May 01, 2017
SINZ:
The very minute a woman sights you, she can already tell if she can date/fvck you or not. Every other thing in between is just "sereren". grin
Not very true. At times you swear in your mind that you will never date someone but after strategic lies and follow up.... cry cry
FamilyRe: Olori Wuraola's Baby Bump by Motolank(op): 3:56am On May 01, 2017
OVA200:
OP no be your fault na buhari cause am, if buhari create employment ni you won't be this jobless to be spying another person's wife
Dear, buhari government doesn't affect me directly
FamilyRe: Olori Wuraola's Baby Bump by Motolank(op): 3:55am On May 01, 2017
Hybrid01:
Womb watchers
No just wanted to be first to notice. Fingers crossed
FamilyRe: Olori Wuraola's Baby Bump by Motolank(op): 3:55am On May 01, 2017
omonighoblessing:
yes oooohhh my darling... I will give you the testimony in two weeks.cheesy
grin
FamilyRe: Olori Wuraola's Baby Bump by Motolank(op): 3:54am On May 01, 2017
walesalak:
Mayb she chop belefull wink
May be.
Car TalkRe: How My Car Was Wrecked Due The Carelessness Of A Police Officer. Advice Please! by Motolank: 3:52am On May 01, 2017
SalamRushdie:
His life was never at risk na
It could have been grin
Car TalkRe: How My Car Was Wrecked Due The Carelessness Of A Police Officer. Advice Please! by Motolank: 11:33am On Apr 29, 2017
Thank GOD for life first
Nairaland GeneralRe: Lady Escapes From A Big Python In Edo (Photos) by Motolank: 10:24am On Apr 29, 2017
Hey. Is she living in the forest?
BusinessRe: Naira Rate Against The Dollar, Pounds And Euros Today 27/04/2017 by Motolank: 11:47am On Apr 27, 2017
I careless. Just wanted to comment on front page
CrimeRe: Baby In Celestial Church Garment Abandoned By A Refuse Dump In Lagos (Photos) by Motolank: 11:36am On Apr 27, 2017
Whaaaaaat? When someone somewhere is crying for one. Life huh
PropertiesRe: Please Who Can Explain This Visible Cracks On My House Wall by Motolank: 8:35am On Apr 27, 2017
tellwisdom:
This is what happens when you pack sands from the gutter to build a house. sad
Hell no
PoliticsRe: U.S., Presidency Fire Jonathan Over Poll, Graft by Motolank: 8:31am On Apr 27, 2017
grin may be it was the fear of america that made him step down
CelebritiesRe: Endometriosis: Uche Elendu Celebrates Her Daughter Osinachi's 1st Birthday (pics by Motolank: 6:15pm On Apr 26, 2017
GOD who did this will do mine too IJN
CelebritiesRe: Maheeda: 'I Masturbate A Lot, I'm Addicted To Sex" by Motolank: 4:12am On Apr 26, 2017
dingbang:
Every girl does dat
No pls
PoliticsRe: Hardworking Traffic Officer 'Mama G' Meets With Police IG In Abuja. Photos by Motolank: 3:59am On Apr 26, 2017
Goldenrichard:
She borrow d white long sleeve?
cry
PoliticsRe: Isiaka Adeleke's Doctor Arrested Over Prescribed Drugs by Motolank: 11:22am On Apr 25, 2017
Government for the rich and against the poor... when mass death of poor is not investigated
CelebritiesRe: Ladies: Which Of These Nollywood Actor Is Your Most Handsome Dude? by Motolank: 3:19pm On Apr 22, 2017
I wanted to say you should asked which one can we date. But even looking at them all, am ready for the whole nine guy
CrimeRe: Cleaner Steals $2600 From His Boss & Was Caught. See How He Shared The Money by Motolank: 12:09pm On Apr 22, 2017
He got the flogging all by himself
BusinessRe: Checkout What A Nairalander Do For A Leaving. by Motolank: 7:05am On Apr 22, 2017
What you do for a living, where you work for a living or where you snap pic with your friend for a living, Op?
CelebritiesRe: "Onyinye Is Pregnant For Flavour, Third Baby Mama Loading" - Whistle Blower by Motolank: 5:44am On Apr 22, 2017
4mnts pregnant based on logistics?
CelebritiesRe: T Boss Dazzle In Long Sleeve Multicolour Playsuitr by Motolank: 5:42am On Apr 22, 2017
Is this Tboss?
RomanceRe: Nigerian (igbo) Lady Causes Stir Flaunting Her B0obs On Social Media ( Photos ) by Motolank: 5:37am On Apr 22, 2017
If b00bs and bottom do not kill men? Whatelse will?
RomanceRe: This FB Bae Display Is Hugh Olympus B00bs Dat Keep People Talking by Motolank: 3:23am On Apr 22, 2017
I like her eyebrow
RomanceRe: The Way This Lady Dressed To A Party Will Make You drool - Photos by Motolank: 3:17am On Apr 22, 2017
Drool abi puke? I ll spank op

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