But why do most ladies go back to their mother's/ father's house after marriage?. Some gave birth out of wedlock while some wedded before birth. Is every man not good after wedding?

Not all men cheat. Some men do that at times 'cos of home.

saphiere:


4. Men are polygamous by nature.

Not all men. Some men may forced into such if they don't have rest of mind at home.

Funny enough..A situation occurred whereby the man found a man on his wife on their matrimonial bed. The wife pleaded guilty, they called a family meeting and the case was resolved. They are still living happily together. Trust!! This is not a movie. That is why when couples are fighting, be in the middle..Soo they won't put you in the middle when they resolve their disputes.

Please what is the English translation of aganrandi ?

Pls what is the English translation of aganrandi?

Houseontherock1:

If prison sentences are concurrent, it means the inmate will serve them at the same time. For example, if he gets one 6-month sentence and another 3-month sentence, the total sentence will be 6 months. This is because he will serve the 3-month sentence at the same time as the 6-month sentence. However, if prison term is consecutive, it's one after the other. Baba Ijesha's prison terms are concurrent sentences, I think a total of 16 years or so. The longest of them is a 5-year sentence while the others range from 5-4, I think. Since he's serving them concurrently, he will serve the longest of the sentences (5 years), because he's serving the others at the same time. I hope this helps sir.

Okay thank very much sir. I appreciate

Houseontherock1:

He's serving concurrent prison terms...they are running at the same time. Apparently, he has 4 years more since the longest is 5 years. I hope he learns his lesson while there.

Good day sir, can you please throw much more light on this? I want to learn about this. Thanks

scoobyblogspot:
I was having a discussion with my friend and he told me his wife ex still calls her on phone. Infact her ex called her when she got married and she told her husband that her ex is on the phone and wanted to congrate him, he spoke with him and appreciated his kind gesture . Just last week he called her again but she didn’t pick and she told my friend about it. Could there be something fishy

The woman is the one at fault here. I once called my ex to ask her something, she told me straight up why am I calling her by that time of the day? Don't I know she's in her husband's house? Reason be was because I called her in the night. I said I'm sorry and we ended the call. The woman ought to go straight up with so called ex.

Adachizzy:
Let women breathe. It's not like we don't know the best for ourselves, or y'all care about us more than we do.

There are many options to making babies now, at the end of the day, what matters this day is taking care of a child, not bringing it into the world.

As long as it isn't hurting you, a woman’s age should not be your concern.

Women this, women that, haba!!
PS: I'm not 30 or 35, before some bitter people here misread and misyarn.

I think what he's trying to say is that age matters in child bearing. A friend of mine nearly lost his wife 'cos she got pregnant again after 7 years of the first child. That time age is already telling on her. He told me she laboured for several hours. He told me the money he spent. And it's all because of her age. Age matters with women. I believe a man of 60yrs can still impregnate a woman But for a woman of 60 to conceive...Uhmm. Women are mostly on the receiving end and age tells faster on women. I'm very sorry if I've wrong you anywhere with my words. Blessings!!!

Some people believe Ghosts usually come to visit their families on Thursdays..Is this true?

tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum.

I'm facing this issue also. But I believe distance can solve the issue. Go to work on Monday, come on Friday. That is my own point of view. I may wrong. Some women believe they can survive on their own without a man since they are working and henceforth the respect for that man dwindles

oladahunsi:
I got a job with a school recently and I did a month training by the school based on the job. I wasn't paid salary, please is there a polite way of asking for the salary?

Did they tell you they will pay? If they did then wait. I once did a training and I received alert two months after. Soo if they told you they will pay then they will.

Nsogbu001:
I'm from Ebonyi state and it has been from hand to mouth. No long stories. This picture shows how God transformed my life

Hbd.. Blessings!!

CaptMarvel:
don't you have your own mind and conscience towards a preferred political party or candidates. If you do and you were swayed away by money to vote for someone else, whether you are a Christian or not, this means that you are a betrayal, you've betrayed your own candidates of choice and such is wickedness.

What I'm asking is is it right for a christian to collect money either to vote for his own party or for another party. Is it right to"collect money" as a christian?

Maximus692:


Are you a Christian?

Yes I am

Is it right for a christian to collect money from a politician to vote ?

Roseodd:
I am going to be honest here,I had sex with my girlfriend before traveling, and now my penis is removing milky liquid, and also it pains me sometimes when I want to urinate.

What medicine can I take please.
Help me with the perfect drug name.

Try herbs bro..If it's not working, WhatsApp me..08064880425.

Cristiano12:


I know abt Funbact A ( that’s a cream) but M&B is what? Is it a capsule or cream and what is the real name pls?

My WhatsApp sir..08064880425

Something should really be done about it. Too expensive prank can lead to death. What if you prank someone that has high blood pressure. They should do something about too expensive ones

Good morning. Please does anyone know about fonbnk? Whereby I can convert my airtime to naira. Please does anyone have an account there?

Mrsoft3:
This is super strange

The hunter may think it's an antelope while it's a human being. It's something common while hunting

gulfer:
There's been countless stories (real-life) of the African antelope being a mysterious animal.... This is another one of such stories and true life occurrence, the hunter might have honestly seen an antelope which morphed into human being... So many mysteries in this life

Yes, some elders do say it. The hunter may think it's an antelope while it's a human being.

Acme45:
Good day friends, I was checking for another thing online 3days ago. And I saw my very good friend's name boldly written by the sex video only for me to open it to discover that it was her.

She got married few months back. and the date the video was uploaded online was just about two months to her wedding. And I'm very sure she's not even aware of it and if the husband accidentally see this video. Definitely the woman will be sent out.

I have not been able to tell her because of how she will react to it. pls what's your opinion on this matter on ground. I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?

First of all hint her and if denies to be involved in such, download the video and send it to her. She will know what next to do

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

Your own wife is pregnant, my own wife refused to be pregnant oo

saphiere:
I've been pondering on the above question fpr days now. I'm confused. I need answers.

People keep saying how men were raped by women. How? How is that possible?
They never brought proof.

Intercourse has to do with penetration. Who does the penetration? If it's a man who does the penetration, who then do you say he was raped? Is he not supposed to be the one committing the act?

Men sex when and women do not sex men. So how do women rape men?

Someone please me with answers.

The highest a woman can do to a man is sexually harass him maybe seduce but not rape him.

How is it even possible for a woman to rape when she isn't the one performing the act?

Please I need answers.



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2016/01/can-a-woman-rape-a-man/amp/

If u drug me, tie my hands my legs and u romance my gbolaga and you sit on it without my consent, is that not rape?

Optimistic4life:
I'm trying hard to live a life free from sin and sexual immorality and I am doing pretty well but of recent, my hormones/body have been raging and I am finding it difficult to cope.

It's 18months I have been separated and there is no getting back together.

Were you ever in my situation, how did you overcome without involving in sex/masturbation?

I just need some words of encouragement.

Its really not easy and it has become some sort of distraction.

The reason I do not want to have a male friend because of my fear for God.

Either you go back to your husband and settle the dispute or starve yourself since u have the fear for God. Let me tell you straight up ma..80% of men out there just want to see the color of your panties. To find real love again nowadays go hard oo unless u meet a man that is not with his wife again and he is looking for another wife. Aside that ! You can survive it I believe. Aftr the death of my dad, my mum didn't remarry..And she's surviving.

Yawah is the best

justking:
One major fear hindering some people from forging ahead is the concern - "What if it doesn't work?"

If it doesn't work, then it didn't work. You won't die.

I spent my school fees from 200L to 400L to run ads. They didn't work but I learnt from them & eventually figured it out.

How can one run ads? Pls enlighten me..08064880425..My whats app.. Pls I will appreciate if you could enlighten me on it. Thanks God bless

Lordswazz:
Both are good skills to acquire and nurture. However, I would recommend you choose content writing and KDP self-publishing. You don’t need to be a sage or have a wild imagination to make a living with content writing. Focus on non-fiction writing, where you can write “how-to” books. Provided you do good research before writing on a topic, you’ll be fine.

Additionally, you can offer your content writing skills for hire on Fiverr and Upwork. If you’re exceptionally gifted at multitasking, you can pair the content writing with the auto-repair training, where you learn auto repair during the day and write at night. However, nothing brings good results or turns fortunes for the better as fast as focus. Good luck!

Can I talk to u on whatsApp? Pls

Lordswazz:
Both are good skills to acquire and nurture. However, I would recommend you choose content writing and KDP self-publishing. You don’t need to be a sage or have a wild imagination to make a living with content writing. Focus on non-fiction writing, where you can write “how-to” books. Provided you do good research before writing on a topic, you’ll be fine.

Additionally, you can offer your content writing skills for hire on Fiverr and Upwork. If you’re exceptionally gifted at multitasking, you can pair the content writing with the auto-repair training, where you learn auto repair during the day and write at night. However, nothing brings good results or turns fortunes for the better as fast as focus. Good luck!

Can I talk to u on whatsApp?

Stephen2324:
Which one destroys man faster?

A. Pornography
B. Betting
C. Womanizing

None of the above listed but alcohol to me. You waste the money you ought to be saving for drinks. And I believe you have heard of liver disease...Na serious issue. If you are buying a drug of 15k per day..You will know those three are still better. My opinion.. Alcohol. I may be wrong but my opinion.