seregem:
I love the game of chess, my king is my precious treasure, I guide with every arsenal

No matter how much you guide your king, there will still be loopholes if you are playing with a good player. The greatest piece on board you shouldn't afford loosing is the queen. And second greatest is the knight (Note: The knight for me cos you can't predict its movement)

I've slept with a snake and a scorpion before. The major issue I think is..if they are not sent to you, they will do you no harm

I believe this man has offended one top notch..cos those people usually cover themselves

oshozondii:


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And they may be fighting just because of a woman

Taywon:
Their Conscience is dead.....

Failed parenting....


Imagine if they weren't caught, this is just one out of 1000 of such happening in Ogun state and southwest in general.


The future is gonnabe brutal if proper measure isn't taken by parent, community and the government...

Sorry but can we really say failed parenting or we should pray God should let our children hear what we are saying.. I know a guy, his father is very strict, a discplined man and likewise his mother. He was brought up in a religious home but yet, he went to join cult when he got to school. They showed him the right way but he refused to listen. A child that wants to be wayward will surely be wayward. And social media too is not helping. You will see a girl of 15 years old watching porn on phone. Then when our brothers are watching porn, when porn was on VHS, they used to chase us out of the room. Even when they notice we are peeping, they will draw the curtain and close all possible holes to view. But now, a 15 year old girl can masturbate in the toilet when watching porn on phone. That's what I mean by media too is increasing this rate of crime..My opinion though. I may be wrong.

EASYGURU:


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Carchoice:
Investments. Men invest heavily on their women. Commitment, finances, etc. spending all that money on your woman to look good and posh and then She goes to open her legs for another man that only gives her N1500 to buy postinor.

I nor Dey spend for women again. I look for someone’s posh girlfriend instead.

Once I approach a lady and She tells me she’s single, I lose interest. You must be in a serious relationship for me to have interest in you. Your oga will be doing the spending while I do the bending.

Case closed

Romanoff:
It is suspicious but without proof, any smart woman can lie her way out of this.

Look for concrete proof before you confront her.

But why una dey always say "future wife, the woman I'm about to marry, we are about to do introduction, I'm about to propose" when una dey create posts like this?

Please how can she lie her way out. Just asking. He said come to my side, she said okay. And I'm sure his side means his house..Unless we are deceiving each other. He said something about love, she didn't disregard the word. She then later told him let's see first "At his house" Shey na gospel of God he won preach for her at his side?I'm just asking cos we learn everyday.

If you come into this world again, will you prefer to come again as the gender you are? Me, I will still love to come as a man.

sassiemyk:

You think alcohol is all that causes kidney issues? Make una get sense naaaa

Some pple don't drink at all and they still have kidney issue

Everything centers on mood. I think so

The type of girl she is, how are you sure you were the only banging her at that time. There could be another 3 fair guys banging at the time you were sweating too. Abi no be woman? She fit leave ur house go another man's house go collect am. I have seen an issue like that. I think there is no way you can fight this.. My opinion though

Not all men. And I believe those that do that may think the babe may run away..so in that case make I tie am down with pregnancy..Also fertility issue is another reason. And also it may be a mistake for some. He don pour am finish before knowing.. Soo when the issues comes up, he wouldn't have a choice than since we are getting married, let me accept the pregnancy. And some it may be prophecy..She must be pregnant before u marry her. And some it may be parent's choice..My son, she must be pregnant before you marry her. It depends..My opinion though

WoundedLamb:
It's possible he participated in creating the song even if he didn't fully produce it. But it appears he let it all slip away cause he didn't know it would become something big.


So why the change of mind now?


@bolded: Where is it?

True talk. I go follow am talk make he drop the issue. And na if he go listen. Seyi no need all these drama. But e dey pain person attimes oo..like this is my sweat nah.

nduprincekc:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ZtgfDy__Tw


We all need to be extra careful..

to avoid had I know

New method ke? This method don old nah. Method weh be say na small boys dey do am now. Meanwhile, thanks for the info.

But what if the soldier has been his long time friend before he decides to propose to her now. They might have known each other for long. My opinion though

Ishilove:

We are not programmed to be providers but nurturers. That's our default role

My sister some formulas don't work in this country again. 1+1 may not be 2, it may be 3. However, there will be no respect for the husband if the table turns around like tht but I believe something, how you run your home is different from how I run mine.

It counts for women, there should be dignity with your body

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

He is playing with your mind. He knows guilty conscience will surely be disturbing you. Two things involved..Do like you are not disturbed, he will raise the issue one day and then you apologize. Or go on your knees, cry and beg him the way you can..It depends on you the way you can. If he loves you, he will forgive. But I think he's still playing with ur mind cos he knows your mind will not be at rest for what you did. My opinion though

Hamiltonii:


Na that trust go kill you.

Did I abuse you in anyway with I said? So why should you do that??

Polynek:
The fear of another man banging Her in my absence.
Na cheating de fear me pax

Bros you go comot your mind ni oo if you are ready. Trust your woman..! You cannot monitor a woman and some women are still loyal up till now.

Godstime234:


What about a wife's family that says u must not come to them to make a report . That both of u should sort out ur grievances . No third party. And the wife will never listen to the husband

I understand sir but try create respect for your self sir and it shouldn't be in a violent way. Nobody can see what is going on in your home. You guys know what is going on so to give an advice in marriage situations takes wisdom so tht the person advising won't turn enemy when the issue has been resolved. Bottom line; Call her to order and try gain respect without violence.. My opinion

50pseamer:
I would like to share my current situation on this platform , and I will very much appreciate your mature advice on the issue.

I have been having issues with my wife after our first born, we married about 3 years ago, our first born is now about 2 years old, we have been having series of issues In the marriage, my wife argues with me a lot on flimsy issues at times, we do not have constant sex, although I started helping more in the house,I cook and and I do the laundry , and asked her to give me my share of the work, when she complained about work load,I am the only one really working now, and paying 98 percent of the bills.

I told my wife that I will like us to be eating together on the same plate to improve closeness, she refused, she sees arguement as normal discussion, sometimes we have sex once or twice in a month, I have told her I will like us all to attend the same church and pray together, but she still attends her Nigerian church online , where they are always seeing vision , and I do not like her attending that church.she also attends online services of my church with me, but I would like us to be attending one church even if it is not my church.
I asked her recently that we need to be praying together for our marriage even if it is 10 minutes every day, after weeks of no response from her,I approached her yesterday and scolded her about it, she cried and I comforted her, I later asked her at night to come for the prayer,and she said she is not coming.
We live abroad and my mum wants to pay us a visit,
She told me the kitchen is her's and my mum should not enter the kitchen, and I told her that it will be difficult, we can pre cook all our food, But she might need to make tea and I will like her to be able to do that by her self , but my wife refused.
In her church she is attending they already branded. My mother a witch. Even if my mother is a witch, we only need to pray against it, should we humiliate her when she visits us? I cannot make my wife my mother, she does not show me much love and does not show that she cares, neither does she respect me. My mum shows me love that I can feel.

Now we are living like neighbours in the same house.
Do you think she is interested in the marriage or has another plan?

My opinion, it depends. You are saying your own side of the story and she may have her own side too and you may the one at fault. A one sided story!! Also there are soo many things happening inside homes that can solved inside homes. Evrything is abt respect. She may also have issues against you tht you are � guilty of. About not interested in the marriage..If she is not interested will she marry you? .. Men nowadays like "hole". She might have been convinced in soo many ways but decided it's YOU. Tell her family what's happening.. Speak out! I have seen marriage of a week dissolve. You can prostrate for her if possible inside home and nobody will know. Nobody is in the light of things happening inside your home..you guys are. Gain your respect without violence and talk to her family if the issue persist. My opinion again though..

Iyaebe:
Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiance accepts her like that, should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.

Ladies should know how to cook but may not be able to cook every food. My wife cannot cook a certain food cos she's not used to eating it in their home town and I wouldn't blame her. So I had to switch to her comfortability of another food. And I believe if a wife doesn't know how to cook, they can talk things out. It all depends on how you guys operate in your home. Families cannot be compared with each other. What I cannot take ,you can take. For example my wife cannot fry stew to my satisfaction and I had to take the work from her. Understanding!! Except u no won marry. You cannot see a perfect woman. My opinion though.

She is beautiful because she is fair?

Greystone:
OP, the true wife materials don't fall prey to yahoo boys.

Most times, the problem with the victims is Greed.

Attimes not greed but financial status of the family..Mama no give her food..Papa no get work..soo!! And also some of these girls believe they will be seen as big girls once they start dating these boys with rides... My opinion though

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I don't know if this is the right section to ask this question. I want to ask, why do ppl see ladies fair in complexion as mami water? Most ladies tht are fair in complexion are attimes considered as mami water.. I may be wrong but I still believe I'm on the higher percentage of the Truth. Why?

Awkabigboy:
How do spouses whose partners live abroad cope sexually?

I have a neighbour, her spouse is in Europe and came back after 5 straight years to see the wife and the kids this year.

How do they do this? Are they really faithful to themselves?

90% of women whose husbands are abroad cheat. Some not their fault, some it's in the blood. If you leave your wife behind just make sure u don born like 3 4 children on ground and you focus on your children. Cause no guarantee she won't cheat.. I doubt it. Some women don't always want to be lonely on bed. Body no be wood

raphroye:
I've tried several times to learn this game, but e no dey enter head

It's not tht hard

pocohantas:


Yenyenyen! They ignored guys in their prime. But when your gf breaks up with you to marry a ready man, you will come crying on Nairaland.

Some of you here have been dating your gfs for years without marriage. If they leave you now, another wailing go start.

You marry early? All Naija women want is marriage. They don’t build themselves.

You say make you stand before marriage? Double wahala. Evening newspaper, borehole pussy. Edede! Who go marry this one?

Abeg make una getaut!



If you don’t gerrit,

Fogerrit.

My opinion..Most of them are not prepared for the Marriage but only ready for the wedding. They just want to wear that "White gown" In essence I really want to marry haste. My opinion though