Candidlady:


thanks for this. So am inlove with this guy but he keeps telling me to wait till we get married? What would you advice ido?

Sorry to ask this question..can you wait? If you can, that's the best. My opinion.. But are you sure deep in your heart you can wait? I have a female friend tht once told me two weeks must not pass, she must have sex. A very beautiful lady!. It depends on the type of the person you are. My opinion though.

Flexherbal:


It is not at all.
But, there are people with very high libidos. When their partners deny them sex, they turn to masturbation, which has its own disadvantages.
Maybe, marrying early will solve the problem.

But what if the wife says no to sex almost every time like I'm tired blah blah...excuses. Should the man leave the woman?

Candidlady:


if the lady says no sex you'd end it?

To me I believe one of the reasons to end the relationship depending on the months though is because the guy may be on double thinking the babe has another guy giving her uh..uh outside or not. So the guy may think like.. so I'm a fool!! My opinion though. A friend once told me abt a babe he had sex with severally but was claiming virgin to another guy. He said the guy never knew he knew the babe. He said he was just laughing inside like.. someone I don.. But he told me he didn't tell the guy abt it. Soo trust issues I believe. And again my opinion

crackhouse:
These students don't know what they are into..

It's normal in any theatre arts department. First year students go through this. I went through this also and I'm proud to be a thespian.

MISSNORA:
Good evening all! Please i need mature replies on this topic. My elder brother is really hurting right now.

The Story.
My elder brother got married earlier this year...before the marriage, he was fully aware that his childhood friend[Michael] had dated his wife to be with sexx involved. The wife is the truthful type and lays everything bare. Michael is well aware that his ex [my elder Bros wife] is fully married to his friend[my brother]....My brothers wife and Michael recently reconnected again on social media and has since started up chats that "MAY" lead to them flirting. She shows my brother the chats and gives him every update. My brother is not happy with this development and is yet to communicate this to his wife.

Questions.
1...Should he tell the wife to block of Michael (his wife's ex, whom is coincidentally his childhood till date friend) ?is this a wise move considering the fact that this might make his wife start hiding stuffs
... The wife is cool with maintaining contact with this particular ex[Michael]....thought he tells my brother everything /the chats.
2....Can you allow ur spouse still in contacts with his/her ex?
3....Should my brother just talk to Michael straight up to stop chatting his wife?

The truth is if your brother's wife does not have interest in her ex again, she knows what to do. If u tell ur brother to tell his wife to block him and the wife is still interested in him, they might find a way to reconnect back and your brother won't know. There is no way you can monitor a woman. If she won do, she go do. So I think the best bet may be is to tell ur brother to tell his wife to stop responding to his chats and if he still persist then block him! But it all depends on the woman. My opinion

siofra:
There's this yahoo boy that has been disturbing me to go to his hotel room. He's a course mate. God knows how many times I've turned him down. I'm tired. So I want to tell him I have a vaginal infection that could be sexually transmitted.
Is it okay to tell him this?
Is this lie going to bite me back somehow?

Don't bother to tell him, he will still persist if he's bent on having you. The best is always find a way of fending him off..i.e If you are not interested in him. Vagina infection? Why not try Yoni pearls..Yoni pearls is the best answer for all those infections..Trust me. Whatsapp 07037852077. It's affordable

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athaboi:
I only have one problem with this light of a thing...I swear, I will pay as high as 20k per month if the light is there. But no light and you are increasing the tariff?? Na fire go consume Buhari

This country get as e be. Meanwhile infection is not good for the body. Clean your vagina with Yoni pearls.. Whats app 07037852077. It's affordable

jotfas:
Good evening house, I noticed at 7:16 pm today, i saw many debit alerts on my phone. The most surprising of it all was I'm having a negative balance of -#15000 in my account which is unlike banks.
Could it be as a result of what is happening to social media?
I'm using access bank and the customer care is not going through and my account officer is not responding. Who else is experiencing this?

Someone also complained about Eco bank as regards the same issue this morning.

ecolime:
It comes with both excitement and anxiety.

Scariest part for some is take-off while landing is usually fun.

I'm a frequent flyer yet still have phobia for flying. Wish I have a reasonable alternative

Just be calm and enjoy the experience.

N.B Don't be shy to ask Airline staff questions if you need help.

Carry me fiy nao

There are still virgins out there. I know of a beautiful lady back then in school. She kept herself till she got married. Her friend told my friend who told me. I couldn't believe at first cause this girl fine no be lie

obembet:


Source: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1542334589478875&id=100011070468754&sfnsn=scwspwa

Like there is something wrong with this Aunty

placeofallure:



I agree with you but do you know some men can be stubborn?

A certain guy keeps changing his numbers to chat me up. I counted about 5 or so. Each time I know it's him, I block his ass. He will still call, I know he will. I don't know how he got the number in the first place and I politely told him I'm married but that won't deter him.

As for OP, if you are not comfortable with it tell her to stop. How he got her number matters too.

I will suggest you take to another measure to fend him off or tell your husband about this. I wouldn't like someone disturbing my wife to such length

kenneyyice:
Guy lets be honest you f up a bit. See you were told to park outside for reasons best known to them. You should have at least done that and ask questions later. We all know that Nigeria is currently on a red alert when it comes to security issue and that it is lawless. If I were in your shoes, I would have found an eatery, tip the security personal there and drop the car or go back home and come back without a car. Omo one has to be very smart when dealing with this military personnel. Not that am in support of this callous treatment on you but as the bible says, Wisdom is profitable to direct. Speedy recovery we pray man.

Thank you jare..He doesn't have to drag anything with them

princeeze1:
Before we put all the blames on women. Some men are devils, I don’t know y stolen sex appears sweeter. This is a screenshot of my conversation with my wife last nite. I don’t live in the country and a neighbor in one of the flats is already trying to bed her.

But why do married men and women cheat? What could be the main reason. Can we say the woman or man is not happy at home?

Kempinski:
Good morning guys , there's this woman in my neighborhood who has been having an extramarital affairs with the bike man that normally use to come and pick her children to school in the morning, she has two kid, a boy and a girl, but her cheating spree is out of this world...

Her husband is a nice person and works in one of the big bank in the country on the island, due to his nature of his job, he leaves for work early and return very late...

This crazy woman has been using this to hit her children's bike man on severea occasion, there's was this day I was at home working on my laptop early in the morning, the window of her bedroom shares the same as mine only a fence blocking us apart, I kept hearing heavy moany and repeated thrust sound coming from the bedroom,

This man in question is a cool headed gentle man, easy going in the estate and doesn't deserve this kind of trouble and heart wenching action the woman is taking him through, I don't preay he finds out and I need help on how to tell the woman to stop doing this and at the same time I don't want their marriage to crash....

After knacking, this woman goes to her shop and pretends as if nothing happens.....

Letting the man know is risky. The moment the man get to know or catch them in the act, he might have an heart attack and just slump and tht's the end. Do you want to be responsible for his death? And still if the man is in the dark of the situation, it's not a good thing. The man might not even be cheating cos not all men cheat..and here is the wife cheating on him. The choice is yours to decide. My opinion though

Papanicolou:
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Go see a doctor but if the infection is still coming bk then try herbs. You won't spend much..Trust me. Whatsapp me on 08064880425. But go to a doctor first.

ijoba222:
it have want to start appearing on my face too

please what's it any drugs suggestion or should I do test?

Go to the hospital to complain. If it reoccurs then try herbs. For herbs.. Whatsapp me 08064880425.

udoji2021:



My number is 09022929177.



Kindly confirm let me remove it. Good morning

Confirmed..Good morning

udoji2021:


You are always welcome. Just seeing your mention.

Drop your digits pls, or should I drop mine?

Kindly drop yours. Thank you

udoji2021:
I just come across a thread about this topic and felt like contributing on it.

https://www.nairaland.com/6703059/struggling-hard-money-hasnt-come

Guys, I will not beat around the bush, getting married when you are not financially bouyant is the greatest mistake that can NEVER be corrected, infact, it's a sin and against natural laws to bring someone's daughter to your house when you are struggling to take care of yourself and consequently starts laying foundation of poverty that will last for generations if not forever.

WHY?

Experience is the best teacher, I'm a victim of such circumstances and I know what I face in that type of marriage and is still facing. When you make such mistake, you will start sleeping abnormally which is the first sign of things to come, it will then lead to over thinking and depression. Forget about family members, no one will be there to help you when you needed their help. Begging to feed or meet your financial obligations is even worst cos first, the insults you will receive can make you commit suicide, and if you start this begging, people will always give you fake promises, the time that you would have used in doing productive something will be on moving from one place to another or staying online to reply people. Forget about all this motivational speakers cos you will only see another motivational quote from them when the sh*t hits the fan.

Secondly, the saying that someone obtain favor from Whatever God when you are Married is also false to some extent, God don't pour manna from heaven this days as was reported in the Bible (don't know if this is even true), get married and sit at home waiting for favor from the Lord and see if you didn't die of hunger within days.

Most painful part is that, you may end up suffering for another person children ignorantly, HOW?

Let me give an example, I went to one politician for help and this man told me to back later, he later sent someone to call my wife and start telling her to sleep with him (heavy pregnant woman o) before he can help. I was lucky that my wife told me about it with proof of what the man was doing, that was the day I stopped calling him. Now, what if she agreed without telling me and continued after she birth?

Guys, hustle and settle down first marriage and thank me later.

Lastly, all this girls will keep telling you that I will manage, I will manage, but if they finally come and stay with you, they will not manage again. Infact, that is how some women have finally taken over their houses and start maltreating the husbands for been weak.

In a nutshell, I'm of the opinion that a guy should hustle and have money, hustle hard again and have more money before he can start thinking of marriage.

Can we talk on whatsapp?

udoji2021:
I just come across a thread about this topic and felt like contributing on it.

https://www.nairaland.com/6703059/struggling-hard-money-hasnt-come

Guys, I will not beat around the bush, getting married when you are not financially bouyant is the greatest mistake that can NEVER be corrected, infact, it's a sin and against natural laws to bring someone's daughter to your house when you are struggling to take care of yourself and consequently starts laying foundation of poverty that will last for generations if not forever.

WHY?

Experience is the best teacher, I'm a victim of such circumstances and I know what I face in that type of marriage and is still facing. When you make such mistake, you will start sleeping abnormally which is the first sign of things to come, it will then lead to over thinking and depression. Forget about family members, no one will be there to help you when you needed their help. Begging to feed or meet your financial obligations is even worst cos first, the insults you will receive can make you commit suicide, and if you start this begging, people will always give you fake promises, the time that you would have used in doing productive something will be on moving from one place to another or staying online to reply people. Forget about all this motivational speakers cos you will only see another motivational quote from them when the sh*t hits the fan.

Secondly, the saying that someone obtain favor from Whatever God when you are Married is also false to some extent, God don't pour manna from heaven this days as was reported in the Bible (don't know if this is even true), get married and sit at home waiting for favor from the Lord and see if you didn't die of hunger within days.

Most painful part is that, you may end up suffering for another person children ignorantly, HOW?

Let me give an example, I went to one politician for help and this man told me to back later, he later sent someone to call my wife and start telling her to sleep with him (heavy pregnant woman o) before he can help. I was lucky that my wife told me about it with proof of what the man was doing, that was the day I stopped calling him. Now, what if she agreed without telling me and continued after she birth?

Guys, hustle and settle down first marriage and thank me later.

Lastly, all this girls will keep telling you that I will manage, I will manage, but if they finally come and stay with you, they will not manage again. Infact, that is how some women have finally taken over their houses and start maltreating the husbands for been weak.

In a nutshell, I'm of the opinion that a guy should hustle and have money, hustle hard again and have more money before he can start thinking of marriage.

I'm presently in that situation

PresidentAtiku:
Almost all scam and Yahoo on Facebook Use Access Bank account to defraud.

You will see all those posts on Facebook groups using sick children or family pictures asking you to assist with 1,000 2,000 ,5000 nothing is too small, all na SCAM and na access bank. See sample one of the f**ls just posted to a church group. HEARTLESS DEMONS

Very terrible KYC procedures by the bank making it easy to be used.

CBN should look into that bank

36k was wiped from my wife's acct May this year. She complained to her bank GTB and was told the person that did the stuff used it to play soccer on a betting site. She tried and tried if the bank could assist in retrieving but all efforts was to no positive result. Pls is there a way to go abt it again?

SimplyFacts:
Make I do FEM!
I need to hear the woman's story before making any judgment or criticism. Some people are animals in human skin. The woman could have a very heartbreaking story to tell the public.

I wonder why some good men & women end up marrying sadists.

My brother, no matter the side of the story of the woman, the pastor ought to sit them down and settle their differences..Not to take over his wife..i.e if the story is true. My opinion though

If you have the tendency to have potbelly you will..i.e if you have the tendency to become fat. No matter the amount of beer you take, if you don't have the tendency to become fat , you will not. Late night food and too much beer causes 'potbelly' for those that have the tendency. My opinion though.

sherylbaky:
To call the story short guys, I had an encounter with police officers earlier where extortion was involved. Then it occurred to me that when we experience similar issues from some organizations we can actually report.

We know we can always report banks to CBN and telecommunications to NCC. I read up on how to report police officers and got some clues, like reporting to Public Complaint Rapid Response Unit (PCRRU), even though I understand this is a government thing.

But I later got to know the unit is a division under the public police force itself. So I have this doubt if it would be active like NCC/CBN.

Has anyone here ever reported and experienced a positive result after reporting?
Or is there any other way to report them?

Yes I think there's an organization like that. My uncle once told me and even showed me his ID card and I think it's tht same organization. He said if any police tries to harass you, just show the officer your ID and the officer will drop the case instantly i.e if it's a case of extortion. He said they usually have meetings with top police officers every Sun. Note- that my uncle is a business man.

Hi everyone. Pls we were packing from my former house to a new house and somewhere along the line, we couldn't find a particular file and the file contains some documents but most important of them all is my daughter's birth certificate. Pls is there anyway I can get that back?

Toosure70:
Acted to draw traffic to your YouTube channel. Rubbish

This may be true and the person recording may even be part of them. I believe in this country, anybody can do anything just to achieve his or her purpose. My opinion though

lonecatt:
Pantami should have gone to lai Mohammed for tutorials instead of accepting.

And say he was sleeping when he made those comments

bigpicture001:
The beautiful are too full of themselves. Simple and look down on almost every man except they have money

I concur, had a girlfriend then with the exact qualified character

Please what's the English word for ipin oju