₦airaland Forum

I am really sorry you’re hurting like this. What you’re feeling makes sense .When you have invested your heart and your future in someone, their distance can feel overwhelming.But I want to gently say something that might help you breathe a little easier: the block, as painful as it feels, might actually be a gift in disguise. It’s giving you the space you haven’t been able to give yourself. It’s creating a pause in a cycle that has been exhausting you for a long time.You have described a relationship where you were often disrespected, dismissed, and left carrying the emotional weight alone. No one can thrive in that. Wanting to walk away but feeling pulled back isn’t weakness , it’s what happens when your heart and nervous system have been stretched between hope and hurt for too long.This moment, as hard as it is, can be the beginning of your healing. You deserve peace, kindness, and a relationship where you don’t have to beg to be heard.Please be gentle with yourself. Reach out to people who care about you, talk to someone who can support you, and take this time to reconnect with your own wellbeing. You don’t have to go through this alone, and you don’t have to rush anything. One steady step at a time is enough.

It is now anyone’s election.
Atiku will sweep majority of the core North with Tinubu coming second and Obi winning Kano.
The middle belt will learn heavily towards Obi but divided by Atiku and Tinubu .
South West outside of Lagos will go to Tinubu but Atiku will do well in Ondo and Oyo.
South East will go to Obi
South South is uncertain .Tinubu/Obi to share .
No one can predict who will win .

Summary of the story - He was dating the girl but sleeping with Grace behind her back .

The president is not busy

I once met a man during my time as a visiting doctor at a prison. He was serving a life sentence for the murder of his brother and his wife. According to his account, he had long suspected the two were having an affair and set out to catch them in the act.

When he finally did, he quietly left the room, went downstairs, retrieved a knife, and returned to kill them both.

The jury found him guilty and sentenced him to life imprisonment, with a minimum term of 24 years. I met him 14 years into his sentence—and he expressed no remorse.

Worse than Gaza

As someone who has watched a lot of F1 races in person I can categorically tell you that no Nigerian city has the capacity to host an F1 race .
We don’t have a circuit so it will have to be a street race .
Public roads will need to be modified to meet FIA standards, including widening sections, creating tight corners, and ensuring long straights plus ofcourse resurfacing the roads .Then we will need at least 30 thousand hotel rooms for the duration of the race .Airport capacity will need to be expanded to accommodate flights .
Hospitals and emergency services will need to be upgraded .
Most importantly will be the Garage support which is totally non existent in Nigeria.

Vinicius sells more shirts .How many Nigerians buy Osimehin’s shirts ?

Marriage is about to end …..

So all four children hate their father ?The woman is diabolical

They want to run their own academic calendar based on Islam

Politics of sectionalism will not save Nigeria .

Narcissist of a father lacking in total empathy.
Only thinking of his share of the 15k USd
May God not given us such a nasty family to
marry into .

This woman is dangerous

How many people in the world can afford to pay 140k euros medical bill? This is not about poor planning

Commiserate he meant .It is the intention that matters .
And why are those loud mouthed journalists laughing ?

I can never understand this man.
He won 90 percent of the votes in Eastern Nigeria .Was INEC not causing damage then

No accountability or remorse

A very unserious set of people .
We move exams for a traditional event

Do we still have hope in Nigeria ?

Imagine if VP Shettima says Shekau is his brother and he cannot be happy that he was killed .

Air Peace might be privately owned but it now represents Nigeria .
Airlines use slots allocated to countries under BASA.All our slots have now been allocated to Air peace to enable his business succeed .He cannot now reduce it to an Igbo thing .When they start playing aeropolitics with him in Gatwick let’s see if it is Ohaneze that will save him .

Most women expect their husbands to die before them so they can inherit !

Sabi Pastor

Corruption is the problem and not any bloody monetary policy

This VP is humble sha .Kanu disrupting his pep talk with the boys like he is an ordinary citizen .Would he have done that to Gringory?

800 dollars a month ?
For only two years ?
Thats cheap and very considerate . Sophie Momodu has won my respect!

If there is a chance you can be a director in the next 7 years then don’t leave .

Your friend is giving you the best advice .
The best time to japa is in your twenties .Thirties you might cope but forties you will definitely struggle .

I see them a lot at work .Africans who japaed in their fifties and they almost always regret it .It takes at least 7 years to settle and get your stay .
In that time you will be doing all the menial jobs on earth as a lonely single man.Think carefully!

Only japa in your forties /fifties if Nigeria has absolutely nothing to offer you or you have a firm offer of a job.[/b]

Nigeria will give you an International appointment but you will resort to being tribalistic.
Focusing on Igbo problems only .

This is illegal