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Ibechris2:
It is a stupid shit as a Nigerian but in the western world,it is not a stupid shit and u can't help it except u live by the rules.

what law in the US says that your wife can throw you out for no damn reason and make you sleep outside?
stop writing rubbish online!

Caseless:
quit this narration. The society listens to the woman story first. Don't go and claim any self-defense except you're on camera.
Amber Heard and Johnny Depp's case should tell you what it is.

stop putting the carriage before the horse.... the man broke no law therefore his wife has NO VALID reason to ask him to sleep outside his own home.
stop writing rubbish online!

tonyashburton:
You are a 5 year old if you can't understand that the law doesn't give a Bleep about where he's going to sleep if she is awarded the house and custody of any children in the event that their union is dissolved.

nobody awarded her the house... thus she has no right to ask him to sleep outside!
stop writing rubbish online!

godofuck231:
I would prefer being thrown out of my house than have her leave , at least my kids are still under protection of my house , but when she does throw me out na there my waka start , and na ther when marriage end , she should complete the mortgage of the house and never call me for anything, even if it concerns the welfare of the children because I was dispossessed of my rights as their father and shelter of my own home, so make she carry the house its her inheritance, good luck to her and the newfuckboy when de brain wash her

fair enough, but remember that your kids will learn from your actions...and therefore you must ask yourself: is the the kind of value you wanna teach them. to let yeye people walk all over you because they suddenly lost their goddamn mind?!?

maasoap:
Too much bullshit in your post. They were inside their house and you're talking about witnesses. If she hits you, are you going to record yourself hitting her back? Lol.

Too many USA series, right? Is their movies different from the reality in their society? I don't think so.
If she makes any claim right there to the police, the man will still have prove himself to the law that he didn't do it. Why not leaving quietly to avoid getting into more trouble with their law?

you sir dont know shiit about the world.... get out of Nigeria and live a little, then you will understand that its very easy to film a yeye woman who suddenly lost her goddamn mind! any woman who claims ANYTHING must bring proof to her accusations. if you believe that a woman can claim whatever nonsense and the law just accept it, then you sir are more daft than you sound. it will be YOUR words against HERS...and if you have marks over your body and she has none over hers, then they will believe YOU before her, duh!

nairamaniac:
You are a real ignorant novice.
The man knows what would proceed if any officer of the law comes into that house by virtue of a created noisy-scene.
The lowest ranked officer would order the man to leave the house first.
That's procedure.
First thing.
Then he can fight his case from outside.

you people dont know shiiit about US laws, and are just writing arrant nonsense online!!!!.... no woman can throw her husband out his own house, unless a court orders it, NONE!
stop writing rubbish online!

t2luv1:
Partner if you happen to have any kid under 18 trust me you sleeping outside that house until the court says otherwise. And if you put up and start coming out of the woodwork I guess the country cell is your bed for that night. Never pick a fight with your woman on any winter night especially if it is -20 degrees outside. in Chicago. Lawd have Mercy.

prince3009:
Oga, in the US and Europe, if your wife wakes up one morning and doesn't like your face, she will order you out of your own house you bought with your own money and if you do as much as argue about why you should leave the house and she calls the police, they will come and escort you out of the house with nothing but your suitcase of clothing and nothing will happen o!

If you try to fight her or do gragra...they will lock you up in jaíl!

only a court can ask you to leave your own house....no woman has that power to throw you out your own house, for no damn reason, just because she says so!
stop writing rubbish online!

backnbeta:
I bet you think he should have beaten her! But no, he is not a yeye man- he's just in an environment where he needs to thread softly lest he loses freedom and house!

beating her will surely get him in jail... why would a man do such a foolish thing?! the only way he can beat her is if she attacks him first and he has to defend himself.

007Marvel:
Mr Traveller! White man's law favors women more than men! 75 percent of DV cases women always comes out on top! Mind you have seen up to 5 DV cases! Not Nigeria DV cases but that of the country seen as the center of Democracy and freedom of speech! Which is America!

just because the aw favours women, doesnt mean a woman can throw you out your own house with no valid reason whatsoever. only a court order can ask you to leave your own house, and certainly not a yeye woman who lost her damn mind.

ElPhoche:
Trust me, when police come, they would escort you out of the house. It is actually very common and not unique to him.

no cop has the right to escort you out your own house, just because your wife wants you out... there needs to be proof of domestic violence from your part before they would take you to jail.... without a court order, they have NO VALID REASON to ask you to leave your own house.
now, if your wife has a black eye and marks that you beat the hell out of her, then you aint leaving that house, you are GOING TO JAIL...and thats a different matter.... but no wife can get up one morning and decide that you must get out, and police will say you need to go, NONE!!!

Ckonnet:
In naija or abroad? It's like the abroad stories sounds like fairy tales to you sha. If their are kids in the house and both are legally married, oga you go leave the house.

what does the above got to do with anything?! unless there is proof of domestic violence, and/or a court order to get you out the house, how is she gonna get you out? by showing her blue eyes or what? what will she even tell the cops in order for them to remotely think of removing you from your own house?!?!? you people are just daft!!!!

posty56:
ebi like say you no know how America works ,any zuzu that man is a gonna, straight jail then they deport his ass. , laws there favour women , and Nigeria women get drunk on it

i do feel sorry for people like you who know nothing about the west, yet write arrant nonsense online! straight to jail because some yeye woman wants you out and he doesnt want to leave his own house, bwaaaaaaaah! you guys must be comedians!

Dshocker:
Am sorry sir, i am truly sorry for informing you, na me do mistake.
But i will advise you, when ever you find yourself outside the shores of Nigeria, endeavour to ask questions pertaining the laws of the land..
A judge or magistrate will tell you that ignorance is not an excuse in the court of law

you are the ignorant one here , who obviously dont know anything abouy US laws, writing arrant nonsense online. a woman has NO RIGHT to demand that you leave your own house, for no damn reason...and even if she has a valid reason, she needs a court order to get you out.
you people should use your damn brain abeg!!!! so you actually believe that a woman gets up today, says you must go sleep in the street (for no damn reason), and the law will agree with her and throw you out your own house?!?!?!?

HERE IS A SIMPLE QUESTION FOR ALL YOU YEYE BRAINLESS IGNORAMUS why is there domestic violence shelters all over the US, if a wife could just call the cops and get her husband out his own house?!?!?!

KingTom:
Sorry sir, here have my phone...

use your phone to educate yourself on domestic violence laws in the US, so i dont have to do it for you.

WriterNig:
This is worse than mental illness... WTH! ❌ ❌

...same could be said for Nigerian/African men with their tribal marks.

Freestainworld:
Their body, their business

exactly!!!

KingTom:
The guy no know dem go humble am

all you people who never set foot outside Africa, (let alone the US), and/or ever dealt with the US law on domestic violence, should stop writing nonsense online.

Dshocker:
Guy u fit do gra-gra for naija, but not in America.

In Africa a man is a tiger, but becomes a pussycat when he enters America.

If the man had resisted, then a scuffle would have ensued and once that happens, any mark on her body turns to her evidence and they will use that against you in the court of law, when she files for domestic violence.

stop talking about what you dont know.... a man CAN/MUST resist and simply have evidence that he didnt do anything wrong. what you wrote is not only foolish, but blasphemy for US men. abeg travel a little!!! you actually believe that a woman can do what she pleases and anyone will listen to her, lol?!?!? you watch too many US series...while in the real world it doesnt work this way... if a woman lays a hand on you and/or attacks you, you have all the rights to defend yourself against her (whether you are a man or a woman).... THATS THE LAW! just make sure you do that in front of witnesses and/or cameras so that you have proof.

the problem here is that African men think they can control women abroad (like they do inAfrica), while THEY CANT! the law abroad will send
them straight to jail!

Dshocker:
You are funny, Google the meaning of prenup.

If she had signed a prenup, then she wouldn't get a dime from their divorce.

And in America, you dare not hit your wife, because the laws of the land protects women and children more.

He acted wisely by recording his evidence and also not hitting his wife.

Lets assume you've lived in America for 20yrs and you were able to buy a house $10M, later you got married and had problems with her and you hit her, my brother you might lose 50% of your money, if not all to her and the house automatically goes to her.

explain to me (as if i was a 5yr old) how the above is the justification for (or got anything to do with) him sleeping outside his own home?!?!
as much as this man shouldnt hit his wfe, the solution to this problem certainly ISN'T to sleep outside your own home either. thats his house just as much as hers, thus she has NO RIGHT to demand he leave the premises, unless she can back that out with a serious crime he committed towards her/the kids.

here is a simple clue: this mumu husband is talking about controlling his wife, while this shouldnt happen anywhere on earth. nobody should control others, just because they are married.

it is called the Malê revolt

Dshocker:
That is the reason why most men don't like taking their wife aboard.

Especially if you enroll her into nursing or to study medicine, by the time she is through studying such course, then the chances of her being your wife is like 20%.

And it is her fellow colleagues that will brainwash her into believing that being single is the best and her husband has no right to question her decision.

Dear men; If you ever plan on relocating your wife aboard, make sure she signs a prenuptial agreement.

bro, a prenup wouldnt help in this issue because the problem is not the wife, it is the YEYE MUMU that she calls her husband, that is the main problem here. what man in his right man would let a woman make him sleep outside of HIS OWN HOME?!?!? in what world? what kind of stupid shiiit is that?

yeye mumu husband living with an inconsiderate deluded wife....

what else was a man to do but let them fill their faces up while jejely refuse to pay and walk away?! next yr, she should bring 100 friends. mtschew!!!!

ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
as much as these trans people can believe that they are whoever they desire, it wont change the FACTS.

whats next? electing a dog for president?!?!?!?!?

Nigerian woman abroad who will rather be homeless in the US, doing crimes to survive, than go back home.

... and do you want a medal for that?! oya, collect your prize:

yeye ignorant people!!!!!
if someone want to keep their virginity until AFTER MARRIAGE then they should abstain until marriage.... being engaged is NOT marriage, why would you want an engagement to be as equal as marriage?!?!?!

HUNGER is the culprit....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n3q2hgaLyBU

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siofra:
A POOR PERSON HAS NO BUSINESS MARRYING FOR LOVE.

who are you to dictate who poor people should and/or shouldnt love? if "you" wanna value people for their money then so be it; if thats what you desire for yourself then so be it, but stop making it seem like every poor person out there should value money (above all) like you do.
people who think like you do (and are ready to sell themselves to the highest bidder/donkey) often end up used and abused by these men with money, who use money as a tool to control/abuse/degrade them.

no wonder so many unfortunate women are gladly staying in miserable marriages, when people think the way you do!

iExplore:
Yeah, but if you had to choose, what would it be?
We both know love isn't always mutual. You might love a girl so much, and in return she feels nothing for you. If that happens, and she gives you a chance to be with her, even though she doesn't love you as much... Would you?

if love isnt mutual then it is worthless, why would anyone want to be in a worthless r/ship? the problem here is that you are making it seem like "to be in a r/ship" is a life necessity, while it aint. yes its great to be in a r/ship but why would anyone waste their life/time/energy in a worthless r/ship?

IMHO, its better to be single and fukc "pay as you go" oloshoes than in the above options you gave

every human being need to be with someone they love that EQUALLY loves them back. anyone being with someone that doesnt love them back is on a long thing....aka a waste of life!

tamcamp253:
Is that how you see a side chick, just asking sha

thats how i see any/every woman that wanna please their men (even my mother). mutual satisfaction is the key here.

does your child make an effort to communicate with you through sign?

h0rny conmen and the yeye fowl that follow them!

he should have killed his wife too.... she deserved the same fate as his brotha!

hopefully they are as talented in the classroom, and can proudly flaunt their good grades too.

just kill the h0rny bastard, and be done with it....

so because someone is sampling/chopping a babe, he automatically is dating her?!?!? not all women become GFs, some will forever remain cheap cuum holes for men to relieve themselves.

unless you are a MUMU, nothing will happen to you! take that as a learning experience and BE WISE from now on!

old news, these guys already have been together for years and have 2 kids together....

amateur drinker... drunk with stupidity.