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"silence is golden but when you have young kids, silence is suspicious"..... BWAAAAAAAAAAAAAH very fucking true!

he didnt receive better beating, like the two below:

OP...the more you write on this thread, the more you sound suspect:

1st you said you are married, then a widower, but then a few weeks ago you were a bachelor...as seen below:

Obainoman6:
Normally as a bachelor i wash, i clean, i cook and fetch the water i use, pls remember your doctor knows best.

2nd, is that not you who just last month wrote on NL that you had 734K in your account?!

Obainoman6:
I Have 734k In My Account And No Nigerian Girl Has Tasted 1 Kobo Out Of It)
This is a very big achievement to me, it took me time to finally garner this amount in my bank account, today i was just staring at this money with joy and smiling because no Nigerian girl don taste 1 kobo out of it, except for olosho wey i dey normally do short time.
The last time a girl scam me i sent her 2k for transportation fare she refused to show up, 2k gone, sex i no see, so i leant my lesson and today i am very glad.
There are a lot of SIMPS out there who spent money on women because of pussy wey i dey use 2k nack for brothel
Today like this one girl in my yard just went out come back next thing i saw her coming back with 2 takeaway packs and soft drinks i say chai one simp don go spend him hard earned money and do transfer because of pussy.
SIMPS DESERVE THE Det PENALTY
Any man that spends on his girlfriend for sex doesn't deserve to be called a man amongst us!
Please nairalanders help me to celebrate this very big achievement of mine, i am very proud of it.
Very proud to be a stingy guy.

ABEG, GET YOUR YEYE FAKE STORIES STRAIGHT BEFORE COMING TO NL!

greggng:
You are funny

think about it... the way he even looked (after 2/3 days in police cell) before going in, was WAY DIFFERENT that the usual... so imagine 3 months in Kirikiri. na that time you will get to meet the real BOBBY:

greggng:
6months won't affect him.much ...I was told is just 3 months according to prison calender

even if its just 1month.... that will be 1 month without make up, enhancement, yeye wig, yeye butt pad, yeye eye lashes, yeye fake nails and all the yeye filters. rest assured, he will come out a different MAN completely.

the rich are simply getting richer because they have extra money to invest, while the poor have to use ALL the money they have to pay their FOOD/RENT/TRANSPORT etc

by the time he comes out of jail, he would most likely look like the below:

there are Nigerians everywhere on earth... the catch IS: do you really think Nigerians abroad wanna meet total strangers, just because they are Nigerians?

i hope he receives the proper treatment from his yeye nonsense scams.... here below is the proper treatment called the TWIN LOOK treatment:

Obainoman6:
I am a married man with 2 kids and i have not been paid salary please help me with anything that i can use to eat.
My children are hungry and we haven't had a proper meal since a week, we are nearly running out of gari supply in the house. Please i don't want to end my life but i am thinking about it on Sunday since i cannot provide let me die.
Please anybody should help me with anything so that i can be able to manage to sustain them before the month ends. Thank you very much

bro this morning you were pricing a 15k dog (to eat) and suddenly now you have no more money?!??!!? you chop the dog finish?

Obainoman6:
15k where is your location?

Mariangeles:
When I first saw the picture below, I was whaaata!? This person is daring O.
But then again, I thought It might not be that bad. I mean, if one could eat cake and ice cream together, why not this?
YOLO, you know? Hahahahahahahaha

With that stated, what is the weirdest food combo you've ever eaten, whether or not you enjoyed it?
Would you eat the combo below?

the above is sweet food with sweet food... i would definitely eat it.

as for me:

MrBrownJay1:
- in ivory Coast, i once ate baguette sandwich with spaghetti in it
- in Brazil, they can mix garri (locally called FAROFA) in every meal
- in Medellin, they love hot chocolate with cheese dipped in it... so the cheese melt in the hot chocolate (disgusting)

ZombieDetective:
Noise maker rest

all you people on NL who know absolutely NOTHING about politics, writing arrant rubbish. i repeat....ISRAEL CANNOT FUKC WITH IRAN! if they could, they would do (in Iran) what they are doing in Palestine.

Iran is Israel #1 enemy (they've said it times and times again). Israel bombed Iranian consulate in Damascus, in retaliation Iran sent Israel a warning message to not fukc with its country or consulate anywhere around the world... and to answer them, Israel sent some yeye missiles in the desert that hit NOTHING to de-escalate the situation (without losing face). we all know that Israel aint got the power to fight 2 wars at the same times. let them focus on their genocide in Gaza.

if in doubt, check how Israel missiles in Gaza are killing thousands and destroying entire neighborhoods, but in Iran, suddenly their missiles fall in desert killing nobody.

Yemi4luv:
I have this lady that was pregnant for me thou I didn't denied the pregnant but the problem I'm having now is that i don't want both of us to be living together, I want her to be living together with her parent for now but her mother didn't want her to be living with her, she has threaten to send her out from the house thou I'm always sending money to her and we have bought the babies things and I'm not ready to put her in my house for now becus I'm planning to travel out from Nigeria very soon, I'm confused right now I just don't know what I'm going to do now, I'll need someone advice what should I do ?

shouldnt you have thought of this BEFORE getting this babe pregnant? if i was her parents, i would also NOT want to take care of them. why should they?! if you were mature enough to have unprotected sex together, then continue being mature and take care of your responsibility...

thats what happens when yeye ignoramus men take total strangers abroad. any woman who you bring to the west will eventually CHANGE to the west. this is inevitable (especially if that woman start hanging out with the women there). ultimately, you will discover the truth self of that woman, but by then it will be too late.

this man deserves everything he got from this evil yeye stranger, thinking he was gonna control her with money and school fees.

what cheating "rumors"? that man is a confirmed cheater and the whole world knows it (his wife included). the 2 babies he supposedly got after being married to her proves that. she knew what type of man he was before she met him or married him. it is well!

yeye family... i wonder why you are still with the babe. you already told them your mind:"i can only pay for her schooling/training when she is married to me" case closed!

now that you already know that you will never have a good r/ship with her parents, you best ask your girl the right questions:
- how can we even get married when your parents think so little of me?
- so me and your parents will never ever be cool together, are you ok with that?
- are you sure this is what you want?

alanto:
Give us the names of the 5 people that committed the crime. We want names...

although their tribe is irrelevant to the story, here they are:
1. CHIMUANYA EMMANUEL OZOH
2. BENJAMIN NWACHUKWU AJAH
3. KINGSLEY IKENNA NGOKA
4. TOCHUKWU LEONARD ALISI
5. CHILE MICAH NDUNAGU.

sadly men of today have to realize that many yeye women today dont deserve to be treated as the queen of the past (that our mothers were).
- if a woman is on social media flaunting her body to strangers for cheap attention... SHE BELONGS TO THE STREET!
- if a woman doesnt want to treat you like a king (Aka cook/clean/nurture/worship you)... SHE BELONGS TO THE STREET!
- if a woman can be bought with just a few meals, and is willing to follow-follow any man asking them on a date... SHE BELONGS TO THE STREET!
- if a woman expects you to take care of her and her needs before you guys are even married... SHE BELONGS TO THE STREET!

not all women are the same. there are many undercover oloshoes in these streets... dont mistake these yeye women for proper women/queens with good character out there.

Happytravels:
My husband is extremely caring and loving. He tries his best for me. And I try my best for him. I am a white lady and he is Nigerian. I take care of him and he always talks so fondly of me to all his friends and everyone around him. They tell me he truly loves me like crazy and that he would do anything for me.
But today I saw a side I never did see before. I found some casual flirting online from his side.on his phone. I became mad and angry. I I put his phone down forcefully. But thank God it did not break. I then shut myself in the bathroom with my husband's phone to look at it more .. he broke the door to get in. Because I would not let him in. He yelled at me alot and was very angry. He then threw the phone at my face and really hurt my nose... But after some time he cried and begged that I please stay. That he truly loves me and is shocked that he would ever hurt me. That he has never hurt a woman before in his life .. he begged and held me tightly so I could not leave and would not stop saying he loves me and that it was not his character at all. I have been with this man 2 years online and 5 months in person. We married so I could stay here with him and gain residency and help him. One day raise a family. He was very shocked and hurt by hurting me. I and I felt bad with my attitude that provoked him to such extreme. Never in my life expected this from such a gentle man who is so loving towards me and kind.


Should I forgive him and forget about all this and apologize? Or should I leave?

thinking that a quiet man would remain quiet regardless of what you do to him, is your fail in this issue. its obvious that this man has a violent side to him and possibly has been pretending all this while, but NOW YOU KNOW WHAT TYPE OF MAN HE TRULY IS...and you should never ignore that. so you can either tread carefully from now on and communicate maturely with him when issues arise, rather than acting like a mad person (which will trigger him) OR if you know you will continue acting like this then you best ruuuuun for your life (before we hear sad stories about you in the future)

Bookhub:
I believe if all nations have nuclear weapons there will be peace in the world.

exactly...this is why they know they cant fukc with Iran.

dkidd:
Smart man but I doubt the Op has any dignity left in him. He will still go back to beg and apologize then the new order has been successfully initiated

exactly... thats how some of these women create weak aaass SIMPs.

ARRANT NONSENSE!!!
the reason its cheaper to shoot a movie today is due to TECHNOLOGY (aka you can even use a damn phone and shoot a top quality movie)... the same way that the reason movie producers dont pay actors more money is because now most movie end up online free to watch, and therefore not much money is made from movie... and this has nothing to do with yeye people getting in boats without wearing a life jackets.

Badmashiii:
Okay. To each his own. On a second note, would you rather be poor and miserable or rich and miserable?

the question is irrelevant to the issue at hand...but hey, if anyone wants to dream about living famous people lives (believing it is automatically better than theirs) then by all means do so. again, only mentally miserable/poor people believe that money would solve all their problems in life.

go ask Steve Jobs and/or Paul Allen if all the money in the world could solve their problem in life.

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we know na...

Badmashiii:
If you keep on with this mindset of "money vs happiness" anytime a topic on MONEY is being discussed,i can assure you that you and your kinds can never achieve that "HAPPINESS ".
So somebody drinking garri every morning due to lack of means won't BE HAPPY when given an option to eat his preferred meal every morning?
Those poor folks battling serious ailments at public hospital due to lack of funds won't BE HAPPY when given a chance to be taken abroad for effective cure for thier predicament?
The mathematics graduate who is now a class teacher earning 60k in a month won't BE HAPPY when offered a job of over 1m along with other benefits?
People living in trenches. Face me and face you won't BE HAPPY if given a 3-bedroom duplex with free rent in their preferred location?
For your sake,I'll advice you to desist from having thoughts like "money can't buy you happiness".

Happiness is actually FREE. Anything WORTH MONEY ISN'T.

now you are mixing apples with oranges... the OP solely looked at rich/famous people stating that their lives was automatically better because they were rich... which is false. but sadly, thats how poor people think. they automatically believe that more money always means happier life... and thats not always the case. there are many rich people out there who aint happier than poor people...FACT!!! there are many rich people out there who aint healthier than poor people....FACT!

but hey, again, if you believe that a person who has more money than you is automatically HAPPIER THAN YOU, then so be it.

here is a simple clue: the person living in face me i face you today, if you buy them a 2bedroom apt in Yaba, they will be happier until they now get comfortable and see that people live in duplex in Lekki (and now will desire for more)... and when you now buy them that Lekki duplex, they will desire for Banana Island mansion, and thereafter apt in South Africa, then mansion in London etc etc etc
so again, MONEY DOESNT BUY HAPPINESS, IT JUST BUYS THE STUFF YOU BELIEVE YOU DESIRE TODAY TO FILL THAT VOID. there will always be a void if you are a person who value your happiness upon what others have. a poor miserable person with money, will just turn into a RICH MISERABLE PERSON!

Mastermindfixu:
My girlfriend and I have been together a little over a year, and it's always been rocky. We've broken up many times (almost always me with her) but then we end up back together in a few days.
She has never hit me until today, and then suddenly slapped me after she held my shirt and pinned me against the wall. FYI - I did nothing to her in retaliation . However, I feel pained and disappointed by her action.
Reason - she saw me with a lady who was supposed to apply for the post of a chef at our residence and thought I was having an affair .
I explained myself and next best thing she said to me was that she is done with the relationship.
What do I do?

what a shame!!!!
1st of all, when she slapped you , you should have slapped her back. if she has no respect for your person/relationship, then there is no reason you should have respect for her either.
2nd, if that person cannot communicate respectfully with you, then she has no business being in your life.
3rd, if you ever get back with this disrespectful woman, then that will be her new way of life....aka to disrespect you and your r/ship by slapping you left right and center.

Truvelisback:
Boring ass in? So, poverty is interesting, right?

remember, to a poor man, everything is better... more food is better, more money is better etc but the reality is that many people who have more money than poor people aint automatically happy (their lives only seem more interesting TO YOU). if you ask the majority of famous people, they would tell you that they'd rather live a normal life.

a poor person will only be happy to get more food/money etc for the 1st few years, then afterwards when that person is accustomed to the more food/money etc he or she will desire "more" that possibly MONEY CANT BUY.

MONEY ONLY BUYS HAPPINESS TO POOR PEOPLE (who never had money)