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Yea, i know i might be wrong calling him that name, but if u see my brother acting up over nothing, u probably would have a rethink...

Pidgin2:
Stop calling him a black sheep, it seems like you are very harsh, you probably make him feel worthless

God bless you for saying what i thought abt too..

Most people leave their parents right after university or while in the university

so just because u live apart from your family and then you visit, your younger brother should be acting this way? So for example, u live in lagos or abuja and visit home with all d gifts and still one black sheep is not satisfied and is hell bent on making your stay miserable?

eyinjuege:
Whether abroad or not, OP is entitled to at least an equal share of his parent's property unless otherwise specified in a will by the deceased.
Whether he had to travel abroad, or relocate to Lagos while his siblings are in the village with their father is of no importance while trying to share inheritance.
How many of us still live with our parents after school, and getting a job?
Because we don't live physically with them doesn't mean we don't talk to them, or remember them by sending some token to them when we can.
That doesn't even mean does in the village/same town with them are pulling their weight.

Lol...wow, u make me laugh...well u are entitled to your own opinion..properties?no...its not on my mind,i just want peace and then i fly back to my son and wife...is that too difficult to ask for?..and i never left my parents behind, instead i went in search of greener pastures, instead of to be dependent on my parents...why cant he do same?...i initially wanted to take him back with me,but with this behaviour and fights over nothing,i dont think i can for now...i repeat,i gave him everything even while i was away from home for years...i talked with my late dad and mum at least 3times weekly...

Pidgin2:
After 8 years of staying abroad and leaving your parents behind, you are now back to claim property abi? Your brother has been eating akpu and garri while you have been eating burger, if you attempt to fight him you will be beaten black and blue, you might not be well enough to return abroad so be wise and respect yourself

I will try one more time to be friendly with him,take him out,and then find out from him what d problem really is

You sound like a black sheep...i never said i lived in d US

dont come here to say nonsense,u donno what im passing through here

EfemenaXY:
But of course.



We're always skeptical of stories where the narrator comes blazing in with stories of being victimised, trying to paint the accused of being the devil incarnate or rather in your case, the sibling from hell, etc. Try as much as you may, you don't come off smelling of roses yourself.

Let's give you the benefit of doubt even though it's as clear as day you're trolling: from your (badly composed) write-up, you PRETEND not to know the whole ish with this brother of yours isn't about property? Seriously??

You claim to have left for the USA eight years ago, living the happy content life, but while you were away, who was left to look after your parents in Naija? Your brother. You were funded / sent to the States by your parents while your brother had to face the harsh realities of the Nigerian environment - don't you think he smarted from it? Are you that insensitive??

Go through your write up. "My bàstàrd brother did this, did that, I had to go stay in a hotel for days, yardi-yardi-ya..."

Sorry sir but you sound like a show off. I bet you must have returned in cheap flash clothes from Walmart, blowing phonèr with I wanna-wanna like Yankee just arrive, looking down on your "bush" brother.

Now you've come to claim property as the first born and you pretend not to know the genesis of your issue with your brother? He should beat you up proper, abeg.

And for what it's worth, you don't come across as someone who's lived in the States. Where you sabi for that side?

Once again,i thank everyone here for their opinions and advise...i cant wait for the new year holidays to come and go, lemme fly back and leave this my toxic environment so i dont end up doing what im gonna regret

I am not been economical with the truth...i just said it as it is...and between,even if there was any problem with properties, which wouldnt even happen as i wont even cheat him out of it as we jointly own them and like seriously,i dont even think of the properties aspect, was he thinking he is d only child all d while i was outta Nigeria?i dont get it..my parents love me so much,i was born 11years after their marriage so its kinda expected...but they equally show him equal love too..i am not understanding this at all with my bro...and talking him out is out of it because d moment i take him out and we spend nice times together,it always ends up with his usual behaviour of wanting a fight with me so i stopped it

Thanks a lot...this is exactly my mindset right now

Richy4:
You have invested a lot to be whom you are today....You do not have to go to prison because of anyone especially your brother....or even kill yourself....

Ignore his tantrums big time...Your priority now is your mum and your wife and kid...Have you even thought of how your kid will feel if daddy is jailed.... therefore missing his/her first birthday because you could not control your anger and temper?

I am happy you have shown some class by vacating the place when you were angry....That is what classy men do and I am very proud of you...
Please i repeat ignore whatever he does or say to you ok....I know it will be hard... but your mum will be happy that there was no bloodshed...your wife will be happy that her husband was back...your kid will be happy that dad is back to hold him/she..

Thanks everyone for your concerns...i am trying to stay calm and just ignore him...we have done everything for him and considering, he is a grown up, i think it is high time he should fend for himself also..
i will quietly take my mum away from him and just live him all alone until he adds some value...i think this is the best way for now..dont even know what to think anymore...

Right now, its either i kill myself or this stupid bastrd of a brother i have.i have been away from Nigeria since 2008 and i just got back.i actually came back to Nigeria for the funeral of dad and i have been around ever since trying to keep my mum and brother ok.meanwhile my wife and i just had a son 2 months before i lost my dad so i made a tough decision of leaving them overseas and flying down to Nigeria to observe all burial rites as his first son and because i missed him so much,i couldnt bear the fact that he would be buried without me seeing 1 last time.long story short,after all my late dad's family bullsh^ts during and after my dad's passing away, i have an immediate younger brother(infact my only brother, we are just 2) who behaves so stupid i cannot even imagine i have an only brother like him.He wants to fight me every minute since i have been in Nigeria.i have done everything for him but nothing seems enough.i even have to force myself to stay away from the house to avoid a full blown war with him.I am scared i might kill him, or i will kill myself because all the stress im passing through right now is too much.Left for me, i am this quiet and peace loving happy guy, enjoying my stay in the Nigeria after a long time, while having to deal with my father's death, younger brother's stupid behaviour etc
I am seriously considering flying back to my base oversea and be with my wife and son and totally forget abt Nigeria...every one make me feel hurt xcept my mum

Right now, he is even threatening my mum in the living room and yelling out, calling my name to come out from my room and fight him if i can
Note that i had only just come back from lagos today after a couple of weeks because of this same behaviour...i had to be in hotels or squating with friends whenever he behaves like this...on this trip today, i had to force myself to come down to be with my mum for the holidays no matter how he will behave while i am home, but behold he starts again...
My mum is helpless too, she doesnt want to arrest him or do anything abt his insults to us...she justs tells me to tolerate and its getting really out of hand...i swear...
I DONT WANNA HURT HIM BUT HE KEEPS GETTING WORSE WITH THE INSULTS
i heard this is exactly how he behaved too while my late dad was alive and while i was overseas...no wonder my dad passed away (wondering)
Pls help me nairalanders...dont really know what to do

What are the things you are going to miss most in this world if you happen to die today unexpectedly?

Deep question...

Cocumber don suffer

At least he has the mind to give... love this man sha, i no go lie

Hmnnnnn

Love this...my mama and family will be so proud of me

Heavily brainwashed people

When cocumber dey, why u no go dey talk this...we don know all of una secret nw

I dont know why once i hear "beauty pagent" or "beauty queen" now, my mind and thoughts just keep thinking of cocumbers

its terrible

rheether:
Look at his irritating legs

dem find "fine" leg there...na that leg im take dey make millions...wetin ur "fine" legs don do for u?..

gerrarahia fast before i open my eyes

Our politicians go sell this Nigeria one day or use the country take borrow money with us inside as collateral

《《 SINCE THE 180MILLION NIGERIANS NEVER WAN GREE WISE 》》

Cucumber Queens

Im gonna be a little bit blunt

BREAK UP WITH HER FAST FAST

ARE YOU A LEARNER?

God bless u my man and i hope it ends well...this is exactly one of the reasons why we have to be extra careful in everything we do in Nigeria...been in the country for a few months nw after quite a long time overseas and men, the lawlessness ehn, u will even get scared to help a dying person because dem fit change am for your head say na u kill d person....one just gotta be really careful and vigilant out here

The rich getting richer and the poor getting poorer...

proven time and again

congrats bro

Cucumber dey na, if prick no satisfy u...ode

When body phone the "christian" woman, she will know when...

some actually realise "when", when they are actually in front row to receive blessings when pastor calls out those seeking marriage, attending shiloh etc

some are wiser and start dating early enough

Presh900:
I really don't know what ugly girls feel like... The uglier the person the more fronting she does....

Really?? well i try my best not to date ugly girls, but, what do i know.. u are the master of the uglies may the force be with u

diehardanusfan:
nonsense thread upandan

Nonsense moniker like yours upandan...your moniker speaks for u, thanks and dont mention

daviddagreat:
now I know y she love loves having cucumbers around. gosh I feel for dat fruit .

#IStillStandwiththeCucumber#

the fruit is having one hell of day been the most talked about fruit right now in 9ja for all the wrong reasons