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FamilyRe: What Book On Marriage Can I Get For My Girlfriend On Her Birthday? by MrOpp(m): 11:59am On Oct 04, 2018
YOLO1:
Good day house.
Please, my girlfriend is having her birthday this month. Aside the normal birthday gift, I would like to get her some books on Family and Marriage. Would like to have some suggestions about nice literatures that covers marriage, family, treatment and understanding of the husband, the children, her role and duties as the wife to be, finances in the family and so on.
Thanks
You might not get a single book covering all the aforementioned, I will recommend any or all of this.

Technology MarketRe: Beware Of Abayomi94!!!he’s A Scammer!! by MrOpp(m): 9:06am On Oct 04, 2018
I warn this Abayomi guy yesterday, he read my comment and ignore my warning, I have already foreseen all what is happening now and more, I told him he will be caught and I will be waiting to see his face all over the internet, this dude don't know what he is doing with his future.

Wise people learn from other people experience, fools learn from their experience, you should have learn from other people, you might not live to learn from your own experience.

If you have not been caught, and still reading this, CALL THE OP, APOLOGIES TO HIM AND ALL NAIRALANDERS AND PAY HIM HIS MONEY, YOU STILL HAVE AN OPPORTUNITY TO REDEEM THE LITTLE REPUTATION YOU STILL HAVE, SINCE YOU HAVE NOT BEEN CAUGHT. THE OP WILL DO THE NECCESSARY WHEN YOU PAY HIM, NAIRALANDERS MIGHT BEG ON YOUR BEHALF. THIS IS MY LAST WARNING.
Technology MarketRe: Beware Of Abayomi94!!!he’s A Scammer!! by MrOpp(m):
McMayor:
There is no lose anywhere. He took the lads money. He knew what he was doing all along. Let the guy report to a police station in Ibadan. They are going to first invite him and if he doesnt show then its pure his a scammer then the law will take its course except the OP doesnt have enough money to pursue his case.
Abayomi will completely loss his reputation if he doesn't pay the Op, If he doesn't care about his personality and reputation and can soil it for 600k, then he's a fool. A quote from 48 laws of power, Law 5 "So much depends on reputation, GUIDE IT WITH YOUR LIFE" Abayomi should not have let this happen in the first place. He is young, not yet rich, someone commented he knew him during his NYSC in Ibadan, which I guess is recently, he has a long future ahead of him, why will he tarnish his reputation and future for a paltry 600k?


Am just wondering how naïve some young Nigerians could be. Rubbish


Op, take this to Xsquad, that guy will be track and arrested, if he decide to throw his phone and sim away, follow up with the police and court, all bank accounts linked to his bvn will be watchlist, wherever you get your cards from doesn't matter, as long you have evidence you gave him the cards, its non of your business if he swallow them or lost them, he will pay you to the last dime.
Technology MarketRe: Beware Of Abayomi94!!!he’s A Scammer!! by MrOpp(m):
Abayomi94:
even a bad business pays someone... just don’t be a loser in this game of wins and losses. keep the cards coming
My friend, Abayomi or whatever you call yourself, this is inhuman, your excuses are flimsy. You should have weigh the benefits and losses before you embark on this, 600k, my friend its not worth it, Your reputation that has been trample on is worth more than 600k, you have just display your cowardice and stupidity for a paltry 600k. Let me advise you, there is still hope to manage this, atleast you have not been caught and your face is not yet here, Call the Op and pay him his money so he can take down this post, I believe the Op will let everything go when he gets his money, if you don't, believe me, you will be caught.

Don't take this for a joke, i repeat you will be caught. And you will remember my advise. Do the needful, pay the Op his money & thank me later. If you don't, I will be patiently waiting to see your face all over nairaland when you are caught, humiliated, disgrace and possibly lock up.

Don't forget, the internet don't forget, your reputation will be gone forever, you will only make life more difficult for yourself. Mark my words.


Don't blame the devil, and don't say you were not warned. A stitch in time save nine
RomanceRe: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by MrOpp(m): 5:07pm On Sep 20, 2018
thegentleman:
lol sho mo age mi ni ?grin considering am 28, if I marry at age 30... my first child will be around 20 when am 50... it's not good to raise a child when u are old, I had a fair share of it, my parents where old when I was growing up, and I know how tough it is... no one is ready to help u train a child at the current times, one has to plan well.

That's the reason I posted it the first place so as to know if am on the right track or sliding away.

thanks for your advice smiley
OP, about this, I want you to know that its a good thing to have your kids early in life, for whatever reasons you might have, beware, if you decide to get married early and start having kids, its a good thing, but you might not afford to give your kids the dream life you want them to have, why? because you start having kids when your where still managing, you might not afford to send them to school in the UK, US etc, you might not afford to give them a world class education, an average standard of living until there grow up, when you start having kids it becomes very difficult for you to develop yourself professionally why? because caring and raising kids is time consuming and require a lot of money, since you don't have a big job or business yet, where will you get the money to raise your kids and still develop yourself? So you need to understand that for you to get married early and start having your kids young, you need to tradeoff something. So what am I saying, when you get married early, there is possibility that you need to trade off some growth in your career.

Op, I want you to find this book and read it "Winning by Jack Welch" read the last part of the book that talk about "Work life balance" you will get a perfect answer to your above comment on getting married early and having kids.

Cheers
RomanceRe: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by MrOpp(m): 4:46pm On Sep 20, 2018
BanjiHols:
Life after school is different from school/NYSC times..welcome to the real World

My advise for you is to go ahead and marry her only if you know that she is a ride or die galfy.(a focused lady that can be there come rain come shine)
Cos its hard to find tru love after school/NYSC.

You can always further your education as long as u are compatible.


If not focus on your career.
My dear, don't bank on what you know people to be before marriage, In marriage a lot of things change, people change, not intentionally, situation, challenges change people, When your girlfriend/boyfriend tell you "I will be there come rain come shine" my brother/sister don't bank on it, I repeat don't bank on it, am not saying don't trust people, but beware that situation change people, everyone has his/her breaking point.

TBH, love begin to grow long after marriage, when you have face a lot of challenges together and overcome it, when both of you have been & seen difficult times (this does not mean only financially) together and still standing, that's when you begin to really and genuinely begin to love each other earnestly.

I do tell most unmarried and single guy/ladies that when you have not spend reasonable time with your partner be it girlfriend and boyfriend what you feel, I don't call it LOVE yet, love takes a lot of time to grow, you must have seen the positive and negative side of each other and accept it. that is when you begin to say I really love you. Any other thing is just attraction, likes etc. but not love, love is a strong word. I advise people not to use it carelessly.
RomanceRe: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by MrOpp(m): 4:43pm On Sep 20, 2018
BanjiHols:
Life after school is different from school/NYSC times..welcome to the real World

My advise for you is to go ahead and marry her only if you know that she is a ride or die galfy.(a focused lady that can be there come rain come shine)
Cos its hard to find tru love after school/NYSC.

You can always further your education as long as u are compatible.


If not focus on your career.


My dear, don't bank on what you know people to be before marriage, In marriage a lot of things change, people change, not intentionally, situation, challenges change people, When your girlfriend/boyfriend tell you "I will be there come rain come shine" my brother/sister don't bank on it, I repeat don't bank on it, am not saying don't trust people, but beware that situation change people, everyone has his/her breaking point.

TBH, love begin to grow long after marriage, when you have face a lot of challenges together and overcome it, when both of you have been & seen difficult times (this does not mean only financially) together and still standing, that's when you begin to really and genuinely begin to love each other earnestly.

I do tell most unmarried and single guy/ladies that when you have not spend reasonable time with your partner be it girlfriend and boyfriend what you feel, I don't call it LOVE yet, love takes a lot of time to grow, you must have seen the positive and negative side of each other and accept it. that is when you begin to say I really love you. Any other thing is just attraction, likes etc. but not love love is a strong word. I advise people not to use it carelessly.
RomanceRe: Should I Go For Marriage Or Career? by MrOpp(m):
OP, I don't think getting married with a 50k pay and as a new graduate is a wise thing to do, I will suggest you go for a Master Degree or preferably go for professional certifiction in your chosen field, in the next lets say 3-5yrs you will have been grounded in your chosen field, hopingly with a better job and a better pay, and you must have gain more years of experience, physically more mature, then you can think of getting married. I don't think 3-5yrs from now is too long for you to prepare yourself. Let me give you some reasons why I think you should wait for few more yrs.


1. 50k as your monthly earning is too low to settle down with & live an average life.
2. After marriage kids might start coming in, trust me catering for kid(s) is a lot of responsibilities, financially, emotionally, and physically. (this is from experience, I have been married for over 9yrs and my wife and I earn above 300k monthly, but trust me, its still not easy)

3. You need to be sure of you/your partner's emotional, mental and physical maturity, marriage require alot of emotional and mental maturity. (we don't want our society to thrive on fail marriages/homes).
4. 3-5yrs from now you will be more experienced in your chosen career or possibly hold a Masters Degree, hopingly you will also be earning reasonable pay, with the experience you have garner even if you lose your job, you can easily get another job, but right now with a 50k monthly pay and less than 3yrs experience, it might be difficult for you to get another job incase you lose the present job and that will affect your marriage/ life negatively.

Kindly think over all these and more before making your final decision, marriage is a very serious commitment, take alot of time to think over it, it will save you alot of regrets in the future.


You can send me a pm, if you need someone to talk to on this

I wish you luck.
CareerRe: Risks Of A Accounting Career by MrOpp(m): 8:50am On Sep 18, 2018
dahmie2013:
The evolutn of Accounting softwares, especially ERPs have reduced d value of d profession. I won't even encourage anyone 2 study it.
My friend, I suggest you research before talking, the evolution of accounting software only reduced the value of bookkeepers, not accountants. The job of an accountant is more than what you think.
CareerRe: Risks Of A Accounting Career by MrOpp(m): 8:47am On Sep 18, 2018
Op, you are wrong, most coy CEO's and Directors are finance professionals, for anyone to successfully run a coy/business, its important you understand accounting/finance.
PropertiesRe: Self Container House For Rent At Okporo Road, Rumuodara Port-harcourt by MrOpp(m): 12:01pm On Sep 11, 2018
molar36:
Good day all, i am staying in a self con house at okporo road, rumuodara port-harcourt, but i want to relocate to imo state, my rent is upto 6 months before it expires and i want to help someone out who might need accomodation....the person will also be using my properties before i settle down and come and pick up my properties.....and if he/she wants to continue paying the rent, is left for the person by next year february... i paid 165,000 for one year but as a help, the person can pay me 30,000 no agent fee, no drinking money.

interested call me on 07039571590, 09028221777
Hello, Pls is this still available? kindly quote me if yes. Thanks
CrimeRe: A Gala Seller Gives Prisoners In A Van Stuck In Lagos Traffic Gala by MrOpp(m): 6:35pm On Sep 01, 2018
ejihand:
Something tells me that he's an ex-convict. Though he has a human and lively heart.
i agree with u. he might have been there though not neccessarily as a convict.

Such a kind heart.
Technology MarketRe: Very Very Clean Used Huawei P Smart by MrOpp(m): 1:07pm On Aug 01, 2018
Newerakings:
Clean Almost New Lenovo Zuk z1 For sale with cartoon charger and 3gig ram, 64gig in built memory and 4000Mah battery 45k
Contact me on 08163120454
Location Benin
This Phone has a bad review online check it out. superb spec, bad review. All thesame many thanks.
Technology MarketRe: Samsung S7 For Sale @60k by MrOpp(m): 12:08pm On Jul 30, 2018
henrixx:
keep saving.
pls where is your location?
PhonesRe: Clean Iphone 6s, 6splus, Samsung Note 5, S7 Urgently Needed In Ph 50k Budget by MrOpp(op): 12:07pm On Jul 30, 2018
henrixx:
You are one of the reasons why scamers exist and one of the reasons why they are determined and unrepentant too.

Goodluck as you spend your 50k
I don't understand, do u mean my 50k can't buy any of the above use phone?
Technology MarketRe: Samsung Galaxy Note 5 For Sale..65k by MrOpp(m): 10:33am On Jul 30, 2018
Djdamian:
Yes it is
50k am in PH and the cash is ready
Technology MarketRe: Samsung S7 For Sale @60k by MrOpp(m): 10:31am On Jul 30, 2018
henrixx:
Extremely neat
No cracks
Perfect condition

Call or watsap 08062292514
50k, am in PH, cash available
Technology MarketRe: Used Iphone 6 by MrOpp(m): 10:30am On Jul 30, 2018
Klasik01:
Used IPhone 6
16gb
For just 80k
Call or WhatsApp me :+2348100191459
50k cash am in PH
Technology MarketRe: Imported Uk Samsung Galaxy Note 5 now 48k,call 08038940607 by MrOpp(m): 10:29am On Jul 30, 2018
50k am in Port Harcourt cash available
Technology MarketRe: Uk Used samsung Galaxy s6 DUOS for 50k,comes in all colors and Warranty by MrOpp(m): 10:27am On Jul 30, 2018
psalmz:
All in good working condition,tested ok,in good condition and comes in warranty,call 08038940607
location pls?
Technology MarketRe: Samsung Galaxy Note 5 For Sale..65k by MrOpp(m): 9:11am On Jul 27, 2018
Djdamian:
Extremely neat samsung galaxy note 5
4gb ram ,32gb storage

Contact 07066003327

Location Lagos
Is this phone still available?
Technology MarketRe: Very Very Clean Used Huawei P Smart by MrOpp(m): 4:34pm On Jul 26, 2018
kamikazee0:
Still Available.
50k. very serious buyer my location is PH
Technology MarketRe: Clean Iphone 6s, 6splus, Samsung Note 5, S7 Urgently Needed In Ph 50k Budget by MrOpp(op): 4:16pm On Jul 26, 2018
choocboi:
75k last
above my budget.
Technology MarketRe: Clean Iphone 6s, 6splus, Samsung Note 5, S7 Urgently Needed In Ph 50k Budget by MrOpp(op): 1:55pm On Jul 26, 2018
choocboi:
iPhone 6 16gb 65k slightly negotiable
iPhone 6s 16gb 80k slightly negotiable
They are Nigerian used
Location is PH
What is the final price for the 6s?
Technology MarketRe: Clean Iphone 6s, 6splus, Samsung Note 5, S7 Urgently Needed In Ph 50k Budget by MrOpp(op): 12:57pm On Jul 26, 2018
choocboi:
You can whatsapp me for more details 08051583599
Am buying a phone cos I don't have one, I don't have a WhatsApp enable phone, quote me with what is available and price, the location must be Port Harcourt.
Technology MarketRe: Clean US Used Apple Iphone 6 16gb At 52k! by MrOpp(m): 12:12pm On Jul 26, 2018
I need this phone, am in Port-Harcourt. Is there a way around it? if I can get it between today & tomorrow.

Pls I can only pay on delivery.
Technology MarketRe: Clean Iphone 6s, 6splus, Samsung Note 5, S7 Urgently Needed In Ph 50k Budget by MrOpp(op): 11:46am On Jul 26, 2018
choocboi:
50k for these phones you mentioned...you must be a joker �
Which of the above phones do you have available and how much?
PhonesClean Iphone 6s, 6splus, Samsung Note 5, S7 Urgently Needed In Ph 50k Budget by MrOpp(op): 11:24am On Jul 26, 2018
I urgently need anyone with a clean IPhone 6s, 6splus, or Samsung Note 5, Samsung Galaxy s7, S7edge, for sale to contact me.

Phone should be clean
Must be 100% functional
100% no issue
Nigeria or foriegn version

Nigeria version preferred
Individual seller preferred

Budget: 50k
Port - Harcourt resident only.
Technology MarketClean Iphone 6s, 6splus, Samsung Note 5, S7 Urgently Needed In Ph 50k Budget by MrOpp(op):
I urgently need anyone with a clean IPhone 6s, 6splus, or Samsung Note 5, Samsung Galaxy s7, S7edge, for sale to contact me.

Phone should be clean
Must be 100% functional
100% no issue
Nigeria or foriegn version

Nigeria version preferred
Individual seller preferred

Budget: 50k
Port - Harcourt resident only.

Thanks
Technology MarketRe: UPDATED WITH CLEARER PICS! USA USED Samsung S7 Edge For 74k Only. by MrOpp(m): 4:32pm On Jul 17, 2018
I will pay 50k, am in PH
SportsRe: The Nigerian World Cup 2018 Tracksuit Cost 72,000 Naira - Fans React by MrOpp(m):
Hello NLers, i have been an active reader on NL as a guest for a long time, i have just been offered a job in Port Harcourt, thanks to NL job section. I presently reside in Uyo, AKS. Please, any NLer living in Woji Port Harcourt or its environs who can assist a brother share his accommodation temporary should help me. I am male, 29yrs and married. I can be reach via

Kindly treat this as an emergency .

Thanks.
PhonesRe: Which Mobile Network Provider Currently Offers More Data Vol At A Cheaper Price? by MrOpp(m):
Hello NLers, i have been an active reader on NL as a guest for a long time, i have just been offered a job in Port Harcourt, thanks to NL job section. I presently reside in Uyo, AKS. Please, any NLer living in Woji Port Harcourt or its environs who can assist a brother share his accommodation temporary should help me. I am male, 29yrs and married. I can be reach via

Kindly treat this as an emergency .

Thanks.

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