Romance › Re: Battle Of The Sexes by MrsChima(f): 1:51pm On May 31, 2015 |
Bride price is ancient.
It isn't necessary and gifts (without conditions) is more appropriate. |
Romance › Re: Battle Of The Sexes by MrsChima(f): 1:47pm On May 31, 2015 |
justified19: mrschima will like to read dia....advocate of gender equality. I am a feminist! I am not skurr!  |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 1:43pm On May 31, 2015 |
Beamborla: Why is it that whenever the issue of feminism is raised? Guys/men/boys become somewhat irked and defensive Can I kiss you? No homo!  |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 1:42pm On May 31, 2015 |
faith551: I never said that, but I wnt wanna have something that didn't cost me. It's not buying you, it's showing am/he is proud of having you. Btw nothing on earth is enough to buy a woman if it's possible to do so You are smooth..you be Yoruba? |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 1:41pm On May 31, 2015 |
Beamborla: He seems not to agree with you.  He is a man..what's to expect?  |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 1:38pm On May 31, 2015 |
shockwave91: i totally agree that women shouldn't be comfortable where they are. They can do and be much more than the "roles" set by "men". But that shouldn't be at the expense of stripping away what makes a woman a woman, which whether you choose to agree or not is a side effect of the kind of feminism being preached today. Some women don't want to do what makes them women anymore because they believe it inequalises them among men. I'm i right or i'm i right? Isn't that horseshit? Until we celebrate women's wonderful roles in society, to me, this whole thing still doesn't make sense. You are wrong! There are womwn who work inside the home and hold reputable careers I can't say the same for the men. There are womwn who maintain thwir kids while pushing a pen at corporations I can't say the same for men. I don't know what is your definition of a woman but it is not definitely your opinion of what you think a woman is. If we would to enforce the ideal role of a male...the average man wouldn't pass. We need to stop being silly and know everything isn't about us or complicated. |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 1:27pm On May 31, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 1:25pm On May 31, 2015 |
shockwave91: #TrueTalk.
But just because a man can carry 2 50kg bags of cement doesn't mean a woman should do same in the name of "equality". There you go again...who are you to say what a woman should or shouldn't do? If she want to carry a ton of bricks...what is your business? |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 1:21pm On May 31, 2015 |
faith551: I no wan run again abeg, make my body spoil make I see am. Una wan run oya...... Get set...... Go!!!!!!!! Wen I pay ur bride pride price, no be person go tell u make u stop  I am priceless! I no for sale.  |
Romance › Re: Help! Chima Slapped Me! by MrsChima(op): 1:14pm On May 31, 2015 |
DarkkRebel: You are a consummate r£tard! what could be more whorish and sluttier than a married woman smiling as a form of 'thank you' to a compliment a stranger made about her buttocks in her husband's presence?
you are a nitwit and the bluntest sex-toy humanity has ever seen since the big bang.
if you have any sense of decorum left in you, you'd beg a mod to delete this thread. you are such a shameless thot ! Yes! You lost!  [size=22pt] Show is over readers![/size] |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 1:11pm On May 31, 2015 |
faith551: Who's even interested in running? I be u ulsain bolt? I no get strength sef Running is good for the body!  |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 1:06pm On May 31, 2015 |
Teempakguy: [font=Georgia][i][color=navy]They were never feminists. You see, feminism relies on the concept that men are the problem. You people paint us as the enemy. Whenever we display chivalry, you say we think you are weak . . . you insist on helping yourselves . . . you forget that both sexes are compliments of each other. You insist on being granted the right to pursue moral and sexual decadence. You argue for abortions, you forget that the men who look down on you are actually older, bigger, faster, and more collected than you are. You demand respect from older men. Something younger men would not dare to ask. You say you are being asked to keep quiet. But now, no one is stopping you and yet, you have not said anything.
What you are looking for is preposterous and wildly unimaginable. If you cannot beat a man yourself, don't clamor for him to respect you. If you cannot outlast a man drinking, do not demand his respect. When mother Theresa was alive, she did not form an organization forcing men to respect her. Yet, many men would readily destroy anyone who spoke ill of her,
Florence Nightingale. I trust you know her, is one of the most respect female figures in history, She did not clamor for this respect. I do recall Ada Lovelace. She did not clamour for respect. Yet now, we revere Her as a brilliant mathematician. Respect is earned. Not relinquished. [quote] Please pot where I said Helen Keller and Mother Theresa were feminists? If you actually read my post you will see that I said they advocated for others not women empowerment. I have never said women should demand respect. I strongly believe in do unto others as they do unto you! If a man doesn't respect a woman she should reciprocate the same! What is good for the goose should be good for the gander! I dont know what "Feminists you know personally or publicly that said they views men as enemies. The feminists I know personally do not see men as enemies but do see that you guys aren't open to change that can potentially lower your self esteem. It is not that complicated and dual contribution is a stress reduction but for some odd reasons you guys got this film in your mind that modern women wants men extinct and eradicated from this world!  I swear I don't know what is funnier hormonal women during their cycle or mental hysterical men who think women are out to "kill" them. That's a self esteem issue...nothing to do with Feminism. If feminism is about women's dominance and killing the male species....why is the hell would a Feminist want to work and be equal to a man in other areas of life? Exactly!  |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 12:35pm On May 31, 2015 |
(Turning up the volume) It's raining men/boys!  |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 12:33pm On May 31, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 12:31pm On May 31, 2015 |
ronald4lif: What does Western feminists really want?. It appears as though they give of the illusion that they are fighting for equal rights whereas they are just men haters and are seeking for women supremacy. What section of life are women being discriminated in the West?. Is it at politics, schools, work place or the domestic front that the government have empowered women to kick their husband out of their homes at any slightest red-rag?.
I do understand, to some extent, the feminism struggle in the third world countries but I don't get the feminism rabble-rousing from the West. Does women want men to become an endangered species more than we already are? Do they want to send the male gender to an extinction?. What's this jabberwocky feminism talk about?. Ronald boo...how would men become endangered species because of Feminism?  I guess Beyonce is a man hater! Why's the fvck she married a man  |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 12:27pm On May 31, 2015 |
shockwave91: Feminism; "what a man can do, a woman can do better". LMFAO!! One of the most degrading sh*t i've ever heard.
Isn't it ridiculous that it's only when women do so called "men things" that they are regarded as "strong women"? When will society celebrate women for what they are? Which is.......women. Women are the primary & sole reason why the family unit survives & that has led the world to what it is today. No man will ever be able to replicate the role a woman performs in the society as a good mother & a good wife. Same goes for men as fathers & husbands.
I guess my point is until we celebrate women for what they are(women) & not what they are not(men), this whole feminism thing is horsesh*t Gender roles were established by man. Men did not want to sit at home all day chasing kids and slaving over a hot stove. Why would a woman want to do the same? Some women don't mind staying at home and chasing kids and they were the ones who didn't have the formal education to contribute outside of the home. Feminism isn't about trying to be a man. If that is the case then Male Chauvinism is about being a woman. That's nonsense. Just because you don't agree with what Feminism is a out and women wants to work outside of the home doesn't give you the right to enforce others to accept how you think it should be. |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 12:15pm On May 31, 2015 |
Teempakguy: [color=navy]these women conveniently exclude people like hellen Keller and mother Theresa in their arguments. Being a woman means being strong in fragility. Being resilient while being delicate. But if you insist on being like men, by all means, go ahead. You are the ones that will get tired.[/color] if we go labeling what is it to be a man then we will be insulted for tears. You guys can't define what is a woman without being defined as in what's a man? Helen Keller was a deaf and blind author who lectured and advocated outside of the home. Helen's primary focus was to awareness of deaf and blind constituents of America. Mother Theresa was a humanitarian that focused on eliminating poverty and nurturing peace which could contribute to women's empowerment. Many women who were brave enough to be heard allowed women to participate outside the home and contribute to society from a panoramic stance! |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 12:01pm On May 31, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 12:00pm On May 31, 2015 |
faith551: Everybody knows the truth  U can't hide it Just because she is a wife/girlfriend doesn't mean she is being ran.  Get over it! |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 11:58am On May 31, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Women be giving themselves false hope. You people must be running cuckoo land, not planet earth. Nonsense! Why aren't you in power boo?  Girls!  |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 11:56am On May 31, 2015 |
Kasiem2: celebrating the women for what they are has always been a major part of African ethics, that's why they are protected from major stress of toiling to see she gets what to eat. Again, the kind of protection that's given to a widow is never accorded to a widower all because we know how vulnerable they are. So if the women folk thinks they are not comfortable where the society has kept them then they should be ready to face the challenges of change Anyone who is lonely and desire companion will be vulnerable at some degree but isolating someone for the sake of protection is wrong! Women do not need to be treated like eggs and I am sure the change in societal trends would be accepted and appreciated! |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 11:52am On May 31, 2015 |
missclasssy: [color=#000050]That's not Feminism.
Feminism is all about the social, political, religious economic equality of the sexes. Not placing one above the other.[/color] Exactly. It is about giving women the opportunity to participate and contribute equally without being told to be seen and not heard! |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 11:46am On May 31, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Shocking!!! Wonderful Make Up Transformation by MrsChima(f): 11:45am On May 31, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: . by MrsChima(f): 11:42am On May 31, 2015 |
MrDojo: Yes na.....its Sexy until how core brothers and sister open their mouth  The Yorubas I know have sexy accent and my ex used to speak Yoruba on my toto.  |
Romance › Re: Help! Chima Slapped Me! by MrsChima(op): 11:40am On May 31, 2015 |
Jacksparrow0712: Painment  It would take way more than stale insults to pain me. Good luck trick. |
Romance › Re: Help! Chima Slapped Me! by MrsChima(op): 11:38am On May 31, 2015 |
DarkkRebel: Chima's action is 100% justifiable.
Mrschima is officially the dullest tool on nairaland. a full grown adult with the moral discipline of a 15 year old prepubescent girl.
more moronic is that you had the balls(vagina) to come on the internet to openly narrate another of your foolish acts. supposing your husband sees this thread.
It won't take long before Chima realises what a wh0re you are and sends you packing back to that little mgeke hut he picked you from in Anambra. Wh0re is slang for prostitute. Prostitutes sell their bodies or sexual services to men/women in exchange for money/gifts. Thanking a person for a compliment/comment isn't wh0rish but polite.  if you want to be a critic of intellectual acumen/exertions you must first fisplay/possess intelligence . Now go run and play little boy.  |
Romance › Re: Help! Chima Slapped Me! by MrsChima(op): 11:27am On May 31, 2015 |
faith551: So u ain't telling me right? What do you want to know sweerie? |
Romance › Re: Help! Chima Slapped Me! by MrsChima(op): 11:26am On May 31, 2015 |
Jarizod: no offense ma..I still like u   |
Romance › Re: African Woman And Feminism. by MrsChima(f): 11:23am On May 31, 2015 |
faith551: And who run the girls? Not the men/boys!  |
Romance › Re: . by MrsChima(f): 11:22am On May 31, 2015 |
dancok: I understand u,and I know what am saying even if they see what they want, dey will still form for that thing. Oh okay...you got a point there. I think if people know the true quality of a person then they shouldn't waste time! |
Romance › Re: . by MrsChima(f): 11:20am On May 31, 2015 |
MrDojo: Nobody is sayin dey shuld nt be proud of it...I'm a yoruba boy and I ave to admit it. its annoying sometimes..... Don't worry..I won't chop your money .....yet!  I like hearing Yoruba language and the accent is sexy!  |