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slimmy05:
In as much as I am pro diversity, I still do not see reason why it should be a competition like some deranged ill educated portrays it. You need better schooling, you just come here thinking you can rant and talk down on men any how. I'll cut your wings.

The same thing can be said about you and manbishes who think they can say whatever and a woman won't check them!

As far as schooling goes...take your own advice! Just saying!

slimmy05:
I see no reason why a responsible woman would be online when she is meant to be with the husband, shows the extent to which you are frustrated. Your case really doesn't have remedy. You better drop dead.

I would be glad when you find a man, woman, or dog. You are a bit obsessive in chatter's personal life.

Feminists is a group of people (both men and women) fighting for gender equality in all areas of life.

dinachi:
Any woman who foolishly identifies herself as a feminist is either a closeted lesbian or a mentally in balanced individual. Most women who identify as feminists are a small group of frustrated women angry at men and the world. If you genuinely believe in equality for all, then you cannot be a feminist. Feminists are for those fighting for ONLY women rights not everybody's rights! I believe in equality for men, women and children. No segregations.

Are you misogynistic?

I guess Beyonce is frustrated and she is a feminist. She can buy your entire family and still have more money left!

rapmike:
Thank you for this post.

A lot of females that commented here missed the point. Nobody is against a woman having her money. Its when she sees having money (perhaps and usually more money than the man) as a reason to compete with him/ put him down, then flags begin to be raised.

Just because some women make more money than the man or "compete" with him doesn't make her a feminist.

I wish some people stop misusing the word because you don't have more words to describe the person correctly.

slimmy05:
dunderhead keep feeling like she has some wheat not knowing she's just a pile of abandoned garbage.

You had better revisit your life before you get knocked down by crack head Latinos cos your sight sucks

Yawns. You must be really bored!

Peaceemerald:
Sorry that this has to come from another woman, but the way you carry this feminism, makes you look like you are angry and frustrated about something. You degrade, attack and insult men at the slightest opportunity, even the ones who happen to be very polite, like the one you replied with this text. Is that what your feminism is about? Hating men and dragging authority in the home with your husband?

I think either of these three things must have happened to you a) you have been badly hurt by a man or men b) you are finding it difficult to get a husband or you had a bad marriage and this has led to your bitterness. c) your father must have hurt your mum previously.

But your bitterness and anger cannot change that which is the norm. If i am married, i ll respect my husband as my head. If you can't then don't get married and keep your frustration to yourself. You arguments are irrational and pointless, you are just dancing from place to place without logic it's embarrassing to descent women here.

I know you ll reply with vituperations, bile and insults. Darling i understand your situation , and i forgive you already, so bring it on.

Okay....you feel better? I would be too if I was verbally shitting!

LMAO@angry . That's some funny shit! Thanks for the laugh!

slimmy05:
you should spend more time picking the pieces left in your miserable life. You're overused, drained and should be trashed. I wonder the ilk or dimwit that would share same bed with you.

As I have called it...this bish can't not stop talking to "this miserable" person!

Dumb ass!

Monikween:
a large percentage of threads are women degrading... I just observed nd d men are soooo quick to lash out nd say all sorts.. .It's just My opinion but these posts are disturbing... always attacking females..

Precisely! Don't express your opinions differ from them or don't agree with their barbaric mentality...it is on!

Something is wrong in your house or you are a slut because they didn't expect to come across women who will speak brashly and not give a Bleep who doesn't like it!

If they rim out of fighting words....they will throw dirt at you and not expect you to fight them back.

Let them attack...that is all they can do online!

dicefrost:
I really wonder what is fueling her anger

Anger? I wish I would get angry over some faceless chatters bullshit.

Wrong chatter boo! If anyone come at me with bullshit...I like to return the gifts!

slimmy05:
when you turned yours to a punching bag, you frustrated overused sluut

Not like that old hag you called a cumbucket!

dicefrost:
I would have commented further, but since you have taken to name calling, i ll just stop here. I thought we could reason like responsible people, but i'm not good at name calling or trading insults, neither do i like being insulted. I was polite to you. ...... Bye

Good bye.

sampsondeen:
Shhhh!!!
it's diff in ds case..we tawking marriage. .yhu bringing in religion

I didn't bring in religion...I responded to someone who did. Big difference.

ayoku777:
Are you calling me a hypocrite? Or that I quote scriptures without striving to live up to it by God's grace? Do you judge people without knowing them? Or you are just fond of stereotyping?

I'm not perfect but hear this; if Jesus were to show up to me today and say; Ayo, ask what I shall give you? I will say, Lord, to be like you. To behold your glory and be changed into the image of your glory.

Sister, not everyone is a hypocrite. So please stop stereotyping. Don't judge me by the character of those you've met or know.

That being said; you didn't disprove all the verses I quoted to buttress my point. You just digressed to implying.

While it is true that killing an adulterer falls under the old covenant; the verse that said that the man is the head of the woman and that the man was not made for the woman but the woman for the man are new testament truths.

A man should love his wife as Christ loves the church; and the woman should submit to her husband. Let the scripture say what it said, not what we want it to say.

When a woman marries a man, she marries into the house and family of the man. That is why Jesus was called a Son of David; even though she was born of a virgin and Joseph was the one from the lineage of David.

It proofs that Mary married into the lineage of David through Joseph. That's the way it is. She leaves her father's house and is called after her husband.

Scripturally speaking, a man has more right to demand that his wife bears only his name, more than the woman has to demand otherwise. There is no scriptural justification for a woman objecting to that. Just 21st century civil liberty justification.

I see you haven't answered my questiin, "are you willing to be a slave since the bible supports it?"

First of all I didn't judged you and I simply asked questions to mirror your judgemental tone. Secondly...a chatter said the same thing you have said about men being the head etc and I have responded. I don't need to repeat myself to make a point.

I have also said in my post that Ephesian 5 speaks about a woman submitting to her husband as he submit to Jesus Christ who is the head of the church. The verse is emphasized that husband's love your wives as christ loved the church and gave himself for it.

So if the wife refuses to take your surname because YOU said so...you are supposed to love her as Christ loved the church. You as a husband must walk and talk like Christ when it comes to your wife.

People quote scriptures all day and it means nothing to me. It doesn't mean that you are not a wolf in sheep clothing. All that jazz aint glitter!

dicefrost:
When he paid your bride price, and your family 'extorted' him, you were handed over to him. You became a member of his household, his property. Just as he has become yours.

Last time I have checked....slavery is over. Secondky, I am no one's property.

slimmy05:
Frustrated crack head

Go beat your mammy.

dicefrost:
Please tell me a religion that doesn't recognise the man as the head of the family.
Are you married?

Are you married nosy mofo? If you are going to jump into an argument....look first.

A chatter posted a verse from a bible and I responded the above as the tegards to the bible being a Christian thing. What other religions you know reads the bible?

Exactly.

urchmanx:
Nothing because this is online... you can say what you want to say.

Exactly. Swerve.

slimmy05:
don't derail the topic. You still calling someone gay? You talk about diversity? Your a most silly and dul human on nairaland.

You derailed the thread when you stepped on the thread.

You don't have to talk to me you know. I know it's hard for you. You craves my attention.

ayoku777:
Give me a scriptural justification for insisting that you will bear your father's name and a man that doesn't want that should go find another woman.

On what scripture do you justify your audacity. Or its just "civilization"?

Coz I've shown you where the king told his daughters to forget their father's house.

Its not by force to agree with the scripture, but don't tell me I've not shown you scriptures that prove women are called after the name and house of their husbands after marriage, not after their fathers

I didn't bring the bible in my original statement and o don't misused the bible to state my point.

You are not by force to agree with me and women can still make a choice to keep or change their names.

Just focus on your woman.

Beface:
you are the first fo.olish lady i've ever come across on NL and you claimed to have a husband,Fo.olish prostitute. I blame myself for not realising how stupi.d you could be the moment i red your your post. I guess you've not taken your drugs that why you are reacting this way.

Okay...go beat and rap3 your housemaid...you sounds sexually frustrated.

You don't have to talk to me you know.

computerboy:
You are sounding like a frustrated scum bag. My dear, shouting and attacking all nairaland guys can never make u regain ur wasted years. After reaching menopause, you came here and added a consolation "Mrs" to ur moniker---you wish... lol cuz no right thinking guy would marry a confused ewe like u.
Keep on parading ur over screwed self here looking for whom to curse. misery they say, always finds company.
am out

Okay...stop commenting to me if I am all of that shit..you look real stupidd.

urchmanx:
Never call me Nigga. I am not your nigga. Be careful with your choice of words.

And what are you going to do? Jump through the screen?

ayoku777:
There is nothing wrong in reasoning with your head, as long as it doesn't contradict or make you start twisting the word to make it say what you want it to say.

If a man objects to a woman bearing her Father's name after marriage; he has scriptural justification for his stand; more than the woman has to stubbornly insist otherwise. That's what I'm saying.

There is nothing in the bible that said a woman has to take the man's surname. If you want your wife to take your surname and she doesn't mind...great! We shouldn't tell people how to run their lives if it is what they want to do. If a man has no issue with his wife not taking his name then why does it bother you?

If a man has an issue with a woman not taking his surname then he have a choice...fund another woman who will. Simple. You guys make simple things complicated.

urchmanx:
Calling people name is so uncalled for! Make your point without calling people names, that way people can listen to you. I have also gone through your posts and all I can see is name calling.
It's all uncalled for. You can also call me names I didn't care just pointing out a pattern that is becoming a habit because it makes people to look down on you.

First of all nigga...they started calling me names and I have returned the gift.

If you are going to jump in...look before you do.

Beface:
Using words or inappropriate example. Respect is reciprocal my friend. Am careful with my choice word but it seems to me this is your nature. It only go along way to show your kind of person.

Nigga...leave that weed alone because you are reading shit from a dyslexic point of view.

You have nothing to stand on and making up shit as you go. You can't show one thing that was different in my posts on this thread and I have maintained through the whole argument that women have a choice and don't have to take their husband's surname and you bishing about me choosing to accept my husband's name with my father's.

RAKITIC:
Marriage is the biggest SCAM in the history of MANKIND

Wow.

slimmy05:
and you think this dimwit is not an associate degree holder. Full of crap

We can believe your dumb ass doesn't have an associate degree.

Lick that wound bish!