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bukatyne: A lot of people have called me mumu because I do not collect gifts from men I have nothing in common with.

Not everyone is the same

I am the same way! I have this complex with accepting gifts because It can be used against me!

I had a hard time accepting my ring from my husband!

Sagamite: Well, many have strong enemies without any protection. Enemies who have cursed them and the curse is working.

I have strong juju from Sagamu that protects me to the point such would never be my case.

You this mugu.

Well I wub you! Don't tell Jaybee!

jay bee: Simple as ABC.....

Make them love you then see them "do everything for love"

This oloshi.

bukatyne: Make for two!

You know that God can use a verse to minister to various people in various ways

A wife is not just a married woman just how a Christian is not just a church goer

I learnt from you POV anyways

A wife is a wife but if a man marries a woman then she is a married woman.

A Christian can't be a Christian if they are not believers of Christianity. However I am not religious for many reasons!

Milk or honey?

dmcdad: In my earlier post I stated it categorically that there are good ones even though they are relatively few. Its good you know sex is a mutual thing, unlike the vast majority of ladies that think they are doing men a favour by having sex with em. Also, a very good number won't offer sex for nothing (by nothing of course you know I mean money), they would want some sought of financial gain for them to put their backs to the ground irrespective of whether they are in a relationship with the guy or not...

As for chasing a woman with some control tactics, if you relate with the topic with an open mind you would discover that these tactics ain't bad afterall. They are there to keep the ladies on their toes owing to the fact that women are hardwired to be controlled in a certain way. When I say control, I mean in a certain way, to keep their awkward attitudes at bay while also showing them the love and care they deserve.

A very good friend(married) told me an honest truth sometime ago. She said on no account should I allow a woman to have her ways as much as she needs. Else, no matter how good that woman is or was before then, she would more often than not take advantage of me and start misbehaving whether intentionally or not. This lady is a very good wife for the records. She told me this because she felt I was kinda soft in handling issues with her and letting her have her way (although I cleared her doubts pronto cause as much as I am very linient and kind in treating people, I am very principled to the core and don't tolerate trash from anyone).

In a nutshell, every woman (good or bad) needs to be guided with true control. True control in this case has a lot of positives when looked via a broad spectrum. If you look at it from a selfish or a bias standpoint, then negativity will be written all over it. True control is good as it helps the man to remain the dominant force between the two (which is normal by nature), buh doing some of the aforementioned of true control to the extreem is where the probelm lies as it will have a negative effect on the union.

Therefore, there should be a fine line between attaining true control in a sensible and reasonable state as opposed to taking it to the extreme and doing it awkwardly and unreasonably.

You already know what I am about to say!

First of all.....a woman that is not girthed in good character will use you regardless if you exercise control or not.

Secondly, women have fathers and grandfathers to guide them in goodwill....not to mold the woman in what she need to be or look like. They do not need daddy husbands but rather a partner going in the same direction.

How can a man attempt to control a woman if he is not complete and lacks the understanding of leadership?

There is absolutely nothing attractive about a man who treats his wife or woman like a child. If she can't respect you as a person and you can't do the same....no need wasting time!

Rough handling a woman or loud talking does not make you a man nor being lenient makes you a punk or sissy.

You need to screen your chicks better before selection because a ratchet bish is ratchet regardless if you control her or not.

I guess President Obama is a softy since he doesn't control what ignorant people say or do to him.

There is a hugggge difference between a fool and a softy.

Real talk!

Sagamite: Obviously responsibility should always be the man's.

Well...many have loved those who have never loved them.

People often times miscontrue bible versions without the discerning of the holy spirit for concise comprehension.

"He that findeth the wife will obtain favors of the Lord" simply means a man who decide to marry a wife instead of fornicating will not burn.

In the book of Matthews, there is a chapter that speaks about virginity and abstaining from sex however it encourages those to marry if they can't withhold from sex altogether or burn.

"He" includes the woman who enter the marriage by her own volition to avoid fornicating and both will receive mercy.

What many people seems to interpret from the verse is the man that seeks the wife will get a good thing and be blessed. It's illogical simply because many men have sought wives and ended up killing them out of foolishness.

Even if two people who met in a club and wants to have sex....but gets married without even knowing each other will obtain favor of the Lord!


Okay....let me grab some tea!

Danhumprey: His username,please?

Why? Are you snitching on me?

Yes.

All this wahala for feminism?

I taya oooo!

De Beauvoir: You wrote this;



Implying that you think when women make statements about surrogacy and patronising sperm banks, they are being arrogant so I said they are not just being arrogant because there is nothing wrong with doing those things.

Bless your heart. You know you can't fight with ignorance right?

souldust: dear, i am not talking about black americans.

Then whom are you referring to because from what I see many of those black men that are in jail have multiple White baby mommas.

Many of these White bsby mommas fluting around and standing in line begging for government handouts while MAKING more babies with no good for nothing niggas.

What's also bleeped up is to see white baby mommas with half African babies depend on the government for support. It's expected of American men but certainly not of African men.

None of that shit above has nothing to do with feminism but trifling niggas and bishes who breeds with them.

tracyfemmmm: No she cannot because mr chima is not jesus

There yoi go! Tell him ooo!

ogugua88: Are you the only one allowed to have concubini?

Grrrrrrrr.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]China has the largest porn industries than America and UK combined....I know you dislike the West but don't lie to look good/smart.

Most goods in America comes from China.[/quote]Fula said I need evidence that goods come from China.

Buhahahahahha.

Fulaman198: I travel quite often. My job is quite demanding. Praise be to God I have had the chance to see the a lot of the world minus Asia.

Awwwwww....no wonder it was obvious.

Travel to China and diminish your ignorance.

Fulaman198: You posted without a lack of evidence. The only one lying thus far is you. You have nothing to back up your claims about China producing the most pornography. Secondly, you lied against me in your first post saying that I said America is #1. Please if you have nothing nice to say, and would like to spread evil, keep it to yourself.

Yeah I am evil cos you have burning hatred for all things western but sure the hell isn't limiting your internet and computer usage.

Seeing that you don’t travel out much and road trips don't count....you are excused.

Keep google traveling....it's cheap.

Fulaman198: First and foremost, since you are speaking nasty, I will retort and say you are completely incorrect in fact you are the one lying.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pornography_by_region#People.27s_Republic_of_China

P.ornography is banned in China.

Secondly, I did not say America was #1, I said it is up there, it could very well be #1. Don't post rebuttals out of anger just because you hate someone. Have evidence to back up your claim before stating something.

First of all I wasn't being nassy and second of all it is not my fault you took my comment personal seeing this is a chat forum.

It's obvious that you think pornography is all about a chick sucking dick via youtube. Get out more and if pornography is banned in China genius...they wouldn't have sex shops nor sell anything related to porn.

Anyone can pick something off the internet and call it evidence fulaboy. A pocket pussy made in China is obvious LEGAL.

Like I said don't lie to look smart.

Fulaman198: Lolll exactly, America and a lot of western Euro countries are home to some of the largest por.n industries and fetish parties in the world. The same can be said about a lot of western European countries. America is also known for play boy mansion and the playboy magazine.

I'm not sure if America is the most se.xually liberal country in the world, but it definitely ranks up there. Netherlands like you said as well. These countries are so open when they talk about sensual things that it surprises me. One must be very careful to not be allured when in these countries.

China has the largest porn industries than America and UK combined....I know you dislike the West but don't lie to look good/smart.

Most goods in America comes from China.

[quote author=De-Hero]Which side is Nigeria on d map?[/quote]Nigeria is next door to Russia.

ogugua88: Mr Cork, I'll marry you!

Hands off heffa!

tintingz: werey! shebi he's your husband why can't you do it...

Jesus is 100% against feminism

Sharrap!

[quote author=Mynd_44]You had to involve me in this right?[/quote]How suga? I am innocent!

Mftivi: woman you words lack grace and seasoning that is evidence of hate. now bite me

I agree that the quote lacks grace and seasoning.

I don't do pork. No thanks.

tintingz: Can you wash Mr. Chima's feet and kiss it the way the woman did to Jesus

[img]http://householdfaith.files./2012/10/washing-jesus-feet.jpg[/img]

No. Oloshi.

Dumb quote of 2013

"Jesus is against Feminism".

tatiana009: Feminism has nothing to do with baby mamas, Tu face's baby mamas are not feminists and neither are most of the black American ones. So please remove that one from the so called argument.

How many babymommas did 2pac have?

davidylan: feminists - a hate group for insecure women who have body image issues. Has anyone noticed that the staunchest feminists are those whose bodies remind you of that of an adolescent boy? I'm yet to see a truly beautiful woman, with all the right curves, sit around bleating about feminism.

And I see undesirable men with potbellies and faces like Seal the singer bitching and complaining about feminism.

princesa: I don't really knw what this feminism is all about...


But i don't subscribe to any ideology, reason or status quo that keep women at an unequal scale with men...not entirely though.


#but why are the men more pained than women in this particular thread

Good question.

Laja Laba: Slowpoke women....Feminist

Slowpoke men.....vapid manbitches.

Ihedinobi: I think you were way too angry to think about what you typed.

Nigerian kids who grow up to be criminals of all kinds do not necessarily do so in spite of having both parents. They do so because of bad parenting which has a lot to do with confused parental roles which is the very point that the argument against unqualified feminism makes.

Who are the "most Nigerians" that do not have core family values? What study brought that to light? To what does it attribute the dearth of those values? Where do you get your information on Nigeria?

The same goes for the poster whom she was responding to.