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So sad.

Danhumprey: Do you give a f.uck?

No.

Sagamite: Are you talking about women?

Because they are usually the ones bitter and moaning.

Who are on this thread bitching about women not accepting nor allowing men to control them?

Exactly.

RedBenson: But i heard you're no longer married to Chima. So who's d dude in d building now?

Not you!

Danhumprey: Hmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!! Why don't I trust you?

Ask me if I give a Bleep.

jasperkrekre: hmm for ur church mind abi. Na person like u go nearly faint wen u go thru ur hubby's sentbox and see something like "miss u too"

I don't snoop through my hubby's things as he never given me a reason to. Whay done in the dark will come to life so no need to snoop or worry.

kings009: Hope u can also do what u want in the relationship?

My hubby doesn't control nor I control him. He will do as his heart desire...I can only do as my heart desire.

Awwwwww....we are in secondary school!

My hubby can do whatever he wants....I am not his mother.

bukatyne: Lol! Funny how most of them have testimonies of how they have been heart broken

Una ndo, it is well

Have a great weekend

Many of them are bitter from betrayal and poor choices.

Lol@special fuckers.

Kudos to REAL men.

Sagamite: Real Men mugus, start jotting down notes.

Lecture don start.

Did you get your crayon sharpened?

Sagamite: GBAM!

She is just mis-training now.

Trying to create the next generation of Mugus, so bare with her.

Of course you will agree to some bullshit like this!

[quote author=12 inches!]You're talking off point please. I have compared tai2 post with my life experiences and have found it to be 99.9% correct.[/quote]Of course a nigga would say some ignant shit like this!

kundi90: Anything you call it. So those that are "jobfull" must pay "tithe" to this whores before they "eat" together? Is sex between two people not enjoyed by both parties, then why should the mumu guy pay the lady?

Nigga huh

kundi90: Broke? Is that what you call guys that are smart enough to reject stylish paying for sex? Atleast we would not be named on some slut's phone as Maga.

Broke is jobless men.

Heating vaseline

It's 2013 and blackies.STILL think romance is a WHITE PEOPLE THING!

Gotdamn!

ileobatojo: Very well said!

Be careful. I was told that post didn't make sense and unworthy of a response.

[quote author=12 inches!]over 3 years and this post still attracts attention. Trully a legendary posts. Women will never accept that they need control but will all knw they do[/quote]And men will never accept that they need help and guidance on how to be men.

It doesn't come natural and it's obvious by some comments. ....the type of role models they have grown up with.

An uncomplete man seek control to fill the void of what he lacks internally.

Fact.

dmcdad: 2nd paragraph. .... Sorry what you stated there doesn't make much of a sense. What do you mean "use you?"

3rd paragraph.... My dear, women are meant to be given direction and put through all through their lives. Be it an old or young woman, they yet need the guidance of men to carry out things effectively. Wonder why it is said that irrespective of a woman's age she has fish-brains?

4th paragraph.... You guys are having a misconception about this control thing. I think you should read between the lines and stop taking this outta context. Nevertheless, it is worth knowing that by the nature of men, we are made leaders by default.At least, leaders in home settings and therefore it gives every man the needed dominance and for a man not to have cultivated this leadership skill, that would be a topic for another day cause for the purpose of remaining in-line with the nitty-gritty, digressing with a view to stressing on that would negate the actual purpose.

5th paragraph.... No where it was mentioned that women should be treated as children so that is somewhat redundant.

6th paragraph.... The topic didn't advice men to rough handle women. These are tios to help keep women in-line with acceptable behaviours. I won't advice rough or man-handling any woman. I would advice a man to be galant in handling a woman, yet draw the line whenever she falters. Women need mild and lovely treatment in general, yet they also need some bits of harshness to bring them back to their senses every now and then. Accept it or not, its the reality.

I think they rest are not worth commenting on.

I have expected this from you. Thank you so much for proving my point.

Arosa: So let me get this right. You don't mind having a man that has no job and depends on you for his upkeep.
PS this dude has no intention of ever having a job.

Buhhhhhaaahaaaa....me with broke and lazy men? I dey vex oo!

Adamskuty: na by force to speak pidgin

Bite me ooo!

Dannylux: Ladies led us to believe this..

So if ladies tell you to eat kola nut and alomo bitter you gon gree gree?

Na wa so!

Arosa: I will tell you why: money makes the world go round; also no romance without finance. basically a man is nothing without money. You need to be a man to know this.

This oloshi.

Smh.

[quote author=◐H0lY★Sm00sh™◑]Always know ur comments represents you or group of people like you.. Ur reply to tthe O.P means you are aaccepting to his Claim.. The give and take attitude has something in common Prostitutes but that doesn't make You Gurls one.. According to his story, was he expecting her to go back home without a physical thank you. Her 3weeks later demand from her heart sincerely meant "Hey dude i gave you more than you gave back". That differentiates her from a Prostitute.. She still has the trace of respect and decency in her.. Our helpless gurls are not Prostitutes. If they didn't give to ur demand won't you insult them, won't you set them up and rape them without showing appreciation one way or the other like u always wanted?? Like i said they are not Aristos.[/quote]Replying means replying. Accepting and replying are two different things.

Now answer my question.

kundi90: Because that is what the ladies make us to think. It is like if you dont have money, you can never get there!

Bullshit! I know Naija girls with men who makes low income.

Fault yourself for attracting gold digging bishes!

chineloSA: Both countries its common. It just Naija girls abort and SA girls decide to keep till full term.

So both countries are on par with regards to unwanted pregnancy. Naija own is even worse because we masqurade as angels while we flush the baby. We even have baby factories

So abeg, there is no angel between the two.

Damn...harsh truth.

This is not tribal but I have noticed Igbo men tends to sample the women before marriage and one Igbo guy told me he is marrying her someday so he is not fornicating.

Awwww Oguga! Make I come to wedding and shake juju!

kundi90: I know many of you guys will feel like strangling me, but it just my honest opinion about our women. Let me explain myself before you crucify me. A prostitute is somebody paid for s*x, right, and I believe many of our ladies do this. A friend of mine told me about a lady he met. He asked the girl out for a relationship and without hesitation, the girl accepted. The next thing he did was to invite the lady to his house which she also accepted. On getting to my friend’s apartment, he asked her for s*x and this lady just gave in to his request. After the whole action, my friend gave her (paid her off) with #2000 for transport fare and she collected it! And guess what, the same girl called my friend back after one week for #3000 claiming she needed it for travelling – Imagine that! So my friend and I came to the conclusion that this lady actually wanted to “charge” him #5000 for s*x. This is just one in a million examples that I have heard and seen. Some of them would even charge in a more sophisticated way by asking for a BB, an Ipad, even Tecno phones, et cetera, the threads and posts in this section of the forum further confirms this assertion.
I have heard of ladies from other parts of the world like America and some rare ones in this country, that pay for half of the meal they have with a guy on a date, and they only have sex with him because they want to have him inside them, and not for his money. Why is this act odd in this country?
Being who I am, I have remained chaste because anytime I see a Nigerian babe (the so called, pure babes), all I see is an object with a hole under ready to service my pole at an exorbitant price, and I think within myself to just go for the cheap ones who actual profess what they really are – prostitutes. And let me go a little spiritual here, I THINK this pretentious whores (PW) are like the thief on the left hand of Jesus and the self-proclaimed prostitute are like the one on the right, but they do not feel repentant. That was just on a lighter mood!
I would further like to say I am only expressing my views, before you guys finally crucify me. What do you think about this? Let me even ask further, what kind of children do this PW’s produce? Maybe this is one of the causes our numerous problems in Nigeria? Am I wrong?

Why do Nigerian men act like money is the answer for everything and that having money makes you a man?