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RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 11:24pm On Sep 22, 2015
freecocoa:
is this advice not supposed to be for the married men who won't keep their wows? You have to understand that some ladies don't care if a man is married or not.
That's true!
RomanceRe: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by MrsChima(f): 11:20pm On Sep 22, 2015
LMAO@husband and fiance can't be a family member. grin

I thought I heard EVERYTHING but. No! grin
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 11:18pm On Sep 22, 2015
innervoice:
For now his wife is the second fiddle.
His wife can't be a second fiddle if she married him first.
RomanceRe: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by MrsChima(f): 10:51pm On Sep 22, 2015
MRBrownJ:
well the subject of this thread still is: is it possible to BE IN LOVE and cheat on your spouse. so what is your answer to that?!



by family we are talking of brother, parents etc, not partner because these are 2 distinct type of LOVE. stop mixing the two, as family (aka siblings/parents) love is COMPLETELY different from the love you have for your partner.



i am lost, stay on the subject... and answer the following question: do you think that a husband/bf who willingly and REPEATEDLY cheats on you, actually loves you?!
Just because YOU disagree with the term doesn't change the fact that a committed partner i.e. husband, fiance, and committed boyfriend is in the same category as family.

I have already answered your question about the love and cheating part....IF YOU TRULY LOVE YOUR PARTNER YOU WON'T CHEAT ON your partner.

My point is you can love someone and not respect someone just like the last chatter told you. I DID NOT SAY OP LOVE HIS GIRLFRIEND.

YOU THINK LOVE AND RESPECT ARE MUTUAL. YOU Can respect someone and don't love them in any fashion.
RomanceRe: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by MrsChima(f): 10:19pm On Sep 22, 2015
MRBrownJ:
the love you have for a family member is different than the LOVE we are discussing about here.



again, do you actually believe that love can blossom with someone that you have no respect for?



now you are talking sista C, many of you are confusing the love we are talking about here



there are many reasons why someone would abuse and/or use you, but one thing is certain, the person doing the ill deeds does not LOVE nor respect the abused person (unless they believe in their fukced up head that abusing your partner is actually love)

the IMPORTANT question IS: do you think that a man who willingly and REPEATEDLY cheats on you, actually loves you?!
I guess you got me confused with the previously chatter. I made it very clear in my single post that a person who loves someone will not think to hurt that person. I stand on that. I also said you can love someone and still not respect them family or not.

A committed boyfriend and husband is family. So the love for family would be different as of a stranger or an associate.

A Bleep buddy or a booty caller wouldn't have the family love but a lust love.

According to OP, he is a boyfriend so the love would be a family love if they have been committed for a while.

There are people who are not family that I love and do not respect them but it is worst to love FAMILY and not respect them.

Thats my point. Who cares about non-fsmily members? Exactly.
RomanceRe: Should A Christain Be In A Relationship? by MrsChima(f): 9:22pm On Sep 22, 2015
I don't see anything wrong with a relationship and the issue with people today that everyone is rushing into marriage to have legalized sex or avoiding being judged for having sex.

You don't have to have a sexual relationship and date platinically. That's how our forefathers did and if the woman was pregnant they married the women. People don't take time to get to know the person and what they are about.

It is like it is a competition who can get married the fastest or who can get a man to proposed. It is sad.
RomanceRe: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by MrsChima(f): 9:16pm On Sep 22, 2015
EnlightenedSoul:
I sincerely hope you don't actually believe that. Love and respect are not mutually inclusive.

Give it some thought.
I agree. In used to think that love and respect are interchangeable until I understood the truth behind love and perspectives of love. I realized people have different definition of love and respect.

Imagine a woman saying a man doesn't love her until he beat her.
RomanceRe: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by MrsChima(f): 9:13pm On Sep 22, 2015
MRBrownJ:
i guess we have a different definition of LOVE.
I have family members that I love but do not respect.

Respect means giving the person the admiration or high regards it has nothing to do with love. There are many different types of love by the way.

Think about a person who abused or used you....do you still "respect" them? (Admire or put them in high regards)
RomanceRe: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by MrsChima(f): 9:06pm On Sep 22, 2015
When you love someone it will be the last you would do because you won't even think to hurt her even if you are tempted. If you are held by gun point then I would say that tou aren't willing to die for me but, I do know human first instinct is self preservation and I won't take its personally.
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 7:48pm On Sep 22, 2015
KiidaACE:
omg,,your not really married, are you?
Yes I am. grin
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 7:06pm On Sep 22, 2015
KiidaACE:
hmm,does it?
I do bite. grin
Look at us promoting adultery after scolding OP for consoling a married man! angry grin grin

You bite gently? embarassed tongue
RomanceRe: Name Something Ladies Can't Go A Week Without by MrsChima(f): 6:23pm On Sep 22, 2015
Food
RomanceRe: Name Something Ladies Can't Go A Week Without by MrsChima(f): 5:48pm On Sep 22, 2015
Water
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 5:45pm On Sep 22, 2015
KiidaACE:
lol,,your funny.
As tempting as the offer may be, i think i'll pass . wink
It comes with perks. wink
RomanceRe: Your Reaction If Sexology Is Being Introduced In Nigeria Universities by MrsChima(f): 5:44pm On Sep 22, 2015
StPete:
I like the way you dabble fluently between using English and pidgin. BTW, may I know your age ma’am?
68
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 1:43pm On Sep 22, 2015
KiidaACE:
loll,,,i just hope you make the right decision.
You have your whole future ahead of ya.
Life is short
live it well.
.
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Your welcme by the way,*winks*
Do you wants to partake on a cyber adultery with me? wink
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 1:21pm On Sep 22, 2015
VICTORIA91:
I once said abuse is allowed......is not my fault, all blames on blind love. :- Thank you.I
appreciate your kind advice
You are welcome.
RomanceRe: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by MrsChima(f): 1:15pm On Sep 22, 2015
It is okay to fall in love but you don't have to act on those feelings. I have had thoughts of killing a bish and felt like killing the bish but, I didn't act on it.

Apply that and move on. You will always be second fiddle.
RomanceRe: It Is About Time Men Should Be REQUIRED To Chop Chop Toto! by MrsChima(op): 1:11pm On Sep 22, 2015
shollay09:
well, if ur toto is well garnished, i see no reason why guys like me wont feast on it. *winks
I got toto seasoning. embarassed
RomanceRe: It Is About Time Men Should Be REQUIRED To Chop Chop Toto! by MrsChima(op): 1:10pm On Sep 22, 2015
Kolade354:
I dey pray make chima catch you with this ur online antics!!! Na dat dat u go no say Igbo Man Bad pass Osama
undecided
RomanceRe: It Is About Time Men Should Be REQUIRED To Chop Chop Toto! by MrsChima(op): 2:21pm On Sep 21, 2015
freshdopeboi:
I hope to find a sexy woman who will love to explore her sexual fantasies with a mature handsome guy. I am 100% discreet. most reside in lagos 2BB3C462 whatsapp 07056628308
This scammer. undecided
FamilyRe: Lessons From My Marriage by MrsChima(f): 10:24am On Sep 21, 2015
francizy:
And you're the olosho right? First class mumuni.. cheesy[/quote[quote]
Return to vapid Igbo sender!
RomanceRe: It Is About Time Men Should Be REQUIRED To Chop Chop Toto! by MrsChima(op): 10:22am On Sep 21, 2015
faith551:
I make u sick?
Missed u more sha but u obviously having fun
You don't want me to have fun? undecided
RomanceRe: It Is About Time Men Should Be REQUIRED To Chop Chop Toto! by MrsChima(op): 8:16am On Sep 21, 2015
jrerico1:
which like?? 3 hausa men will 7inches dic,k will do justice grin
why hausa? undecided
RomanceRe: It Is About Time Men Should Be REQUIRED To Chop Chop Toto! by MrsChima(op): 1:24am On Sep 21, 2015
jrerico1:
lol you need to be gang banged
lol@the like. grin
RomanceRe: Ghana Girls More Classy Than Nigeria Girls -latest Research by MrsChima(f): 9:01pm On Sep 20, 2015
vizkiz:
70% of Ghana chick's are hoes... No offence.

At least, a Nigerian girl will play hard to get before they fall in line, but Ghanians are loosed.

Been there and seen lots of shii
Tell us more abi. grin
RomanceRe: Paradox Of Polygamy by MrsChima(f): 8:46pm On Sep 20, 2015
Truckpusher:
Being a weed head doesn't make you a junkie and a never-do-well fellow get the difference please.

And I remember saying that even women would still end up with a junkie.

My original statement remains and that is a fact no matter how much you closet feminists try to deny it. grin
LNAO@weedhead isn't a junkie.

You have contradicted your own self. Poor ho. tongue
RomanceRe: It Is About Time Men Should Be REQUIRED To Chop Chop Toto! by MrsChima(op): 8:43pm On Sep 20, 2015
jrerico1:
lol you need to be gang banged
cry why oga?
FamilyRe: Lessons From My Marriage by MrsChima(f): 8:27pm On Sep 20, 2015
MaxGraviton:
I'll suggest you guys should just exchange genitals. So he can become the caring HOUSE WIFE that he is. . .since all he knows how to do is to complain and take care of babies. Nonsense undecided
Harsh. angry
FamilyRe: Lessons From My Marriage by MrsChima(f): 8:26pm On Sep 20, 2015
francizy:
Muhahahahaha!!! Why did you change the bolded from "pímp" to "love-vendor"?? Oh, it was NL that did that.. grin

Yeye Femi-niece... grin
olosho cock sucker!
RomanceRe: Paradox Of Polygamy by MrsChima(f): 8:23pm On Sep 20, 2015
Truckpusher:
When we talk about status here we aren't subjecting status only to ready-made men with money but a man with prospects and vision ,he talks about it ,he lives it and all his movement is always tending towards his dreams.You can feel him working towards achieving it - This is what I'm talking about.

Michelle Obama wouldn't have married him if he was a school dropout and a junkie even as some women would still marry such men at the end of the day.

Besides, How do you measure the virtue of a man ? We've seen men of virtuous character with an unblemished and tainted history becoming beasts in human clothing murdering their wives or partners or simply turned into a serial abuser.
I take it you haven't read any of his books. Michelle was dating him towards the end of his undergraduate and he was a weedhead. Weed is a drug boo.

Bill Gates went to college but dropped out and now he is the wealthiest man in the world! Just because someone "looks" like they will have wealth means absolutely nothing!

My original comment still remains.
RomanceRe: Paradox Of Polygamy by MrsChima(f): 8:17pm On Sep 20, 2015
gj22:
Because marriage is not a religious thing. It is a social/cultural thing. It means different things in religion, law and culture. But saying it is solely a religious thing is being naive.
Epic failed.

Religion is social and cultural. Stop while you can.

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