₦airaland Forum

jay bee: Don't make me smack that behind of yours. The OP needs serious advise. I think it's a matter between life and death so be nice

xynerise: . I aint hating old woman

jay bee: Hardly ever work especially when there is something to gain other than love.
Shine your eyes as they say but then again the decision is yours

2buff: So wait, I don't understand people. How will your marriage work WITHOUT a joint account?
Is that all meant to come from one person?

So what is the point of you working then if your are not putting something into the pot where bills are paid from. You make your money to eat your money ni?

"What's mine is mine whats yours is ours" in marriage does not make sense. Now I can understand why some of you naija women look at marriage in such a hungry way. This is why you allow your assorted family members and even that distant uncle who had nothing to do with your upbringing to be requesting house from your husband in the name of "list" because y'all don't really give a shit about the poor guy. It's your husband's problem.

May God deliver us from your kind.

Before marriage, certain things will be clear between the lucky chick and myself. Even if we have individual accounts, there must always be a joint account where the bulk of each of our earnings go whereby everything is decided upon. There will be a severe understanding that any debts incurred during extravagant weddings will be suffered by THE FAMILY aka herself included, so she better act right and keep costs low on her end.

jay bee:

amitalian: I've tried, but I can't find anything what r some places online there (in nigeria) that I could use to find info out?

SniperInADiaper: Mrs Chima hates Igbo men. She also hates all Nigerians. And all whites. She only loves herself.

SniperInADiaper: Summary: Foreigners are crazy as hell.. Don't date them. Stick with the crazies in your homeland. Mmmkay?

pc guru: insecured because you're married to an Igbo person ? like i have no Igbo relatives ? , I don't see any correlation, I only stated that based on a comment you made in a thread i came across, i owe no allegiance to any tribe,religion,nation or creed, i don't share the sentiments to protect Yoruba heritage. frankly this conversation has outlived its lifespan. Also who you hate is up to you, not me. but if you hate,my advice hate equally without prejudice.

spikes C: Jealous of what, common Q10

Your hubby dey stingy o...
Other's dey propose with range rover, he dey surprise with UK used BB

Enegod: what a cheap husband! ordinary bb Q10 when I'm planning to buy my sweetus a private jet..

xynerise: No blame her. Na the best gift her hubby don buy for her.

I believe she told her neighbours about it

pc guru: Yeah i know i that part already you hate Yorubas, nah not offended, already tribalist tolerant

baba dey: As a well educated meticulous lay person,I'll assume you forgot ur manners in your bedroom.

adaobi123: ^^Awww congratulations......

spikes C: Mtcheeeww

xynerise: *yawns*

SniperInADiaper: Actually its true. ... people respect me because of the way I am..my personality...character...responsibility...etc... but once they find out my status their thoughts shift fast. I just wear ring to avoid all that. Makes me sad

Enegod: *drinking tea*

Enegod:

Tosinville: I wonder if ppl still do that this days?

kokoye: Terrible attempt at pidgin English. Hiss