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REALITY101: Mrs. Chima gonna be a perfect match for you then

If having a thick booty makes me fat...OH WELL!

Real men that looks 10X BETTER THAN YOU aren't complaining that for sure! Right 2Buffie?

ogugua88: [size=13pt]Well, let us know when you become a man. A man, especially a man who passed sex ed 101, anatomy/physiology, or both, knows that the human body fluctuates in weight all the time. A woman's weight fluctuates even more due to ever-changing hormones. Right before that time of the month, a woman's appetite increases. Try understanding your woman more. If it's becoming a problem, then work out with her. Challenge her to one-on-one basketball, hit the tennis courts, or go bowling. Telling her she's gaining weight won't do any favors. I guarantee you that her self-esteem may drop and she'll feel that you find her less attractive.

As for child birth? If you want a healthy child, then your woman needs to gain a certain amount of weight. That is required. Whether or not she loses it depends on how active she is. How active she is co-depends on how much you'll be helping her with the baby as she tries to move around and find her former self. You should know, daddy.[/size]

You know you slayed him right?

[quote author=Honeyjay][/quote]Are you married or will get married?

REALITY101: WTF are you again?

Not a gay man.

[quote author=Hawtbabe]but do u think the dad is in on it uote

It is possible....I think the reason you haven't met the mother because women will tell it. I think the father may have some ideas but I do not think he is encouraging his son to do wrong because it does reflect heavily on the family.

He may be telling his father one thing and you another thing.

Honeyjay: He is living in my mother'scountry in Asia and I living in Scandinavia. We see each other every three months. I travel to see him almost ,but sometimes we met in Turkey he doesn't get visa to EU yet. He will done his Master International business program in June then we will getting marriage and he will apply for his resident visa to come to stay with me.. c

Oh my goodness!

Hawtbabe: Absolutely not ok with it. I want to only get married once like my parents are.

You deserve that suga. Just think about what I say okay?

sauer: How do you guys get yourselvs es in such mess? Must one have to tell you before you make the right decisions? Why are you not strong- hearted and demand a relationship that eventually includes you, a relationship that is not one-sided?

Saucer..you know that keen scammers know how to pick out the ones that love hard and will do anything in the name of love. When someone is in love it is hard to tell them that they are going down the wrong path. I was trying to help one chick that used to chat on Nairaland about her gullible ways even when she shared that she didn't trust the guy. I didn't quite understand how someone say in the same breath I don't trust him but I love him.

You can't be strong-hearted if you are clueless about love.

Honeyjay: I have been dating my my boyfriend for a year and 8 months. My boyfriend is Nigerian(born & raised) and Igbo. I was born in the UK, but raised the African way( Sierra Leone). When we met he told me that he loves me within a month or two. I didn't know why he had said it so fast. It scared me. He came here on a student visa but it ran out and he applied to stay for another few years but it runs out in November ths year. On New Year's Day he proposed to me and I said yes, but he didn't ask my fathers permission even though they have met (which is concerning me). My Igbo male friends who were born here have explained how traditional Igbo people are, so I was shocked. And before I caught him toasting babes in his fb messages and I threatened o leave n he begged me to stay. Also hes been insisting that we go to a registry before we even have a wedding. He has friends that are married non Nigerian girls who were Los born here. None of them have partners from their own country(Nigeria) and all have settled with uk women.

I speak with his brother on fb. When speaking he told me that "things are hard in lagos, no wonder Ikechukwu doesn't want to come back". But when I speak with him he's always telling me that he wants to go back to Nigeria to live and that this country is not for him. So I'm left confused.

My family are concerned that I'm being used & my instincts are telling me to leave him. I'm too ashamed to tell them he has asked me to go to a registry. Am I being crazy or is he with me for stay. /


I'm a mixed Scandinavian and Asian girl engaged to a Nigerian Igbo guy living abord. I met him at my Mother country where he living. We are together 3 years now. I've been supporting him every month in two and half years already. He 've been cheating and lies on me.He dominate me to get what he want. I fighte with him. I want to break up and leave him ,but I can't never leave him and he never let me go. He told me he choose me to be his wife and love me so much. His cheated only mistake. I don't believe him. Lately in 6 months we always fight after his dating girl message me and let me know that they are dating.He broken up with her immediately and told her if she disturb me again he will report her to police that what the girl told me and cried with me. I cant trust him any more even he said sorry 1000 times and promise will not hurt me again. He said dont want to see me sad and cry, in 6 months I was in suffered,but I never stop support him. He got nice new mobile phone in 2 Christmas, shoes brandname jeans and nice house where he staying. He told me when he done with his Master he will take care of me in the rest of our life,but Its ok for me I dont need that I can take care of my self. I love him unconditional,but in last month I had enough and tired of fighting with him. I decided to stop and leave him .He told me he will let me go if I want ,but after that families involver his parent and mine don't want us to spilt .And when I look inside my heart I still love him very much.. I told him we move on in life and forget everything in the past. I forgive and give him second chance, but if he do it again we will not discussion just end up. I told him I trust him again 100 % sound like silly, but that 's all I can do I told him I can't stop him from cheating, he have to stop him self. What can I do that I only pray and keep hope he will change and keep his promise. I'm not stupid or bad looking I have a good job and my owned business.. I only follow my heart what I can tell you that listen to your heart and let it be If you doubt about him don't be with him. If you love him give your self a chance, people may be using and hurting sometimes ,but who worth it.. think and choose wisely..

Awwww. It is unfortunate that you married a cheater...not necessarily a scammer which is what many women/men have experienced. I can imagine how you are feeling knowing that the man you love so much cheated on you and betrayed your trust. It can be difficult to trust someone who lives in the same house as you.

Lack of trust is a surefire way to destroy a marriage. How are you coping?

Hawtbabe: I met the dad physically. And after he uttered abortion he changed his mind and told me that he would marry me and change things around for his child.then we we're planning to go Nigeria to meet his parents before I started to show(this was before I met the dad).

I don't know about immigration in the UK but see if a child is necessary to prove no marriage sham occurred between the o pair of you.

Are you okay with him marrying you for papers potentially?

[quote authoidDyt]And wat are u hmmmming abt at dis time?
Go get laid madam[/quote]LMAO! I am tired of getting laid!

Hawtbabe: My question is if its for stay why introduce me to his dad?

Did you meet his dad physically or was it online?

Hawty...

I am a non-Nigerian woman married to an Igbo man. Trust me when I say this...abortion is not on a mind of a man who loves his woman. Children in the Igbo clan is like demigods! The fact that he told you to abort clearly demonstrate how he sees/views you. It is not a good thing boo.

When I got pregnant...my husband treated me like a fragile egg. I couldn't do nothing to harm his child. If it looks like I was in pain...off to the doctor we went! The point of this is to say that when a man care about you...he cares about everything within you. Even if he isn't ready to be a father..he would do everything in his power not to but if it happens..he will not even utter the word abortion.

A real Igbo man would have married you once he finds out that you are pregnant. He would have at least held a proper introduction before marriage. You do not need to be Igbo to have an Igbo wedding or undergo Igbo customs. I went through them and it was fun!

Everything is moving too fast and he doesn't have much time. I strongly suggest that you think this over and at least meet his family physically because once you marry an Igbo man/woman..you married his family. I have five husbands!

Hawtbabe: Also 9months into the relationship I found out I was pregnant. When I told him he told me to go for an abortion but later changed his mind.At 3 months I miscarried n he acted as if it never occurred. And I've also met his dad but not his mum.

Girl...come sit by me. Let me put my baby in her crib. Brb.

Afam4eva: Marketing and selling mean the same thing.

ns

No boo boo...they do not.

Hmm.

Hawtbabe: I have been dating my my boyfriend for a year and 8 months. My boyfriend is Nigerian(born & raised) and Igbo. I was born in the UK, but raised the African way( Sierra Leone). When we met he told me that he loves me within a month or two. I didn't know why he had said it so fast. It scared me. He came here on a student visa but it ran out and he applied to stay for another few years but it runs out in November ths year. On New Year's Day he proposed to me and I said yes, but he didn't ask my fathers permission even though they have met (which is concerning me). My Igbo male friends who were born here have explained how traditional Igbo people are, so I was shocked. And before I caught him toasting babes in his fb messages and I threatened o leave n he begged me to stay. Also hes been insisting that we go to a registry before we even have a wedding. He has friends that are married non Nigerian girls who were Los born here. None of them have partners from their own country(Nigeria) and all have settled with uk women.

I speak with his brother on fb. When speaking he told me that "things are hard in lagos, no wonder Ikechukwu doesn't want to come back". But when I speak with him he's always telling me that he wants to go back to Nigeria to live and that this country is not for him. So I'm left confused.g d

My family are concerned that I'm being used & my instincts are telling me to leave him. I'm too ashamed to tell them he has asked me to go to a registry. Am I being crazy or is he with me for stay.

Sweety...imagine you in a country where YOU KNOWS NO ONE and everything is new! Of course you would want to go back home. He is homesick and misses home. It is expected...but once you get into a swing of things with the new country...you will not worry so much. It is possible that he will go back home to retire because UK dollars will stretch longer in Nigeria...so money wise it is safer to return back in Africa if you can afford to pay for decent security and things.

He is struggling and he is looking for means to survive...the decision is yours.

Hawtbabe: I don't mind but he will say that he wants to go back but do things to contradict the statement. For example he wants to find permanent job. For him to stay he's told me that I need to make a certain amount. I've recently been offered a job that I really want to do" that is 1k less than what I need to earn for him to stay. When I told him he was happy but then told me to look elsewhere.

Sweety..he is not your husband and YOU DO NOT CHANGE JOBS FOR ANYONE! If you find a job that you enjoys and it pays average...keep the job. Do you know how many people wish they can find jobs that they love and it pays average? So what pay 1k less! You are looking for a job to KEEP A MAN that is a no no boo boo.

It is not up to you to find a way for him to stay..it is his responsibility. If he wants to stay in UK then he need to find a sponsor that will add on to your income if not...it is not your problem.

By your story...he is only in it for the papers. Sorry boo.

SMH@fights about clothing.

I done heard it all! If colored folks would put this much effort in improving their worlds...chaos wouldn't have a place to call home.

By the way...I am wearing panties made from China...does it make me a chinaman?

[quote author=Mr..Cork]Brother... aint you supppose to be g,ay & proud?? [/quote]\\

REALITY101: Hello folks! My girlfriend just went from 135Ibs to 140Ibs which is a big problem for me. I am a straight up guy who love saying it the way it is but seems she get emotional whenever I tell her about adding a few pound(s)

Now how can I tell her about it without hurting her feelings? I love her but I don't need all that extra meat, if I need more meat I know my way to Ralph's, Bristol farm Kroger and whole food is there for it.

You need to stop buying hungry hoes...maybe they will stick around.

MsDarkSkin:

LMAOOOOOOO! @ one member! u ain't right!

How is his wifey doing?

MsDarkSkin: you know you love that Naija player of salvation! se to

Lawd! He is a pastor over one member in his church....his po momma.

Girl...I am glad that stalker got something else to do!

xynerise: @Op. You can fool others but you cant fool me. Bloody scammer

You smell fish too?

omega25red: poster you have made up your mind and im happy for you.lso i hope the happiness you are chasing doesn't turn to something else.

i have one question though, does it strike you odd that he couldn't find a woman in a country like russia where he is well known and popular? he has bee scouted to be a model and he is still dating online through skype etc? He might be the person in the photos and skype but i think you might be getting catfished.

Maybe he couldn't suckered someone in Russia and went global. Hell...I don't know but something sound fishy to me but then again...like Mynd said..it is her life.

Mynd come here sugar...I got something interesting in the bedroom.

MsDarkSkin: Amefi said "hi" and he misses you.

You are still talking to that scammer?

MsDarkSkin: lol he's fine. still riding camels! ;Dl
he texted me last night..i need to hit him up!!

i've been trying to get him to come back on NL but he refuses!

Tell him I pmed him on Yahoo but he's sure acting funny. I hope that camel rape him!