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@Mrs Chima, thanks for your candid advice! In moving on, do I just stop communicating with her or have a discussion with her to call it quit. Thanks!

Leave it alone and she will get the picture. If she contact you later on in life...drop her like a hot potato. She is using you as a rebound. You can do better.

Good luck!

CAMEROONPRIDE: Stop editing my comments, It's lame
And pathetic
Ps :don't quote me anymore na wa oo I said no ,I don't bang old sagged tits hag capiche? >

Edit your comment? Nigga don't blame your illiteracy on Nairaland!

Even spell checker can't help your ho azz!

CAMEROONPRIDE: .....

Awww Cammy. Come here dummy.

EagleEyes259: Hello Nairalanders,

Please I need your sincere advice on this;

I have been in friendship with this girl for about three months and our friendship has been going well until a couple of days back! We have been communicating very well before now and her sisters and most of her friends know about our friendship and many of them believe we are dating. She always rings me whenever I am not available to chat at the usual time.

I was planning to ask her out before she goes for service next week but was waiting to see what state she will be posted to before doing that. She was in town to pick up her letter and all has been going well until Wednesday morning when she told me she would want us to stop using slang like *I miss you* etc for the next five months or so and we would need to put our dating on hold till then.

She said she wants to find out if the feelings she has for me is genuine! Ever since then she has been very brief and takes longer time to respond to my chat, sometimes it take a couple of hours for her to respond. When I made my observations known to her she blamed it on network which is not true because we have same service provider and we were in close proximity.

She has been posted to one of the northern states. Please what do you guys advise? Should I continue playing along or should I stop communicating with her or should I call it quit with her or should I just focus on my career? Lines are falling in place for me and I am afraid if I delay in hooking up now, the probability of coming across a golddigger will be much higher!

Thanks for your advice!

Candidly speaking...she is not that into you. Sorry buddy. Move on.

There is nothing natural about cheating...it is an individualistic choice.

Some people have respect for themselves and some don't. If you are not happy in your relationship or marriage..speak up and work it out. If that doesn't work...THEN LEAVE AND BE DONE WITH IT.

I don't date cross dressers however I do not have an issue with my husband wearing one stud on his right ear if he chooses to. (He won't anyways)

captainbraide: IF A WOMAN DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO COOK,YOU TEACH HER.FOR ME WHERE THERE WOULD BE A PROBLEM IS WHEN SHE REFUSES TO LEARN AND SEES HER KNOWING HOW TO COOK AS UNIMPORTANT.THERE WOULD BE VERY BIG PROB,BECAUSE IN AS MUCH AS I KNOW HOW TO COOK VERY WELL,THE KITCHEN IS NOT MY OFFICE.IT IS THE OFFICE OF THE WOMAN,ALTHOUGH FROM TIME TO TIME I WOULD WANT TO SPOIL HER TO A SPECIAL MEAL ANYWAY

coo

If she must know how to cook then you must know how to please her. It goes both ways.

kimberluge: Pls,help me wit dis,should married couples get tested every 3 months for the deadly virus? If not how can dey tell if dier spouse i ths infected?

Yes! I strongly encourage married couples who have had sex before side and during marriage if there were any acts outside the marriage. Viruses have qualms for specific race, creed, gender, or ethnicity. No one is safe from viruses good or bad.

My husband and I tested before we got married and six months after we got married just to ensure neither of us have diseases. If you have suspicious thoughts about your partner...get tested. Protect yourself even from your spouse. There are women who have been infected with deadly viruses from their HUSBANDS simply because he was cheating or screwing other men without protection. It goes for women as well.

Just because you are married..doesn't mean you will not catch anything. Be safe and keep your partners clean if you must screw around!

CAMEROONPRIDE: ^ u r the puta who runs away whejavascript:void(0);n I come in .what a coward. Lmao , shocked by one of your lame comments g oing by world bank ,ifm BAD and all others Bretton woods institutions they don't even compare both countries lmao, you uneducated akata your ignorance doesn't faze me one bit.
When u r done with the initiation of ur babies send them in the stran eeet u need a new pair of sneakers and a new weave

Please tell me this isn't the epitome of African education/excellency?

No damn wonder you were denied a student visa by the American embassy! You couldn't even fill out the application correctly!


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Yoruba men? Eeeeew.

Dbisi: I had a problem with my husband about 2 months before our wedding, he suspected and accused me of having an affairs he later found was not true and this was after we have dated for 5 years. That broke my heart because i was a very decent girl and infact he disvirgined me after 4 years into our courtship after i had graduated from UI. He did apologise though and even though i tried to stop the wedding he begged me and made the whole world beg me i was no longer interested but it was too late. When we got married i realised i never enjoyed sex it is always pain and i tried to see if something was wrong with me, i tried to forgive him and free my mind and yet i still never enjoyed it. One day i listened to a voice mail a girl left for him of how much she enjoyed him and how he should not because of marriage forget her as he was too sweet on the bed, this broke my heart because i trusted him and now i realised its not as if he doesnt know how to make love it was my problem. Though i regret it now and feel quilty, i slept with an ex who never slept with me as a single girl and i must confess i enjoyed it, now i can't say what my problem is, i never did it after then and i still don't enjoy sex with my husband. I feel so guilty and i wish i could confess to him and ask for his forgiveness. Is it wise to do this and please if you have ever had like problem what can i do to enjoy sex with my husband. Please, this is a marital and serious and real issue will appreciate genuine and helpful advise.

Bleep him. You don't have to tell him anything. Just keep doing what you want to do and hope he doesn't find out.

How ugly.

demmie1: oh shut up!

Make me!

MsDarkSkin: first of all i don't have any masters except the divine entity that created me..GOD.

Not my moms. Not my dad (rip) and most definitely not a white man, sir.
Second, I am not looking at it from anyone's POV but mine.

Although on this subject we kinda share the same views, blyss and I disagree on A LOT more than we agree. For one I think he does have a chip on his shoulder...it's no secret but I support the notion that it's impossible for a group of people to up and go somewhere and settle where they are not familiar with the lifestyle esp. among people who may become hostile. This thread, as I have said for the billionth time, proves my point.

But back to what we were discussing a few minutes ago:

There has always been African vs. Caribbean vs. AA tension since we came in contact both physically and via internet. Egos, selective AMNESIA , and pride gets in the way and people fail to reason with clear minds. It's ok to feel that it is a bad idea but there is no need to use stereotypical names to describe chima...just like it was no need for her to call cameroon a shyt hole. You don't know each other, you don't affect each other's lives by posting on NL..so speak your piece and let it be it.

We don't have to agree. We can just learn to respect each other's opinions. That's all I am saying. And I will take my own advise here on out.

Sis...it doesn't matter what names he calls me(he is repeating what hundreds have said on this site)...it won't change anything I have said and will continue to say. If people can't take what they dish then they need to stay in the sandbox. Real talk.

In my opinion, Liberia and S. Leone is no different from Cameroon except location. If Liberia and S. Leone are shitholes so is Cameroon. It is like a kettle calling the pot black. Bottom line. The comment about Cameroon obviously shook his dumb azz..oh well.

I don't see Rokiatu, Tima, and Kandi writing two-pages spread about his opinion of their countries. You are right though..we are entitled to our opinions whether others agree or not.

MsDarkSkin: anyway,
it's like they say.."you could lead a horse to the water but you can't force him to drink".

black people get so much mouth for each other but will fold in a heartbeat once the "white man" shows up.

definition of a failed race.

[size=33pt]Holllllllllllllaleuuuuuuia![/size] Careful Sis..they gon call you a self hater for speaking the truth!

CAMEROONPRIDE: Went to call his favorite customer lmao , negresse ne commence pas ce que tu ne peux pas finir. Nso zut, Mebi ilan
I spit on you and the future prostitute you call babies, like mum like girls

[size=44pt]Well-Stirred![/size]

CAMEROONPRIDE: idonthavealife.com
Cam I want your dick deep in my azz
Ewwwoh I don't do prostitute
Chima: cam please
Cam : get lost u dirty
Chima : I just cleaned my pu-c for u
Cam : u old hag I don't want to get a std
Chima: you mean Cam swerry I have to feed my babies
Cam: I don't care get the mess out of my way

[size=44pt]Well-Shaken![/size]

[quote author=الملكي فوق الله]~[size=20pt]....!!!!::::LMFAOOOO::::!!!![/size]~ [/quote]Heey booo! I missed you.

MsDarkSkin: i speak english and patois but it doesn't change the fact that i speak a european language because my people were what? COLONIZED. It doesn't change the fact that I live in the west because black countries are either failed states, third world or "developing".

So even if you speak Ewondo you are still in America and still speak two European languages as a result of colonization. That's the point. No matter how many times you point your finger three more are pointed back at you. Which is why this argument is stuupid.

"you AAs live ijavascript:void(0);n ghettos..you don't have your own economy" = "you africans were sonned on your own continent/soil"..it's the same story both ways.

[size=33pt]Damn![/size] Come to think of it Sis..just like SOME Nigerians/Africans had an issue with Blyss promoting Black Westerns moving to Africa for whatever reasons...Native Americans had an issue with non-Native Americans coming to their land "claiming" shit. Deja vu huh?

Nevertheless...the "coloreds" that were taken from different parts of the world ending up at a predominantly pale country to only break free of shackles and bondage to paved a way for an African to become president of UNITED STATES! It was because of many given up their lives for the betterment of their children's children. Uh oh...getting too deep huh?

While those who weren't "taken" from their homelands scamming, begging, and stealing their ways to the very countries their forefathers have sold "merchandises" to. Hello!

Yall ain't ready.

CAMEROONPRIDE: on my food thread.
Anyway wThen I diss u back u go cry to sexsomething and Jay bee
Stop looking for my attention and don't quote me anymore.
Never forget dirty u .you are histhe poster of the "old hag attitude" and prostitution.
You can now get lost quenisha and no It's not an African name dirty baby mama on welfare ,I spit and urinate on u . Tufiakwa

[size=33pt]This hungry nigga SHOOK![/size]

What is the difference between Liberia, S. Leone, and Cameroon? They are all the same except location!

LMAO@Camdummy dissing Liberia and S. Leone like Cameroon is a paradise!

[size=33pt]I dey laugh in Patois![/size]

CAMEROONPRIDE: actually I really don't care about where that prostitu.te lives.

Yeah right faggetho...if you didn't...why are you still ON MY NUTS?

You hungry nigga?

MsDarkSkin: ^^she doesn't live in compton...
and whites and mexicans live there as well. just saying..

You know damn well I live in Compton and Watts Projects! I live next door to Omo and Igwe! Hold on somebody is stuck on the elevator!