₦airaland Forum

shaybe baby: I'd say stop slating the woman. Her situation isn't unique but doesn't mean the challenges she faces, faced are any less important. If other's haven't spoken about their experiences before, that's their choice just like she has the choice to speak out about hers. It matters to her, not because she is white but because it's her life story. A lot of people write about their experiences and it's not for us to slag em off saying we don't want to know. By telling hers, maybe other people in or about to enter interracial marriages can learn from her experiences because she seems to be doing something right in coping so far with the challenges such marriages bring.

She isnt the only one and that was the point. She is no different. Marriage with a white person is no different than marriage with a black perskn. Nothing new...

Kobojunkie: I said at least 25 cause I am not sure of any of the claims she has made, including the one about her being married to this man for the last 12 years. It could be that much of the story is a lie who knows. . . . the only thing I can say is that she looks at least 25.

Ok. Something is still off but whatever this is chat.

Kobojunkie: That woman is at least 25 and most 18 year-olds already moved out of home and living on their own far away from mom and dad . . . heck some never go back. America is a huge country. How can be stuck . . . and have nowhere to go at that age? Did America DENY HER too??

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How old did she married cos 12 years means she was 13 if she is 25.

Something is not adding up here.

Wait Sisi!!

She married a man straight from the internet No wonder....

Use it.

Lmao@crazyman saying i need to accept that she is special because be said so.

You got me bleeped up.....the bunion on my grannys toe is special.

There are a lot of white women who lives in Nigeria for many years and some of them can go back home and bring their children to visit family. She was disowned and thrown to pieces.

No special treatment here. She made a decision and she need to focus on the positivity of the her decision and life.

Writing a book to earn a living is not bad either.

How hard is it to abandon a toxic family member What is the fact she is white have to do with love Let me get this.....she is white in Nigeria and disowned by her parents means she love her husband Do you know there are many women who are with their husbands fkr a long time disowned by their parents beside her

Oh of course you dont....she is special because she is white and stood up to her parents.....what a great fucking accomplishment for the oyinbo community!!!

Madness!!

Opinions and theories.

[quote author=Lord_Reed]You will explain that to the police and the judge.[/quote]In America....the spouse is protected under the community property clause. If items accrued during the course of marriage....it is community property. If i stole the car i wouldnt be jailed because it is in both of our name and even if isnt i can use community property clause!!

Women better learn the laws in their country....God bless America!!!!!

CrazyMan: She did go through a lot...

But she pointed out one important fact...she's happy. So I guess that settles it.

Marriage if you ask me, is about finding a partner you can endure for above 5 years, amidst hardship, hatred, poverty, mistrust, jelousy, anger, peers etc.

So, If she endured hers for 12 years, then I feel she deserves some credit.

I wish her well.

So does everyone else who have endured many years of hardship while married....her situation isnt as unique as some people want it to be.

She should be happy if she made that choice to be happy. No one can make you happy but yourself that is fact of life.

Sexkillz has a great point.

Sorry Lord Reed suga.

How did you know she had any issues with keeping a man

What does looks have to do with quality

The fact that she even asked you are you finished says a lot. Have you asked her if she is pleased with ur performance and what you can do please her?..She is not frigid...you cant Bleep.

Original poster...

You need to talk to your husband not Nairaland. There is nothing that we can do for yoh but offer opinions and theories.

You need to either draw the line and let them know enough is enough or deal with it.

Your choice.

Lmao @ Koyoke getting mad.

bennyraz: ashamed of fat women? No i'm not . I have a criteria for my wants

Sure. If you say so.

kokoye: Oh, so you fell in love with him first?

you think you can just fall in love so willy nilly??

Well...you didn't respond to my Nairaland calls. So.....I......

jay bee:
lemme know when you are done piercing ma heart

Or when I bleach my skin huh?

bennyraz: u don't get the drift right? Have u seen dettol soap advert? Well, the slogan was ''IF I DON'T TAKE CARE OF YOU, WHO WILL? '' i hope baby chima aka carolina as started toddling

I am not in Nigeria dear.

kokoye: Is her name Carolina ...who gave her that name??

That's the name of HIS BABY. SMH.

jay bee:

Why you frowning....you told me I wasn't white enough for you.

bennyraz: if i don't take care of you, who will? ''use Dettol soap''

Why do I need to bathe

BelaMorena: I'm snitching.

Snitches get stitches Sis.

2buff: @OP I will tell uncle Chima for you

Tell him and I will tell the world that you shitted on yourself.

La Parisienne: Aren't you supposed to ''be in love'' with only one man- Mr Chima?


As for you and Kokoye, [size=44pt]I think it's infatuation[/size]

Take that back hater!

bennyraz: I knew dat dis woman wasn't really a mrs.. And if peradventure Mrs.chima is really mrs.chima, then she needs to bathe @ a flowing river with local sponge and soap and a calabash filled with red oil/palm oil

Regardless of what I say and even if I furnished a marriage certificate....you will still think the sky is green. Why do you even care

KINGwax: wow! Didn't knw mr chima is a sissy, and u are a lair(didn't wanna say actress, cos dt might add a little dignity in your trade)!
Mrs chima, tell us in truth, u use to pretend enjoying his sex too?

LMAO@Mr. Chima is a sissy cos he shed tears during a movie.

I guess you are sissy too huh? You have shed tears in your lifetime sissy!

davidif: This is the problem with some marriages. You have spouses comparing themselves to each other.

That's what I have been preaching for the last couple of years!! Help me tell em ooo

safeact: I have read d story and her pix on several blogs. Its all about racial abuse. Hope she gets d recognition that she needs when d book is out and possible wins an award for her. She needs to be commended for standing on her feet and saying No wen it is needed in a most difficult period.

Her case is a true test of love and understanding. Hope kobojukle can do that!

From the look of her "story" the only people who had an issue was her parents. You are right she should win an award for standing up against her parents.

In that case...there are other people who should win awards for speaking up and stating their opinions but they don't get the recognition because they aren't mixing nor pale skinned.

There are many non-Blacks that have stood up against their parents as well. She isn't the only one.

jay bee: Trust chima to be on this thread patiently waiting flog 'em man .....

Shut your arse.

Why are you following me?