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mykejones: This foreigners have completly derailed this thread...

No...we are on topic....it is the Nigerian that is off topic.

[size=44pt]Truth hurts. [/size]

REALITY101: Why are you girls terrorizing and scaring these people away

Okay...Imma be good....I was minding my own business...mofos had to Bleep with me.

MsDarkSkin: You're wicked sis!!
don't have that fo0l come up on here and start crying again!

Girl....I am just getting warmed up!

REALITY101: SMH

MsDarkSkin:

lol yes I can.
In fact my favorite Chinese food consists of rib tibs and pork fried rice.
He gets it for me just so there won't be any wahala

lol Really, he's open minded and not about "converting" me. That's a plus.

That's good girl. I dated a dude that was a Mooslim and I cooked a big pot of greens with PORK NECKBONES...GIRL!! HE DAMN NEAR SHITTED BRICKS!

I used bacon grease in the corn bread and roasted a whole pork shoulder!

He ate a damn salad!

MsDarkSkin: AMEN!!!

Read the revised post.

MsDarkSkin: LMAO. My thing is, if it is GENUINE love and interest in the person...nada is wrong with it.
If you decide you ONLY want an AA, nobody could be mad at you because it is YOUR decision. But if your full African American child grew up and said "Mom, I met Costa Rican guy and I love him. I want to be with him." It would be normal to think "well I was hoping my child would date an AA BUT if this Costa Rican man makes her happy and loves her unconditionally, I am with it", then you in my opinion "are what's up".

but you got parents who will LITERALLY cut their children out of their lives and inheritance FOR DATING a foreigner or someone from a different background. It's BANANAS! That is why some folks on here and around the world are afraid to look outside again even if it is within their own race. If it's not the same tribe...it's a no go. FOH!

Many mofos in the same CULTURE, TRIBE, RACE, and CREED don't get along with each other but yet you are unrealistic when you find peace with someone that is different from you.

My granny always said....CLOSED MOUTHS don't get fed. Nairaland is filled with lonely and unhappy mofos. You got niggas begging for pictures and shit. Crying about not being able to afford to be with someone that isn't worth a piece of shit.

Now that is being real.

Fulaman198: Now that I have Ije, the Oyinbo bros are all yours

They were mine before Ije came in the picture.

MsDarkSkin: Exactly. A lot of how people think has to do with how they were raised.
Hatred, racism and tribalism for the most part are taught. If you are someone who is constantly fighting cross cultural relationships WORST of all within the black race and/or African countries/tribes, then that says a lot about your character and raising both of which are rubbish. How is a child who is half Yoruba and half Mande, or someone who is half Bahamian and half Afro.Venezuelan "lacking a cultural foundation"? If anything, especially if both parents are together, that person has TWO cultures to embrace. I don't care who you are that is a beautiful thing.

Exactly! I am all for people dating and marrying whomever they want but don't GET ON ME because I DON'T SHARE your opinions.

What is sad though is that many of these "Why such and such is with whom" threads are created by COLORED FOLKS. I can see why the White chick on another thread stated why do Black people spend time worrying about who is with whom and why. It is a difference if they volunteer their own personal information and ask for comments...but to spend "your supposedly working arse" online worrying about why Mexicans dating Jews is dumb as hell!

Many Nigerians on Nairaland and offline are MIXED with different nationalities so why all of a sudden niggas want to act BRAND NEW?

Fulaman.....

Are you still hating on my Oyinbo sugas?

MsDarkSkin: I don't have time to worry about someone who IS monoethnic but STILL miserable as hell.
I would rather go by my own personal experience of being open to different things because I am the result of two people "going against the grain".

MsDarkSkin: Amen. I am a product of a bi-ethnic relationship and I believe I do have the best of both worlds.
I have two rich histories to celebrate and am more likely to accept/appreciate "change" than someone whose thinking is one way and often times not by choice because they have "rules" to adhere to: who they are ALLOWED to love, not going outside of their culture, live up to their parent's direct expectations culturally speaking; blasey blasey. Just depressing tribalism type ish.

Being Jamaican-African American and if by the grace of God, my current relationship blossoms in to marriage, my children will be multi-ethnic: Caribbean, black American and African. That would be a wonderful thing especially if there is love and support in the home. Add that with rich diversity and it truly is the best of both worlds.

Preach Sister! Only ignorant people make shit difficult for themselves.

Hold on Sis! You have to be REALISTIC according to a certain chatter...and where is your "ethnic support"?

I mean people come up with DUMB ARSE shit to justified being IGNORANT.

MsDarkSkin:

Be careful...GRUMPY PIA is going to tell you to be realistic.

[quote author=tpia@]did you see the words "I think" or "imo" anywhere in my post?

or you have no answer and simply prefer to play ostrich?

nothing wrong with admitting that![/quote]Which questions do you me to answer?

You rambled on about me needing to be realistic AFTER I stated TO ANOTHER chatter that two people from different cultures CAN MAKE IT WORK if they are OPEN and THAT HIS CHILDREN will have best of both worlds....

Why are YOU ASKING ME QUESTIONS about MY PERSONAL OPINIONS? Did the statement have something to do with YOU?

Reality and Mynd....please get a room.

[quote author=tpia@]no pressure, huh?

in what way are your children having the best of both worlds?

by not having an ethnic support base?

let's be realistic here.[/quote]Let be realistic cos YOU DON'T think it will work? WTF?

[quote author=Mynd_44]See Mrs Chima giving advice to a fraudsta[/quote]I was trying to help him scam better! He caught me in my moment of kindness!

Jaykizz: Ha ma gullible fwend, read d topic wel, ODE!