Any one married to a foreigner? can you please share your experiences including the challenges, how to cope and your advices to other people who may want to.

To be successful in dating or being married to someone that isn't from your culture or group...you must remove all ignorance and embrace spiritual connection.

Sadly, millions will die alone because they aren't willing to remove ignorance and embrace spiritual connection.

cuteonyii: Any one married to a foreigner? can you please share your experiences including the challenges, how to cope and your advices to other people who may want to.

Not yet married to one but bn and currently screwing a lot of them. No regrets, just be yourself and apply some the few things that madame said.

you have to keep an open mind and know that the world doesn't revolve around your culture and family rules. Though you dont forget who you are, but you will have to rememeber that you aren't the only one in the relationship

Mrs.Chima:
To be successful in dating or being married to someone that isn't from your culture or group...you must remove all ignorance and embrace spiritual connection.

Sadly, millions will die alone because they aren't willing to remove ignorance and embrace spiritual connection.

Embrace spiritual connection? Please can you throw more light on this?

Tyche:


Embrace spiritual connection? Please can you throw more light on this?

It was self explanatory and I wasn't referring to religion.

omega25red: you have to keep an open mind and know that the world doesn't revolve around your culture and family rules. Though you dont forget who you are, but you will have to rememeber that you aren't the only one in the relationship

Exactly.

Humans are humans. Foreigner or indigene. The problem is that people are not willing to let go of their beliefs

Mrs.Chima:


It was self explanatory and I wasn't referring to religion.

Wouldn't have asked if I understand cos one learns everytime. But ... whatever ... peace ...

Tyche:

Wouldn't have asked if I understand cos one learns everytime. But ... whatever ... peace ...

Still confused?

"spiritual connection"?

that's a new one.

do you mean spirit husband or spirit wife by any chance?

tpia@:
"spiritual connection"?

that's a new one.

do you mean spirit husband or spirit wife by any chance?

lolz. It's self explanatory na.

Mrs.Chima:
To be successful in dating or being married to someone that isn't from your culture or group...you must remove all ignorance and embrace spiritual connection.

Sadly, millions will die alone because they aren't willing to remove ignorance and embrace spiritual connection.

Good advice. But what about things like making sure your kids have your country background, sending money home to families, acquiring properties back home, etc.. I think it will be a little bit challenging to a women who is not from your culture to really understand why you must do all those stuff..

REALITY101:

Not yet married to one but bn and currently screwing a lot of them. No regrets, just be yourself and apply some the few things that madame said.

Screwing is not bad, but there is nothing really different from them and others..

omega25red: you have to keep an open mind and know that the world doesn't revolve around your culture and family rules. Though you dont forget who you are, but you will have to rememeber that you aren't the only one in the relationship

I like this. Having an open mind is all you need.

cuteonyii:
Screwing is not bad, but there is nothing really different from them and others..

There is duh!

cuteonyii: Good advice. But what about things like making sure your kids have your country background, sending money home to families, acquiring properties back home, etc.. I think it will be a little bit challenging to a women who is not from your culture to really understand why you must do all those stuff..

It is not that difficult. I am a foreigner and married to an Igbo man. So I know what I am talking about and it is not difficult as people make it out to be. Only different between my husband and I is our nationalities.

As Omega said...it is about having that open mind and meeting someone that you are compatible with. If you want to do all those things you have mentioned then get with a woman that can relate not just personally but mentally. If she is mentally able to comprehend why you must do those things...then I do not see any issues with you passing down your culture to your children.

Again...it is about being with a woman that you are compatible with and can grow together with just being who you are. You should also accept the fact that she may want to share some of her culture with your children as well.

Your children will have the best of both worlds.

tpia@:
"spiritual connection"?

that's a new one.

do you mean spirit husband or spirit wife by any chance?

Spiritual connection and Spiritual spouses are two different things.

Nothing new about spiritual connection.

Tyche:

lolz. It's self explanatory na.

It is.

REALITY101:

There is duh!

Mind telling us the difference?

Mynd_44:
Mind telling us the difference?

Censored Go try one u gotta understand

Mrs.Chima:


It is not that difficult. I am a foreigner and married to an Igbo man. So I know what I am talking about and it is not difficult as people make it out to be. Only different between my husband and I is our nationalities.

As Omega said...it is about having that open mind and meeting someone that you are compatible with. If you want to do all those things you have mentioned then get with a woman that can relate not just personally but mentally. If she is mentally able to comprehend why you must do those things...then I do not see any issues with you passing down your culture to your children.

Again...it is about being with a woman that you are compatible with and can grow together with just being who you are. You should also accept the fact that she may want to share some of her culture with your children as well.

Your children will have the best of both worlds.

no pressure, huh?

in what way are your children having the best of both worlds?

by not having an ethnic support base?

let's be realistic here.

tpia@:


no pressure, huh?

in what way are your children having the best of both worlds?

by not having an ethnic support base?

let's be realistic here.

Let be realistic cos YOU DON'T think it will work? WTF?

Reality and Mynd....please get a room.

Mrs.Chima:
Reality and Mynd....please get a room.

Yeah, its always something else when two brother's tryna conv but cool for chicks smh . Mynd yeah lets get a room where we can watch OKC Vs Heat game with bunch of strippers giving us lap dance. . .

REALITY101:

Yeah, its always something else when two brother's tryna conv but cool for chicks smh . Mynd yeah lets get a room where we can watch OKC Vs Heat game with bunch of strippers giving us lap dance. . .

I have not watch any game since you know. But I might just watch the finals outta boredom. I will meet you at the room. How is Roland taking it?

Mynd_44:
I have not watch any game since you know. But I might just watch the finals outta boredom. I will meet you at the room. How is Roland taking it?

Hmm He got no choice lol. . Hes aiit anyway. Well I love BB and I felt bad for Boston Celtics last night but its ok cuz they did a good job. A lot NBA fans really wanna see Heat/OKC now they got it. Since I am from West I think I'm gonna have to Cuz I can't stand Queen James even tho I feel sorry for him bn a king without a damn ring considering his overrated hard works.

REALITY101:

Hmm He got no choice lol. . Hes aiit anyway. Well I love BB and I felt bad for Boston Celtics last night but its ok cuz they did a good job. A lot NBA fans really wanna see Heat/OKC now they got it. Since I am from West I think I'm gonna have to Cuz I can't stand Queen James even tho I feel sorry for him bn a king without a damn ring considering his overrated hard works.

I am going to be supporting the Thunders too but I am not as passionate as I would have been if the Spurs were the ones playing the finals

Mrs.Chima:


Let be realistic cos YOU DON'T think it will work? WTF?

did you see the words "I think" or "imo" anywhere in my post?

or you have no answer and simply prefer to play ostrich?

nothing wrong with admitting that!

tpia@:


did you see the words "I think" or "imo" anywhere in my post?

or you have no answer and simply prefer to play ostrich?

nothing wrong with admitting that!

Which questions do you me to answer?

You rambled on about me needing to be realistic AFTER I stated TO ANOTHER chatter that two people from different cultures CAN MAKE IT WORK if they are OPEN and THAT HIS CHILDREN will have best of both worlds....

Why are YOU ASKING ME QUESTIONS about MY PERSONAL OPINIONS? Did the statement have something to do with YOU?

omega25red: you have to keep an open mind and know that the world doesn't revolve around your culture and family rules. Though you dont forget who you are, but you will have to rememeber that you aren't the only one in the relationship

MsDarkSkin:

Be careful...GRUMPY PIA is going to tell you to be realistic.