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joeydozzy: which one, junior or senior?

Both!

ceenote: In other news, Mrs Chima is either lonely, bored or craves to have back her days as a single lady, seeing she comments on every topic on this "romance section."

Goodluck to your husband and kids.

Thread closed!

Why are you ON MY NUTS?

Hey biatch! It is not difficult to be single in America.....all I have to do is file for divorce DUMB ARSE.

Lonely and bored?!!!! Were you speaking from experience?

RealBitch: . Mrs chima,i love your enlightened nature.pls save a soul. Im the one doing the calling in my case. Am i being too forward¿¿

No....you are not. There is nothing wrong with women calling their men. If you can't call your man without feeling like you are an ashyho then he isn't the one for you.

Trust me, men would say that it is a man thing...but it is not. It is a human thing to call someone you love or care about.

When my husband is at work...I send him sexy text messages to brighten his day. Try it and see how he responds differently.

Fulaman198: SMH

Don't be jealous of my Oyinbo sugas.

Fulaman198: Notice how the Nigerian women choose white guys more than black guys ~.~

White men rocks!

Sexkillz and Ms Darkskin!!! Why yall ain't tell me this thread existed! I just so happened to be looking at general section and saw this shit!



Where is all my haters at?!!!

joeydozzy: I love you already cos no one has ever called me cockblocker

Did you hear someone growled in Igbo?

Oh shit! Here comes Chima! Run!!!!

joeydozzy: make oga no catch you

Hush cockblocker!

Tyche: Wouldn't have asked if I understand cos one learns everytime. But ... whatever ... peace ...

Still confused?

OP

When I first met my husband.....he started with sweet words. At first it was an issue for me because we were just friends and getting to know each other. He started calling me wife and baby. I was like huh? My male friends only called me by my nickname and it was fine with me.

Every time we went places and family functions...I was introduced as wife or my baby. I spoke with my husband about it and we came to an understanding that is how he prefers to call me. It wasn't an issue until people started asking me why I didn't let them know I was married......so I had to keep redirecting people.

So I understand what you mean and it is harmless unless of course...you do not feel the sam way about her. It also give you a sign that your partner is mad or something is wrong when they do not call your pet names......

Good luck!

Tyche: In your relationship, marriage, life struggles etc

Just watching my hubby drizzle his body with soap and water in the morning before joining him.

onila: I only mess with Nigerian guys but I dated a guy from Angola=he was cool but 2 quiet and laid back

I am trying to date another African...but that damn Lord Reed playing hard to get!

omega25red: you have to keep an open mind and know that the world doesn't revolve around your culture and family rules. Though you dont forget who you are, but you will have to rememeber that you aren't the only one in the relationship

Exactly.

Tyche: Embrace spiritual connection? Please can you throw more light on this?

It was self explanatory and I wasn't referring to religion.

I am a strong advocate for friendship before dating/marriage. People come up with these rules about what women should do before dating and etcera. if I want to speak to my man.....I would call my man and not sit there like a spoiled child waiting on him to make the first move. Its just a matter of maturity and knowing the person.

I believe when you are friends with your lover it changes the game....there are no rules in friendship because each person is different.

I speak from experience and strongly recommend it!

To be successful in dating or being married to someone that isn't from your culture or group...you must remove all ignorance and embrace spiritual connection.

Sadly, millions will die alone because they aren't willing to remove ignorance and embrace spiritual connection.