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I see you jaybee!

Gurgle:
Oh! yes it does thanks

You are welcome dear.

Gurgle:
So what did the Dairy analogy mean?? sex isn't enough or there isn't enough sex?

Lol! She was saying her man like her dairy and no other dairy can surpass it. I was being sarcastic saying straight men like "toto" whether it is free or sold.

In other words; toto don't keep a man nor make him honest.

Make sense?

Cutehector:
I dnt say bad things abt my exes.. They were all amazing....

Lies.

Gurgle:
Wait, you mean either no sex at all or sex after marriage, yes?

Before and After.

For some reasons, sex isn't enough after marriage.

This bullsh1t.

Men has been marrying little girls since 12 AD and you guys crying over this sh1t?

BlackGirlLost:
I believe him to be serious about me love. I am by far a desperate woman, I just didn't know the protocol. Hopefully I will be sharing pictures of my coral beads within the year.

I hope so too

BlackGirlLost:
Ms. Chima, he hasn't mentioned me BECAUSE of me.

As you can clearly see in the picture, I had some personal things I had to clear up before I met his parents. Ma'am the question I posed wasn't *why* haven't I met his family.

I know why. It's because of my stuff. Not because of milk, it's price, consumption etc. 'Cause he loves this milk and he know he wouldn't want to try any other dairy queen.

The question I asked is basically, now that the cat is out of the bag since Sunday, should I tell them if he doesn't?

I know now by reading the comments I should just wait for him. But I'm not stupid either... yes we would like to get married, but I'm not waiting because I'm no waiter.

Most straight men like "dairy" free or sold. Apparently, you are a waiter...you are still "lingering" around.

I have to call a spade a spade and I am telling you like I see it. For your sake...Good luck!

Jorussia:
Lol,Deborah, so my name is now David abi?

Delilah was tempting David.

Jorussia:
I have modified the post(its now goddess instead of Delilah). I was complimenting her beauty.

Okay David.

Gurgle:
Yeah exactly. Otherwise how many families will have heard your name as a "casual" mention over dinner? No way

Lol no if you have any more pearls of wisdom, please share

I guess my brother and friend are weird because they mentioned their girlfriends as "cowokers" before we actually met them as fiances.

My ancient pearls are being cleaned as we speak.

Jorussia:
Is there anything wrong in me acknowledging that she is beautiful?

You were complimenting and insulting. Choose one.

Gurgle:
It depends. not everybody tells their family things like that unless its like marriage things. Don't think I would say anything unless the chap wanted to marry me. wouldn't expect him to say anything either

I am just weary of OP getting screwed over. Guess she should use this as an opportunity to see if he is serious or not

If not then that's another story

I agree. My husband didn't tell his family about me nor I told my family about him until AFTER he proposed to me and we had an introduction celebration for family and friwnds.

People don't date like our forefathers and dating is about knowing the person and seeing what is compatible to you for serious relationship and allow that relationship and bond to grow before getting serious!

Okay let me sit my "old" ass down.

Jorussia:
Lol,i was just kidding.

(Hiding cutlass) Okay.

Gurgle:
Well

if he doesn't seem like hes doing it after she has appealed to his better nature then she can start being hardened but for me I think its better for her to go softly with him to get what she wants, then after all is secure she can challenge him on his behaviour

I mean I don't know, does OP want to marry him or what

Don't get me wrong...I understand your point but if the boy has good intentions he would have already told his family that he is dating even if it isn't serious however she would have been a mention. Some guys would say a friend or coworker if they aren't comfortable saying girlfriend but she would be a mention in the conversation at SOME POINT.

She wouldn't have to keep "reminding" him. She obviously think highly of the boy if she wants the family to know her.

Jorussia:
Babe you are tempting us(NL guys) with your sexy looks. We(NL guys)might not be able to give you unbiased and sincere advice again,because you look like a Delilah.

This poster.

Adaeze003:
What if you are just some girl he's dating? Just saying...

Let him handle his family, it's really not your place to go around telling his peeps you're his gf.

He can also be dating other girls. Usually when a guy is. In an eexclusive relationship and potentially there is marriage brewing...he "introduce/ the girl.

Gurgle:
No let him do it

But keep reminding him if he seems like hes not going to do it

Not nagging, but reminding him

Let me say this as nicely as I can. Why the hell does he needs reminding? He has a memory problem? He is fornication with the girl on the regular and getting free milk as a take home...isn't that reminder ENOUGH to tellhis family that he is dating?

Desperation isn't cute.

BlackGirlLost:
He was not upset that his cousin knows about me... boo.

He was upset that he asked his cousin not to tell his family, and the cousin it anyway.

To me that's like, telling your cousin you and your man are pregnant bit you want to wait until something special event or at least until 3 months to tell your parents... but them your cousin told your parents.

That's why he was mad.

If you want to believe that bullsh1t....sure boo boo!

Meanwhile...there are plenty fishes in the sea.

Free milk.

JiggamanGh:
You know naija men now, their belly is not the only thing about them that's swollen.

Hmmm.

JiggamanGh:
W

Wow, so Nigerian men don't have the most swag!!!!!!!! These men go around bragging all ova nairaland about how foreign men can't resist them because of their swag. Well there u have it, your own sister believes you are swagless.

Jiggaman you are not well.

BlackGirlLost:
No babe, I don't know his sisters, I just know his cousins and their girlfriends.

Apparently, I was mentioned at a family barbecue as "O's girlfriend is so funny. " by the cousin and then O's sister was like "Wait, what? "

And everyone tried to act like they didn't say anything but it was too late

Are you in Nigeria?

BlackGirlLost:
Giiiirrrrllllll now you understand why I said this is drama and i wanted to be the one to take care of it?

He said his mother and his father and his brothers will love me, it's the sisters I gotta worry about. He says they don't even argue amongst themselves because they argue with everyone else

If you believe that he is not telling his family about you because of the sisters? That's some bullsh1t. The fact that he was upset that the cousin know of you is a BIG RED FLAG!!!

who's the hell gets mad cos a relative know that they are dating someone

You continue on being his plaything boo. Have fun while it last.

BlackGirlLost:
I don't understand the question? I feel like someone needs to make an introduction otherwise I'm just some girl who he's dating

You are just a girl he is dating. You are not his wife nor fiance. You are just a sex mate until he is tired of being a playboy.


Why would a man marry you if he can get it free?

JhyMedex:
MrsChima on Ma thread!!!!
Welcome Ma...
Lol... Definitely Jenner inspired...
Wld u allow u hubby rock it?..

My husband can wear whatever he choose. If he wear a thong...I would still hump him.

cyprus000:
[size=13pt][b] I can see its no use engaging a hypocrite lyk yourself.
So I will just pass.

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About my woman aborting my baby..sorry to disappoint you.
I ain't a sex fan,neither do I do bittches and by the way. My woman isn't in the country and there is no way that could be possible.

And about this "insecurity" ish. Please educate me on that,cos I have searched my personal dictionary,right from childhood till now and I can't find it there.


Did I also forget to tell you dat I love the smell of jail,when I get the chance to kill murderers
There is this blissful feeling you get when you are in such a scenario.
Just lyk a nigerian soulja feels,when he gets the chance to kill a boko haram,that killed his twin brother

I think you should try it,since you are a femminist

When you are ready,tell me and I will make contact so you can be on your way to the middle east.
To kill all those wicked men abusing and killing women over there.
Instead of disturbing africa and looking for smoke where there is none.
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Awww...that evil bish aborted your babies?

You want me to beat that bish?

proxillin:
In other work you are a wack-job. Gud luck with your feminism thingy. What version of Love Machine are u on now?

And regarding the "Pained" thing.

The only thing I felt is pity. Cuz u need one.

It is a good thing that you are irrelevant.

I wouldn't be surprised if any chick that slept with you ended up choosing a fake dick over you because you look and talk like a diseased dickhead.

Yrah....you can pretend like you aren't pained.

blueseacats:
Not true madam, no man has the right to terminate his parental rights until the child turns 18 or depending on the stupulated adult age of the country he lives.

A man doesn't have to be a father if chooses not to. Parents loses their rights in many countries and if they can terminate rights then a man can choose to be a parent or not.

If a parent choose to give their child up for adoption they are no longer "legally/ the parent. You will still be the biological parent but you won't have rights to parent your children.

This was Caitlyn Jenner inspired.