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assme:
I think with your reaction so far, if you were in the same position as the husband, you would have thrown her off the cliff.

If I was the husband, I wouldn't have throw my wife over the cliff nor beat her because she laughed.  I would have simply have a conversation with her and ask her to inform the guy of his deeds. IF SHE love me and respect me, she would do just that and stay away from the guy since the guy like tapping arses. I would give her the level of understanding the same way I would want her to give me. What you do to others, it will be done to you tenfold and that is the truth. He will get his.

I would have treated my wife the same way I would want her to treat me.  The problem with SOME PEOPLE is selfishness.  It is okay to treat one person this way and expect them to treat you like a King.  No thanks. 

That is the appropriate way to handle the situation and beating her is not going to stop her if she want to form a relationship with a man that tapped her on the arse.  Let be logical people, I know it too late for MOST.

MBG4Real:
Although many men will not accept to marry a barren woman, it is not the same.  If a woman is declared barren after several medical tests, it is more or less a permanent condition. (Unless there is a miracle). But this my guys case is not permanent. It could get better.

That said, but I have seen couples who stayed put in marriage up to 18years without a baby. Men are more generous in love than women. It is a fact.

@Mrs. Chima, pertaining  to my comment to your diversionary post on this thread, it is not a deliberate attack.  But this is a public forum, don't say it if it is not what you mean.  If you have a personal or private chart with a member, direct it through a better medium where people will not meddle into it. It is an advise.

It is the same thing.  There is no such thing as the level of sameness.  If you can't marry a barren woman why would you expect a woman to marry a broke man.  It is not that complicated.  

I didn't say you attacked me and I KNOW THIS IS A PUBLIC FORUM.  If I wasn't talking to you then you should have mind your business.  It is that simple.

Hmm. Depends. But it wouldn't do me any good that I am married. But, It would depends if I was single.

ZIM DRILL:
yes i am for the mean time becoz am trying to reason with a fool 

You are a dumb arse because you don't know you the fool and a dumb arse.  Dumb arse.

assme:
Answering a question with a question is African and you still tell us that the reaction of the couple in context is African.

Let me know when the women beater convention is over.

ZIM DRILL:
dont waste much time on mrs chima

never reason much with a fool s/he will twist you along the way the fool will win through experience

If I am a fool then you are a dumb arse.  Why the Bleep would I reason with a dumb arse? Go wash some clothes.

Omoloa?

do your female friends tap you on your arse?

That some bullshit. Like I said he was in the RIGHT PLACE.

Damn Reality,

What you don't know?

ebila:
You do realise we're talking about adults right? The woman was the right person to do the talking to the 'arse tapper',not the husband.The husband's business is with the wife.The only time it is necessary and also wise for the husband to approach the 'arse tapper' is if the guy does it even after the woman scolded him.

If that was the case then the husband should have stay out of it.  If the matter was the wife's.  Now you know damn well that is not making no mOFO SENSE. He is in the right place because that mofo would have been in jail or killed.

So your rational logic is IF A MAN TAPPED ANOTHER WOMAN ON THE ARSE, HE bleeped HER?

I swear this some sad shit.

Where HAVE I JUSTIFIED THE WOMAN'S ACTION? Did you read ANY OF MY MOFO POSTS? No you didn't. Because you would have seen comments degrading the woman. But nooooooooo too busy getting caught up with the WOMEN BEATER COMMENT.

The only CRIME THE WOMAN DID WAS laughed and chased the guy around. What else she could have done? Beat the guy? What was already done was done. The woman can undo a tap on the arse neither the husband can undo the BLUEBERRY MUFFIN makeover he gave his wife.

That is fucking crazy. You would beat the woman because she laughed BUT WON'T SAY SHIT TO THE MAN? THAT SOME BULLSHIT AND YOU MOFOS KNOW IT.

Only a woman beater would say that. DUH!

I guess because the men sorry arse want a woman to feel sorry for him enough to marry him.

IF a man won't marry a barren woman, why would a woman marry a broke man? Let be real people.

assme:
@Mrs. Chima

u think its b'cos dis is Africa. So in the western world other men can be allowed to tap/squeeze another man's wife arse, is that what you are saying?

What I AM SAYING ONLY IN AFRICA and other countries, a man can beat a woman and get away with it. 

In America, if a man saw his wife getting her arse tapped by another man and he beat her up.  HE IS GOING TO JAIL/getting killed/burn up.  There wouldn't even be a discussion.

[size=44pt]Calling all WOMEN BEATERS, please report for duty![/size]

The fact that YOU ARE GETTING DEFENSIVE over my women beater comment IS EVIDENCE ENOUGH what you do behind closed door buddy.

ZIM DRILL:
you cant reason dear period

i rest my case

those who reason will see my point of view

no men in the world would love a woman who let her bum tapped by any nigga besides him whether its her boss or whatever

There is no need for you to get upset WOMAN BEATER. You better hope you don't marry the wrong woman if YOU ARE NOT MARRIED. You need to get you a man then if you thinking that WOMEN CAN CONTROL actions of other men. As I stated BEFORE if she continue to allow the guy to tap her on the arse SHE IS WRONG BUT YOUR ARSE IS TOO BUSY BEING UPSET that you didn't even see that.

As usual ALL THE WOMEN BEATERS reporting for duty. Come one and come all.

assme:
what is MzGreat and Mrs. Chima even talking about


The Lady deserved the slap very well cos she created the enabling environment for the guy to slap her a ss and for the guy to do that in public that means he can do or has been doing worse when nobody is looking and the married lady did not even get upset at it rather she laughed sheepishly and chased the guy around playfully and am sure that's the part that angered the husband

I do apologize because I forgot THE WOMAN IS IN AFRICA.  Enough said.  

Men will fight women and beat women BUT DARE CHALLENGE ANOTHER MAN even if he is the instigator.  

Please take back all my comments MINUS THE ONE AFRICAN THAT IS SUFFERING FROM ADHD and need RITALIN bad!  

I totally forgot THE WOMAN WAS IN AFRICA.

LIKE I SAID STAY FOCUS.  Ritalin is necessary.

ZIM DRILL:
adding ?

ok explain this

Again EINSTEIN, WHERE DID I SAY THE GUY SHOULD GET AWAY WITH IT?  If you actually read THE ORIGINAL POST, the woman laughed and chased the guy around.  My explanation for that ACTION was she MAY HAVE NOT WANT TO MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT. 

The woman and the guy is TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE.  Please stay focus.

Both is not wrong.  Stop thinking like a man who manliness is caught up in a blender and see the poo for what it is.  The woman's arse was tapped by her friend and if she asked the guy to do that then she is wrong.  You can't control other people's actions but you can control what they do after the action.  You either tell them they are wrong or you move on. 

In your THWARTED MIND, the woman was wrong because the GUY TAPPED HER ON THE ARSE like her arse said TAP ME!  There is nothing feminist about the statement and get over the fact that NOT ALL WOMEN you meet will put up with the bullshit. 

Since you want to flip scripts and shit, let me flip this for ya! May your wife or future wife BURN YOUR ARSE for looking at another woman. Since we being illogical and shit.

ZIM DRILL:
you are crazy

so the guy should get away with it becoz he is her boss? would you love it if your hubby is rubbed his cock by his female work mates or boss

Where did I saY the GUY SHOULD GET AWAY WITH IT?  Please stop adding poo and it is not cool.  Now you want to change the situations, the THREAD IS ABOUT A MAN TAPPING A MARRIED WOMAN ON THE ARSE and now you shifted to a husband rubbing his cock on a woman.  BUT I AM THE CRAZY ONE, WHAT THE bleep.

Do you have ADHD?  SERIOUSLY.

I swear they need to show SEVEN SEASONS OF SNAPPED in Africa and watch the dynamics toward women shift.

Just doing whatever you want toward a person just because you married them. That a bunch of bullshit. BUT THEN AGAIN these dumb arse women choosing these SORRY ARSED MEN.

ZIM DRILL:
both are wrong the husband shouldnt have beat the bi.tch and the b.itch has no morals that her friends smack her bums

See that shit you just said is ILLOGICAL. How the BEE as you called her WOULD KNOW HER FRIEND IS GOING TO HIT HER? Come on! You is not dense as you look.

The husband is wrong period.  The wife did not TAP THE MAN's buttocks, the MAN tap the woman's buttocks. 

The dumb arse man was sitting in his car the entire time LOOKING AT THE ENTIRE SITUATION.  He should have TAP THE MAN that tapped his wife.  The man could have been her supervisor or the owner of the business where she work.  She didn't want to make a big deal out of it because she knew the person and if she felt it was out of turn she would have simply told the guy not to do it. 

I can see why the guy was upset but TO BEAT HER TO THE POINT where she have to go back to work LOOKING LIKE A BLUEBERRY MUFFIN?  Seriously.  Men can be so illogical retarrded sometimes!.

Jaybee is illiterate and I consorts with him. They can be train if you ARE INTERESTED.

MBG4Real:
I was about to say the same. I think she is married, or is she is just using Mr. Chima to cover up.

Good luck

swintec:
Why is Mrs Chima looking for whom to marry in this thread that was put up to discuss serious problem men face

I thought about it long and hard whether to answer this foolishness.  The more I have thought about it and said bleep it   

Let me get ONE GOTDAMN THING STRAIGHT, I have not ONE TIME seriously stated that I am looking for A MAN on THIS GOTDAMN SITE.  I have nothing to do with people who ARE LOOKING FOR ONLINE HUSBANDS but I am not interested. 

Secondly, Koyoke is like a big brother to me and WE BOTH STATED multiple times THAT WE JUST talk poo AND DO NOT TAKE US SERIOUS.  Koyoke knew I was being sarcastic which why he did an analogy of Anna Niccole Smith.  We are happily married to OUR OWN SPOUSES. 

Thirdly, this is not A SERIOUS thread.  This is a thread about a man asking if a woman will date a man who doesn't have a good job.  There is no life and death situation here nor a man will die if he didn't get a woman to love him for his BROKENESS. 

Now, I suggest you FOCUS on the thread at hand and NOT WORRY about what I AM DOING and who I am talking to.

Chile. It is a long story. But good to see you back!

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=605545.msg7738318#msg7738318 date=1297824521]Eyah pele. Just that u know how much i miss u ladies [/quote]

If you have any doubt about THE PERSON whom you are dating or in a relationship with NINE OUT OF TEN time the doubt is accurate.

If you even question the person's character, identity, heritage, employment, health status, and sincerity. You may want to take it SLOW. We as women get so caught up with having a man paying us any attention whether it is positive or negative that we CLOSE our eyes to the mere fact that this NUKKA is no good.

We as women need to stop making excuses for thing as it is and stop settling for ANYTHING. As Aminalib said don't be silly and know the situation BEFOREHAND. Do not rush into something without knowing what you getting into.

Listen to the warning signs and pay attention to the actions. You can take the leopard out of the zoo but you can't change his spots.

As for Nigerian men, I have seen some nice Nigerian men and I have seen some bad Nigerian men as I have stated many time before NIGERIAN MEN are no different than the other race of men. If the man is up to no good, the mere fact of his nationality has nothing to do with his character. We have to remember that as we pick or accept our mate.

Hey Baby!