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Who? Let who get me?

Now, you know me Dsense. I will disagree with you if I disagree with you. So far, I agree with you. I am sure that won't last too long!

I agree.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]The majority of Nigerian men need to grow up, the world does not evolve around you, u can't always have your way & it's not always about right & wrong or who is head. . .it's about making a relationship work 4get pride & honour work on urself plse![/color]

Yes mam!

I lubs you!

You wish I would stalk you!

Hell, I didn't even know you and Tpia were still fighing@Mz Dark.  That goes to show you how MUCH I give a bleep what somebody say about me.  I have bigger and better things to do and worry about THAN SOME RABID CHATTERS. You just ignore them sis and do you.

Anyway,

Dsense is smart as hell and I have been reading his posts for a minute.  One thing I can say about him he keeps it real and that how it should be.

I knew I would find Dsense harem loving arse in here.

Damn Dsense! You smart as hell! Now, I remember why I am cool with you! Keep it real boo!

Again,

If you won't marry a barren woman, don't expect a woman to marry a broke man.

Dsense,

Not all women are pushovers contrary to what you believe.

I WENT TO WORK (coughing and looking around) and come back to see this still A THRIVING THREAD? WTF?

Anyway,

Hey sis! Hey Dsense suga.

You are approximately two week late.  We have been hashed it and moved on. I have already given you several suggestions.  If you can't read just say so.

adamsrib:
I just don't agree with that.  The men have already displayed lack of respect for her, you then take it a step further and slap her in public? Two wrongs don't make a right. Now the men at work will feel they can do whatever they want to her with no repercussions from her or her husband.  She is in deep poo!

This go to show you what happened when you rushed into a RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE.  I CAN PROMISE YOU there are women on THIS SITE and anywhere else will experience the same thing the women have experienced.  It is sad.  Good luck and keep your chin up girl.  You are spitting sense and knowledge. 

It is a sensitive topic for the women who are victim of abuse and are going through the abuse so we have to keep that in mind.   Every five seconds, a woman is dead in the hand of an illogical man.

I have a job to go to.

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=606085.msg7742422#msg7742422 date=1297874623]That wouldn't happen to me - and I will "ask hell to swallow them whole if it does,"  - another woman better not have the audacity to touch his backside and if she did - his response better include a mental picture of me standing beside him if that occurs.  That response better NOT include a smile on his face or him chasing her around with laughter.  [shy-one breathing hard and getting very upset just thinking about it][/quote]The woman prolly said the same thing.  "That wouldn't happen to me and I will ask hell to swallow them whole if it does".  

Look at her now, she is busted and swollen.

adamsrib:
I'm a grown woman, if I'm wrong a simple I'm sorry and it won't happen again should do the trick. Nothing I do will EVER warrant me being abused as punishment.

Just know this sweety, THE VERY WOMEN AND MEN THAT CONDONING THE MAN BEATING HIS WIFE would not accept the very action upon them.  You just have to take the logical with the illogical.  

According to their JUSTIFICATION, because the woman IS MARRIED that give the husband the right to beat her.  Please remember who you commenting with because NOT EVERYBODY WRAPPED TOO TIGHT both men and women.   That is SAD.  

Just remember that.  It is easy said then done.   GOOD LUCK WITH THEM.  I have better things to do than waste time with people who will not allow the same thing to happen to them.  That is pathetic.

adamsrib:
Sorry but that is lame. In public a husband and a wife should have each others back. I would think his very first instinct would be to confront the man. If he had any questions for her it should have waited until they were at home.

I really feel sorry for that woman. She gets no respect at work or at home!

Exactly.  A man that love and respect his wife would have not done what he did.  It is the truth.  He would have been a real man REGARDLESS OF WHAT HAPPENED AT WORK.  He would have handle it LIKE A REAL MAN and talk to her as if she is HIS WIFE AND NOT HIS CHILD.

It is clearly that SOME men treat their wives as if they are children regardless of the conduct in question.  Once again it go back to what I said at the beginning these dumb arse women picking these SORRY ARSED MEN.  

It is not his fault that she married a JACKARSE.

Atreides:
@kc,who said anything bout Mrs.C? I havent even replied to this thread properly. Look closely at the reply you quoted and compare it with the reply you posted just before that. Notice anything similar? I said the same thing you did-just tweaked it around a bit to mess with you.
And in any case,have you seen me today?

Altreides, for some strange reason the men on this site think that women can't form opinions of their own without INFLUENCE. They are giving me too much credit saying I am the great influencer. It is flattering but SOME of the women on this site are smart as a whip and I will not take credit for influencing their way of thinking.

Don't trip off of it baby, YOU ARE SMART and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Meldrick:
With the bolded part, you sure won't do that especially when you are guilty.

Okay, let change the scenario.  The woman's friend tapped her on the arse and she turned to him with angry lashes.  THE INSECURE husband continue to lash her because of the guy's actions.  WHAT THEN?  

WHAT IS YOUR MOFO EXPLANATION then?

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=606085.msg7742306#msg7742306 date=1297873762]“familiarity breeds contempt”

She was wrong – completely in the wrong – her relationship was too familiar as a married woman and it bred contempt in the husband as it would any man on earth – her chasing him around after he smacked her butt – this is black and white (not gray shaded) .  The joking went too far – absolutely too far and it is obvious.  When you joke always mentally have “your husband at your side.”  For instance – had he been standing there – she wouldn’t have joked to that level with another man.  This is not rocket science.  Don’t do with another what you wouldn’t do in the presence of your mate.  She was shocked because she was WRONG.  Had he called her name and she was just standing there talking and laughing – she wouldn’t have been shocked.  She was wrong and she knows it.  Better yet – how would she have acted if “her husband did that and she was the observer?”[/quote]I bet you she wouldn't have beat him.  If that happened to you, I am sure you wouldn't divorce him because a woman tapped his arse.  This go for EVERYBODY.

Meldrick:
Yes beating will stop it. Gosh !!!! Ah Ahhhhh Which kind wife you be? Just typing shiittttt.

Another man tapping a married woman's buttocks and the woman feels comfortable with it. The husband should be happy about it. He slapped her, yes it was wrong but he was angry and in pains. A woman who smiles at a man tapping her buttocks has been enjoying different romantic calls from the man previously and men must watch out. You don't take such a thing with a smile. Rubbishhhhhh

Until he sees both of them in bed befor reacting abi?? hissesssss

You can justify you beating your wife or woman all you want.  When you beat her and she continue to Bleep your BEST FRIEND or YOUR DADDY do not come on this thread crying.  Because I will dissect the Bleep outta you.

Atreides:
Perhaps the panel-beating has been going on between the man and wife at home sef. Who knows? Men. .  eh!

That exactly what my friend said baby. She said that once a man beat a woman he most likely have done it in the past and will do it again. Let just hope he doesn't kill her.

koolchicco:
Perhaps the 'tapping' has been going on between the two in the office for sometime sef. Who knows. Women. . .eh!

That may have been the case Chicco, but my stance is WHY BEAT THE WOMAN? If she want to cheat on her husband or get with the man. Beating is not going to stop her if it doesn't kill her. There is a better way to rectify the situation and lessen the possibility of it happening again.

assme:
She never reacted like she's been tapped by an arse hole. u dnt get it.

Pay attention: BEATING THE WOMAN IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE AN ARSEHOLE.

assme:
Posted by: Mrs.Chima
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you said you sent it to so many on your mail list, so why are showing us only one that suits your way of thinking?

Every one of the letters all agree THAT THE MAN WAS WRONG.  There are actually LOGICAL THINKING PEOPLE who think with sense versus just spewing bullshit that doesn't make sense.

I agree with you. I also think that everyday should be a love day for your wife or husband. But then again I was told to think like the masses. Whatever.

I am sure your wife know you love her and being you is good enough for her. I guess. We did the same thing we do everyday f, k, e, w, t,

r231:
hmmmmm. . . . .  .why would i get mad with the guy that touched her when i don't know the guy from nowhere

and besides the woman should know how to carry herself while hanging with friends cus she is married

so things are different

How do we know she didn't carry herself as a married woman? You do know there are MEN WHO ACTUALLY DON'T GIVE A Bleep ABOUT A WOMAN BEING MARRIED OR NOT. If he does not have respect for married women or women in general regardless if she carried herself like a nun IS NOT GOING TO STOP AN ARSEHOLE FOR BEING AN ARSEHOLE.

adamsrib:
I love your warrior spirit Mrs Chima! What I think Zim Drill is saying is that the wife is not demanding respect from the men around her. MOST men are going to respect a woman if she carries herself in such a way that he knows there will be consequences if he crosses the line.

I do not agree with the husband on beating her, but again she has failed to set boundaries. Sometimes men only respect strength.  The minute he threw the first punch she should have been on him like fleas on a dog. Grab the skillet, pot, broom, mop, whatever you can and inflict as much damage as you possible is my motto. My husband knows if he ever raises a hand to hit me, he better kill me on the first one, because if he doesn't, Armageddon will look like a picnic.

They are both wrong. But the common denominator in both situations is the woman not making it known that there are consequences for disrespecting her.

I understand exactly what you are talking about HOWEVER, beating the woman is not going to MAKE HER DEMAND RESPECT FROM THE GUY THAT TAPPED HER ARSE and it will not discourage her if she would to further something with the guy IF THERE IS ANYTHING GOING ON per the women beater comments.   There is a better way of handling the situation and BEATING HER WAS NOT THE ANSWER.

d bigrod:
when will mrs chima start to reason like an adult? pathetic

I see you reporting for duty.  You might as well get over it too.

When will you ACTUALLY LIVE UP TO YOUR NAME BIG ROD?  I do not reason with women beaters and illogical dumb arses.

I sent this to every one on my email friend list and I got this back from a friend.  

This is what she said:

The dude was WRONG. He had NO RIGHT to put his hands on her. He obviously was insecure. Now, other dude was WRONG to touch her in such an intimate way. She could have TOLD the dude to stop, played it off by laughing, but her husband obviously took it the wrong way and got mad. If he wanted to be mad at anyone, it should have been the dude that touched her. He's a COWARD, instead of going man to man, he took the easy way out by fighting a weaker woman who he knew he could physically beat. She needs to leave his ass alone. She should have called the police, he's probably done this before, and will probably do it again. She needs to at least get it documented. She also needs to get her brothers on his ass and get with someone who will treat her right.

kokoye:
you and Jaybee been swapping pictures??    

OK.  so Jaybee, is she a man?    

btw, dont let dem punk posts get under your skin baby . . .you stronger than that. Chin up

LMAO@getting under my skin.  I thought you knew me better than that!  You know how I deliver my messages and trust me I WASN'T even faded by their comments however, I felt that some shyster poo was going on and I WAS MERELY CORRECTING THEM.  

You can tell when instigators have don't poo to do and they take something INNOCENT bigger than what it is.  

How you be suga?  How was your valentine day?