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Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 10:56pm On Oct 12, 2012
For all the two goody shoes and old folks. grin


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7AW9C3-qWug
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 10:54pm On Oct 12, 2012
This for all the couples! Chima..here i come!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RSpC212a1rs
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 10:52pm On Oct 12, 2012
Sijo01: Gosh, thanks Mrs!

Note: the song is meant for those that gat company tonight...... if na only u dey room like me sad sad, nor click am o.... if u dey with any of ur siblings (male or female) nor click am o.... a word is enof 4d...,..
It's for my hubby! grin

I got something neutral....how about this?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-I1eJJ9lc5E
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 10:41pm On Oct 12, 2012
Thank you judges for my points. kiss kiss kiss
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 10:34pm On Oct 12, 2012
Debate After Party....Enjoy!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAwPjFq1W4s
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 10:17pm On Oct 12, 2012
ItsModella: I'm not even feeling the topic.
I feel you though...the topic subject have been beaten enough but hey!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 10:15pm On Oct 12, 2012
lalaosky: not following it per say but you did a good job with your points...i actually like it
Thanks suga...I was as logical as i can be without being too opinionated. kiss
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 9:42pm On Oct 12, 2012
sexkillz: [color=#000030]Pls wait until the results are out, and you are paired with someone.
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Okay. Sighs. What time tomorrow?
RomanceRe: Do You Carry A Picture Of Your Partner/spouse? by MrsChima1(op): 9:40pm On Oct 12, 2012
freecocoa: Hmm, I'll be sad\mad and ask questions if I were her o, as long as there are other people's pictures on his phone then mine should be there as well.
My boyfriend has many pictures of me and I have his too.
You'd not want to show someone off only if you ain't proud of the person or don't even love the person sef.#myopinion
I hear you ooo! My husband has picture of me and us on all of his gadgets. My husband's best friend always tease him by saying you need to change the screensaver of different women. I would always respond...that's why you are single now. grin grin

I have picture of my baby and us on all of my gadgets as well. It is like a personal effect to me and I chose pictures of my husband and us.

I am not ashamed nonetheless.
RomanceRe: Do You Carry A Picture Of Your Partner/spouse? by MrsChima1(op): 9:35pm On Oct 12, 2012
kokoye: If you want to see her picture, wait for me to fire up my tablet...it's there..somewhere...
I have a picture of my husband on my pad, lappie, and celly. I am proud of my baby. grin grin grin
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 9:31pm On Oct 12, 2012
LMAO@somebody is guilty and want to point fingers. grin grin grin grin grin

Sexkillz...we can't respond yet or we have to wait??
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 9:30pm On Oct 12, 2012
sexkillz: [color=#000030]Tomorrow
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Whew! Thanks! kiss
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 9:14pm On Oct 12, 2012
Audiences....what do you think of the second debate so far?

Time difference is hell for many chatters.
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 9:07pm On Oct 12, 2012
Moderators/Judges

Is Round 2 today or tomorrow? It is almost 9:30 pm in Nigeria.
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 7:35pm On Oct 12, 2012
sexkillz: [color=#000030]It would be nice if we stick to the debate pls, and no, first round won't extend till tomorrow.
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when is the next round...I have to do something.
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 7:34pm On Oct 12, 2012
[quote author=Malcolm-X]Using "Superiority" is condescending, "Authority" is more like it.[/quote]According to the Thesaurus, authority is synonymous with superiority.
RomanceRe: Weekend Debate: A Man Is Right To Assert His. . . . by MrsChima1(f): 7:31pm On Oct 12, 2012
sexkillz: [color=#000030]The judges are up to the task
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Shattap! angry angry angry
RomanceRe: Weekend Debate: A Man Is Right To Assert His. . . . by MrsChima1(f): 7:31pm On Oct 12, 2012
sexkillz: [color=#000030]I don't negotiate with terrorists. . . cool
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LMAO@terrorists. grin grin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Married Couples Vs Dating Couples by MrsChima1(f): 7:26pm On Oct 12, 2012
When my husband and I dated...we were dating other people. I believe that dating is not a relationship...it is a time where you are learning about the people and if the right person comes along then you become serious hence engagement.

I was dating another person when I met my husband and I do not believe in casual sex nor intimate encounters...I like knowing that I am disease free! Anyway...my husband was a celibate when he met me because he became a spiritual man and he wanted to start fresh with his future wife. We spend time knowing each other while still being us without titles and expectations that is when you have more fun and freedom.

We became serious and then our expectations grew and we no longer had freedom because we were engaged to be married but we still function the same way we did when we were dating except we are exclusive to each other.

I have no regrets marrying my husband and when I am without him I am incomplete because we are one and we thrive to make each other happy and comfortable. My husband is the bestest friend I ever had and when we are together in public...people always say we are sister and brother...(don't know what that mean but I will leave that alone) and say that they wish they had an intimate relationship like ours. Yes, we have our arguments but we listen to each other and express our opinions and then we come to a middle ground and move on.

Letting go silly shit is the key in marriage...if you forgive your partner...FORGIVE YOUR PARTNER WITHOUT HARPING ON IT LATER ON. If you can't forgive your partner...let him/her go. How can you expect couples to smile if they are not happy? Communicate, understand, compromise, relate, listen, respect, and be patience with one another.

Let silly shit go and move on to better things in your marriage that will bring a smile to your face.
RomanceRe: Weekend Debate: A Man Is Right To Assert His. . . . by MrsChima1(f): 7:15pm On Oct 12, 2012
In response to the debate number 2.....it is interesting how those who quote the bible leave half of the contents out that is contradicting to their arguments.

SMH.
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 7:05pm On Oct 12, 2012
I thought that we couldn't respond to posts by debaters until the next roundhuh
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 6:22pm On Oct 12, 2012
Go Team Opposition! Dominate! Destroy! Attack! angry angry angry angry angry

(hits a back flip and forward flip into a split)
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 6:21pm On Oct 12, 2012
kokoye: Honorable Kokoye the observer humbly observing....
undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

I hope i have educated you well. wink
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 6:08pm On Oct 12, 2012
afam4eva: Why? I'm very good in family matters...
I have read your views on family matters...and I plead the fifth.
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 6:00pm On Oct 12, 2012
afam4eva: Chei, this debate make sense oo...i wish i was one of the debaters...i can't wait for the politics section debate to officially kick off.
You wouldn't have anything good to say.
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 5:37pm On Oct 12, 2012
Of course my message would be hidden.

Anyway...MBJ...I am in a different time zone so I just made it just to post my argument. Anything else?
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f):
Good morning ladies and gentles, thank you for allowing me to express my logic contribution for this debate. I hope that you find my contribution logical and factual.

The moderator asked, “ A man should assert his authority and superiority in a relationship". What relationship? Marriage? Courtship? Intimate encounter? Some debaters will say that it is a God’s given right and in religious doctrines that a man should hold authority over his household albeit confusing “head” with superiority.
I am not a religious person but I have read the bible and other religious books. According to the Bible, a man that leaves his mother and father cleaved to his wife and become “one”. How can a man hold superiority over his wife if he is “one” with his wife? Does that sound logical to you? I think not, ladies and gentlemen.

According to the synonyms of superiority, it means better, excellence, top, dominance, supremacy, and perfection. With these examples, why would a loving and spiritual imperfect man claims such adjectives that solidify his belittling attitude toward his wife?
Now let remove the religious books out the equation and focus on reality, how do humans respond to individuals that demonstrate arrogance, which means exaggerated self-opinion? We show contempt, resistance, objection, and resentment toward arrogant individuals.

Arrogance and superiority both have similar traits in attitude, mentality, behavior, and speech. How can men who demonstrate superiority over his wife expect his wife to respond like a loving wife? I believe highly in an eye for an eye. Treat me how you want to be treated. Simple.

From a personal standpoint, my husband is the head of the house and head in our family means representative of the family. I am the neck to my husband, which means supporter and second opinion. My husband knows his role as the head and I know my role as the neck. The head can’t move without the neck, and the neck can’t move without the head and without each other, the house in itself stand divided. We do not make any affecting decisions without each other and if we would to live in a house where the head has superiority and authority over the house, such marriage will not flourish. It can’t flourish if there is no support from one another. It is like a parent trying to coddle a rebellious child.

My opposing argument is simple this, a man can assert his role as the man of the house, but he can’t assert authority and superiority over his house because his wife isn’t his child. An imperfect man can’t be better or superior over another imperfect human being. Some debaters will assert that the bible said men are to assert this and that but in Ephesians 5 (KJV), it said wives submit to thy husbands as he SUBMIT TO CHRIST as Christ is the head of the church. Husbands love they wife as Christ love the church.
In Galatians (KJV), it said love is kind, gentle, longsuffering, patience, understanding, and joy. According to the love definition, how can men who submit to Christ say that he loves his wife with superior attitude?

I am glad I am blessed with a husband that understand the true meaning of love, respect, understanding, and “one”.
Thank you ladies and gentlemen.
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 5:16pm On Oct 12, 2012
sexkillz: [color=#000030]Go ahead pls.
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One minute.
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 4:50pm On Oct 12, 2012
I am present!

Can I post my argument?

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