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RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 10:22pm On Feb 15, 2013
Truckpusher: oh you remember me?...you can try but your poison isn't gonna work on me....i'm not in the mood to talk abt your failed marriage anyway ,when i'm ready i'll take you to the cleaners..... meanwhile welcome to the loveless lifestyle that you deserve. grin grin grin
Just like ur momma lived one? Oh how was the funeral? You shot a mean fire towards her flammable wig!! Lol.
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 8:34pm On Feb 15, 2013
Truckpusher: This old hag called Mrs sh^itman is still in NL talking poohuh
Biatch..u r still alivehuh I thought I poisoned u wella wella!! Better luck next time.
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 8:32pm On Feb 15, 2013
Acidosis: yeah...I want the best for you. cool
Moving out the house is best
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 8:19pm On Feb 15, 2013
dubem3: where exactly are you moving to?
what are your plans?
what reasons do you have?
bia nwokem, odika ike ana ako gi uko,
notuluo ana na uno, luo olu dili nwanyi na uno.
ozo kita unu asi nwoke ji kwa mee
In a house.
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 8:18pm On Feb 15, 2013
tellwsdom: huh..mammy??...mshew chima show me ur big yansh....I'm interested in touching them wink;
I would rather sleep with boko. Winks.
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 8:02pm On Feb 15, 2013
RedBenson: Perhaps, she just fucck an outside man and d fucck was so crazy so tey e com de affect am for brain. Who knows? Mrs. Chima is so crazy for sex?
Leave it Nigerian men to speak with their balls and not their brains.

How sad
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 8:00pm On Feb 15, 2013
tellwsdom: mshew chima, chima has long been fed up of you and must have been planning on dropping your fat azz to your family....You came here in disguise to report in advance like it was actually a blanket and stuffs...

Listen, You dont expect we sweet guys going for OROBO like u when sweet sixteens and sexy babes are all over the place...Chima must have realised he made a blunder....KASALAAAA DON BURST grin grin
Aww the mammy comment hurts huh? LMAO!!!!!


HIT BIATCH HOLLERED! LOL.
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 7:00pm On Feb 15, 2013
achina boy: Just wait until u sees him peeping from n,e,b.o,r,s, window,saying,baby i think am in love now,,,,unfortunatly the lady might be one of those ladies we call,,,,okuko igbo,,,,that knows how to make good soup,,,,,,not a bad wish anyway grin
I am expert cook....but he needs to eat cereal sometimes! !!
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 6:59pm On Feb 15, 2013
rokiatu: My wifey have started again. cry cry cry cry
I won't stand for this abuse wifey!!!
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 6:58pm On Feb 15, 2013
Acidosis: Alot of single ladies out there are willing to cook for him.. just pack your luggage whenever you're tired grin Another would move in as you move out.. grin
Is that supposed to convinced me to stayhuh
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 6:56pm On Feb 15, 2013
[quote author=~vicky~]marriage is for better for worse grin[/quote]Am moving out!!!
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 6:55pm On Feb 15, 2013
IZUKWU: i swear mrs chima is high.
Why I gotta be high cos I am tire !!!
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 6:54pm On Feb 15, 2013
tellwsdom: And WTF is I dey tire o sad huh huh
Ur mammy
FamilyRe: Bride Price In Imo State Now 10,000naira by MrsChima1(f): 3:39pm On Feb 15, 2013
The sale of vibrator has increased by 90%!!!!
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 3:36pm On Feb 15, 2013
Forza p: WTF!cereal?are u married 2/dating a toddler?(no offence oo)
Yes.. he is a toddler.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Rule(by A South African Woman) by MrsChima1(f): 3:12pm On Feb 15, 2013
Nigerian men are hoes he will marry you.
RomanceRe: Moving Back In! by MrsChima1(op): 3:09pm On Feb 15, 2013
I cant keep fighting for blanket..it is cold in US!! He expect cooked food on table everrrrrrrrrrday! What's wrong with cerealhuh Haba!!!
RomanceMoving Back In! by MrsChima1(op):
I am moving back in and promised not to cook indomie noodles and cold cereal for a while. grin grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Worth Reading: A White Woman's Opinion Of A Black Woman!!!!! by MrsChima1(f): 11:16pm On Nov 03, 2012
Sagamite: Fair enough point.

But it does leave the risk of a negative generalisation and generalisation is a pertinent, useful and frequently used tool for formulating some opinions.

My perception of modern day black women based on simple generalisation is quite negative based purely on apt objectivity.
i am all for people having their perceptions and opinions regardless if it is ignorant or not.that's what make the world go around. However that is the good thing about personal opinions...it is not factual for all

Negative perceptions of Nigerian men didn't stop some non-Nigerian women from marrying, dating, and breeding with Nigerian men.
Negative perceptions of Kim Kardashian and Courtney Stodden didn't stop some non-Black men from putting those that looks like them on a higher pedestal as if their shit don't stank.
Negative perceptions of Black American women didn't stop[b] some[/b] Black American women from flooding universities and colleges. It sure didn't stop a Black American woman with a doctoral degree from being third in power.
Negative perceptions of Nigerian women didn't stop some Nigerian men from leaving their non-Nigerian/non-Black wives and girlfriends to go home and marry Nigerian women in their home land.

Bottom line....no matter how negative perception one has for a certain group, person, thing, place, and notion it is not going to stop the world from spinning and if people worry about what someone thinks of them....they will never be free to live their life because they are too busy living someone's opinion or perception of them.

It is okay to have opinions and perceptions...the only person it affects is you. No matter what a person do....there would always be perception and opinion even after we are dead and gone.
RomanceWorld Controversial Couples by MrsChima1(op): 10:43pm On Nov 01, 2012
Courtney Stodden 18 and Doug Hutchinson 52. They have been married for three years and they have recently appeared on a reality show, Couples Therapy. Courtney's parents gave Doug permission to marry their daughter at 16 years old. They have no children at this time and Courtney is focusing on her "career". She have appeared on several websites nude and feel that she can dress however she wants.

Courtney calls her husband "dad" and Dough feels like he is raising his wife.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uiIwodrnW9g
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 1:47pm On Oct 13, 2012
dont8:

My name is dont8, all protocol duly observed...

I'm here to add to what my 'Teammates' have said so far.

I'll start with the cliche that says, give a woman an inch and she will take a mile, in that regard, the man has to assert his authority/superioty in the relationship, if that relationship is to work. We all know that two captains cannot be in a ship or else, it turns Titanic and it will capsize and hit a brickwall.

What feminist apologists and the male in the opposing team dont realise is that, for a relationship/marriage to work, the woman has to be a sheep, that is, she must be submissive and obedient at the same time, so she knows who the boss is.

What baffles me nowadays is that the church is condoning what the bible frowns /teaches concerning women in the church, because they're not even allow to talk in places of worship, but remain silent and if need be for them to talk, they have to talk to the man she's sitting with, this shows how God views the importance of man's authority towards women generally.

But I must say, asserting authority is not same as, bullying, harrassing or intimidating towords women, but to control her exccesiveness and must be submissive for her own good.

Thank you.
Good morning Mr. Dont8.

The correct idiom is “Give a man an inch and he take a mile” exemplify individuals whom are too foolish and selfish to appreciate kindness and generosity. How can a man who thinks he is superior over his wife possess kindness and generosity?

According to your explanation of the above idiom, you contradicted yourself by stating that a man should assert authority/superiority in the relationship if a woman take a mile, but who should assert authority/superiority in the relationship if a man takes a mile?

You have raised some significant tidbits that I have the opportunity to eloquently address. It is interesting that you have mentioned titanic and captain in your argument. Now bear with me as I explain the role and duty of each crewmember of titanic. A standard cruise ship consists of these following:
• Ship Master
• Staff Captain
• Safety Officer
• Petty Officer
• Boatswain/boatman
• Cruise Director
• General Staff Member

Each title has a specific responsibility and authority to ensure prevention of potential shipwreck.

The structure and operation of a cruise ship is similar to a family in marital relationship. The head, typically the man is the shipmaster and the neck; typically the woman is the staff captain of the ship. Shipmaster and staff captain have similar authority and responsibilities of the cruise ship, however the shipmaster oversees the operation and navigation of the cruise ship with supportive reports, propositions, and management of staff captain. The other officers and staff members are the children in marital relationship from the eldest to the youngest.

Because of effective communication, respect, compassion, love, and patience between the shipmaster, staff captain, officers, and staff members there are no threat of mutiny on our ship (Personal Experience of Mrs. Chima, 2012).

A debate content with biblical references is like copying and pasting theologies of opinionated and questionable religious authors. However according to your bible, if you look at Ephesians 5 (KJV) it illustrates that in a standard Christian family that Christ is the head, which He gave responsibility to the man to carry out in his family and wives to submit to their husbands as their husbands submit to Christ. Christ gave specific instructions to the husbands to love thy wives as Christ love the church.

Now let look at the definition of submission and feminism, according to a standard dictionary, feminism is a doctrine advocating social, political, and other rights of women equal to those of men. Why would a spiritual man that loves his wife not to support equal rights she deserves? Do you think your Christ will accept belittling attitude and speech toward your wife that He specifically instructed the husbands to love thy wives as Christ love the church? I think not, sir.

How can I as a non-religious person accept such laden contradictions? I have seen “Christian marriages” that share your marital philosophy and I must say sir, some of these women and men are denouncing the very fabric of what marriage institution represent.

The dictionary states that submissive is act of meek, humbly, obedient, and dutiful. I have noticed something when I read the definition of submissiveness that when given an example, it states submissive servants, not woman nor man. An orthodox Muslim demonstrates true meaning of a submissive servant to Allah. A Muslim man can teach his cruise members how to be humbly servants by being an example.

By the true definitions of feminism and submissiveness, I am a proud feminist who wants equal rights in life and prosperity as I am afforded and have no qualms being submissive to the head as the head leads by an example.

I am assuming that your biblical reference regarding women in the church and how they should act is from King James Version. Now bear with me as I eloquently address the above reference According to 1 Corinth. 14: 34 states that women should remain silence during public worship and refrain from asking questions that may disrupt pastoral sermon and ask thy husbands at home.

In contradiction, 1 Peter 3:1 states that wives be submissive to thy husbands so that if they do not behave according to the word by your silence and actions shall turn them or won them over.

The two verses contradict each other because? in one verse it prohibit women from teaching or asking questions during public worship but in another verse instruct women to lead by an example with their actions. If such husbands are not living according to the word how can such women win over dirt with dirt? Why would a woman want a man to assert authority and superiority over her if he is using contradicting verses of religious and dead authors to prove his opinion?

I will not even touch on the subject of male evangelists being questioned and accused of fraud by governmental and public figures.

As I close, you are correct asserting authority is not the same as bullying or intimidating women in relationships. It means the right to act in a specified way by delegating and overseeing operation of his home as a shipmaster would of his ship. If a cruise ship were to operate base on your definition of marital relationship and how it should be run with superior attitude, fortunately my cruise ship would have enough lifeboats to save your debris.

A man that controls his cruise ship without leading by an example will not prevent a mutiny or shipwreck. I think the staff captain and crewmembers have better chance of survival stranded on a deserted island.

Thank you.
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 10:27am On Oct 13, 2012
sexkillz: [color=#000030]Quote your opponent and counter his opening arguments
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THank you sir.
RomanceRe: #DEBATE: A Man Should Assert His Superiority/Authority In A Relationship.#~LIVE~ by MrsChima1(f): 10:09am On Oct 13, 2012
Good morning people...

Moderator, how long is the second round and do I have to quote my opponent?
RomanceRe: Is It Proper To Disclose Your Earnings To Your Wife? by MrsChima1(f): 11:35pm On Oct 12, 2012
dewize01: Peeps, I have been wondering if this can be regarded as part of being open to your partner. So i need your views on this
I disclose my earnings to my husband and he does the same to me. We have a joint account that is for the house and we both contribute 50 percent since both of us are employed.

Anytime a spouse hides their finances...it is fishy and shady!
RomanceRe: Weekend Debate: A Man Is Right To Assert His. . . . by MrsChima1(f): 11:33pm On Oct 12, 2012
I sure hope I am present for round 2...I got some more ammunitions! grin grin
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 11:12pm On Oct 12, 2012
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 11:10pm On Oct 12, 2012
joeydozzy: don't people listen to rock music?
For you. kiss kiss kiss kiss


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5UFFa1HbFfA
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 11:06pm On Oct 12, 2012
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 11:04pm On Oct 12, 2012
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 11:02pm On Oct 12, 2012
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Romance Section's Off Topic Chat Room + Derailers Paradise. by MrsChima1(f): 10:59pm On Oct 12, 2012

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