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[quote author=Mynd_44]Keep telling yourself that[/quote]Keep being jealous of my virginity.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Yeah right[/quote]You know it!

dmcdad: I believe you....

Thanks!

[quote author=Mynd_44]Yeah right. And explain why the priest had to chase you both outta the church as you almost did it after he said "You may kiss the bride"[/quote]Lie!! I am still a virgin!

[quote author=Atheist:-D]



Wait, dont I get a look in? I wanted to have a crush on you

I can take the place of mr chima but you might have to change your name [/quote]Nobody can replace my beloved di mu. Onila is crushable.

sexymoma: Mrs Chima Don Come o, Wait Let me see who crush on you.

Only person I crush is the man I said I DO to.

I am friend with a guy I have dated and he has met my husband.

Out of respect he doesn't come around the house. We would hang out with mutual friends but never alone.

Snotty nosed children.

Chima and I held until 3 years afted marriage. Easy!!!!

2buff: Yes Mine or both. No contradiction at all. Problem?

Keep it up.....

Lol at hustle.

ezotik: some fresh morris chestnuts from west africa dipped in honey.... u want some?

Nope. Good with my Igbo Mocha Caramel Cafe.

mekaboy: I am not talking about long distance marriage. I mean 2 people living in the same city, have their places, get married and move in together. Is it a must? Why can't they be married and still live apart?

The idea of living together for ever is what scares a lot of men, including me. That is why a guy can date a girl for 20 years and not propose.

Assuming a guy is working and has an apartment, and the girl is doing the same. When they get married, if they afford to maintain their apartments, why can't they continue living separately. The lady can come spend time in the guys house anytime but can go back to hers. The constant presence of the couples kills romance.

Even when the kids come, they can stay anywhere they like. I have not seen anyone do such that is why I ask.

The living together can suffocate someone. I am the type of person that feels like being alone sometimes. As the feeling of coming home to an empty house something is nice. Knowing that you won't have any visitors, no movement just you.

How do married couples living together cope with the lack of alone time? Some people will say you can have separate rooms, but that's not enough space. You can always bump into each other in the corridor.

Is that why most married men travel to chase contract? What of those that have jobs that don't allow them travel?

One can be married and still have that dating feeling, where you gf comes with a bag and you welcome her. She stays for days or weeks. And you drop her off in her house and return and still chat and know how she is doing. You can go and spend time at her place. You both have clothes in each others house.

Is it possible to be married and still maintain the dating experience?

Not by force to do so but I wanted my own house for a year and my hubby wasn't having that. I was going to front all my bills seeing I don't rely on Yahoo scam or government to support me


My hubby got us a house and one big bed. We don't sleep apart unless travel for business or vacation.

There are couples with separatr rooms pretending to be happily married like those in every country around the world especially in the East. We like and love ecery bit of our marriage but sharing a house doesn't mean you are happily married....just mean you are roomates with benefits.

ezotik: nuts for cherry?

Lol. What kind of nut?

Thank God for my folks....pretentious for many is a mofo..

Wouldn't trade ------ for ----------.

Royal boo...subomi can't be Camdummy alt account...subomi far too intelligent...it would drain cc amdumb if he try.

pleep: i love to see two broken down darkskinned girls leaning on each-other for support

awwwwwwwwwwww...

Lol at who liked this. Buhahhhahhahaha.

Lol at the Notorious Chima leaning on anybody for suppprt!!

[quote author=Subomi-luv]He was absolutely gorgeous(Greek/Portuguese), but what made it better was the fact that he was such a good guy, romantic just like we were a team. But my currently guy is kewl too [/quote]Awwww. Did he look better than pleep?

[quote author=Subomi-luv]Lmfao, whatever makes you sleep at night [/quote]Exactly. Pleep is funny.

Come here pleep..muuuah!

[quote author=Subomi-luv]Lwkmd, my man is good though(Angolan, he is not white), but i have dated a white guy before so its not like they are hard to find. But rest assured you will be the first to know once i start . How is your lady btw?[/quote]Awww. Bet the white man was lovely. Spanish guys are caliente!

[quote author=Subomi-luv]If you were following her thread Bubbles is Cameroonpride and the ash, ash etc stuff i take it as for eg blah blah blah or i may be mistaken. Chima help this dude out[/quote]You are right suga....dummy can't take the heat but have no problem dishing it.

[quote author=Alyricist★Laura]


Now let's get back to this colorism here......

I am still waiting on someone to find me a video of the exact same situation flipped..

A lightskin co host..speaking negative about a darkskin guest celebrity.... constantly and no media coverage or stir was caused in outrage for the victim

You will not one..none of you will....

Because if a lightskin black person acted this ignorant to a darkskin person..they would be fired on the spot[/quote]Hmm.

[quote author=Alyricist★Laura]When this deranged somali kid..posts images of native somalis and somalians of "bantu admixture"....

And says "my people are prettier then them"......

Are those not colorism undertones?.......

These images of somalis all across the culture section.......comparing the subtleties of people within the same nation....calling certain clans "better"....than others....

Is that not colorism rooted?.....

When he compares in his words..."ugly nigerians" to "beautiful somali"...is he not using colorism undertones?.......

[/quote]Hmm.

[quote author=Alyricist★Laura]If there is no colorism in Africa......

Then why is/were the ethiopian government slaughtering the Anuak

& using code words like..."they are too primitive"...."they won't progress"......

Do I need to post the videos of the little Anuak princess who wrote letters to the new world leaders and others begging for support and help?.

There is colorism in Africa.

9 times out of 10 it is just usurped by other more important aspects of variables within Tribalism.

They are all Ethiopians..Same nationality.

If you want "inter tribal" colorism......look no further than Nairaland[/quote]Hmmm.

Nigerians...I know you guys don't want bad image but stop letting Africans like Bubbles to Bleep up your hard work!!

It's okay to say no to dumb ash Africans that want to be Nigerian!!

CAMEROONPRIDE: Keep whining you are still dumb

You wear the crown dummy.

Fake ash wanna be Nigerian......

If you wanna be a Nigerian...at least have intelligence. Nigerians already have enough shit to deal with let alone have a dumb ash pointed nose and crooked neck Cammy attempting to be Nigerian. They have worked hard to abstain some type of prestige for a dummy to Bleep it all up.

Nigerians don't let Bubbles Bleep up the hard work.

Royal....you can have your thread back boo.

Bishes pop off..get checked.

CAMEROONPRIDE: Wannabe Nigerian really coming from an American on a Nigerian forum.....

You and your fake friend are dumb .period

And you are a wanna be Nigerian on a Nigerian site. You have no relations of any kind....but to slob on a Nigerian nut. Bang bang!

You are the king of alt accounts and fake friend stories! Buahhahabbbbababaabba.

CAMEROONPRIDE: Whatever ignorant ho3 im not the one who keep reporting my comments to sexkillz

Yeah we know your mama is an ignorant hoe.....we see what she has produced...buhahahhaha.

CAMEROONPRIDE: This has to b the dumbest comment on Nl, since when Tutsi are light or known to b light..ooo you mean people coming from the same stock /genes pool one can b known as dark and the other light holy Mary, lol @ apart from skin color you can tell a Tutsi from an Hutu., guess Paul Kagame is an Hutu since he is dark interesting American logic, street education I hail

And you are still a dumb azz wanna be Nigerian.

Lol at calling the survivor story dumb.....not surprised coming from a dumb ash.

[quote author=tpia@]Oh Jesus, do your ears not burn when you tell these lies?


Where are your friends to come and drag you off this thread?[/quote]Prove that I am lying.

You can't.

My friends are enjoying their lives but I will tell them you asked for them.