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Poster,

What you expected to get from this thread? A cookie? A lemonade? I don't understand why guys do this! If you meet someone from Nairaland, MOST OF US DON'T CARE!! We do not need to know you met someone on Nairaland,

This what boys used to do in high school, compare who they saw privately in the boy's locker room with their little willies hanging out talking about YEA, she let me touch her breasts! Yeah!!!!!

Jaybee,

I see you get around huh? 

I guess bad husbands can be good men after all, I didn't know you roll like that Jaybee,

Just because you are jobless does not make everyone jobless suga

Now if Jaybee was choosing to not notice me then I will have to respectfully tear up Nairaland to shreds

Why would I need to scrape my jaw off the ground because someone with a name and no face said they chooses not to notice me? It kind of hard to notice someone over the computer,

I agree Media, but for those who are Traditional usually do the fertility tests before the marriage and many of them do it old school ways, PRE-SAMPLING,

Some traditional villages practiced that and are practicing that,

You keep saying Nigeria, and I am not specifying the countries, only the villages,

The problem with that is that it takes a long time to fall in love regardless the circumstance only the different is that the circumstance help you realize the severity of your love for that person, and when you are not happy your emotions is clouding your thoughts of what important to you, after the storm we tend to think clearer and then regret that we are not with that person because emotionally we acted instead of mentally acted,

No need,

I works with spechuls on a daily basis,

Zimdrill,

Even if virginity was a big thing back in the olden days, the virgin were picked and bought by men who wanted virgins and after they are bought, these men can pretty much do whatever they want with teh women they bought as a wife, and may of them test to see if they are fertile and even if they married them before SAMPLING THEM, if they were without child, they were stepped all over,

I see you have a problem with poster wanting a younger man@Dsense

Yes Sagamite,

I have seen some of the challenges black women faced in America and however believe it or not Black women prefer black men or African men, the problem is the shortage of men is the biggest problem and when black men who feels that they find better mate in other race of women shorten the picking pot for the black women who are looking for husbands or boyfriends.

Many of the women turn to lesbanism as the way of coping without lack of men and therefore becomes couples, the rise of black women becoming lesbos have increased since 2000 and as you see many of them are marrying each other in California,

Some women who are not muslims are opting to marry men who are looking for second and third wives simply because of the lack of choices they have. Some women are choosing to be single parents with test tube babies because they are not waiting for the right one to swoop them up so they are proud single mothers.

There are many reasons why women are not married or without a man, and believe it or not black women are not non desirable just misunderstood,

Really

Takes one to know one huh?

Zimdrill,

In the old days, pre-sampling were encourage to see if the woman was fertile or not remember there were not fertility tests and technology to see if a woman can get pregnant or not,

There are less now because of the advanced technology and however in some villages pre-sampling are happening now,

Men can't survive without women period!

Zimdrill,

Crooked is slang for conned suga,

Actually, you was saying that if a woman doesn't want to get pregnant she can go to the doctor to get fix so that she doesn't get pregnant, that was your reasoning,

my point was that Traditionally women are expected to have children upon marriage regardless if they want children or not, and back in the old days, birth control wasn't readily available to mass population, and if a woman is not with child, she is stepped all on over,

Excuse me Cyberg, women can be alone, it you men that can't survive without for ONE DAY!

I wasn't the only one that noticed that huh Dyt, for real! Some people just lie for no reasons,

We are talking about TWO DIFFERENT things,

I was talking about Traditional idealogy and you were talking about women being crooked,

(laughing out loud)

Hmmm,

I thinking you missed my point, but I don't blame ya but to some school systems, they need to be up to par with their methods,

Anyway, CARRY ON,

Awww Yorisb,

You excused suga

Well Zimdrill, I am with you but just know that you are treading on dangerous ground with THESE FOLKS HERE,

I agree with you that women should cover up especially if they are not married, NOW IF THEY ARE MARRIED, then there is no way the husband is going to let her cover up knowing he want some shorties running around in the huts,

I jokingly asked my friend's husband if his wife went up to him and said she didn't want any children what would he do, I THINK I WAS AIRLY SLAPPED and he said something in Yoruba, I think he cussed me out, so the point is, when it come to married women wanting to wait to have children, THESE TRADITIONAL men aint having it,

Are you married Richard?

Not just in Nigeria suga,

Yorisb is handsome

kay177:
No comment[b] SHE- MAL E[/b]

And you still crooked than a bent fork in a village filled with hungry ferocious dogs

I am in love with an older guy,

kay177:
I am already a PASTOR but thier treads here on NL land corrupt the hell out of me

We going to hell in gasoline drawers!

No one place value on opinions but you,