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Lara113:
Sir money was the reason he didn't finish then According to what he told me ,he is yoruba ,am in my thoughts all alone I don't know who to discuss my issues with he is working as a driver now which I can't even build my life and that of my children on I have given him my school fee before to go and write a professional course in marine may be it will work it's all not working bro am tired ......only God know how am feeling now weird thought keep coming to my head ,I want to leave this state and go somewhere else to start life at this early stage of my life responsibility that is even older than me I don't have cloth is not that I didn't see rich men ,my intentions was to at least build with him the way am building is falling I was the one that even rented this apartment initially bought everything inside though he did some contributions gave it to me to add to it I rented the apartment we are staying am just feeling as if he is the one that park his load and come and meet me there is no feeling like am packing to my husband house ...make una please assist me hunger wan finish me

I understand your burden, life is not easy. Building takes time and you must endure a lot of things, don't think this way. I like your spirit. You are trying to find the right path. You can't do it alone, your husband must partner with you and see things the way you ares seeing it.

Please be calm, which church do you attend and which church does he attend?

Mehn this is deep, our parents don't just get it at all.
My dear you are a strong willed woman and honestly you are bold enough, this kind of situation is just not it. But there is hope, but the hope is truly your husband and not even you getting a better job or qualifications or even a business.

Let me be honest with you your husband is not responsible enough, him allowing his mother in law sponsor wedding lhalaone is a big shame to him, being poor is one thing but remaining poor is terrible.

When eve came to meet Adam he had a job, he met him working and all she did was support him. This guy is not having a good plan for himself, he had the opportunity to go to school or learn a trade and he didn't finish? That's a red flag.

Let's talk about solution: I don't really know the tribe your husband comes from but sorry to say I am not being tribalistic. Some culture character is really affecting a lot of men and it keeps them low. Now if you can talk with your husband about a proper plan for his life, your marriage is new, you are a lady and still in the market that's true but don't look towards that, your mum said build your home and I am saying the same thing build your home.
You have to try your best with your husband to plan that is if he listens to you.
You people should go for proper counseling and find someone he listens to incase he doesn't want to listen to you as a man he thinks he is(which I feel he is not a man).

He should learn a skill, try a trade and be intentional about his life. He is lucky he has a wife like you.

helinues:
If there are billions of stars like ours, if there are billions of planets in the Goldilocks zone which could have supported life, we might not be alone in the universe. Infact there are 50 billion planets in the habitable zone in Milky way Galaxy alone

The elements, components that make earth habitable are also everywhere in the universe.

What do you think? Are we alone in the universe?

We have never been alone, based on biblical text of Adam, it's just 6000plus years.

The bible also talk about aliens too. And even looking deep into biblical story, people like job was not captured in the adamic calendar. A lot of theologians have argue the event that happen in genesis 1:1 to 2

Meditate on this tonight:

Topic: Your Identity

Text: Genesis 1:26
And God said, Let us make man in our *image*, after our *likeness*: and let them have *dominion* over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.
Genesis 1:26


So incase you are lost and you don't know who you are and what you are here for, here is a quick reminder:

You are created in the *image* of God.

You are is *likeness*.

And you are given *dominion*.

The word of God is truth and life, never allow the devil to tell you otherwise. What he said you are that's who you are. A lion has never given birth to a goat like child but will give birth to a cub that will grow to become another lion,there is no doubt about that.

So why would you doubt who you are? Why would you feed amongst pigs when you are gods on earth? Why would you allow the devil to take away your dominion when the lord Jesus Christ paid in full your salvation and gave you victory?.

It's your year of divine help, what ever is divine is from God and not from man, dough sent through men. Your experience of divine help is based on your conviction of who you are and why you should he helped divinely.

Prayer: lord Jesus have mercy upon us, we silent every voice that has spoken negativity in our life in the name of Jesus. We have dominion in the name of Jesus, we are highly favored in the name of Jesus.
Shalom
#ouryearofdivinehelp

ChybuzzDD:
What's the apology for?? Do you if the wife is the one at fault? You kids should stay away from giving crazy advice to married people until you acquire the necessary skills through experience.

Hello? Who are you calling a kid? What do you know about keeping a family even if you are a family man? If what I said you find it wrong then I wonder what you do with your wife, there is only one way of family and that's the Godly tenancy for family. Don't come and be talking to people anyhow and call them kids. Even if you are fifty you still don't have the right to call me a kid, you can't give birth to me. You can only be an elder brother. So Mr please have respect when you talk to people.

Re incarnation is a possibility under the system of God but it has not been recorded. Now what you stated about that girl is what we know as familiar spirit. Familiar spirit comes in form of someone you know in another body.... Remember when the the people where asking John if he is Elijah who is to come? And some other examples in the bible.

Would have taken time to give scriptural backings but I believe this will suffix

Deborah98:
You guys should stop this hateful comments... Please my dear there's no situation or condition ever known to man that someone else hasn't passed through. Chat me up on WhatsApp through the number on my signature and dm your location. Bless up

It's not really a hate comment to say the truth, the op has entitlement mentality, he needs to be told the truth. Help comes from God and not from a man. If God doesn't touch a man to help you nobody can do that. He talks about the rich with disdain and you think riches will come to him? Let us call a spade a spade. Op is really not understanding how things work in life.

Rosulala:
Am tired of still breathing in these wicked world,..i think living these world will solve my problem,there is no love anymore in these world,.....the riches fails to help the needy,...they prefer to help their fellow fully satisfied than a useless poor man like me,.....i have series of talents and idea,...which I can't even take into consideration,.... because i don't have the money to" my father's dead since 2006,..i live in a small room with my mom,...who hawks and sells pure water in around lagos state road,.....with a sad expression everyday seeing my own mum going through all these��,.....girls, children,elders, brother's,aunt, neighbours they all see me as nothing,.. except as a snail shell that has no benefit to anybody,...even less to himself,....i don't have good shelter even the one i trust most later betrayed me/my love for her,...my financial issue is too bad,....am writing these so that the wealthy,.riches,... influential people on nairaland can be emotioned by the pain a poor man,Goes through,....Am heartbroken am totally depressed,..am i in these world to come and face failure alone without money these life is meaningless,...it may be meaningful to others,...but not for me have already seen enough bad things in these life ����������

OK Thank God you have identify issues surrounding you.

How many books have you read that has shaped?

Are you valuable? You think money falls from heaven? Money is a reward for a value that was provided. You can never chase money but you can become valuable and money would chase you.

Did you help your mum to sell pure water rather than watch?

The rich people you are talking about, are they the ones that brought you to the world? You think they don't have people who need the money in their family? The money they have did they bring it from heaven? This rich people do they have two heads more than you?

Why are they poor? Why are you rich?

That question is simple go and read what you have posted and go and read what elumelu posted today, you will see the difference.

If you like kee yourself, God dey watch you

MufasaLion:

Tells us about simba

Meditate on this tonight:

*TOPIC*: a new thing

*TEXT*: Isiah 43:18-22

18 Remember ye not the former things, neither consider the things of old. 19 Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.
20 The beast of the field shall honour me, the dragons and the owls: because I give waters in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert, to give drink to my people, my chosen.
21This people have I formed for myself; they shall shew forth my praise.

It is a new beginning for you this season, God is not consulting your past to fulfill your future.
His love is never ending, he loves you even while you where yet a sinner. He is calling you for a fellowship, he wants to do a new thing, a quick work.

Forget not the former things, he has paid the price. Your purpose in life is very important and you need the help of God to fulfill it. Don't let the devil rob you of with sin guiltiness. Tonight is a call, hear his voice calling you tonight.

Prayer: lord back up your word with signs and wonders, lord go and do wonderful things tonight. An encounter that will birth conviction is what we pray for in Jesus name


#Happy new year
#our year of divine help

Kee them all, don't select a few to kill.



They say evil can never be killed enough.

Mariangeles:
It was so that your baby could feel the warmth of her mother.

Your baby girl is beautiful.

Thank you so much

So I was inthe labour room that day, they let me stay. I saw the pain but couldn't feel it,I could only imagine.

I was expecting a boy, so when she pushed and the head came out, I was doing strong man still standing. Babe came out and they started cleaning I saw a girl, for like 2 sec everything freezed and I was like no na shebi na boy,then I just had to slap myself back to reality all child na child. I was super happy and proud. Baby and mother where okay.

They put her on the mother's chest I don't know what ritual is that one before they started cleaning her, my daughter gave a loud cry that day I was who don beat my pikin now.

Best day of my life, and over the years I have watch her grow,she is 2years 5 months.

Generalbambam:
Beautiful people, my wife always call her family after any argument in my home. I'm confuse and this doesn't go down well with. Not that i abuse her (physically or emotionally) but any little disagreement she will pick phone and call her family to inform them all that happened.
Please I need your advise.
Happy new year

See conflicts is healthy in a relationship, but I tell you third party will destroy your home.

It's better to embrace conflicts you can easily resolve,than third party who can use things against you.

Solution:
Call your wife and apologize to her, take her out on a date to apologize proper. You are not really friends with your wife,hence you should create a bond, you need to develop ways to solve your conflicts, allow her to trust you more and can talk with you when she is having something to let go.

You will have disagreement it's normal, you will quarrel. But always find a soft landing, you are the man and it doesn't make you a bad person to always sort things out. Communicate more often about your arguments, let her talk More. It's actually good for a lady not to bottled up her feeling,but becareful who you allow her open up to.

Fill the gap man

Ahmed0336:
He died serving Womanity

Savage!

DannyXpress:
Men sending themselves to early grave with sex enhancement drugs.

Who una wan impress, Hello!!!

Same lady that will go and sleep with another guy tomorrow

Ammishaddai:
Ehn ehn... na wah o. I never knew the love of pussy is this strong. So of all things to die by , this fool chose viagra , abi? Anyway , he'll explain better when he either meets God or Devil in the afterlife . Nonsense

Funny enough the industry selling sex enhanced drugs and sex related stuff are really cashing out, that's one industry that has scammed alot of people but they won't cry out because of the judgement people will pass to them lols, it's actually funny.

Sex should be enjoyed,it's not a competition. Learn the act of satisfying bought yourself and your partner. But no oo, they want to form hard man hard man. Eyaf died now let him form hard man

jaytii:
So after reading through NovesaTillie's thread https://www.nairaland.com/6909608/celebrating-one-year-abstinence-sugary#108790773
Two weeks ago, I decided to go on the same journey starting this year.

For this reason, I consumed more than my usual weekly dose of Coca-Cola and Pepsi (maximum of 4) no thanks to the festive season free drinks here and there.

Unfortunately, thirty five minutes (01/01/2022 12:35am) into the new year after screaming happy new year and saying hello to few friends and family over the phone, I was already downing a very cold bottle of Pepsi to cool my head before I realized I just broke my major resolution for this year.

Mr Dj please play Timaya "I can't kill myself"


Lalatiscl.ala, myn.d44 and the rest of the Nairaland family Happy New Year. I hope I am not the only one in this situation.

Ok let me be very honest with you, now that you have the chance to do it by yourself you think you have broken it,ok it's a mistake start again, see for how many days you can stay off,if you fail ,start again. Keep starting until you stop completely.ypu only fail when you have started something. Failure is not attached to someone who hasn't started anything.


Get someone you will be accountable to.it will help you better

Bobbyunitedfc:
Abeg I need ceiling fan o....the heat this period is something else

Where is your location?

dollarnaira:
6kg gas cylinder needed!!!
Lagos
Quote me pls

I have a 2 months old one with gas in it, 08070831105

SafeNigeria:
Another crisis is looming in ikorodu if not averted immediately,the oil bunkry activities that caused many people's life in ishawo, igbo-olomu, imagbon axis in recent years if not for the intervention of federal government as started again.This is the only means I believe I can talk to the authority because the matter can't be report to the military or the police because they are both involve in the illegal activities .The oil bunkry has started again while they carry this activity with the help of the Nigeria military that was supposed to protect the pipeline and the community.If you want to know about this ,try to come to a community called pakisha where there's high number of hoodlums.people are now selling the petrol in jerican and kegs on the street,I would have love to call the CDA chairmen to order but some of them are involve in the illegal business..please help us reach out to the authority to help us out not to experience another lost of life and property,this matter has been reported to IGP Special Tactical ayetoro under the command of Superintendent Toyin Omosebi but nothing has been done has we later discovered there involvement in the illegal vandalization business.

how do we combat crime when the people that are supposed to combat it are the ones sponsoring it?

Cobra

There are many discoveries we are yet to discover lols. How did only Noah build the ark?

I think this Egyptians didn't do this ordinarily, I strongly believe due to their vast knowledge in dark magic in ancient time, and scientific knowledge they where able to develop some kind of potions (my thinking) to give them extra ordinary strength and wisdom.

If I will go by the Bible standard, where God deposited wisdom of art and craft skills in a man who never had it before. Also base on documentary, sightings and evidence of alien contacts have been discovered over the years maybe just maybe the where helped by aliens.

Since such kind of edifice can not be built again then it's not a normal thing to consider.

Speechless

yunqdady:
How cam one get to maiduguri by flight? Or is the road safe FROM Abuja to maiduguri?

Flight to kano then to maiduguri, please if you can afford the flight it's safer. Dough people ply the road too

MadamVanessa:
Happy birthday

But it seems everybody is now an actress..I don't know most of this people...oh I forgot, I don't have time for Nigerian movies anymore.

We dey find you for nollywood

55k cash today

Bonanza643:
am suspecting they use either joro or caprioca......

hmmm

Lols,what you don't know you truly can't explain.
. people offer different kind of services, the question is: do you want to be like them of provide something different?

Bonanza643:
i want to know if this can be done.......

am ready to do it full time if its profitable.....

08070831105


WhatsApp let's chat

Bonanza643:
well....i really want to know grounded pepper business secret so i can also think to go into it....

someone told me those people selling grounded pepper in bulk do mix it with other things such as millet.... joro.......ginger......wheat......flour... caprioca.....etc

they add one or more of this so they can get even more profits from their grounded pepper business....

please how true is this?

which one is the best one that can be combined with the grounded pepper so it can be more....

after mixing it can be package in small white nylon to be sold #50 naira each......

i just want to know the right one to use.......

as i have said that someone told me those people selling grounded pepper in bulk do mix it with other things such as millet.... joro.......ginger......wheat......flour... caprioca.....etc

i just want to know the one that will be suitable for it....

any expert that knows more on this can please share their experience here......

please help a brother in need.

nairaland is such a lovely forum we can all share our life's and experiences.....

waiting patiently for ideas
and i will surely try it out.....

thanks.....

Go and buy the pepper yourself and grind it.

Whatever you hear might be true,but what do you have to offer?

500kcash