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kandiikane:
You have misinterpreted me to the extent that I should not bother answering you but I will


First of all this is my personal choice.

Ok 1) Why would he have a Masters in Law and have a great job and it not paying off?
2) Like I said If he has the ambition to be successful in live why would I leave him if his job is failing( I believe if you determined in life to make it you will if you have had the education where ever you go and you want to make it you will)
3) I do not believe in negativity so I am not going to imagine my husband not being able to take care of the family. If he is making bucks we would open accounts in other names or my name so if he becomes bankrupt that money would not be touched, with life its all about planning, planning, planning so whatever happens you can have something to back you up.
4) If he goes bankrupt that money under my name is still his because he earned it so at the end of the day noone loses.

Like I said before all I need in a man is trust, respect etc etc and ambitious and determined to make it in life then I am all yours through thick and thin for better or worse,

I think about my next generation the success is not for me but for my children and their children.
If you are clever in life you will make it forget all that bull about because I am black or you do not always make it in life, Thousands and thousands have made it why not me and my man,
I do not believe in having negative thoughts when building your future. Go with it with perseverance and you shall surely succeed.
For all ye negative people who always turning things into something it isn't, thats the reason you do not succeed because you seek the bad things instead of the good things

kandiikane:
I do not know what your interpretation of a good girl is but Here I would describe my self as a good girl

List below:
Im not with a guy because of their money but their ambition to live/lead a great and successful life - What if he has goal in his life and he is trying by the day (hustling and working like shit) but nothing pays off? What will you do? At times guys have goals and they work hard for it but sh1t happens than what?

I do not think I would be be a[b] guy who has no ambition in life to be successful or to make money[/b] - Again the same question like the first one. If he has ambition and is trying hard to make money but perhaps luck is not on his side for like say 5 years you are still with him and u see him and his struggles and still dont manage to make money, what will you do?

I do not need your money to make me happy but knowing that [b]the money is going to be there to sustain our family [/b]then yeah - There are some families where I see the woman is making big bucks compare to her husband and her husband tried to make money but thats just his luck. He has a job but he has not much or enough money to cater the family in the end the wife has to come out for most of the spending. Imagine that to be you, what will you do? Will you dump him? What if he has the money and suddenly perhaps he went bancrupt because someone con him or maybe your family member dupe all his money? Ive seen this happening and believe me, it wont take 1 or 2 years to get back on his feet but it takes some time. Than will u still be with him?

I need from you is your trust, respect and love and kindness etc and If you can do that I would write the earth for you. I would clean for you, feed you, take care of you even if you need me to clean you b.um after doing no.2 I will,
It is not about being a slave for you but for the love I have for you I would do anything for you
I am a very independent woman and I will take care of my man but I would not support him financially. - Same question. U wont support him financially? If he goes bancrupt like I said earlier because of all the reason I gave u, than what?

IF ever he cheats on me after all this charley this ah go killam! Ah go chop-chop am wit cuttlass, wa don chop am done ah go go fid dam to im family

lol my pidgin is not nigerian pidgin but krio

tEsLim:
Talking about the mosquito water and thing I dont know what part of Nigeria that is. I'm sure even people in Ajegunle dont drink such these days instead would by 5 naira pure water. Even when I go to my village though I'm Lagosian (Epe) bottled water are available. 80 naira for the big one. I'm ok with 2 of that a day. And sells almost the same rate you buy them in Europe! You have to split the cost. You can't compare how much you eat and live with in Europe to the cheap living standards in Africa lai lai. Though in African you need to compensate for gas in generator and gas in Nigeria is even kinda cheap compared to some countries. Food more affordable

And dont try talk like every African is poor. My white chic has never gotten spoilt like this in her life (she herself confessed this)!!! where she for dey dream of L. Vutton bags? OR the all out paid vacation. You no say white woman no sabi hide feelings. Black naija girl go still dey form. I'm afraid i'm getting used myself as a black man . Because she already telling me about future house mortgage (and i hear say white woman go happily divorce after mortgage) And I'm sure there are lots of black men taking care of their white women like that. I have another Naija friend in Germany that his wife will never date a white man again!!! How many men can put you like an house wife in Europe you dont have to work and every thing comes to your table? Spoil you like you are more than the round fat chic you are?

cantell:
Aww. . .so Ms. Potato = Gabry.
I liked the old name better.
Sorry i was mean to you.

cantell:
Yeah. Keep telling yourself that!
Obj na fine boi.

tEsLim:
Me and my woman may be spending 1month+ in Naija in Summer and the list to worry about is water and electricity. My Naija home is got good water and standby generator. You can get affordable water purification system in the house, and buy dispenser water for drinking; that shouldnt be excuse.  And obviously I'll like to spend my old age in Naija regardless. Anytime i'm between 40 to 50 home willl be the place to be permanently

2buff:
Fear some asian girls man.
The things they put on their face all in the name of makeup. A Bruvva's like

oYaTo:
2 Naira ke? That's just about 1cent o. .approx 150Naira = $1. .so calculate my fees better o

oYaTo:
Everything ok?