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Why is Yusuf so silent? YUSUF! Where are u hiding?

iyatrustee:
Abi oh! I even miscarried my e-pregnancy. Reed, pls let the case die down. Yes dave, me, potato are to blame. My yusuf was neva a part of it but if u notice, d thread went for days unending witout anyone posting. Doesn't that show we were missing you?

dave2:
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Unacceptable

Why so?

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=615769.msg8049784#msg8049784 date=1301926267]@Ms Potato
Am only giving you what you want which is dave_2.[/quote]Reed, why are you doing this? I dont want Dave oo. I just dont want to be in an E Relationship ooo, I wanna sit down and think on what I have done. Thats why I accepted your breakup and I accepted his friendship

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=638546.msg8049774#msg8049774 date=1301926139]This one guy said I bet you can grind that good can't you?

SMH.[/quote]ROTFLMAO!!! MzDarkSkin, now whias that emoticon where they laugh and RIP? Mehnn!!! LOL

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066ff]Ms.Potato please dont be offended but i think Asians are soooo cute!!  
i dont know how to explain it without sounding wierd but the small frame, the cute
button noses and the sarcasm is too adorable. My friend from Taiwan is 22 and she still
has to worry about me saying "aaawwwwe!" when I see her and mind you I have been
doing so since we were both 6 years old   [/color]

Awwwwwww. . . . .   LOL! nahh. I get that alot and I think I feel welcomed when people compliment as such. But I dont have a small frame like the Asians do. My b00b5 are larger and my a55 are larger than a regular Asian. That one coms in my genes. I use to be so embarrass about it that I started tying a cloth to flatten my boobs but guess it didnt work. but now I just accept it as it is.  

Hotie Tima:
wow your own ppl thats sad man

me i swear on my mothers life i hate exercising i never exercise in my life
but my exercisers is fun eat i eat all the fatty food i want and sleep well

Hmm! Im so jelous ooooO!!! U know, I always try very hard to have a flat belly and everytime I have to fast just to get that belly.  Its kinda tiring ooo   Can we switch Genes? Please?  

Hotie Tima:
ASIANS ARE SEXY MAN SORRY MISS POTATOES BUT I LOVE AGAIN 75% OF MY FRIENDS ARE ASIAN AND THEY GUYS ARE CUTE a*ss MAN

Na waaa!! Are u kidding me?   I always think Asian guys are too feminine for my liking and they look like girls with flat chest and tornado hair. No offense  

Guys, why are u still fighting over something that had passed? I clearly admitted that everythin I did here was my fault and Im really truely very sorry.

I had reconfirmed with Lord Reed and he wants an official break up and therefore I accepted it. Anyays, serve me right for that

And as for Dave, its better we just stay as friends and I thank you for every effort you have made to keep me company throughout the  1 day.

So all in all, you both will stay as friends to Ms Potato. So please no more fighting.

Hotie Tima:
i am not trying to be racist huni but i can never tell a black, Japanese,chines ppl and ASIAN i can never get they age right.


coz they all look younger to u till they tell u they actual age

Yes, cause you are not Asian thats why you cannot be sure of another's person from another race's age. Its the same like we Asians when we see a white or a black, we cannot identify their age too.

But this one no be foreignors go judge my age oo. Its my own people telling me that so i guess its a compliment just an odd one

Tima dear, may I ask what kinda exercise you do?

Hotie Tima:

Why u go laugh like that?

Abeg now. Give me hat your figure! Me likey oo!

I think the oddest compliment is people always think that Im a secondary school student instead of a 28 year old woman

Dave I know you guys are here for fun but Im not having fun when I hurt Reed

oh noo. Not beause of that. Its because just now after I posted last, I had to quickly run some errands

Dave I dont deserve your love and so is Reed, Perhpas we should have be friends.

Yusuf, What kinda title you want than?

Why you guys made it sem lik Im the only one whom is serious here. I have offended Lord Reed so I take that seriously ooo

dave2:
Iya, wrong.
We are in Africa where a man can take as many wives as possible

Really? In that case Im not intersted

Katy86:
He often aks me to marry him. How can I marry a man when I do not have a future with him?
I will only marry one time in my life and that have to be forever. That is not possible with him. I told him that, but he think I am joking. He still think that we will marry one day.  

If you dont want to marry him, than break up with him already. Having him tagging along just because he is the father of your kids is a pure excuse. You should move on and find someone else whom you can be serious with. Age does not decrease over the years, it increases. By that time, are u going to marry at age 60?

Katy86:
I already said that I do not like Nigerian food, so how can I cook it.
When a man only love me, when I cook his food, than he is not the right man for me  

First of all, have u even tatsted Nigerian food? I know many European and American (many but not all) whom refuse to even taste another food which is different from their own and they claim to not like it when they havent tasted it.  Are you that kinda person?

As a woman, you must always try to find a way to yopur bf/husband's heart and one way to it is by food.

Katy86:
The Nigerian music , oh no   Please I did not hear good Nigerian music before. I like Aarab or Indian music, but Nigerian no, sorry.

Try listening to these music and see if you like it or not

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LBSO4Qt7n-E

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=beXdUKygY50&feature=related

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_3mHMWO_-mM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3KIHJOLeyFk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8n7hA-NDMWA

At least try and give it a listen to

Katy86:
He do not have friends here, who he can invite. He have his people from work but he do not want to bring them here. Me too I do not bring friend in our house. That is private. Ane when he is sarching a slave , he should go and look for one but not with me.

U mean there are no NIgerians in Germany? Come on now. I dont believe that Nigerians are known travellers. They travel al over the earth and they love travelling. Im sure they are many Nigerians there. And one thing I know about Nigerians, when they meet their own fellow pupil they will surely greet them. Nigerians are knownt o be helpful to their own people as well its impossible not to make friends wherever they go. I know your house is private but at times dont you think its nice to have friends over and socialize? Like dont you have movie nights or dinner gatherings or just chit chat days? It would be fun!

Katy86:
I talked sometimes with his parents on phone, but only hello how are you? finish. We do not understand.

Well, than start picking up some pidgin english and also learn his tribe language. Like say if he is a Yoruba, just learn how to say like How are you to his parents in Yoruba and that will make them laugh. And if you dont understand ask them to speak slowly and that you wanna learn or you can put it on hands free and let your bf hear what they have to say and translate it for u. And than slowly you will pick up their slang in no time. Its all about effort my dear,.

Katy86:
Are his parents realyy the grandchildren from my children?
I have seen it often now, that the white children are nothing in all this families. They are there ok, you can use them later if you need something from Europe and then Bye. That is so sad. I do not want that this happen to my children. Family is so important and it hurst so much when they are just using you.
I decided not to go to Nigeria. The risk is just to high for my children.

And what made u think of that? U know, in life you can choose your friends but you cannot choose your family. I learn that no matter how I tried to neglect my own but in the end of the day my family will always be my family. Family are meant to burden you because they know that you are family but you have the choice to say Yes or No. Yes, your children is the grandchildren of your parents and his parents whether you like it or not but it doesnt mean that all African families would treat the white family that way. If you can help them without any hassle why not if you cannot than just say sorry. My bf's family assume that I can help them financially thinking that Im rich. They asked me many times. if I can help I would if I cannot help I just say sorry. Its the same case like they assume my bf is rich cause he is in a foreign country but they are foggeting he has to pay his school fees, his business running, the house, the bills, food but if he could help he would gladly help otherwise he would say Sorry. This is all not by force. Im sure your own family would also ask u for help if they can. The same story.

Katy86:
I write about AIDS here because I do not know what he is doing there when he is in holiday.
He is  a man. Here he do not have all the chances but there the girsl smell the money (even when this it not there).
I think its a high risk to be togehter with a man who may be have sexual contact with every money and visa searching african woman. Do you understand that?

Think about it. May be your husband travel to Thailand every year. Thailand has a big problem with Aids and Prostitution. Would you not be afraid and trust your man blind?

For your information, he never traveled before we had the two babies.

He has went back to Niaj a few times without me and to be honest with you, I dont think of anything especially not about AIDS because I trusted him. I dont even think he went there for sex or for another female. or drugs or whatever you call it None of this is in my head. I never for once even thought of it cause if I did, trust me, I wont be with him in the first place. I must trust someone to love someone.

You might think Thailand is about prostitution but FYI, Ive been to Thailand many huundred times and its a very nice country.

Whether he travelled or not, you must understand that every single individual including you yourself have to at least visit back your hometown /family once in a while. If you are in the US, I bet you yourself would want to visit Germany cause its yoru hometown.

Katy86:
I didnt mean u should migrate to Nigeria. I mean pay a visit to his family. Get to know his culture and understand them. And do you know by bringing your children there, they will get to learn half of what they inherited? They need to know who their other half of the family is dont you think so?

I think they have enough time for this when they are older.
They are so small now. What is when something happen there? When they get ill?
Here I go to doctor with my Insurancecard and everything will be ok and there?

I talked about this with a Tunesian mother who wanted to travel there with here baby. She had the same fears.

Nigeria is not secure. So many cruel things are happening. My boyfriend told me about this when he came back. I was just happy that he did not tell me that on phone.  

Why the lack of turst about NIgeria? They are many families visiting Nigeria with their Children. Even I have one friend where she was born in the USA but her parents are Nigerian when she was three years old, her parents took her there and she is just fine. NIgeria is such a big country, Dont tell me the entire country to you is cruel and not secure? Whatever happened to Abuja and Victoria Island? Are they not decent and clean?


My dear, have faith and dont think too much negativity about Nigeria. Nigeria is a blessed country with alot of resources. You can go there and visit, not to stay there. ALot of tourists there. Nobody was harmed.

Katy86:
I sound like a mother who have to take care of her children and I can not do this in Nigeria !

Parents are responsible for their children.

I didnt mean u should migrate to Nigeria. I mean pay a visit to his family. Get to know his culture and understand them. And do you know by bringing your children there, they will get to learn half of what they inherited? They need to know who their other half of the family is dont you think so?

Email or YIM?

Dave, I dont feel like having any E relationship after what I have done. I really ashamed of my own behavioiur. Let me get you another suitor may I?

Dave, please now. I beg thee to release me as this love is out of greediness (im the greedy one) and it wont blossom if its not for genuine purpose.

dave2:
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Thank you, but i don't need your pay back dear
In the part of Naija where i come from, once you have done good for someone; there is no paying back or repayment of any sort.
So, keep whatever i have given you as souvenirs

I see this whole issue as my fault for being greedy. Thats why Im offering to pay everything back.

Katy86:
The time we know each other, I never think about future.
We start having a family when I was very young. May be I was not ready for it. May be I made a mistake.

Now I am getting older and I think a lot about my life and I saw how unhappy he was the time he came back from Nigeria last year. Nigerian food and music everywhere  

He never told me before that he is missing his home so much. He always talked bad about his country, about the people and the system there. Even the whether was not good enough for him  
But now I know what that he miss it. He also told me about building a house there and going back when he can not work again. So where is our future? There is no future. But my children need their father this is why I stay. I do not take this relationship serious anymore. He is also planning his next trip to Nigeria in 2012. I decide not to come with him because of the children. So this is how it will be. He will travel everytime and we will wait for him here?
No that is no relationship and when I think about AIDS wich is a big problem in Africa I would like to leave him immediately.  

My dear, just because of your children, u stayed on with this guy? Come on now. That is never a good excuse. If he is serious of even becoming a father, he would have taken steps to marry youand accept everything he has afterall, he aint no momma's boy no more and that applies to you as well.

Have you ever cooked for him his native dish? That is very very important. I know my man prefers his NIgerian dishes thats why I started learning to cook them and cook it for him at least 3 - 5 days a week.  I always download the updated Nigerian music and listen to them. At times I even tried to sing them. Its very very interesting and their music is kinda cool. And it would be good that you allow his friends to come visit like let them watch the football match together  or just to hang out while you prepare meals for his friends too.  

And if he goes to Nigeria to visit his family, why dont you visit too? Afterall, the kids you gave birth to happens to be the grandchildren of his parents. It would be nice that you take them there once a year together with him as a family u know? And also that is a way of respecting the elders. His family would than feel very appreciated. Have you ever talked to his family on phone? if you havent, you should and than you will see that actually it isnt that bad and the bonding will come.

AIDS WHat are u trying to say?   He made you pregnant twice, why mention the AIDS now?  

Dave, I have caused more trouble than I have already had. I plan to lay low and single in order not to make everyone angry, I am very sorry for all the troubles I have caused you. I will pay back everything I own to you including this house.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=637471.msg8047104#msg8047104 date=1301900198]Lord Reed is my chat buddy but TOSIN is my lint picker.[/quote]Tosin is my chat buddy. You will be surprise on how nice he really is

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=637471.msg8046960#msg8046960 date=1301897824]@Ms Potato
[/quote]Yes?

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=637471.msg8046909#msg8046909 date=1301896810]For example, Tosin.  

I rest my case.  


Lord Reed

The characteristics are similar to Tosin, the chatter on here.[/quote]But I thought they are your friends naa  

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=637471.msg8046067#msg8046067 date=1301881574]I hear you girl but be wary of the bleeding manbitches.[/quote]bleeding manbitches.

This thread has ended.

annawhite:
ms potato,what is the meaning of this?
Talking like some LovePeddler,you can beat youraelf worse than you have beaten yourself while waiting for him,if he was able to log in on the 27th then i dont see why he never contacted you
Love conquers all thing and u only mt dave two days ago so please watever guilt u are feeling now -------get rid of it cos its really pissing me off

*whispering*please dont mention my sis name in this saga,u had that right to reject dave!

Lord reed why are you sharpening your silver steeel?

Whatever rocks your boat. yes, its never her fault nor it is Lord Reed's fault or even Dave's fault. Its my fault so this is the end of the entire story ok? I( hope this one satisfies you

And yes, Im the LovePeddler here. I hope that made u happy as well.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=636246.msg8046539#msg8046539 date=1301890911]She did the dumping not I.[/quote]Me? U dumped me first by ignoring me and than u confimed it later when I reask u. U said its best to just be friends.

Anyways, Im staying out of your business so that you will have room to breathe

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Lord _ Reed and Dave_2, I am very sorry for being the most selfish person on this planet. I will never intefere with your business anymore and I will go hide somewhere and wont show my face for your area no more. Sorry for everything but if you dont forgive me, its ok, I deserve every single piece of that.



One Love,

Ms. Potato

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Lord _ Reed and Dave_2, I am very sorry for being the most selfish person on this planet. I will never intefere with your business anymore and I will go hide somewhere and wont show my face for your area no more. Sorry for everything but if you dont forgive me, its ok, I deserve every single piece of that.



One Love,

Ms. Potato