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marvix:
U dont know my attitude, and u have jumped into a wrong conclusion.

By saying the below, that has proven my point

marvix:
kindly forward your friend or if you want to quit pls let me know I will never give u money unless u ask for a loan and i would put pressure on u to return it if only to use it to buy u a gift or take u out.

^^^ Like why being so calculative? All I need from my man is to not alllwayyyyysss give me money, thats it. Not to a point where he is being calculative!

marvix:
There are different types of people, there are some who believe in sharing whatever they have and your guy is just one of them and he is lucky to have enough to share, check him out yourself he still gives out to his friends a lot, he may have a problem of friends always borrowing from him and not paying back.

Thats not true. He does always borrow stuff to his friends and if he were to borrow it, he would rather give it to the person. But he doesnt borrow especially not money. He can only do that for his own family.

marvix:
What will you do with your money if you are not helping someone? and if your girl is not taking money from you who will be taking money from you? so when next he gives you money offer to buy him dinner out, a nice underwear a small gift or a special session.

Like I said earlier, if a guy makes money, he should just kep it in a bank for his future. . . Like maybe he wants to do a Business Invstment or for his family in the future. . . Afterall, money is not easy to come!

I work for my own money and I dont believe taking his money to buy him gifts cause than it will be like he is the one buying his own gifts. If I want to buy him gifts or bring him to dinner, I would rather use my own money, not his.

curiousade:
, concerning all these, i will say guys give money not because they always wanted to, but know within himself dat the gurl doesn't have enough and she wouldn't want to ask.

I know of a gurl who is always like this, she is struggling, receiving meager salary and she will not ask and if i give her (once in a while) she'll say [b]"if you give me I'll continue to collect" and I'll say "I'm giving you now because of the day you'll ask and i wouldn't have".

, but one thing is she is always appreciative either i give or not, and she never say any bad or evil things about her ex's,

Uhmmmmm. . . . . . . .

marvix:
@poster are u for real?

I have been looking for a girl that would think like you.

When girls expect that because there has been some action there should be pay, I just say in my mind hows a love-peddler different, guess just that she puts a price to it.

If you are for real can you introduce a friend of yours that thinks the same way with you to me, Imagine a banker gf who is not a contract staff calling me to help with money, when i needed a loan for barely 24hrs she cldnot raise it but would not hear that I was not bouyant at the time of the request, well i have put her out of my mind because she said stuff i never expect to hear from a lady I was contemplating marriage.

kindly forward your friend or if you want to quit pls let me know I will never give u money unless u ask for a loan and i would put pressure on u to return it if only to use it to buy u a gift or take u out.

With your sttitude as such, I dont think any girls like me would want to date you. . .


Now come to think of it, sll the more reason on why should I actually cherish my bf cause I dont think theres anyone like him!

dani1luv:
Now this dude is trying his possible best to ignore me

Me too.

Only when he needs our help, he will come begging! CHEI!

webdezzi:
hmmm, interesting thread, i already bookmarked it.

@poster, consider starting a charity org. we men can be very very dumb at times.
your BF sure needs to be lifted by 4 hefty akpu eating guy and flogged in the buttocks


but why can nature just forward babes like you to my doorstep? ehn? na so so "i never chop" full my phone contacts, na wa for this life oo.

Im donating to WWF and also the Old Folks Home evry month. But I also have opened a seperate account before and now i open another account. One account is for SOS money and the other one is for my children's ducation (if I have any in the future)

Na waaaa ooo. . . Mobo and 190, based on all your posts here, you guys dont seem like the kinda guys that would hang out in a shopping mall or a fitness club or a library or the  park. . . based on the ay I see you guys, you guys love hanging out at street joints and clubs and bars. . .(no offense)

Because if you guys are hanging out at those places, Im sure you are ought to get an angry / wild lady  

Be real naa. Are u guys telling the truth? Cause to be honest with you, Ive met alot of Nigerian ladies /women here and they all hang out with Nigerian men and they all get along fine. (Im talking about Nigerian women whom have not met the Nigerian men before ohhh)

Infact, when they know another person is a Nigerian, they are excited cause both come from th same country. I chatted with a few of them and they always invited me to their house for a home cook traditional meal. No sign of being mean or anythin really  

Sirvick, if that is you in your profilepic, I must say you are so damn fine!!!!!

Ok, I wont gosip about you. Sorry if I have. Didnt mean to though. . . Just that you are sooooo gossipable if you know what I mean. . . But Im not born as an Amebo so I wont ok? Sorry once again and may you enjoy life in the UK

190:
[color=deeppink]Gabry i de warn u

chinko for here nor sabi price

u get a house and the landlord says 300pounds per month

I price 220per month

and one chinko comes in and prices 350pounds per month!

and ask if the landlord wud take debit card!!

them don frustrate everybody for UK

U better warn dem else i wud teach them 9ja ways of dealin wiv criminals!! [/color]

Common now. Why u go vex like this. Now you know why the Chinese ae famous for building the economy! Thats where it all starts at. Sorry naaa. if you are chinko, maybe they will help ooo. Try swuinting your eyes alittle maybe you would get their help.

queeneve:
I agree Ms Potato,

From my experience the chinese I know aren't too kin of their girls or boys marrying or dating black people of any kind REGARDLESS if they are AFrican or Black American,

They want their children staying within their race and most of the time they disowns the children if they defiled the parents.

So it goes both ways,

I bet them Nigerian girls aint paying him NO ATTENTION, he just paranoid that all,

Exactly like what Im facing now

Mindless:
We pay in arrears and in advance.

What do you mean exactly?

Perryfini:
For some time, I want to ask this question before this lady raised question, and I have been following the trend of responses.

I found myself in this situation because my girlfriend of over 1 year had made it compulsory I must give her money every month. She claimed the money is for her monthly up-keep and bla bla bla. Although she didn’t make that some certain percent of my salary would be given to her, but it’s compulsory I must give her money at the end of each month.

She cultivated this attitude / behaviour immediately our relationship climaxed to the next level. She works in the bank when we initially met, but now she is into buying and selling of ladies products. I believe she makes more money compare to the time she works in the bank as I can see the changes, but she wont let go of this un-cultured attitude of collecting money from me.

To be sincere, I don’t know why she makes it compulsory I must give her money at each month while we have not married. Please can someone address this issue properly because I am really tired of this non-productive allowance I have been paying to this lady?

Some ladies are like that. My brother's wife is like that (they just got married a week ago). My brother's wife also made it a compulsory for him to give her money every month. And when they are together, he should pay for her every needs. . . Like when they eat tpgether or even go shopping together, he must pay for everything,.

her reason: because he is a man and he must know to provide for me. if he cannot do so, than he is not responsible enough to be my man and I can always look for someone else to play that role for me!

to her, its a take it or leave it situation. Fortunately for her, she is born very preety with a very nice fair complexion and a body where evry ASIAN guys would like so u know now. . . All the ASIAN guys are lining up to marry her!

Ranks007:
damn she hates it when I do that shiiit

mehn I equally hate it when she rejects it,

But she will always ask for gifts like am fada christmas

Godamnit I am a baaaad gift giver, I dunno what to even call a gift ideal for ha,

She claims she's molding me, the more I give the I will know wots rite for a woman Does it sound real?

I waz surprised she had non-perishable gifts in ha closet 4 3yrs now.

She should just marry Father Christmas himself to get those gifts like SERIOUSLY!

tadelara:
@ Ms. Potato

You are joking right? You cant be serious

Why would I joke and waste my time over this?

OCCULTIST:
I always give money to all the ladies i have dated because they need to busy their kitty with nice soap and put on good scented cream

COMMON!

Benstino:
[b]when you are in a relationship,you suppose to know the financial status of your girlfriend.If she has a good job and earns enough cash to take absolute care of herself,then there is no need to shower her with money.Instead give her gifts, not because she can't afford them but to strenghten the bond b/w you.[/b]Concerning the guy whose G.f has a cash yielding job yet demands cash constantly,she takes you as a fool who allows emotion to rule him.When she is with her friends,you'll be referred to as ''one hell of a fool who doesn't know how to spend his money''Let me help spend it for him while I still can.Bros it is good to love but don't be mushy. Moreover when you G.F works but does't earn quite much,it is your obligation to take good and absolute care of her,but don't spend more than you earn.Now concerning the guy who mentioned 'Trade by barter',what are you trading for? Your girl's body?You'll give her money and she gives you her body,you are greedy and in the attributes of true love in 1 corinthians chapter 13,LOVE IS NOT SELFISH.So if you demands sex like that,you are nothing but a sex maniac who doesn't have respect for her girl's body,which means that you does not love her.Give to your girl when you surely know that she is 'a damsel in distress'and not because of a silly romantic fantasy!

I agre but in my case, he just keeps giving!!! Its like he has no control when its about giving me money and gifts. its crazy, I scolded him many times and Im getting worn out by the day

jay bee:
Always happy to chip in for genuine cause not the usual give me money for credit bla bla bla.
I don't date scrubs and neither do i demand sexual favours

Hmmmmmm. . . Im suspecting u especially about the sexual favours

zionic:
More money more problems, na who for give her money again na? , and ladies, Bible says"blessed is the giver,

yeah! tell that to em Gold Diggers