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Exponental:
A man will always want to take care of his woman not only becos its Biblical or a tradition but [size=18pt]it's a man's pride [/size] to be responsible for his woman.
the issue of all the time depends on the guy and the girl in question

[quote author=Ben-10 link=topic=534379.msg6978963#msg6978963 date=1287582964]The mistake guys make is giving their babes money for no just reason.
Giving for a purpose is worth it. [/quote]You are absolutely right. I see your point here and Im gonna tell my bf that!

watchme:
why do you ask your girl friend for sex , ?

As for me and my bf, we dont ask, when the spark is there, we just do it!


[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=534379.msg6979094#msg6979094 date=1287584017]nice one jare ! It's trade by barter ! Love is just a facade to make lady exploit guys more.[/quote]You really make it seem like relationships are like products

Elpieda:
I believe in equal sharing of resources. My relationship with my bf isnt based on the love of money but on love and mutual understanding. We are both working and earning our salaries so we both equally share our resources with each other. When he is broke i help him out and when i am broke he helps me out. We buy each other gifts and I even buy more gifts than he does. We pay for our groceries together and I cook our meals. That has made our realtionship easier. Money is the least of our problems and we are both strict managers of funds. I guess  its cos we are both so simple.He has never just randomly given me money cos he knows am one who strongly believes in EQUAL SHARING (btw man and woman) and effective management of resources.

I wish all guys and ladies could understand this

samoks:
Have you forgotten the popular saying? Money for Hand, Nyash for ground

So is that how relationships is suppose to be? o you want your wife to be like that?

andyanders:
JUST IN NIGERIA. NOT OUTSIDE NIGERIA. WE HAVE DEVELOPED THAT AS A CULTURE TO GIVE MONEY TO LADIES AND THEY LADIES HAVE CAPITALIZED ON SAME TO NOW MAKE IT AS A RIGHT "YOU MUST PROVIDE FOR ME" WHICH IS WRONG. IT MAKES THEM TO BE LAZY AND DEMANDING. IN AMERICA, YOU ACCCOUNT FOR YOUR MONEY WHEN YOU ARE IN RELATIONSHIP.PAY YOUR BILLS IF IT IS NOT RELEVANT. EVERYTHIN G BE ON MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING. HERE IN NIGERIA, IF YOU GO OUT WITH A LADY, HER LIFE NOW DEPENDS ON YOU. SHE WANT TO DO HER BIRTHDAY, SHE WILL NOW HEEP THE BILL ON YOU.NONSENCE. THE EARLIER WE REALIZE THAT LADIES SHOULD PICK UP THEIR BILLS, THE BETTER.
EVEN WHEN YOU GET MARRIED, A WOMAN MUST HAVE SOMETHING TO CONTRIBUTE. YOU MUST STATE THAT WHEN YOU INITIATED YOUR MARRIAGE.

Its not only in Nigeria naa. Im sure it is everywhere just people have not seen it. . . Funny thing is the way you mention about your culture in terms of hando=kling money, it is the same for Malaysians as well. It is the responsibility of the guy to handle her. . .

[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=534379.msg6978521#msg6978521 date=1287578535]It has nothing to do with growing up ! The perception of every guys would change when ladies decide to consider love in a relationship over material benefits.It's just too plain that what ladies want is money and the guys want to browse her ![/quote]And do you think that every ladies considers material benefits in a relationship cause from your post, you sounded sumthin like all ladies has turned out that way and wosrt off, you made it seem like every ladies has became a pr05t1tut3 for that matter

[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=534379.msg6978085#msg6978085 date=1287573961]The primary purpose of a guy is to hit the honey pot and if doling out cash to the girl is what it's going to take for him to achieve that,he is ready to do it.
I just laughed when I hear some girls saying a guy is stup!d when the person has already swag their pekus.Guys count honeypots he's able to straff while a woman counts the amount of cash she's able to make.It's  trade by barter ![/quote]because to be honest with you, I dont see it that way and never has. if I were to see it that way, than there will be no real genuine love on this earth a long time ago. . .

victory:
Its because of what is in the front of thier leg , www.moneyjobs24.com  com lets talk things over!!!

[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=534379.msg6978085#msg6978085 date=1287573961]The question ought to be:Are guy silly or smart when they give their girlfriend money ?
The case is similar to a fisher with a hook/ line and worm to attract a fish.What happens to the fish later ? It has absolutely nothing to do with low self-esteem or ego.The primary purpose of a guy is to hit the honey pot and if doling out cash to the girl is what it's going to take for him to achieve that,he is ready to do it.
I just laughed when I hear some girls saying a guy is stup!d when the person has already swag their pekus.Guys count honeypots he's able to straff while a woman counts the amount of cash she's able to make.It's  trade by barter ![/quote]

SHEAU:
honestly, u make sense die!
ME, i give money and other thins inorder to get to the goons(may God 4give me)

Mindless:
@ Topic,
Paying for service.

denony:
because girls can't love without money  

U guys need to grow up. When we were doing it alot before he dash me money and I feel offended. Now that we seldom do sex because of our hectic work and school, he still dashes me money the same like before and I still feel offended. seriously, it has nothing to do with my kitten service!  

papabaks:
We are meant to help one another, This is my time to give her Money,  Cos when we start our home and we both have to be committed to building our wealth, which will take away some pleasure and more sacrifice, then she will understand that when there was no commitment the money was flowing towards her and now that we have to invest in some real estates and lot more, she just have to accept it that way,

When the time come again i will continue to splash the money on her again.

Thats what he said too but how sure is he that he is going to end up with me? I mean we can never know of the future right?

campella:
GUYS GIVING MONEY IS NATURAL, AND LADIES RECEIVING IS ALSO NATURAL.
WHAT IS WRONG IN ALL THESE?

natural ke? U take this as a natural thing?  



[quote author=Kristo-clear link=topic=534379.msg6978353#msg6978353 date=1287576769]Its just d foolishness od guyz tryna play smart. We guyz mustn't pay 4 d love n care we get 4rm our gf. I tink they'l appreciate mayb unoccasional gifts,your tym, your call. . . givin dem cash all d tym as if they r **** is nt d ryt tin, pretty decent girls wil see dis gesture as an off signal n dey'l loose intrest in such guy completely[/quote]Exactly! Thank you!