₦airaland Forum

Fearurcreeator:
How much of your money them steal

Worry not about me but you that's rotting in the ghetto.

This is more reason cameras are needed all over the country especially Lagos. So many dirty folks littering the state.

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Iamicekid:
Everything is not about paper, some of u no dey think anything apart from that, this new woman will add value to his life and not kill him by drowning him with bills disguised in the name of responsibility, she will add her quota to the bills relieving the man of stress and more chances to excel, no be all man wan kill themselves by slaving for a woman here with nothing to show for it other than what have you done, ur mates are doing better than you for there families, we want where we will be appreciated, keep your slave marriage called responsible husband, cause over there ur wife adding her quota to the family doesn’t make u less responsible or diminish ur respect

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TRASH.

femi4:
It's called companionship

You can have companionship without having kids. Y'all just can't come up with a solid reason to have kids other than for your own selfish reasons as parents?

anythingoes23:
There must be more to what you just said.....both Bible and Quran says, we should reproduce, if your parent have this mindset, you won't be born not to talk of typing on Nairaland,

I don't owe apology for saying what I said and I owe nobody appreciation for being born.

And the books you quoted never made it compulsory for you to have children. Having children is biology irrespective of whether you're human or animal.

They should go and build theirs too and shut the hëll up!

terrezo2002:
Unnecessary, but they won't hear. They always want to copy. You can be afflicted by mere posting your pictures on the internet.

Afflicted by witchcraft? Don't be ignorant.

algomachine:
I hope you don’t hurriedly impregnate one village girl when in your 70’s, reality always sets in regardless of mindsetblabbing.

Say that to a poor man.

Lazenby007:
No worry ! Dey there dey form white man. Continue !

Stop blabbïng.

ufotunang:
So that at old age the child or children can take care of their parents at old age and that particular old age they are weak ...and also for the elderly parents to enjoy the fruits of their labour from their children in old age... And their child or children to inherit, take over their old age parents properties and businesses instead of a stranger out there to inherit and take over the properties and businesses

All what you listed here reeks of selfishness. And moreover, you don't need your own offspring to carry on your legacy.

abbey621:
If he eventually succeeds and comes back to take the wife and child and/or other family memebers, wouldn't the end justify the means? People have been doing this since 1980s, nothing new here, leave Nigeria before Nigeria leaves you in a state of kobalization

He's not coming back.

abbey621:
Gone back home and do what? Even the said wife would start to lament if he could not provide.....Be realistic!

Stop screaming.

Adakintroy:
Same reason yout parents decide to have you.

You don't know the reason and it's still not a good reason.

Shedrack777:
na as you dey do, e come too sweet you or condom burst, then, belle enter

People abort, don't they?

Shedrack777:
please be truthful! Are you a robot or an human being?

Both.

ufotunang:
.so you will not like to have a child or children?

Still undecided.

Iamicekid:
He met an asset and decided to let go of his liability, wrapped in the name of marriage..

The man is a liability also. Why become illegal in a country to the point you had to marry to get papers? He should have gone back home!

CoronaVirusPro:
Not always the case. In fact, most MARRIED men don’t plan for such, but circumstances drive them into it when the reality and consequences of being illegal hits them

Why go into a country and not plan ahead? Most illegal migrants went abroad via tourist visa. They knew ahead of the consequences hence the reason they go ahead to marry just for papers.

The man knew what he was doing. He's a coward.

More reason I don't support couples traveling abroad without taking their partner irrespective of the gender.

If you are abroad and wants to marry, find someone where you reside. If you're in Nigeria and wants to marry, find someone around you. If you're married already, both of you should travel together.

However, if you're abroad legally, you don't need to marry just to get citizenship or permanent residency. That's the lowest of the lowest.

Take your medication immediately you wake in the morning.

Righteousness2:
Iron dome, Golden Dome; Good, technical and cool.
But dont be Deceived or let anyone Deceive you.
ISRAEL Orginal iron dome is not its Weapons or Expertise.

ISRAEL'S IRON DOME that has kept its SURVIVAL and VICTORY from Generation to Generation is GOD'S COVENANT WITH ISRAEL.

No nation on the face of the Earth, irrespective of how Strong, technical, rich or Powerful you are, can go through a Quater of what the Jews/ ISRAEL have been through and still be alive talkless of Striving in VICTORY, GLORY and PROSPERITY.

Imagine a nation with less than 10Million people, living in the Midst of Fierce Deadly Enemies and Haters, yet Prospering Tremendously and Ruling in the MIDST of its Enemies. IT CAN ONLY BE THE ALMIGHTHY GOD. IT CAN ONLY BE THE GOD OF ABRAHAM, ISAAC AND ISRAEL KEEPING TO HIS COVENANT.

This is absurd. What's attractive in a 14-year-old child? This is more reason I get disgusted by most of these men addressing minors as "smallie" all to justify sleeping with then. Pedophiles should be castrated!

Dexpro:
Nigeria and it's archaic way of doing things. Database would sound like something futuristic to the correctional facility management

The officials of the correctional facilities are aware of the pros of database but however, it would limit corruption, accountability and extortion. So they can't afford to lose the grip on their illegal ways.

Nigeria is too corrupt.

No reward for informants? They're not ready.

TossTos:
Infact the reason of sending money home is because of the children that's if you've confirmed them as yours ... I don't blame anyone not taking along wife .. A woman who's not industrious, no partnership connection, cannot turn 1 to 2 , who's got no financial and business intelligence , no support, but number one when it comes to frivolities and unreasonable things . my brothers, i can't take her along if I change location within Nigeria not to talk off Abroad ..

The problem is not her but you. You can't leave women that are opposite of what you just listed and go ahead to marry someone you described above and then afterwards complain.

carzeem1:
Same way some people cannot fathom why you want your bloodline to end with you.

Don't be ign.o.rant.

Gerrard59:
It's not.

Humans are tribal and the majority prefer to marry those who think, look and speak like them. This belief that Nigerian men who were born and bred in Nigeria for at least 25 years and later move abroad will be so liberal regarding marriage is misplaced. Even Nigerian ladies who were born and bred in the abroad are moving to Nigeria to search for husbands. How much more those born and bred in Nigeria? What about a situation where there are few Black people, especially women in the country of residence?

I don't know if you have lived in the abroad, but most legal migrants will marry themselves especially those with similar cultural and linguistic leanings.

Well, you have a point.