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Fadamant:
You are welcome, man. Glad you read it. Just RESPECT YOUR TIME ZONE, and carry on.

Acidosis:
Sorry, your brothers have hijacked the home from your dad.


There is nothing you can do since your dad has lost control of his household.


Continue to survive, whenever you're grown enough to survive alone, take the lessons and move out of the house.

What are the lessons?

1. Always take charge of your house. Rebuke your kids right from when they are small.

2. Only give birth to the number of kids you can effectively manage. If you can't manage 7, try 2, 1 or 3.

3. Above all, allow God's principles reign in your home.

So you sabee God

Fadamant:
@MummyIMadeIt, I suggest you google the article, Respect Your Time Zone. It will help you a lot. Everyone's life is not the same. Life is not fair to all. For some, it's easy. For others, it's tough.

pcguru1:
Some have it easy some have it hard, only thing i've learnt is not to compare yourself.

johnson232:
Lol....just a year....

Benita27:
This is a clear case of one without self control. I guess he'll be sleeping with your sister's helpers if she gets one after marriage.

At the interim, you can't tell your sis 'cause there's a possibility that she won't believe you, and she might as well feel you came to destroy the beautiful thing she has going on with this her fiancé. You should stop going to sleep there for any reason.

Debzdgoddess:
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DDeliverer:
I don't really know where to post this, but since it all started here, I think i should post it here in this section.
It all started after the "9ja has finished me" https://www.nairaland.com/3210525/nigeria-finished-me thread, 8-9months ago. 8-9months ago, I had nothing but a phone, a fine face and a degree in Biochemistry. No concrete plan, no job, no nothing.


Due to my jobless state I started spending plenty more time in the internet especially on Nairaland. It was on one of those 'lightless' nights that I created that thread. On that thread some guy asked me to reply his PM. On the average I get like 3-4 pms everyday, requests I generally ignore. But in that fateful day, I don't know what happened. I just replied him. It was the reply that changed my life. I replied sucess without realizing it (ALL OF YOU THAT IGNORE PMS, I SORRY FOR UNA).

After I replied, the man sent me a message about how the thread really touched him, how he laughed and cried at the same time while perusing the thread. I thanked him and went to bed. The next morning I woke up to another message. He wanted to discuss something and he needed my phone number. I gave it to him.

He called that morning and introduced himeslf as (name withheld) and that he would like us to have lunch, if it was okay by me. (OKAY BY ME? which kind question be that?) He told me to wait at a particular bus stop that his driver would pick me.

To cut the long story, He was opening a new company and he needed a young person to play a supervisory role. He wanted me to be his new director. I swear, tears dropped from my eyes. He asked if I was interested , I couldn't even talk, I could only nod ( because tears gather for my eyes). He brought out his cheque book, asked for my official name, scribbled something's, tore out the leaf and gave it to me. He asked if the money could cover for my wardrobe, transport and 3months salary, I almost broke my neck nodding. The money was more than enough.

Look at me, broke and hungry the previous night, few hours later, I was rich and I had a job that would make me more money. My case is truly different.

I feel it is only apopriate to pay my tithe to nairaland because I am who I am today because of nairaland. So I'd be giving 20 nairalanders 5k each this night.

God bless seun
God bless lalasticla.la
God bless nairaland

I love you all. Thanks.

Cc 9ja has finished me crew

Lunagirl:
People like to carry unnecessary things and make it major issues. So basically,

1) You scaled through the hustle of gathering money for wedding and raising a family.

2) You scaled through the hustle of finding a good partner in this adulterated world.

3) You scaled through village people and their antics.


And then the issue at hand will now be whose name should be on the wedding IV page. Why should it even matter? If it must be discussed, I don't expect it to be a serious discussion. If he wants his name there, fine. If he wants mine, fine. It shouldn't even matter!

But who am I to talk? I still dey find the kin husband sef

Pureheart91:
BUT OGA I THINK THE OP IS TRYING TO TELL US THAT THIS MODERN TREND IS A SHAM ABEE SUMTINELSE..

OP AM I CORRECT?

coltaine:
hell no....my name comes first cos she coming into my home not the other way

AlexCk:
As for me,
I care less whose name comes 1st.
That 1 no be priority jare

The only important thing is to have a blissful marriage biko

profhezekiah:
The female name will come first because after d wedding she will hand over her leadership to d male,her dominion and care stops at wedding,she will use her life to please d man in marriage

Exponental:
It's a last honour given to you woman before marriage. Right from your wedding venue, you will be introduced as Mr & Mrs..... and forever (even if she footed all the wedding bills)
2ndly, she accepted your marriage proposal (under normal circumstances)

UzoEffizy:
Islam as a religion has innumerable blights. Your criticism is BS though, because it is based on a false conclusion.

UzoEffizy:
They are misguided. Burdened by the constraints of the flesh. Not everyone can overcome the immense pressure imposed by the 5 senses, and considering that humans are social animals, it's understandable that so called MOGs are hesitant to mention Christ as a role model.
Another reason could be that the pastors consider the matter to be self evident.
Yet another reason could be that they are telling lies and do not really believe the words that come out of their mouth.