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seunmsg:
Ozekhome of all people?

The panel is turning to a joke. It is just like putting DCP Abba Kyari on trial and asking Evans the kidnapper to come and testify against him. What do you guys expect? Malami and the corrupt elites are just making a joke out of this anti corruption fight.

May they should av invited Festus keyamo to testify... mstchwwwww

mariahAngel:
Onye nzuzu

Husband: Nne gini k'anyi g'eri n'abali a?

Wife: Udi ajuju gini ka I na ju dim? Maka na onwere udi ajuju n'agbakashi mmadu ahu
Oh! Ihe ichoro nnoo wu na m gachaa bata, m bia shiwere gi no nu ulo ke'mgbe ututu nri okwaya?
Bia godi, gini ka isi I no n'ulo emedi ke'mgbe ututu m puwara

lmao.... you are very much aware of this kind life.

And when marriage starts sounding this way, The Lovy-dovy begins to die a natural death... Before u will say Jack! oga has started buying clothes for househelp...

And madam, will now suspect and boom, pull the roof down.

I don't doubt the fact some men make huge income from home, but that home being office tire me, unless it's your own house, you can build a detached self contain office, and stay there... where by if wify returns, she won't even get to see u immediately. Example a lawyer whose chambers is situated in his house... And online sales rep plus people in the ICT sector.

bukatyne:
@bold:

Do you work sir?

No offense meant here.

Offices resume 8am to 5pm.

Thay means you have to be in the officer by 8am (probably woken up 5am/6am depending on your promixity) to the office and jump on the road so you can be in the office by 8am.

Yoi also close by 5pm and get home God knows when (again depending on the promixity).

8am - 5pm does not factor the commute time which is about 4/5hrs especially for people who think living far to the commercial centers where most of the jobs are because of the cost of living makes sense.

This is totally different from living in Lekki/working in V/I peeps or living very close to your workplace which is ideal.

People who also work outside Lagos also enjoy the lack of traffic and slower paced environments. Problem is most opportunities are in Lagos

More people are beginning to embrace remote work to have better quality of life.

Leaving your house 6am (which is late in some parts) and getting home 10pm is not 'life'.

This is unfortunately the reality for a lot of people even though a number of companies started embracing flexi work hours before the lockdown.

You people always use lagos to generalize work time.

And you forgot, not everyone stays in lagos.


The issues you stated above are one out of many reasons I avoid lagos... A lot slavery in the name of work.

Some of us off lagos, take few minutes through and fro to work.


Coming to lagos for me, is mostly business and transactions... voom! am off.

Life is fun in lagos + opportunities , but the fact that somethings limits people, is a huge impedance na. I easily get bored, that's why you can't find me doing one thing repeatedly.

Av worked and resigned.. To work for myself and combine lecturing later which give enough Time for personal business.

Acidosis:
True. But I wouldn't classify the idea of leaving your home at 6am and returning at 8pm as scarcity. That's a norm the wife and the kids will obviously get used to.

6am-8pm? no, I can't. You won't even have time for the wife and kids especially.


I am talking 8am-5pm... For normal white collar.

And 10am -2pm for business executives.


6am - 8pm is slavery especially in the bank sector.. Of which I don't subscribe to..

ArchAnge1:
I think they all rushed into ships and are now slowing things down

Eric lilo
Neo vee
Kiddwaya erica

It's why ebuka said that most just needed ships cause others had

A typical of what u see in reality, people rushing to marry because their close friends are married...

Acidosis:
If your marriage hasn't gotten to the see finish level, then it is not a marriage but a WAR.

Couples are meant to see finish. And BTW, respect has nothing to do with going out of your house and coming back at night everyday. I've been working from home since 2014 and will continue to do so. Yet, respect has never been an issue to talk about in my years of dating and even now that I'm married.

Unless one lives in a slum or hell, leaving your home daily shouldn't be something you enjoy more than staying at home
with your family even if your job demands you travel 24/7.

Should one go out? Of course, that's why we have legs for mobility.

I agree with just the bolded...

Acidosis:
What's your definition of hardworking man?

And why do you feel you would get bored living with a man that works from home?

Have you ever met, dated, or married to a man that works from home?

Use scarcity to create value.. Atimes.

Casemiro:
True.


That respect will begin to dwindle with time.

And respect is very important in marriage

Very very.....

mariahAngel:
Owudikwa nke I ga ngaghari nke obe, gakwa ke nwere ishi
No be excuse to come waka useless waka...akukwalam onye owu ishi o



Ka'm nu ihe!




There's just something unexciting about a man who works from home sha

ngaghari nke obe... That's unproductive waka na..


Na so, nwoke n'ebe godi wawuwawu...


True, before your wife will mistakenly take u as househelp...

A scenario like, she entered and see something misplaced, she will be like "kedu onye nzuzu wusara ihe ebe a"?... and if it be the hubby, then the man will come out and say honey o wu m ooo....

Na like that my fellow Man a nara godi the wife onye nzuzu unknowingly.....

ArchAnge1:
if she is thinking marriage, she wouldn't say what she said that he isnt her boyfriend

Some girls can meet you today and evening una done dey serious relationship, her mind isnt made up, let them leave the house, let her see neo's lousy friends

She is waiting for him to ask her out, until then, they bed mates...


Many people didn't know Ike actually asked mercy to be his girlfriend inside the house, even while they are bedmates already.... Consent matters o, especially nowadays..

Amya:
Nah, I don't agree with you. Laycon have fallen hook, line and sinker for Erica but he's still a bit realistic to know that Erica won't fall for him that way. So he settles for the next best thing, which is friendship. Look at the way he will looks at her. Exactly the way Trickytee looks at Nengi. Men who have come to realise that by virtue of their physical appearance they wouldn't get the woman of their dreams, so they happily settle for the boy boy role. You watch, this friendship is more disadvantageous to your boy.

Mercy and Mike's friendship had no undertone of attraction at all. They are just two people who like each others spirit and have good thoughts and well wishes about the other.

Mike's marital status stopped a lot of female distraction, you can't say that to a single laycon.

Don't ever say erica cannot be with someone like laycon... No prediction in life... Same very handsome guys end up with just ok ladies, is same way it happens to the female beauty.

It is a matter of most care and peace of mind.

Amya:
You're right I'm an Aries female. We are fight! We are war! In all those Greek mythology, Aries is the god of war. In the Zodiac, we are the ram, calm on the surface but turn to beasts when you push us. In horoscope, we are the fire sign.

So na u them the guess as male... nairaland.

ArchAnge1:
gist on twitter, after his mouth, he still went to kiss vee

That guy is a pussyy, forming Oracle with no balls, vee shouldn't have gone after him at first, she acted too fast, like ebuka said many of them just forced themselves into ships, now a guy that is punching above his weight is forming odogwu he threatened to send her out of his bed that night, if she watches that, she wouldn't be pleased, that relationship is on borrowed time, she said that he isnt her boyfriend, her head still dey ground, that guy still has plenty work to do for dem papers

They might be an Item after the show, she has marriage on her mind... So she is likely to give up on some things to actualize her wish.

She is quite homely though... Always looking like a newly wedded on a honeymoon. Neo like her too.. Just focused on the game.

Hallenjay:
The earlier ds laycon fans knows Erica is der main opponent in that house the better for dem.
The gurl dey use am and odas to get highlights and even turning dem to women rapper, de can b friends bt going romantic wt no strings is bad for d boy and it may spoil his fan base.
Erica shd stop using him else...

Erica and Laycon get mike and mercy vibe... Kidd is the Ike...

Just like bisola and efe.


We would av had Miracle and ceec vibe, but aunty tobi spoilt Miracle's mind about ceec.


Their is always a friendly vibe between winner and second.


Erica has a charming personality that attracts people to her.. genuinely. It is not just by beauty alone, nengi is also beautiful. But, u see that personality matters a lot.

Soon, other girls will become jealous, she is getting male attention more. Just like guys envy the fellow guy with most female attention.

Blackhawk01:

Good morning

Goodmorning dear.

ArchAnge1:
Neo - if she do anyhow, she will get out of my bed this night


The reunion for this season go sweet, if vee watches this clip

Her handlers will keep this video

Neo want to tamper with his UK visa..

He need gedoni's manual badly.

kendrick9:
Laycon never see fine girl like Erica before wey go give am time.

This one na talk...

mariahAngel:
No hardworking man would like to be a househusband, even if he earns a lot working from home.
Even the word Househusband is unattractive. A total turnoff.
One would easily get bored of such men even as a housewife.

There's something very attractive about men who go out to work and come home later in the day.
For such men, you'd do anything to please.
To me, a handsome man is a hardworking man, not a fine boy.

Munzy14, I wu househusband k'owu hardworking Dike?

House husband.. very strange... We have not finish with housewife, and the challenges, ma ya fo kwa nke husband....

A man who wakes up, get dressed and leave for either work place or business venture has huge respect from the wife, than the one that sits at home, watching zee world, and always on laptop doing whatever... Even if you are earning from home, just go out, and come in... .

It's better when your wife opens the gate to welcome u, than the other way.

Ihe m wu, wu smart working Odogwu...

Just read OP's explanation... It's totally different from what we see in housewife.. A man in op's narrative is comfortably rich na... Even at that, I will still drive to biz office, interact with workers, learn one or two and return home... I am not even too extroverted nor introverted sef... just in middle as an Aquarius.

Erica the game girl... slowly pushing kidd to commit to her...

igasiboy98:
This wathoni get better shape o

Don't mention... better eye.

Geezeem:
Isnt he the return of your Frodd though?

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ItsCookie:
Better one o!

One man give you cardigan,
Another man help you button am
You deh Sidon for another man lap
Deh discuss and shine teeth with another man

Four men at once, Hoeism has never been more defined

Never underestimate a beautiful woman with a calm and jovial personality... It is a perfect tool to get what you want fairly.

Blackhawk01:
Okay baby.

me baby... see beorn for my back o...

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Blackhawk01:
She's doing well. If person do well, talk am, no dey hate.

Who is hating? I am attending to ur getting fit to defend attacks.
Live and let's live is an adaptation pattern.

Blackhawk01:
Haaaaaaaa!!! Safariiii

Let me just tell you people now, no Safari slander will be allowed here. Ahhhh!

Hypo go wypo....

Looking at nengi and prince, you see nice colour combo. Something different from she and ozo Nepa things.

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nazablossom:
K'anyi we ga akuko a ebe ozo, Maka adighi amama.

Kedu Ife ichere Maka ya?

kwotuo m na thread nwuru anwu....

nazablossom:
Ano m Lag o. Anaghi m egwu egwu o. Ihe m na ekwu by eziokwu.

I no Ala Igbo?

yea... ala Igbo... Not even stable sef... Always here and there.

kedu ihe guru na ulo akwukwo..