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OluwaEbuka1:
Two points:

1. I had a similar experience like you. She said they're just friends and she do go to his house to cook and sleep over (even though i have met the guy). I warned her only twice to cut ties with the guy, when she repeated it, that was the end of that relationship.

2. I do not understand how you guys allow ladies to be threatening you. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh. The rule for me is simple: a lady will not get to threaten me the 3rd time. If you do it the first time, i will call you and politely warn you to stop. The second time, i will warn you and the 3rd time, i will ghost you - end of relationship.

You must be in charge of your relationship. If she does not respect you up to that level, you will be in trouble if you marry her.

In fact, make i just tell you. She is with you because the Seyi guy has not proposed. If he does today, that your ring she go return to you through dispatch ridder. What she is trying to do is to hold the bird at hand so she does not completely depend on thousands of birds in the bush.

Abizz:
Please don't for whatever reason patronize this master of deceit.
She's a liar, an unrepentant fibster and deceiver, a nonchalant scammer.
She will rip you off, send you low class oversized Sangotedo-made sneakers and never reply to you thereafter. This has happened repeatedly on this thread.
Be warned

orewa10:
Please what kind of investment

pocohantas:
Anything below 1m a month...

pocohantas:
This question is deep. Quick confession, the first bulk earnings I made from remote work went back to my family. I was astonished by the windfall and set out to change those things I didn't like. It was by Nov 2022, I realised I hadn't saved enough in comparison to my earnings and I began to reason well. Black tax was a problem too. I cut out excessive black tax in Feb 2023.

The plan is to save enough for a long term

investment. I am still undecided on which business, but I would most likely go for the one I have passion for - food or interior design and consultation. I have never considered remote work failing. There is always 9-5 for us. We would however struggle to adjust to the daily turnup and poor pay.

Stan2330:
I wrote my ielts academic yesterday in portharcort. The reading and listening test was good for me. Although I completed my writing task, there was not enough time for me to revise my work. I'm scared there are mistakes I would have corrected. I just need a band of at least 7 in all sections. Is there any one with similar experience? What was the outcome? Pls share

Sikay19:
The site for new applications. You can only continue or edit your application.



Although, you may buy NPC ID .

lightihenna:
Please, in a situation that someone was awarded both the local and oversea scholarship at the same time, what will the person do? Accept both? Or reject one? Or explaining to the scheme that you have one already so as not to complicate issues.

paradigmshift:
thanks boss, you are good.. I didn't see 5g only.. only saw other options like LTE only, wcdma, gsm...

paradigmshift:
How can I force my Xiaomi Redmi note 11 pro+ to use 5G only ?

Sheistoopretty:
Who watched the video where he spoke?

Why is Tinubu so confident he will win dis election though?

Daviestunech:
marry a second wife

MissSlimbody:
I bought and paid for them with my money.

Nadingo:
doggedfighter Cypress042 Bintdawood Bahamas95 Channah1

Hello guys, we had a rather awful experience with this fish. Aside the fact that wife over fried some to a point they tasted like thin glass, all of them have so much sand in them that we couldn't consume it.

Pls, note that we used blunt knife to scrape the scales and we also removed the innards one after the other before sun drying them to rinse out water. And when we noticed the water used in washing them was muddy and grainy, we rinsed them EIGHT different times until the water appeared clean.

But unfortunately, we still couldn't eat after frying because of the amount of sand we encountered.

Where did we go wrong pls?

DaniWhizbang:


Where do people usually get the appetite to eat breakfast this early in the morning?

internationalman:
Obembet has suddenly come out of his hiding place and found his voice now that Man Utd is winning.

What baffled me is how Salah didn't score or assist any of the 9 goals.

edoairways:
That is a big fat lie, you can use those phones up to 5 years if you so wish. You didn't suggest a reasonable asset that appreciates, na car u suggest

pappilo:
I have no reason to lie. I am not claiming to be a saint and after peservering for a few years after our sex ife dried up, I looked outside and didnt look back. i was determined to stay in the marriage even though it was dead for the salke of the children (dumb move). She was a good woman for many many years so a good partner can go rogue.

I can understand people can stop loving each other but I can never get over the thought of a woman i had been with for 22 years (dated for 9 years - we were teenagers when we started) had no qualms about sending me to prison for her new flame.

Those were were the worst 2 years of my life. No home, had to move into shared accomodation, something I had never done in all my life in the abroad , had to sell my car and, took on so much debt to pay almost £20,000 in solicitor/barrister fees, took a second job doing 12 hours night shift in a factory. All this was going on with the prospect of prison time and a criminal record.

Those were really dark days and I contemplated suicide. The ironic thing is, it was a woman who helped me through those very dark times. i honestly believe if that woman wasnt in my life in that period, I wouldnt be here today.

I know this is a bit off topic. I am sorry but this is like therapy for me..

pappilo:
Bro whatever you do, do not, I repeat, do not get married! You will always regret it. I love my late dad, he was the best dad anyone could ask for but if I see him in the afterlife, I will ask him why he never told me the truth about marriage and advise me no to get married.

Love someone (with sense), have children, live together but never ever sign your life away. Finally do not let any woman you are with know everything about you.

The first thing that deteriorates after marriage is your sex life. I think its a psychological thing. Maybe the subconscious feeling that you've both got each other for 'life' messes with the brain.

I was married for 14 years. My ex-wife started a relationship with a work colleague and a month after using the police to kick me out of my house, the dude left his own family and moved into my house.

I was charged with several offences for an altercation I had with the guy when I caught him in my house. My ex-wife (we were still married at the time) the mother of my children came to the crown court to testify against me on his behalf. The jury saw through their lies and determination to send me to prison and acquited me on all charges (over 5)

Its been a few years but I still shudder at the thought that I believed so much in this woman and chose her over my own siblings.

Attached is msg I got from her this morning. This is despite her taking the house which I put
down 66% of the deposit. This woman earns almost double what I earn and I pay her over a quarter of my net earnings for child maintenance.

You'll probably still go ahead and get married but its almost guaranteed that one day in the future you will look back and wish you heeded the advice of many people who told you not to