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cmoney22222:Follow peace with all men and holiness without which no man shall see God. |
When you travel to another man's country to live a wayward lifestyle, this is what you get. Police is your friend everywhere, not only in Nigeria, they just renewed their "friendship" with this tout which is commonplace. Rip though and if he has a concerned family, ...accept my sinparty. |
Understandably, this is a barbaric act perpetrated by her husband but atimes it takes the mercy of God and sheer self-control to contain a woman's excesses. Signing an undertaking isn't the best remedy for domestic violence. Family crisis is best resolved within the family unit. Inviting a relative or other extended family members to mediate and resolve domestic issues like this would produce a more harmonious long lasting solution. Reconciliation and acceptance that comes from the heart cannot be compared with one enforced by law. |
giftlygifted:Senseless! |
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Damn! |
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heendrix:No hard feelings bruh.. Men don't "b!tch". |
@heendrix. There was an old thread created by one guy with the moniker "hook-lover" about mingling with married women or older women.i had a brief chat with that guy in which we talked about these things.you may check him up to confirm. I don't interact much here not to talk of feeling among. for what? to what end? whose face am I seeking for? I am on some kind of break from work that is even why I am able to type this much today or even reply you. When somebody says something off, I will just respond with a big K. That's me. I haven't got that time to prove anything to anybody. beside you know or if you have been watching I respect myself fully here and always mind my business. Hope you learn to mind yours though. |
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some short guys are very witty. Women love witty guys. |
RickRansom:which is why you need to drop whatever you have got left with these quarter to go ladies, resist the temptations.If it is possible for you, fake hatred for them and start with familiarizing with younger women. You will never get what you want in a woman if there is no much age difference because she would seem like your agemate and the "butterflies" dies off quickly. The erotic feeling is only temporal. Doesn't last and with time you will always get frustrated. Younger women rock. |
RickRansom:Two things are at play why you are hating it with passion. First it is abnormal for a young man to be chasing after what I would term nearly expired women. Two, subconsciously and consciously your mind is telling you that after all a these older women do not have admirers all that much and that you are doing them a favour,(therefore, why are they forming).. whilst you forgot that the default state of a woman is self worship and demanding of it. You can't stand it because it isn't rightly for you to go after women you think that you are of more economical value and superior than. It will always feel that way. |
RickRansom:But have you been in any relationship with an older lady since this occurrence? |
@RickRansom, was I helpful anyway? |
heendrix:I'm serious oooOh. I command collective attention sometimes that I get very uncomfortable. I don't share about my personal life publicly so you won't understand. I so much regard my privacy. |
Sterix10:Nope nope. Let me paraphrase, I used to daydream or should I say consider the possibility of getting intimate with them, but all these comes all of a sudden. and it didn't last.it was pure accidental. just my mind wandering which I have on good authority can happen to any other person even the holiest of holies.so I wasn't perverting. I didn't dwell on these thoughts but the mysterious thing was that I found myself naturally attracting these women into my life. it's that simple. Don't judge me. |
RickRansom:Lol that was a desperate move.. Speaking of intelligence, intelligence isn't tied to a certain age bracket except you talking about maturity. Most older ladies are eagerly expecting marriage at that age that is why you shouldn't be into them. I was kinda helping get unentangled from the twines of married women..before you digressed. Young ladies are still your best bet.. no matter how you look at it.. they might be somewhat lacking in knowledge but if you put other factors into consideration they are still better. you wouldn't tell me you want to marry an old cargo. having a woman very intelligent can be irritating at some point too.. because some of those smart ladies might wanna rub it on your face if you don't spell it out for them at the onset. |
Also if you are indulging in older women porn, Bruv stop it. |
I am advising you from a Mind power standpoint. To unshed the affection and attraction towards older women you need to start doing the opposite nevertheless awkward at first. Start the toasting or the familiarizing with young women again. Nothing strange here.With time your choice will return back to normal. What you are complaining of has happened to some guys too though they wouldn't choose to admit it. |
They only way you can reverse this abnormal trend is by wooing young ladies again even though the desire ain't there. you just have to start liking them again. |
RickRansom:Yes you got fed up and stopped the wooing or noticing their presence because of the greater green light from married women. Thing is, it's a personality issue. Like for me, I think the reason why I experienced such was because I used to nurse some adulterous thoughts or would I say lost after married women. and boom! it just happened. I suddenly started getting closer and looking attractive in their eyes so much so that when I see youngs ladies I loose interest at once. for me I guess it was law of attraction at play. also another factor could be the way you carry yourself or your comportment that gravitates these married women to you. It may be that you are liking the attentionn you get from these women or you are already subconsciously becoming into these women. if that's the case, then that explains why you no longer fancy single ladies or why they aren't attracted to you any more. the vibrations emanating from you matters alot in determining the attention you receive and those whom you get attracted to. |
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I experienced this same shiit the OP is talking about. Married women all over me. even in my church. sometimes moping at me. some looking at me seductively. Well to be truthfully honest I responded to their advanced swiftly...did had fun.. but somewhere along the line came to realize that I was digging my own grave if I should keep bleeping married women. bro it aint worth it.bone them in fact shuuun them. cause you will feel used at the end of the day. I think everything boils down to attractiveness, maturity, grace, style.. etc those married adulterous women just can't seem to let go. They will be reminiscing their singlehood. do not be a "fulfiller" of their inordinate desires. they see the manliness in you hence the attraction. most of them their husband can no longer satisfy them..or they are just as well tired of staying faithful.. the hoeing nature never gets away from them for life. women! |
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I'm allergic to worldliness. Gospel rap is bliss. can't reminisce the titles I have got them all in mixtapes. #iamholy |
Getting sick of posts like this.need to throw up in the sink.this shit is hackneyed. |
Traditional marriage is for traditionalists or those who are so enthusiastic about their tradition and to them it's a taboo not to adhere to custom. so in my view it isnt compulsory. Church marriage are for sound Christians..a must for them.. so Christians can decide to do church marriage and discard traditional. court marriage is the most secured and collectively accepted. the most advantageous marriage is court marriage cause is low cost, secure and easy. no hassles. FYI, to the matter, I think if you would do church marriage there for s no need for that traditional bullish. just waste of cash and time and seeing stupid "ndi umunna faces". we've past that stage once a true Christian you ain't bound to traditional brouhaha. |
madami123:Are you planning on becoming a fvvck boy? you had better not. just keep being who you are. I believe you have been searching in the wrong places. you may want to cast your net in other places... just like the first called disciples, it would happen for you. never stop loving. it's good to love. |
lascodii:It is normal if you want it to be normal. You could venture into priesthood or "fatherhood" in the church. Perhaps, you have a unique calling to be a committed servant of God. Not everyone of us are going to live by the dictates of the flesh. If you are really sincere about this, and you find the opposite sex unattractive, it could be a divine green light to draw closer to God. Except you are deceiving yourself. Make pant wear you there. |
Frugal spending or spending wisely should not be misconstrued for being stingy. For me, a stingy fella is one that do not spend on others at all at all and hardly spends for himself. There are a lotta people like that. |
Candidly, the natural desire for money is insatiable and as such no amount ensures ultimate contentment.Eg our kleptomaniac politicians. |
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