I'm not married, and hope to find a good girl. Young unmarried girls just don't have my time.

But anywhere I go, married women make conscious efforts to date me. I went somewhere today, met a very beautiful married woman who has started asking about me from those who know me. Why is it that I'm not lucky with unmarried girls?

Let me add a shocker: a married woman younger than me fell in love with me; I told her there will be no way of reciprocating her love because she was under the roof of a man. I wooed her first though. We lost contact for years. When we met again, she has divorced the man. I asked why she did that. She said that is the only way she could have the chance to get down naked with me. My friends refused to believe this, but this is a pure truth.

U need cleansing

That's because Ur enemies prayer don dey work be that...dem want make u summersault na u no go gree for them....say no to married women cos some of dem get magnetic force called maagun for body.... The fear of married women is the beginning of long life ooo...am out here mehn..

habsydiamond:
That's because Ur enemies prayer don dey work be that...dem want make u summersault na u no go gree for them....say no to married women cos some of dem get magnetic force called maagun for body.... The fear of married women is the beginning of long life ooo...am out here mehn..

*Drags him back here.* You mean village people? I was born and bred in the city... No any connection to village folks.

where were you when they were single

RickRansom:


*Drags him back here.* You mean village people? I was born and bred in the city... No any connection to village folks.

who take village people...some of those married women dey get security for body if u climb na heaven u go take come down oooo.....ask around dem go gist u about maagun...it seems u are not familiar with that word

habsydiamond:
who take village people...some of those married women dey get security for body if u climb na heaven u go take come down oooo.....ask around dem go gist u about maagun...it seems u are not familiar with that word

I was just joking with you. I'm a thoroughbred Yoruba man. Concerning magun, I don't trespass, and just to remark in the passing, the god of thunder - Sango - can never strike in a blacksmith shop.

kelish:
where were you when they were single

That was the exact question a now married former classmate asked me.

I experienced this same shiit the OP is talking about. Married women all over me. even in my church. sometimes moping at me. some looking at me seductively. Well to be truthfully honest I responded to their advanced swiftly...did had fun.. but somewhere along the line came to realize that I was digging my own grave if I should keep bleeping married women. bro it aint worth it.bone them in fact shuuun them. cause you will feel used at the end of the day. I think everything boils down to attractiveness, maturity, grace, style.. etc those married adulterous women just can't seem to let go. They will be reminiscing their singlehood. do not be a "fulfiller" of their inordinate desires. they see the manliness in you hence the attraction. most of them their husband can no longer satisfy them..or they are just as well tired of staying faithful.. the hoeing nature never gets away from them for life. women!

I'm beginning to think that maybe there is an invisible sign on me that these women use to see because only very beautiful ones among them use stare at me for hours as long as I'm in sight. I'm thinking those women maybe witches with secret eyes that can see what i can't see. One would stare at me to the extent if I ask them what the problem is, they would reply 'nothing'.

myself13:
I experienced this same shiit the OP is talking about. Married women all over me. even in my church. sometimes moping at me. some looking at me seductively. Well to be truthfully honest I responded to their advanced swiftly...did had fun.. but somewhere along the line came to realize that I was digging my own grave if I should keep bleeping married women. bro it aint worth it.bone them in fact shuuun them. cause you will feel used at the end of the day. I think everything boils down to attractiveness, maturity, grace, style.. etc those married adulterous women just can't seem to let go. They will be reminiscing their singlehood. do not be a "fulfiller" of their inordinate desires. they see the manliness in you hence the attraction. most of them their husband can no longer satisfy them..or they are just as well tired of staying faithful.. the hoeing nature never gets away from them for life. women!

I understand you, bro. But why don't single girls trip for me this way? As a matter of fact, I don't look the way of single girls again. Whenever I walk past single girls, my feelings is like they don't exist.

RickRansom:


I understand you, bro. But why don't single girls trip for me this way? As a matter of fact, I don't look the way of single girls again. Whenever I walk past single girls, my feelings is like they don't exist.

Yes you got fed up and stopped the wooing or noticing their presence because of the greater green light from married women. Thing is, it's a personality issue. Like for me, I think the reason why I experienced such was because I used to nurse some adulterous thoughts or would I say lost after married women. and boom! it just happened. I suddenly started getting closer and looking attractive in their eyes so much so that when I see youngs ladies I loose interest at once. for me I guess it was law of attraction at play. also another factor could be the way you carry yourself or your comportment that gravitates these married women to you. It may be that you are liking the attentionn you get from these women or you are already subconsciously becoming into these women. if that's the case, then that explains why you no longer fancy single ladies or why they aren't attracted to you any more. the vibrations emanating from you matters alot in determining the attention you receive and those whom you get attracted to.

They only way you can reverse this abnormal trend is by wooing young ladies again even though the desire ain't there. you just have to start liking them again.

I am advising you from a Mind power standpoint. To unshed the affection and attraction towards older women you need to start doing the opposite nevertheless awkward at first. Start the toasting or the familiarizing with young women again. Nothing strange here.With time your choice will return back to normal. What you are complaining of has happened to some guys too though they wouldn't choose to admit it.

myself13:

Yes you got fed up and stopped the wooing or noticing their presence because of the greater green light from married women. Thing is, it's a personality issue. Like for me, I think the reason why I experienced such was because I used to nurse some adulterous thoughts or would I say lost after married women. and boom! it just happened. I suddenly started getting closer and looking attractive in their eyes so much so that when I see youngs ladies I loose interest at once. for me I guess it was law of attraction at play. also another factor could be the way you carry yourself or your comportment that gravitates these married women to you. It may be that you are liking the attentionn you get from these women or you are already subconsciously becoming into these women. if that's the case, then that explains why you no longer fancy single ladies or why they aren't attracted to you any more. the vibrations emanating from you matters alot in determining the attention you receive and those whom you get attracted to.

Sorry to say this, I rarely find young girls intelligent, and intelligence is the first thing that attracts me to women. I recently met a girl who is long overdue for marriage and is about 32 years old. She knows I'm not married and wants to become my as she one day in church asked me to give her a free ride to her house. I gave her the ride. The next time we met in church, she asked "What are you doing for a living?" I was like "why do you want to know? I terminated all form of friendship with her that day. Nonsense! If someone at 32 is this daft, is it those twenty-something you expect to be wise.

Also if you are indulging in older women porn, Bruv stop it.

RickRansom:
I'm not married, and hope to find a good girl. Young unmarried girls just don't have my time.

But anywhere I go, married women make conscious efforts to date me. I went somewhere today, met a very beautiful married woman who has started asking about me from those who know me. Why is it that I'm not lucky with unmarried girls?

Let me add a shocker: a married woman younger than me fell in love with me; I told her there will be no way of reciprocating her love because she was under the roof of a man. I wooed her first though. We lost contact for years. When we met again, she has divorced the man. I asked why she did that. She said that is the only way she could have the chance to get down naked with me. My friends refused to believe this, but this is a pure truth.

you were probably anointed with an expired oil and instead of it to be olive oil it was still groundnut oyel again

take it easy bro

myself13:
I experienced this same shiit the OP is talking about. Married women all over me. even in my church. sometimes moping at me. some looking at me seductively. Well to be truthfully honest I responded to their advanced swiftly ...did had fun.. but somewhere along the line came to realize that I was digging my own grave if I should keep bleeping married women. bro it aint worth it.bone them in fact shuuun them. cause you will feel used at the end of the day. I think everything boils down to attractiveness, maturity, grace, style.. etc those married adulterous women just can't seem to let go. They will be reminiscing their singlehood. do not be a "fulfiller" of their inordinate desires. they see the manliness in you hence the attraction. most of them their husband can no longer satisfy them..or they are just as well tired of staying faithful.. the hoeing nature never gets away from them for life. women!

hmmm....so that we to can have something to say or feel among

anyway.....okay

RickRansom:
I'm beginning to think that maybe there is an invisible sign on me that these women use to see because only very beautiful ones among them use stare at me for hours as long as I'm in sight. I'm thinking those women maybe witches with secret eyes that can see what i can't see. One would stare at me to the extent if I ask them what the problem is, they would reply 'nothing'.

Think not bro. REMAIN DISCIPLINED. Its an aura, an affinity thing that ignites such attraction. I personally have been in your shoes since a kid. It was that sex education i received from my parents very early in life that has been my saving Grace. Mine is not exclusive married women but female gender, old and young. Yet i must tell you i enjoy their stare alot and that effort they make just to want to be close. BRO REMAIN DISCIPLINED.

I think you got it all wrong, Married women aint attracted to you, you are attracted to married women, u are the one looking at then and given them signals, they dont want sex from you, you think the want sex from you, thru ur erroneous thinking, you seduced them indirectly thinking they are seducing you
We have similar problem,mine isnt with married women, it is with every lady, this happens wen you value n think of sex too much, too much porn at young age
My friend, the problem is you, fix your pervert heart n you will realise wat am saying, have been in your shoe b4

RickRansom:


Sorry to say this, I rarely find young girls intelligent, and intelligence is the first thing that attracts me to women. I recently met a girl who is long overdue for marriage and is about 32 years old. She knows I'm not married and wants to become my as she one day in church asked me to give her a free ride to her house. I gave her the ride. The next time we met in church, she asked "What are you doing for a living?" I was like "why do you want to know? I terminated all form of friendship with her that day. Nonsense! If someone at 32 is this daft, is it those twenty-something you expect to be wise.

Lol that was a desperate move.. Speaking of intelligence, intelligence isn't tied to a certain age bracket except you talking about maturity. Most older ladies are eagerly expecting marriage at that age that is why you shouldn't be into them. I was kinda helping get unentangled from the twines of married women..before you digressed. Young ladies are still your best bet.. no matter how you look at it.. they might be somewhat lacking in knowledge but if you put other factors into consideration they are still better. you wouldn't tell me you want to marry an old cargo. having a woman very intelligent can be irritating at some point too.. because some of those smart ladies might wanna rub it on your face if you don't spell it out for them at the onset.

RickRansom:
I'm beginning to think that maybe there is an invisible sign on me that these women use to see because only very beautiful ones among them use stare at me for hours as long as I'm in sight. I'm thinking those women maybe witches with secret eyes that can see what i can't see. One would stare at me to the extent if I ask them what the problem is, they would reply 'nothing'.

them been wan chop op's glory run commot

thank god you know....now run as fast as your legs cn carry you. those women are rather seeing something in you they want to kill or take away

but tbh op ur brilliant o....cheers

Sterix10:

From this i think you got it all wrong, Married women aint attracted to you, you are attracted to married women, u are the one looking at then and given them signals, they dont want sex from you, you think the want sex from you, thru ur erroneous thinking, you seduced them indirectly thinking they are seducing you
We have similar problem,mine isnt with married women, it is with every lady, this happens wen you value n think of sex too much, too much porn at young age
My friend, the problem is you, fix your pervert heart n you will realise wat am saying, have been in your shoe b4

Nope nope. Let me paraphrase, I used to daydream or should I say consider the possibility of getting intimate with them, but all these comes all of a sudden. and it didn't last.it was pure accidental. just my mind wandering which I have on good authority can happen to any other person even the holiest of holies.so I wasn't perverting. I didn't dwell on these thoughts but the mysterious thing was that I found myself naturally attracting these women into my life. it's that simple. Don't judge me.

heendrix:


hmmm....so that we to can have something to say or feel among

anyway.....okay

I'm serious oooOh. I command collective attention sometimes that I get very uncomfortable. I don't share about my personal life publicly so you won't understand. I so much regard my privacy.

heendrix:


them been wan chop op's glory run commot

thank god you know....now run as fast as your legs cn carry you. those women are rather seeing something in you they want to kill or take away

but tbh op ur brilliant o....cheers

Lol. You wan my head expand like Garri.

@RickRansom, was I helpful anyway?

myself13:
@RickRansom, was I helpful anyway?

Bro, I find your words helpful. Just that I don't think I can do the wooing again especially those young women.

myself13:
@RickRansom, was I helpful anyway?

Wooing brought me my greatest regrets in life. And whenever I woo, I look for older unmarried women, but they would form 'hard to get' and I hate that with passion.

RickRansom:


Bro, I find your words helpful. Just that I don't think I can do the wooing again especially those young women.

But have you been in any relationship with an older lady since this occurrence?

myself13:

But have you been in any relationship with an older lady since this occurrence?

No. Most older unmarried women rarely meet my specs for appearance.

RickRansom:


Wooing brought me my greatest regrets in life. And whenever I woo, I look for older unmarried women, but they would form 'hard to get' and I hate that with passion.

Two things are at play why you are hating it with passion. First it is abnormal for a young man to be chasing after what I would term nearly expired women. Two, subconsciously and consciously your mind is telling you that after all a these older women do not have admirers all that much and that you are doing them a favour,(therefore, why are they forming).. whilst you forgot that the default state of a woman is self worship and demanding of it. You can't stand it because it isn't rightly for you to go after women you think that you are of more economical value and superior than. It will always feel that way.

RickRansom:


No. Most older unmarried women rarely meet my specs for appearance.

which is why you need to drop whatever you have got left with these quarter to go ladies, resist the temptations.If it is possible for you, fake hatred for them and start with familiarizing with younger women. You will never get what you want in a woman if there is no much age difference because she would seem like your agemate and the "butterflies" dies off quickly. The erotic feeling is only temporal. Doesn't last and with time you will always get frustrated. Younger women rock.